BlueAir:
your assertion is on the low side to be true in today's social world. You think it's very likely a guy would have a romp with a girl, especially not on hookup bases;I'm very sure they didn't have that Romp on a hook-up bases and take her picture to black mail her? Nah.. I'm sure she consented to those pictures by either posing in it or sending it to him,and their relationship didn't work out. Or why do y'all think she didn't send upload a copy of the picture even if she should blur it. Y'all should dare her to upload a copy of the picture and cover the necessary part.let us see if she was truly asleep as she claimed. Trust these bittches at ur own peril

You are talking like a grown ass fool, what if op sent the nudes to him in trust, what if she breaks up with him? Just take your L abeg.

The last girl that had sent numerous nudes of herself yo me and later said she doesn't think we should continue. I deleted everything all of it that day, and in 2 months I don forget her papa.

Unless Op stole from him and he's blackmailing her to get his property, he has no right to release or threaten her

Don't be stupiddd with me. If u gats open mouth to talk for talking sake without reading well,then try it with another person.im against her dropping a one sided story that's not honest and full or are u blind and low on brain comprehensive capacity! So stop talking like a grown up iddiot and get the F out of my mention punk!

Inspiration007:


You are talking like a grown ass fool, what if op sent the nudes to him in trust, what if she breaks up with him? Just take your L abeg.

The last girl that had sent numerous nudes of herself yo me and later said she doesn't think we should continue. I deleted everything all of it that day, and in 2 months I don forget her papa.

Unless Op stole from him and he's blackmailing her to get his property, he has no right to release or threaten her

Na you know

BlueAir:
E egbenu sohun ma. Opuro oniro. Person wey u never meet offline,na him take ur nude photos while you were sleeping. No be jazz be that? Coming out with cock and bull story just to Garner sympathy. When you're ready to explain to everyone and the military men how u end up naked to a guy's bed overnight,do that. Person wey u trust to end up naked on his bed or send nude to? What could u have done badly to fall his hand and blackmail enter,pls enlighten us. Opuro. Better go reason person u send nude to

God! Internet never forgets oo . Anyway when she's ready to write the full story,then she should. Cos all these cock and bull story of one guy she has never met face to face but took her pictures while she was sleeping,is not digesting in my stomach

MilitaryLady:

The guy might be innocent.
See this thread she created few years back
https://www.nairaland.com/4313256/collect-money-boyfriend-before-sex

shior no better tell us wetin u do the guy and people should advice u on how to go about it. Abi na stranger u send nudes to?not a boyfriend

Adeolaissacutie:
Na you know

Check the first page, the full story is there

BlueAir:
God! Internet never forgets oo . Anyway when she's ready to write the full story,then she should. Cos all these cock and bull story of one guy she has never met face to face but took her pictures while she was sleeping,is not digesting in my stomach

Ive read the crapp. How did someone you have never met face to face take ur nudes while u were sleeping

Adeolaissacutie:
Check the first page, the full story is there

BlueAir:
Ive read the crapp. How did someone you have never met face to face take ur nudes while u were sleeping

She said they had sex in house. Did you read that part?

Adeolaissacutie:
Please guys, help me, I beg on anybody in the millitary to help, a guy I met online has threatened me with nudes and I don't want him to get away with, I don't deserve , I was a good person to him, he took the pictures while I was sleeping and threatened me with it via video call, I don't have any evidence but he showed me the pictures via video call.

