Good evening everyone

The man in the photo below is my father. I don't know him, perhaps he knows me I can not say. I was separate from him when I was 7 months. Lately im having the urge to know him more... He and my mother are divorced and my mom has been blocking every means for me to meet him. I just want to know him.

I've tried facebook, added almost everyone with Nwafor as their surname. That's why I decided to try NL.

He's from Nnewi, and his name is Nwafor Azubike, that all I know about him. And that photo is the only one I have.

Pls help me check in case you know him...... Thanks so much

@lalastica
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pls push to front page.

What makes you think he would wanna reunite with you?

Why has he not made any effort to look for you all this while if he truly cares about you?
Do you even know if he's still alive?

I think some stones are best left unturned. ( My honest opinion)

Anyways, good luck in your search.

You may try to use Facebook to search his name. But your dad get swag oh On a more serious note I'm really sorry for the pain you're going through not having a father figure to look up to.I mean,I lost my dad some years back and for the first time in my life I experienced depression. Take heart dear.

CharisEleos:
What makes you think he would wanna reunite with you?

Why has he not made any effort to look for you all this while if he truly cares about you?

I think some stones are best left unturned. ( My honest opinion)

Anyways, good luck on your search.

hmm... You are right but I'm not trying to be part of his life too, the both of us have gotten people we can call family over the years but I just believe I have the right to know him.

You should give us more details...


There must be a reason why your mother is stopping you from seeing him... It could be for your own good or she's still hating on him...


Try putting this on Facebook and other SM.... You could get his relatives to view it faster...

Doradorwa:
hmm... You are right but I'm not trying to be part of his life too, the both of us have gotten people we can call family over the years but I just believe I have the right to know him.

Oh.. you're even a female...

Ok. May God grant you your wish.

I'll advise you take it to a TV or radio station where it will get a wider audience view.

Good luck!

Why not ask your mother. Why us?

Woman wey Sabi him father no want her pikin Sabi her own father.

Wicked world.

His face must have changed from this..
Best is to go to his community and look for his family compound..they might have an idea of his whereabouts..

Wish you Goodluck in your endeavors..

lilvicky68:
His face must have changed from this..
Best is to go to his community and look for his family compound..they might have an idea of his whereabouts..

Wish you Goodluck in your endeavors..

Thanks for your kind words. This is all I have, probably all my mother kept about him. Thanks so much

I'll suggest you also post it on twitter...may your wish come true!

Maybe he had an issue with ur mom over pregnancy acceptance/reponsibilities. Ur mom might used the reason(s) not av anything with him and do not want u to unite with him.

Truvelisback:
Maybe he had an issue with ur mom over pregnancy acceptance/reponsibilities. Ur mom might used the reason(s) not av anything with him and do not want u to unite with him.

No sir... I was accepted and properly loved. They were of different ethnic background hence they splited

Abeg go sit down face ur life and make better things out of it and stop looking for who don't need u, bcs u might even loss ur life in the process,I believe he must have live on,if they are from different ethnic group and love u he must HV look for u earlier, stop disturbing ur mother.

I hope you're able to find him and reunite. As someone with half-siblings (same Dad, different moms), I can tell you your Dad definitely misses you but may not know if you want a relationship with him after so long. Good luck with your search.

kodix:
Abeg go sit down face ur life and make better things out of it and stop looking for who don't need u, bcs u might even loss ur life in the process,I believe he must have live on,if they are from different ethnic group and love u he must HV look for u earlier, stop disturbing ur mother.

Thank you so much. My mom never said a bad word about him except their ethnicity could not allow them be together. Your advise is valuable sir.

Doradorwa:

I've tried facebook, added almost everyone with Nwafor as their surname. That's why I decided to try NL.

He's from Nnewi, and his name is Nwafor Azubike, that all I know about him. And that photo is the only one I have.

Pls help me check in case you know him...... Thanks so much

Approximately when was he Born or how old is he?

Do you know of his last know residence of anywhere he may have lived all this time?

Do you happen to know if he is still in Nigeria or not?

What particular place in Nnewi does he come from?

InTheCloudySky:
I hope you're able to find him and reunite. As someone with half-siblings (same Dad, different moms), I can tell you your Dad definitely misses you but may not know if you want a relationship with him after so long. Good luck with your search.

Thank you mam... I appreciate your word of encouragement.

Kobojunkie:
Approximately when was he Born or how old is he?

Do you know of his last know residence of anywhere he may have lived all this time?

