CaveAdullam:
2. Firstly, risk aversion is because of fear, that is, fear of losing out in cases of investments

9. Apart from fear, ego is another factor that will limit you. Potential benefits and outcomes must be considered first, because ego might blind your eyes from taking "worthy risks" or make you continue to sink in a quicksand when the envisaged result is a mirage or minuscule---sunk cost fallacy. Know when to act and when to stop. Ego or "I'm too big for this or this thing is too small for me" must not appear at the forefront.

10. Challenge your self every day and in most cases you'll find out that most risks are worth taking, though they involve life and death; time and chance. But with the right tools, right knowledge, right logical conclusion and at the right time, you will succeed.

emmanuel1277:
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If you are well read on history and world matters including peoples, cultures and demographics from the development of man, you will notice certain patterns concerning certain issues. Like the advocacy or the push for female chastity
The jews , Arabs, Persians, the Chinese, the Indians, the native Americans, the French, the Baltic tribes, the Aboriginals, and even we the Africans to mention a lot.
This advocacy was also pushed into the religions practiced by these peoples to the extent that sex outside marriage was (and even still is in some religions) as a sin.

So the thing is there definitely has to be a reason there was the similarity amongst these groups. The reason boils down to one thing which is bonding.
The hormone oxytocin has been discovered by scientist to hormone responsible for this phenomenon.
Oxytocin is a hormone controlled by the pituitary gland and has been know to be realesed through certain activities like cuddling or hugging for at least a minute(in mild quantity), certain moments of common struggle and conquer(in mild quantities too) during suckling for both the mother and child(reasonable quantities) and through sex or rather majorly during orgasm(in plentiful amounts).
That's why there is usually a strong bond between mother and child. And also why a mother who dumped a kid at birth and never gave the child suck can never bond together like the usual.
And also why bonds can be created between persons who waded through problems tohether.
As for a male and a female humans, famales have been discovered to secret more oxytocin during sex or orgasm. This is clear as there is a strong bond built when a man and a woman consumate well. This bond in sex is something built over time from the first time a man has sex with a woman and if possible and also better brings her to orgasm also creating a sexual imprint(will be discussed in another write up).
That's why if man takes a womans Virginity and can bring her to orgasm, the woman will find it extremely difficult to forget the man.
This has even been seen as a thing in some areas and has even has some related terms (like okafors law).
This also results to the woman craving for the type of sex that first brought her to orgasm all through her life(the imprint).
That's why when you see some girls loving sex raw, they may have been disvirgined or had most of their sex that same way( something seen in Molested women and even sometimes in men).
Now these imprint can be cleansed or the bond broken when a women now consulates with several men thereby greatly reducing or killing ability to bond again["damaged women"]. But when this sex goes on with one person for a long time from the first, there becomes a strong bond built as it is with a mother and child or even more.
Note that this bonding is more from the side of the woman than the man ( which stems to why men can be polygamous too).
You might have even heard or seen cases where a husband and wife or a couple is said to resemble each other.
Now in women whom have lost this capacity, it becomes difficult for her to bond with the man and there is even a reduced bond with the kids she births. These pertterns where noticed by wise men of accient times even if they lacked the science behind it. That's why they clamoured for female and even sometimes male chastity before marriage and also why many religions and cultures developed the idea of premarital sex being a sin. Or sex as something to be done within marriages. And also why men where advised to take virgins for wives why as man, it should still be something you try to get at these times. Even if all of us know say e hard.

So the point here brothers is:
Never marry a damaged woman
Always strive for the better or even the best

Women will always be women
AWALT stand for all, that's why you should get groomed on other redpill tanets to handle them ( for those who choose to get married and have a family)

Brothers we have seen what the neglect of this factor in human relations has caused our society even though it is fact and purely scientific

Last last who go get sense go get sense

More write-ups to come
Shear your views on these guys, discuss and reason it and if possible try to do more findings.

We move

Junnior:
I initially didn't want to say anything, but now I am going to unapologetically state my opinion on this matter:

It is stup1d to collect back stuff that you gifted someone, boy or girl. There's no sense in it, as far as I'm concerned.