Full story....,I met him on tinder , we chatted for a year and he claimed he was single which he lied but then later confessed after 8 months of chatting,(I have screenshots) I felt guilty and hurt because I don't look for trouble or try to date other people's boyfriend, we met once in his house and we had sex and he now took pictures/videos of me naked while I was sleeping which he didn't tell me at first ...when I now told his girlfriend about us, he now threatened me with my nudes via video call and said I can't do anything about, he's threatening me for telling his gf that we slept together which I did out of guilt and conscience, I just feel so violated and sad, I've always been good to him..He also gave me 100 usdt to invest in a crypto business online few weeks before we met physically, when he was sleeping with me, he never asked for the money back but after, he started bothering me, I Will give him his money , and he knows I will give him, he didn't argue or bother, the main reason why he blackmailed me is because I told his girlfriend about and I've already told him to break up with his girlfriend if he wants to be with me, he agreed but instead he didn't then I found out and told the girlfriend, the girlfriend told him and that's how he started threatening me with my nudes via video call and how I should forget about everything if I don't want any further trouble, prior to this, I noticed that the same hair I did on the first day of meeting was in the nudes which then made me realise that he had already had my nudes on his phone which is why he didn't allow me check his phone, he would still have blackmailed me either ways.i just want justice for this, it is absolutely wrong to take pictures of people naked while sleeping without their consent and hiding it inorder to blackmail them, I want him to pay for this crime, I'm very sure that he has not deleted the pictures, it's still on his phone, email, laptop, iPad and other devices so that he can use it to threaten me if I decide to fight for my right and speak up..I know I was wrong meeting someone on tinder for the first time in his house but that doesn't give him the right to take pictures of me naked without my consent, if I had woken up while he was taking pictures of me naked , I wouldn't be here on nairaland to fight for justice cause it is very wrong, I'm already to hire lawyers, human rights activist to fight for me and also pay him all the money he's been giving me on my birthdays, food, business, everything back, I don't care anymore

Ok. You have to give him everything you collected if he demand for it.
I chatted with him calmly and he said I should trust him, he won’t do anything irrational. You have to talk to him in a peaceful approach and resolve everything. I know something is fishy in ur one sided story and I got his attention to it. I believe he wanted to get his things back, make a schedule with him and refund everything.
Lastly desist from posting false story, you have even lied against him in the first instance.

Don't trust him, he's a liar and he can gaslight alot, I know he still has my pictures, he will use it against me, I need to take legal actions, I want all his electronic devices seized immediately, just because someone voluntarily gave you money to start a business doesn't mean I should get blackmailed with my nudes, it's sick, he has committed an offence for even taking pictures of me naked without my consent and another offence for keeping it on his phone for days without me knowing, if I didn't tell his gf about us, I wouldn't have known he took naked pictures of me

vikgreen01:



Ok. You have to give him everything you collected if he demand for it.
I chatted with him calmly and he said I should trust him, he won’t do anything irrational. You have to talk to him in a peaceful approach and resolve everything. I know something is fishy in ur one sided story and I got his attention to it. I believe he wanted to get his things back, make a schedule with him and refund everything.

Where is ur base Madam soldier??
I need to talk to u privately.

MilitaryLady:

The guy might be innocent.
See this thread she created few years back
https://www.nairaland.com/4313256/collect-money-boyfriend-before-sex

Thank you oo, I can never send nude pictures with my face on it, if you even see the nude pictures and videos, you'll clearly see that he was the one recording it in his bed inside his house, I didn't steal from him, I'll never steal, he even sent me the 100usdt online via Binance to invest in Crypto, I didn't force him, he sent it by himself.i have the receipt.

Inspiration007:


You are talking like a grown ass fool, what if op sent the nudes to him in trust, what if she breaks up with him? Just take your L abeg.

The last girl that had sent numerous nudes of herself yo me and later said she doesn't think we should continue. I deleted everything all of it that day, and in 2 months I don forget her papa.

Unless Op stole from him and he's blackmailing her to get his property, he has no right to release or threaten her

isholapeter9:
Where is ur base Madam soldier??
I need to talk to u privately.

