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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Skepticus: 11:36am On Aug 23, 2021 |
I don't care about how your present stage in life or how much you have in your bank account, Never fail to treat the fûck up of a badly behaved woman in the most non-violent way possible. The only instance where moderate violence may be required is if she violates you physically or tries to hurt/kill you. Direct violence should be avoided as much as possible with your rational thinking used to access the situation before taking any step as women easily attract sympathy and support much more than men, and she can spin the situation to favour her. I reiterate it again, there is nothing wrong leaving your stuff to a woman who is undeserving of it, in place of "peace to reign" but YOU ARE NOT a WEAK MAN for standing up for yourself, putting her in place, taking your stuff back (if it is worth it) before a woman who clearly mocks and disrespect you by being disloyal and ungrateful. Leaving your stuff or letting her get away with mocking and disrespect you doesn't make you a "stronger" man. You are just non confrontational in personality and nothing bad about it, in itself. The only issue is that when women get with men that let them get away with bad behaviour, it makes them see other men as dumb fools and increase their sense of entitlement. When a woman has a high sense of entitlement and behaves badly to you, apart from being a shiit test (which you shouldn't fail), there is a likelihood that she is exposed to a lot of nice, gentle and non-confrontational men who let her get away with it under the guise of being rich, or being the " stronger/bigger" man. 38 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 11:43am On Aug 23, 2021 |
CaveAdullam:With no.2 you just defined me lol ![]() Nos 9 and 10 I will find time to engage further on when less busy. Thanks mate. 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 11:59am On Aug 23, 2021 |
The list 21 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TheDarkGamer: 1:47pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
emmanuel1277: This is very insightful. I can't wait for you to drop another masterpiece. 7 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 2:01pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
Junnior: Oga calm down! 1. Few weeks ago, the Living Faith Church retrieved the apartments, shares and other belongings they gave to their former pastors. Many saw it as a nice move because the pastors were not performing efficiently in their respective positions. From the eyes of a Christian man, it might not augur well but it is plainly business, contract and/or agreement. 2. If an employee stop working for First Bank today, all shares provided for him by the Bank will be retrieved. This scenario and the one above boils down to the fact that you can't be enjoying free goods you no longer work for. 3. Collecting back your gifts or not is simps problems because men that understands game and female nature knows that gifts and luxury doesn't win women; it is a simping move, especially when the relationship is not clearly defined and a short term one. 4. Yes, I agree, give people what they deserve. They deserved it and it will not make sense collecting it because it is "already operating on a mutual scale" which can be likened to the salaries of the said employees which cannot be taken back when they get fired. 5. Wigs, cars, houses, clothes etc. are given because I like you, not necessarily because you deserved it. And if you say you are no longer interested in me, it is wise to return every thing that binded us together. Simple! 6. Men that understand game will never bother about retrieving their materials back because they never used it or the relationship was mutual or they gained most. 7. If you decide to collect your goods back it's not stupidity, simping or whatever. And same if you don't. It's your choice. Be cautious before taking any action, and when risk outweighs benefits, just count your losses, dust yourself and move forward. NB: the church does it, women too and same with companies and other organizations. But immediately individual men puts it to practice they are shamed, demonized and accused. Ego has always been man's problem and it works for them positively and against them negatively. The problem is that Men don't know which is which and what should be done at different times. Marriage/well defined long term relationship might be an "exception" but even at that, these must be put into considerations because women and society are using it to exploit men. Overall, this is simps problem! Thanks. 44 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dhiqson(m): 2:39pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
![]() ![]() ![]() Lol you'll get an insight into what baba keep dishing out here Martinez I see you too Btw where is ubunja ![]() 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MetalJigsaw(m): 3:19pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
A woman's greatest asset is not wealth nor status but her BODY. A woman's youthfulness, beauty and fertility is her greatrst source of pride and self esteem and that's why a very beautiful lady no matter what her background is is usually pompous and as egoistic and arrogant as that a matured, wealthy woman. Beauty and fertility is their own wealth... Their body. Reason why plastic surgery is mostly patronized by females. An average lady wouldn't mind parting with a fortune just to get rid of that flat backside or sagged boobs or ugly face. . Give the average lady an option of a million or enhanced bodily features and see which one she'd choose. When a girl grows up and discovers that she's extremely beautiful, her taste for men automatically skyrockets, just like that of a rich babe. And to her, her beauty and loads of attention she gets from the opposite sex is her ticket to a brighter future even though she's nobody. Know this. 34 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 3:27pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