If things didn't go as you wanted, take your L and fvcking move on.

Collect back what was supposedly a gift -- who does that? It's disgusting sh1t. It's simp behaviour, as far as I'm concerned. It reeks of emotional pain.

I get it that it, for instance, hurt a lot when you buy her a car and other nice things, but she breaks up with you and continues flexing with all you got for her. But then, think about it, those things, did you lend her or you gave her?
It is simps that attach emotions to material things they buy for their women. As a redpill aware guy, you know that you don't do that. You only give her what she deserves and what you can afford to let go without hiccups.

For me, it isn't about ego or anything like that. If I give someone something, it's theirs forever regardless of what transpires between us later on. There is no sense in asking someone to return my gift, because for me to have given that gift, it means he/she deserved it. (Also, collecting back the gift will not correct the wrong that has already been done. It won't make you FEEL better. You're still gonna despise her afterwards.
That action of collecting back your gift is simply an emotional response. It's not logical. It's not necessary. It's not needed.)

If things between us later turn sour, I just move on.

Thanks.

Think4Myself:
*****ANOTHER REDPILL YOU SHOULD KNOW******


The Bible was written in Shakespeare time sorry it was all a lie
Save yourself from the matrix cos Jesus definitely dosent exist
By this time.last year I was a devoted Christian but now I'm a happy atheist cos I was able to break free from the matrix white people put us into and everything has been going good for me cos I know that I am free

Did you know that us black people (the Egyptians) actually founded religion
Seth was good Anubis was evil but it was later corrupted to seth-ann set-an satan ... You see

Break free my people

The Bible was written in Shakespeare time sorry it was all a lie Save yourself from the matrix cos Jesus definitely dosent exist
By this time.

Did you know that us black people (the Egyptians) actually founded religion

Seth was good Anubis was evil but it was later corrupted to seth-ann set-an satan ... You see

Break free my people from ignorance

Martinez39s:
I am an atheist just like you. However, religious, supernatural and metaphysical issues are not topics of discussion here. I get your point, but let's not introduce discussions that don't align with the purpose of this thread.

Junnior:
I initially didn't want to say anything, but now I am going to unapologetically state my opinion on this matter:
It is stup1d to collect back stuff that you gifted someone, boy or girl. There's no sense in it, as far as I'm concerned.
If things didn't go as you wanted, take your L and fvcking move on.
Collect back what was supposedly a gift -- who does that? It's disgusting sh1t. It's simp behaviour, as far as I'm concerned. It reeks of emotional pain.
I get it that it, for instance, hurt a lot when you buy her a car and other nice things, but she breaks up with you and continues flexing with all you got for her. But then, think about it, those things, did you lend her or you gave her?
It is simps that attach emotions to material things they buy for their women. As a redpill aware guy, you know that you don't do that. You only give her what she deserves and what you can afford to let go without hiccups.
For me, it isn't about ego or anything like that. If I give someone something, it's theirs forever regardless of what transpires between us later on. There is no sense in asking someone to return my gift, because for me to have given that gift, it means he/she deserved it. (Also, collecting back the gift will not correct the wrong that has already been done. It won't make you FEEL better. You're still gonna despise her afterwards.
That action of collecting back your gift is simply an emotional response. It's not logical. It's not necessary. It's not needed.)
If things between us later turn sour, I just move on.
Thanks.

Skepticus:
I don't care about how your present stage in life or how much you have in your bank account, Never fail to treat the fûck up of a badly behaved woman in the most non-violent way possible. The only instance where moderate violence may be required is if she violates you physically or tries to hurt/kill you.

Jessepaid:
. True...

But when you try to act ruthless with them..

You suddenly become a monster...

Someone will say you are not a man for demanding back your property..

Some properties are insignificant and petty to ask for return...

It's left to us to use our discretion to know which is which...

When to let go and when to show craze

Lightheaded:
Picks mic...