Do you happen to know if he is still in Nigeria or not?

What particular place in Nnewi does he come from?

I don't know when he was born but he met my mom at Benin city. He has his family at Auchi and Benin city. He worked at Coca cola at Benin during my time of birth. I really don't know much, just few from what I know from talking about him with my mom. I don't know which Nnewi he's from and I don't know if he's in Nigeria. I just wanted to try, maybe I can be lucky.

Doradorwa:
I don't know when he was born but he met my mom at Benin city. He has his family at Auchi and Benin city. He worked at Coca cola at Benin during my time of birth. I really don't know much, just few from what I know from talking about him with my mom. I don't know which Nnewi he's from and I don't know if he's in Nigeria. I just wanted to try, maybe I can be lucky.

Nothing wrong in trying at all.

So why doesn't your mum want you to have anything to do with him?

This is it, any single mom that will not allow her sperm donor access to her child is joking. That child must look for her dad. Stop suffering alone, involve your sperm donor in child upbringing. I have been attacked by so many women here when I suggested that a woman should leave her child for the man. As long as it's not rape, give the child to the father.

Poster you are doing well, Anambra men hardly leave their kids outside, go to his village and ask questions.

Kobojunkie:
Nothing wrong in trying at all.

So why doesn't your mum want you to have anything to do with him?

I don't know. She's always trying to provide for me, to fill the vacant position. We talk about him a lot and she always tell me good stuffs about him. Whenever I visit my maternal relatives at Benin she's always at edge with where I go. I really don't know I just wanted to seek my own way.

Doradorwa:
I don't know. She's always trying to provide for me, to fill the vacant position. We talk about him a lot and she always tell me good stuffs about him. Whenever I visit my maternal relatives at Benin she's always at edge with where I go. I really don't know I just wanted to seek my way.

Doesn't sound like she is trying to stop you from knowing about him though. So why do you say she is trying to stop you from searching for and finding him?

Kobojunkie:
Doesn't sound like she is trying to stop you from knowing about him though. So why do you say she is trying to stop you from searching for and finding him?

She always cut the discussion of me knowing him off. Sometimes she accuse me of been ungrateful. She's actually trying hard for me to have a good life. Sometimes I believe she just want to have all the glory to herself like single handedly raising me. I'm in my finals in EKSU now and she's already talking of Msc. She just want to have all the glory to herself. It's something she has done for so long that she can not think of stopping now.

@lalastica pls push this to front page for quick assistance

Doradorwa:
I don't know when he was born but he met my mom at Benin city. He has his family at Auchi and Benin city. He worked at Coca cola at Benin during my time of birth. I really don't know much, just few from what I know from talking about him with my mom. I don't know which Nnewi he's from and I don't know if he's in Nigeria. I just wanted to try, maybe I can be lucky.

The coca cola company that he worked in Aushi I believe must have some documentation of their worker,your problem may be solved From there.

Doradorwa:
She always cut the discussion of me knowing him off. Sometimes she accuse me of been ungrateful. She's actually trying hard for me to have a good life. Sometimes I believe she just want to have all the glory to herself like single handedly raising me. I'm in my finals in EKSU now and she's already talking of Msc. She just want to have all the glory to herself. It's something she has done for so long that she can not think of stopping now.

Yikes!

You need to tell her what your heart yearns for then. Keep working on explaining those yearnings to her until she can get it though her head that you are not a toy or property, but a human being.

But continue to inquire about your father and keeping updating the profile you have on him online somewhere. I hope he is still alive and wil find you soon. Matters of the heart are not to be toyed with as they have a tendency to leave one with a hole in the heart for life.

CharisEleos:
What makes you think he would wanna reunite with you?

Why has he not made any effort to look for you all this while if he truly cares about you?
Do you even know if he's still alive?

I think some stones are best left unturned. ( My honest opinion)

Anyways, good luck on your search.

But the mother is still bitter and might have frustrated him. Yours is just a single story

Doradorwa:
No sir... I was accepted and properly loved. They were of different ethnic background hence they splited

All right. there is more to ur story.

Kobojunkie:
Yikes!

You need to tell her what your heart yearns for then. Keep working on explaining those yearnings to her until she can get it though her head that you are not a toy or property, but a human being.

But continue to inquire about your father and keeping updating the profile you have on him online somewhere. I hope he is still alive and wil find you soon. Matters of the heart are not to be toyed with as they have a tendency to leave one with a hole in the heart for life.

Thank you so much

Doradorwa:
Thank you so much

yw

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