Kaduna, send me a pm

I am innocent, this thread doesn't justify that he is innocent, I created this thread years ago, it's just
I was probably 18 or something, I was only expressing my naive opinion, I've grown into a full adult now, I would never force anybody to give me money, I'm independent now, please disregard this thread

MilitaryLady:

The guy might be innocent.
See this thread she created few years back
https://www.nairaland.com/4313256/collect-money-boyfriend-before-sex

Okay no problem
I will get in touch with you now ASAP from....
NOVEMBER
ALPHA
VICTOR
YANKEE

MilitaryLady:
Kaduna, send me a pm

He even created an account today after threatening me on voice call to not make this situation worse that I should keep quiet, I'll not keep quiet, I will call his bank to intervene, I will do anything to get this justice, I will not back down

vikgreen01:



Ok. You have to give him everything you collected if he demand for it.
I chatted with him calmly and he said I should trust him, he won’t do anything irrational. You have to talk to him in a peaceful approach and resolve everything. I know something is fishy in ur one sided story and I got his attention to it. I believe he wanted to get his things back, make a schedule with him and refund everything.
Lastly desist from posting false story, you have even lied against him in the first instance.

Cc blueair

Adeolaissacutie:
I am innocent, this thread doesn't justify that he is innocent, I created this thread years ago, it's just
I was probably 18 or something, I was only expressing my naive opinion, I've grown into a full adult now, I would never force anybody to give me money, I'm independent now, please disregard this thread

okay the issue would be rectified soon.
I'm still talking with him and he seems calm.
Just don't get yourself worried

I'm sure he sent you to defend him, I'm not surprised, he can do anything and even though you're clearly defending him, I have evidence to back up my story, thank you!

vikgreen01:



Ok. You have to give him everything you collected if he demand for it.
I chatted with him calmly and he said I should trust him, he won’t do anything irrational. You have to talk to him in a peaceful approach and resolve everything. I know something is fishy in ur one sided story and I got his attention to it. I believe he wanted to get his things back, make a schedule with him and refund everything.
Lastly desist from posting false story, you have even lied against him in the first instance.

Adeolaissacutie:
Thank you oo, I can never send nude pictures with my face on it, if you even see the nude pictures and videos, you'll clearly see that he was the one recording it in his bed inside his house, I didn't steal from him, I'll never steal, he even sent me the 100usdt online via Binance to invest in Crypto, I didn't force him, he sent it by himself.i have the receipt.

It's okay, you shouldn't have told his gf about you too sha.
Nevertheless, i just hope the issue is settled reasonably

He's not calm, I have voice recordings of him threatening me , he's a pretender, I'm worried because I know what he's capable of doing, thanks for everything, I haven't even been able to sleep peacefully knowing my nude pictures is still with him, I'm depressed, I will fight till my last breath, I will not settle for less,thank you very much for everything, I truly appreciate.

MilitaryLady:
okay the issue would be rectified soon.
I'm still talking with him and he seems calm.
Just don't get yourself worried

Adeolaissacutie:
Don't trust him, he's a liar and he can gaslight alot, I know he still has my pictures, he will use it against me, I need to take legal actions, I want all his electronic devices seized immediately, just because someone voluntarily gave you money to start a business doesn't mean I should get blackmailed with my nudes, it's sick, he has committed an offence for even taking pictures of me naked without my consent and another offence for keeping it on his phone for days without me knowing, if I didn't tell his gf about us, I wouldn't have known he took naked pictures of me

@ bolded, why did you not include this at the beginning of your story?
Seems the truth is unveiling.
Cc blueair

I've updated the story, I was sad and traumatized while writing the beginning of the story but now I'm calm so I've uploaded the full story, a well meaning nairalander even did he video call with me while I was crying, he encouraged me not to back down and to involve the lawyers and police.

MilitaryLady:
@ bolded, why did you not include this at the beginning of your story?
Seems the truth is unveiling.
Cc blueair

If I didn't tell his girlfriend, I wouldn't have known about my nude pictures taken without my consent, it's because I told his girlfriend, that's what made him to blackmail me with my nudes.

Inspiration007:


It's okay, you shouldn't have told his gf about you too sha.
Nevertheless, i just hope the issue is settled reasonably

Adeolaissacutie:
Please guys, help me, I beg on anybody in the millitary to help, a guy I met online has threatened me with nudes and I don't want him to get away with, I don't deserve , I was a good person to him, he took the pictures while I was sleeping and threatened me with it via video call, I don't have any evidence but he showed me the pictures via video call.