I agree bruv. Something happened to a friend recently, my guy was having a fling with a babe in the same level for a while. Babe comes to his house and takes a jacket, guy tells her " a lot of people have already asked for this jacket including my younger sister I can't give you". Babe takes it to her house at night without guy's consent. Guy visits her more than once, realizes that she isn't even using it, just hanging it on a rope. Guy didn't talk.

Fast forward to later, guy sees a similar jacket in school on another guy, guy's surprised, tells one of his friends that that jacket looks stunningly similar to his because that friend had asked beforehand which he didn't bulge. Minutes later babe comes to greet the guy in the jacket. You know what that means, the new guy (which is in like the first level of university education) took the jacket from her place or she gave him. This is a jacket my guy really liked.

My guy told me he was astonished, bewildered, surprised, left agog, stunned, any other grammar that depicts shock abeg put am there. I asked him what he did, he said he didn't do anything because of his ego and self respect. I really vexed.

I told him point blank, this is disrespect of the highest order, totally insulting. I told him immediately he saw it he should've washed her straight up on the spot, treat her fvck up. Leave ego aside, it's infuriating. Even if he didn't get his jacket back, he shoulda shamed the shameless b*tch. Then warn her to never talk to him.

What I'd like us to take from the issue.
1. If a girl disrespects you let her know, don't condone such. It's weak, don't hide behind 'ego'.
2. Like they've said if you can take back your stuff in a better way, do. If you can't so be it. It's personal.
3. Learn to stand firm and say no if it doesn't favour you, don't fall prey to the "real men" or "stingy" or selfish gimmick. Na your money.

Drops mic in anger.

CaveAdullam:


Oga calm down!

1. Few weeks ago, the Living Faith Church retrieved the apartments, shares and other belongings they gave to their former pastors. Many saw it as a nice move because the pastors were not performing efficiently in their respective positions. From the eyes of a Christian man, it might not augur well but it is plainly business, contract and/or agreement.

2. If an employee stop working for First Bank today, all shares provided for him by the Bank will be retrieved. This scenario and the one above boils down to the fact that you can't be enjoying free goods you no longer work for.

3. Collecting back your gifts or not is simps problems because men that understands game and female nature knows that gifts and luxury doesn't win women; it is a simping move, especially when the relationship is not clearly defined and a short term one.

4. Yes, I agree, give people what they deserve. They deserved it and it will not make sense collecting it because it is "already operating on a mutual scale" which can be likened to the salaries of the said employees which cannot be taken back when they get fired.

5. Wigs, cars, houses, clothes etc. are given because I like you, not necessarily because you deserved it. And if you say you are no longer interested in me, it is wise to return every thing that binded us together. Simple!

6. Men that understand game will never bother about retrieving their materials back because they never used it or the relationship was mutual or they gained most.

7. If you decide to collect your goods back it's not stupidity, simping or whatever. And same if you don't. It's your choice. Be cautious before taking any action, and when risk outweighs benefits, just count your losses, dust yourself and move forward.

NB: the church does it, women too and same with companies and other organizations. But immediately individual men puts it to practice they are shamed, demonized and accused.

Ego has always been man's problem and it works for them positively and against them negatively. The problem is that Men don't know which is which and what should be done at different times.

Marriage/well defined long term relationship might be an "exception" but even at that, these must be put into considerations because women and society are using it to exploit men.

Overall, this is simps problem!

Thanks.

Lightheaded:

Picks mic...

I agree bruv. Something happened to a friend recently, my guy was having a fling with a babe in the same level for a while. Babe comes to his house and takes a jacket, guy tells her " a lot of people have already asked for this jacket including my younger sister I can't give you". Babe takes it to her house at night without guy's consent. Guy visits her more than once, realizes that she isn't even using it, just hanging it on a rope. Guy didn't talk.

Fast forward to later, guy sees a similar jacket in school on another guy, guy's surprised, tells one of his friends that that jacket looks stunningly similar to his because that friend had asked beforehand which he didn't bulge. Minutes later babe comes to greet the guy in the jacket. You know what that means, the new guy (which is in like the first level of university education) took the jacket from her place or she gave him. This is a jacket my guy really liked.

