Cinema4d:

I'll agree with you on the part where you have to have something to offer. Buh how do you know one has something to offer in a relationship? Or, you talking about offer you mean showing equal affection you show towards your partner? Or is it monetary terms, material things, or even attention?

Snitch24:


Offers might be interns of
Money
Connection
Safety
Companionship etc
I'm sure u wouldn't want to date an urgly girl
That one self na part of the offers

Cinema4d:

Trust. Well it's really hard to trust these days. Considering the fact that our generation have been fed with all sort of poison

Cinema4d:

It is well... I feel your pain bro
Hope you're not too emotional to share right now

Polynek:
let by gone be by gone

Cinema4d:

I like this your perspective. The God kind of love.
Enlighten us about this kind of love

Longevo:

It is the best kind of love that I've experienced. I was rescued from damnation because of this sweet love, and today I'm living in this love. No turning back.

dairykidd:
Non-existent

debbydams:
Love is a beautiful thing

Cinema4d:

A lot of Folks have been damaged by love. So, is love still a beautiful thing or a tragedy?

Red pillars would strongly disagree with this.

Cinema4d:

Kindly explain further.

Cinema4d:

Why?

Cinema4d:

A lot of Folks have been damaged by love. So, is love still a beautiful thing or a tragedy?

Red pillars would strongly disagree with this.

Cinema4d:

A lot of Folks have been damaged by love. So, is love still a beautiful thing or a tragedy?

Red pillars would strongly disagree with this.

Cinema4d:

Trust. Well it's really hard to trust these days. Considering the fact that our generation have been fed with all sort of poison

debbydams:
it is a beautiful thing if someone is with his/her better half..I've bn tru a lot of heartbreaks and I still believe in love,,and I'm gonna love my man with every part of me

anthonyuncle:


there are no words to describe or quantify what true love is, only love can describe love

dairykidd:

So far its just one person using the other for their benefits, selfish interests and gains

Palazee:
Lets welcome the redpillers

bepositive11:


Love doesn't damage people. It nurtures

The problem is people mistake trauma bonding and infatuation for love. They're not the same

bepositive11:
Genuine love is patient, kind, understanding, nurturing, giving without expectations, forgiving -- with healthy boundaries though. Being a push over or getting taken advantage of is not love. No one should tolerate that any form of abuse or mistreatment in the name of love

Cinema4d:

(Chuckles) You know, you'd hardly find ladies do the above you mentioned if the guy is broke.
This is where compatibility comes in.

placeofallure:


A lost trust, can it ever be rebuilt? Answer please.

In my opinion. Love is a dual carriage way of fortn and back, go and come, give and take. Just like the symbiotic association in Biology.

debbydams:
hum mm,but we still have some ladies that can endure,,seriously. Love before money..money before love won't last

Cinema4d:

Give and take? Kindly explain.

To your question.
This is a very tricky question and it's a hard tack. But I'll try and explain succinctly.
A wise man once said and I quote; "Whoever trusts in his own mind is a fool, but he who walks in wisdom will be delivered."

Which means even our minds can play tricks with us.
This is what I'm trying to say.
Man can never be trusted.

Why? Because we are humans! We have tons of flaws.
This doesn't mean you should be stereotyped and turn a blind to people, or isolate yourself from people. No! Be logical with things you entrust to people but do not rely on them.

Have it in mind that disappointment Occurs with humans.I'm going somewhere, stay with me.

So, Generally, people are forgiving of breaches of competence and will consider situational factors and know incompetence can be temporary.

I believe that people who are competent can sometimes act incompetently because of situational factors outside their control.

But even when external factors are not to blame, people understand that competence can be improved; people can get better and develop from their experiences.

It all comes down to how the response is handled.

You shouldn’t blame other factors entirely, instead, the response should do the following:

Acknowledge the failure
Take responsibility
Show what has been learned.

So, yes. A lost trust can be rebuilt. But, it will take an extra mile to be proven.

Cinema4d:

Perfect answer!
But, let's take a look at it from this dimension; what about someone who has been betrayed by someone they truly love?

Cinema4d:

Mistreatment? If one is mistreated, then I don't think that's love and it should not be tolerated. Love should be a mutual thing don't you think?