*****ANOTHER REDPILL YOU SHOULD KNOW****** The Bible was written in Shakespeare time sorry it was all a lie Save yourself from the matrix cos Jesus definitely dosent exist By this time.last year I was a devoted Christian but now I'm a happy atheist cos I was able to break free from the matrix white people put us into and everything has been going good for me cos I know that I am free Did you know that us black people (the Egyptians) actually founded religion Seth was good Anubis was evil but it was later corrupted to seth-ann set-an satan ... You see Break free my people 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 4:01pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
Think4Myself:I am an atheist just like you. However, religious, supernatural and metaphysical issues are not topics of discussion here. I get your point, but let's not introduce discussions that don't align with the purpose of this thread. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Trex4(m): 4:45pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
[quote author=Think4Myself post=105098966]*****ANOTHER REDPILL YOU SHOULD KNOW****** TO be honest I don't care if you're atheist but try researching stuff before posting. Shebi atheists are more intelligent than religious people abi? ![]() Shakespeare era is the renaissance/Elizabethean era. Middle 16th century. If the Bible was written then which religious text were the early roman and Anglo saxon Christians using to spread Christianity after the fall of the western roman empire rules in 410 AD?? William Shakespeare was born in 1564, while William tyndale was burnt at the stake in 1536 for trying to convert the bible into English. The bible was what Martin Luther tried to place In The hands of normal citizens that lead to the events of the thirty years war. Omo atheists say the Bible was written by the Romans, emperor Constantine and now Shakespearen novelists ![]() ![]() The Bible was written in Shakespeare time sorry it was all a lie Save yourself from the matrix cos Jesus definitely dosent exist last year I was a devoted Christian but now I'm a happy atheist cos I was able to break free from the matrix white people put us into and everything has been going good for me cos I know that I am free This is ignorant nah. The ancient Egyptians didn't even have contact with West and south Africa due to the Sahara desert is is now with China, aztecs, mayans, apaches, vikings, Welsh and so on. How you now say the Egyptians founded religion when other parts of the world with no contact had religions of their own with different gods and theology ![]() ![]() Did you know that us black people (the Egyptians) actually founded religion You don't even know Egyptian history ![]() Seth was good Anubis was evil but it was later corrupted to seth-ann set-an satan ... You see Break free my people from ignorance ![]() ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by foreman: 4:45pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
Martinez39s: Right. So s/he doesn't bring in another set of confusionists here. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Trex4(m): 4:52pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
[quote author=Trex4 post=105101328][/quote] About this, don't want to derail. Back to the topic. Thanks for understanding. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 4:57pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
![]() ![]() ![]() Exactly what I was trying to avoid. Religious arguments have no end and they are fruitless in the sense that everyone will still believe what they want to believe. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nezzjnr: 5:01pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
Who be That Guy wey drop PhD thesis for this page ![]() ![]() See the way i was scrolling down ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 5:10pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
Junnior:Bravo, someone with a logical turn of mind arrives on the scene. The whole thing reeks of primary school when you gave your pretty Primary 3 crush one of the colored HB pencils your mom put in your school pack but because she didn’t sit beside you the next day you demand for it. Befuddling when bearded men are stuck with such infantile, primordial mentality. It’s shameful such is even being debated on a relatively adult populated thread, it’s atrocious being even tabled on a RED PILL thread. It is unfortunate when people cannot tell the difference between a gift and something leased/loaned. When I give someone something is it still mine? How do you go back collecting what you have given? Do people even understand the word give is where we should start. This is what happens when people have zero principles. I cannot imagine for the life of me going back to collect anything I’ve ever given my guys for example, and yes as a relatively ok single guy I’ve had to give out a whole lot in my life. These people keep shouting ego ego and I’m wondering whether English is actually the problem here. Ego? Ego or integrity? When is integrity truly tested? Is it not when it’s no longer in favour of the giver? Whether it’s your word, or a service or a thing. In the same vein that we call ourselves men.. we will attribute emotional responses to women. If it’s ok to go reclaiming stuff then it’s ok to lock yourself up and cry for days cos she broke up with you. . it’s just an emotional reaction. It’s ok to tell your niggas not to talk to her again cos she broke up with you.. it’s just an emotional reaction. It’s ok to tell your sisters to unfollow her on all social media platforms cos she broke up with you.. just another emotional reaction. Egbe oshi ![]() What I cannot for the life of me imagine: My girl stays with me so I don’t collect “MY” phone, wigs, bags and shoes etc back. My guy cannot tell me the truth should we have a serious misunderstanding or put me in my place if I dey fvck up anymore just so I don’t tell him to return “MY” laptop? Or that he should pack out of the residence “MY” money was used to settle his rent ba? This is what you get when people realize you for the petty weakling you are. Defined by moods, twists and turns of events. That nothing you give is actually given; all na hire purchase. That you never earn, rather you buy “love”, “friendship”, “loyalty”. That you are just SIMPly put: PATHETIC. 7 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 5:26pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