My guy told me he was astonished, bewildered, surprised, left agog, stunned, any other grammar that depicts shock abeg put am there. I asked him what he did, he said he didn't do anything because of his ego and self respect. I really vexed.

I told him point blank, this is disrespect of the highest order, totally insulting. I told him immediately he saw it he should've washed her straight up on the spot, treat her fvck up. Leave ego aside, it's infuriating. Even if he didn't get his jacket back, he shoulda shamed the shameless b*tch. Then warn her to never talk to him.

What I'd like us to take from the issue.
1. If a girl disrespects you let her know, don't condone such. It's weak, don't hide behind 'ego'.
2. Like they've said if you can take back your stuff in a better way, do. If you can't so be it. It's personal.
3. Learn to stand firm and say no if it doesn't favour you, don't fall prey to the "real men" or "stingy" or selfish gimmick. Na your money.

Drops mic in anger.

Peaçeyw:
If you want to collect your stuff back, collect. If you don't want to collect it back don't collect it. It is your money not mine, do whatever you want.

Skepticus:
I don't care about how your present stage in life or how much you have in your bank account, Never fail to treat the fûck up of a badly behaved woman in the most non-violent way possible. The only instance where moderate violence may be required is if she violates you physically or tries to hurt/kill you. Direct violence should be avoided as much as possible with your rational thinking used to access the situation before taking any step as women easily attract sympathy and support much more than men, and she can spin the situation to favour her.

I reiterate it again, YOU ARE NOT a WEAK MAN for standing up for yourself, putting her in place, taking your stuff back (if it is worth it) before a woman who clearly mocks and disrespect you by being disloyal and ungrateful. Leaving your stuff or letting her get away with mocking and disrespect you doesn't make you a "stronger" man. You are just non confrontational in personality and nothing bad about it, in itself. The only issue is that when women get with men that let them get away with bad behaviour, it makes them see other men as dumb fools and increase their sense of entitlement. When a woman has a high sense of entitlement and behaves badly to you, apart from being a shiit test (which you shouldn't fail), there is a likelihood that she is exposed to a lot of nice, gentle and non-confrontational men who let her get away with it under the guise of being rich, or being the " stronger/bigger" man.

Saviolamemphix:
Bro u earned my respect cus u always speak facts. U have a fan here.

I fit bet my black balls say if the roles were reversed,the girl go treat him fvck up instantly.

I remember one thread like that wey hit FP,babe see her Bobo with another girl for mall,right there the babe asked her BF to remove everything he was wearing do you know why??she bought the clothes and shoes he was wearing and demanded for it back without giving a fvck,This one happened overseas.


There's another video I saw the same scenario except it happened here in Nigeria

Lightheaded:

Picks mic...


Drops mic in anger.

Martinez39s:
He is always on point. Chinedu can collect the car and apartment he bought for Anita if he wants to. He can even collect the iPhone 12 he bought for her... if he wants to. If Chinedu thinks it is petty or primary-school vibes to collect them back, he can leave them for Anita to enjoy.

Make everyone just dey their dey.

MJBOLT:

I fit bet my black balls say if the roles were reversed,the girl go treat him fvck up instantly.

I remember one thread like that wey hit FP,babe see her Bobo with another girl for mall,right there the babe asked her BF to remove everything he was wearing do you know why??she bought the clothes and shoes he was wearing and demanded for it back without giving a fvck,This one happened overseas.


There's another video I saw the same scenario except it happened here in Nigeria

CaveAdullam:


Drops mic in anger... Lmaooooooooo... Lol. Just hope you're not in "sifia" pains though.

That jacket is mine!

MJBOLT:

I fit bet my black balls say if the roles were reversed,the girl go treat him fvck up instantly.

I remember one thread like that wey hit FP,babe see her Bobo with another girl for mall,right there the babe asked her BF to remove everything he was wearing do you know why??she bought the clothes and shoes he was wearing and demanded for it back without giving a fvck,This one happened overseas.


There's another video I saw the same scenario except it happened here in Nigeria