Skepticus:Picks mic... I agree bruv. Something happened to a friend recently, my guy was having a fling with a babe in the same level for a while. Babe comes to his house and takes a jacket, guy tells her " a lot of people have already asked for this jacket including my younger sister I can't give you". Babe takes it to her house at night without guy's consent. Guy visits her more than once, realizes that she isn't even using it, just hanging it on a rope. Guy didn't talk. Fast forward to later, guy sees a similar jacket in school on another guy, guy's surprised, tells one of his friends that that jacket looks stunningly similar to his because that friend had asked beforehand which he didn't bulge. Minutes later babe comes to greet the guy in the jacket. You know what that means, the new guy (which is in like the first level of university education) took the jacket from her place or she gave him. This is a jacket my guy really liked. My guy told me he was astonished, bewildered, surprised, left agog, stunned, any other grammar that depicts shock abeg put am there. I asked him what he did, he said he didn't do anything because of his ego and self respect. I really vexed. I told him point blank, this is disrespect of the highest order, totally insulting. I told him immediately he saw it he should've washed her straight up on the spot, treat her fvck up. Leave ego aside, it's infuriating. Even if he didn't get his jacket back, he shoulda shamed the shameless b*tch. Then warn her to never talk to him. What I'd like us to take from the issue. 1. If a girl disrespects you let her know, don't condone such. It's weak, don't hide behind 'ego'. 2. Like they've said if you can take back your stuff in a better way, do. If you can't so be it. It's personal. 3. Learn to stand firm and say no if it doesn't favour you, don't fall prey to the "real men" or "stingy" or selfish gimmick. Na your money. Drops mic in anger. 36 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 5:39pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
Jessepaid:Well, no one ever said you MUST collect what you gave her. If you want to collect, fine; if you don't want to, no problem. Also, no one is saying you shouldn't scrutinise the situation to know if it is worth it or not. However, the issue is that there is nothing wrong if a man wants to collect back what he gave her. Whether it is what he can afford to let go or not and whether it is worth it or not, if he wants to, there is no problem. His choice, his consequences. It doesn't make him less of man. He isn't obligated to abide by the so called ego, "male dignity", and people's concept of weakness. Finally, the issue isn't whether this is a simp's problem or a redpiller's problem. The issue is simply whether the act is okay or not. Of course, core redpillers who don't commit and aren't defrauded/played by an apex predator won't find themselves in such situations. If anyone thinks collecting your stuff back is childish or whatever, na dem sabi; just leave people wey wan collect alone. 15 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 5:49pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
Lightheaded:Exactly the problem Skepticus highlighted before someone started twisting his post and talking off point. ![]() ![]() Red pill is not a system of morals and ethics; all is fair in love and war, and your survival and your best interests remain the key for redpillers, but clowns who just joined us under shameful circumstances after the thread has gone far and who didn't do their due diligence will not grab. Instead they try to act like they belong and they will just be running their mouth. Abeg, if you wan collect back, collect back. No shaking. 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Junnior: 5:53pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
CaveAdullam:This instance you gave hardly fits into the current argument. The apartment was not a gift to them. They were on employment, as such, got accommodation, etc. as is the case when in an established company. Once they got the matching orders, it was only normal they evacuated the building for their replacements. We are talking about human relationships here, not a formal business. In the case of a formal business, when the company gives you things like cars and accommodation, you know for sure that you're giving it back once you no longer work for/with the company. This is the law. We all agree. However, We are talking human relationships here -- You and your girl for instance. If you're gonna collect back the things you gave during the relationship, then you never gave those things in the first place. You just offered those things as official items that should be used and returned, like companies do. If you're gonna run your relationship like a company, I believe every party should from the start be aware of the terms and conditions, you know, like companies do. This is me toeing the line of your logic anyway, which to me doesn't make sense. A gift is not the same as an "official item" that should be taken back. There's no logical excuse for that action that makes sense. Whichever way you spin it, taking back your gifts from someone is an emotional response that is not needed. Why do you have to take it back? If you don't, she will become entitled? So? How does that reduce your worth? ![]() Some things are shades of grey, but some things are just black and others white. This here is stark black. Okay You're still using this analogy. It makes sense here. However, intersexual/interpersonal relationship is not the same as business relationship. The difference here being that a company cannot take back already paid salaries because it is the law while a guy should not take back a gift simply because it was a gift. Well, nothing wrong with the bolded. You can give because someone deserves it, you like them, or you're just feeling generous. The issue is collecting back your GIFT. Once you do that, it means it was never a gift. This is in contrast with number 5 above ![]() For me, this isn't shades of grey. It's stark black: you shouldn't collect back what you've given out. Well, we can agree to disagree. Safe. 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 5:58pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
The girl you are simping for is simping for a guy wey sabi. The girl you are spending on is spending on a guy wey sabi. The girl you are playing holy holy with or paying for sex is giving it for free to a guy wey sabi and being his sex freak. The jacket you can not give your sister or loved relatives, that a girl took from you without your consent and you simpishly allowed, is now being worn by another guy wey sabi, a guy she is simping for. Truly, dis life no balance. 45 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:09pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
Lightheaded: Drops mic in anger... Lmaooooooooo... Lol. Just hope you're not in "sifia" pains though. That jacket is mine! 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:13pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
@Junnior Right from day one, I have been on the side of collecting back if you want to. Though you are spot on the fact that CaveAdullam's logic can't be applied to gifts, expensive or not. For gifts, CaveAdùllam's defence crumbles. I was thinking that same, but I don't have strength to type to CavèAdullam. Anyway, CavèAdullam's reasons isn't necessarily that of anyone. I still maintain my stand. If you want to allow her keep it, no problem; if you want to collect, no problem. I don't think ego, so called dignity or perception of weakness should hinder anyone. This is a junction where we all can agree to disagree on what we personally think is okay for a man in such a situation to do. Peàcewy's summarises what Skepticus and myself have been saying. Peaçeyw: I rest my case on this issue. By the way, are salaries gifts? ![]() 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:29pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
In other news, look at the Talibans' reaction when a CNN reporter, an American woman, asked them if they will support democracy and women's right, even the right of women to attain leadership positions. Where is DEMZEE (JESHAL) when you need him? What do you think DEMZEE? ![]() https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Q0uKizAgyI One of these days, I am looking forward to discussing women's rights with redpillers here. It would be interesting. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Saviolamemphix(m): 6:33pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
Bro u earned my respect cus u always speak facts. U have a fan here. ![]() ![]() Skepticus: 5 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:38pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
Saviolamemphix:He is always on point. Chinedu can collect the car and apartment he bought for Anita if he wants to. He can even collect the iPhone 12 he bought for her... if he wants to. If Chinedu thinks it is petty or primary-school vibes to collect them back, he can leave them for Anita to enjoy. ![]() Make everyone just dey their dey. 14 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 6:50pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
I fit bet my black balls say if the roles were reversed,the girl go treat him fvck up instantly. I remember one thread like that wey hit FP,babe see her Bobo with another girl for mall,right there the babe asked her BF to remove everything he was wearing ![]() There's another video I saw the same scenario except it happened here in Nigeria Lightheaded: 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Saviolamemphix(m): 6:55pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
Some guys here are just funny they don't know some gels go just pretend lyk say dem love u after dem colet ur gift na ghostin mode. SMH so u want to tell me i should just live d gifts as a real man wen its obvious she played me ![]() ![]() ![]() Call it childishness or anything ah go Colet my gift if u no worth am lmfao Martinez39s: 7 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:56pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
MJBOLT:Girls don't waste time to treat fuçk up. They don't care about ego or yeye dignity or need to not appear weak; person dey chop these things? They are in this life to win, hook or by crook, and they are for their own best interests and survival. Go to my third meme thread and see many first-hand accounts of how women collect their own stuffs and keep track of what they gave you. I am not saying we should collect back because women collect back; however, all is fair in love and war. Two can drink the soup, it shouldn't be okay for one to drink and tell the other not to. ![]() 19 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 7:36pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
CaveAdullam: ![]() ![]() I'm pained but not severely. Why? Because I expected more from my guy, he's not someone even guys trifle with. It's funny the things guys let ladies get away with but not guys. He'll learn sha, hopefully. 8 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightheaded: 7:44pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
MJBOLT: ![]() ![]() You never chop for their side, next thing during fight is I fed you. Fed bi bawo, Lori rice and stew, oo de rora girl yii ![]() ![]() 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Peaceyw(m): 7:54pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
If a girl ghost you, let the dead rest. But remember, the dead have no use for your materials. This ain't China, we don't burn paper money here. P.S: Don't ask me to explain 22 Likes 6 Shares |
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