Full story....,I met him on tinder , we chatted for a year and he claimed he was single which he lied but then later confessed after 8 months of chatting,(I have screenshots) I felt guilty and hurt because I don't look for trouble or try to date other people's boyfriend, we met once in his house and we had sex and he now took pictures/videos of me naked while I was sleeping which he didn't tell me at first ...when I now told his girlfriend about us, he now threatened me with my nudes via video call and said I can't do anything about, he's threatening me for telling his gf that we slept together which I did out of guilt and conscience, I just feel so violated and sad, I've always been good to him..He also gave me 100 usdt to invest in a crypto business online few weeks before we met physically, when he was sleeping with me, he never asked for the money back but after, he started bothering me, I Will give him his money , and he knows I will give him, he didn't argue or bother, the main reason why he blackmailed me is because I told his girlfriend about and I've already told him to break up with his girlfriend if he wants to be with me, he agreed but instead he didn't then I found out and told the girlfriend, the girlfriend told him and that's how he started threatening me with my nudes via video call and how I should forget about everything if I don't want any further trouble, prior to this, I noticed that the same hair I did on the first day of meeting was in the nudes which then made me realise that he had already had my nudes on his phone which is why he didn't allow me check his phone, he would still have blackmailed me either ways.i just want justice for this, it is absolutely wrong to take pictures of people naked while sleeping without their consent and hiding it inorder to blackmail them, I want him to pay for this crime, I'm very sure that he has not deleted the pictures, it's still on his phone, email, laptop, iPad and other devices so that he can use it to threaten me if I decide to fight for my right and speak up..I know I was wrong meeting someone on tinder for the first time in his house but that doesn't give him the right to take pictures of me naked without my consent, if I had woken up while he was taking pictures of me naked , I wouldn't be here on nairaland to fight for justice cause it is very wrong, I'm already to hire lawyers, human rights activist to fight for me and also pay him all the money he's been giving me on my birthdays, food, business, everything back, I don't care anymore

Cc blueair she has updated the story

Adeolaissacutie:
I'm sure he sent you to defend him, I'm not surprised, he can do anything and even though you're clearly defending him, I have evidence to back up my story, thank you!

Ma’am, I am amaze you concluded in such manner. Firstly I’m not defending him and secondly I’m on the side he doesn’t post your nudes. Whatever transpired is left for the both of you to sort out now.

Your first post said you were sleeping in ur room and he took ur pics and u later recreated it that you went to his house. I’m just saying U should be straight in whatever u pointing toward someone.

You’re claiming to know law. Assuming u hired a lawyer and tell him that ur very first post and u later tell him the second post u recreated. Don’t u see you have buy the lawyer a job!!!

At this junction, I’m just of the opinion u settle ur differences amicably.

I've heard, thank you!, If I didn't go to his house, will he just enter my father's house to take nude pictures of me, please think about it, who in their right senses would make a nude video and pictures with their face on it while sleeping, I was sleeping which clearly means he was the one recording

vikgreen01:


Ma’am, I am amaze you concluded in such manner. Firstly I’m not defending him and secondly I’m on the side he doesn’t post your nudes. Whatever transpired is left for the both of you to sort out now.

Your first post said you were sleeping in ur room and he took ur pics and u later recreated it that you went to his house. I’m just saying U should be straight in whatever u pointing toward someone.

You’re claiming to know law. Assuming u hired a lawyer and tell him that ur very first post and u later tell him the second post u recreated. Don’t u see you have buy the lawyer a job!!!

At this junction, I’m just of the opinion u settle ur differences amicably.

Adeolaissacutie:
He even created an account today after threatening me on voice call to not make this situation worse that I should keep quiet, I'll not keep quiet, I will call his bank to intervene, I will do anything to get this justice, I will not back down

Nne you are funny ooo .... So someone contacting you privately to offer private help has amounted to the person being the one you are fighting ba.
Now I see that you might not be as innocent as you want to make us believe if this is how you reason.
A reasonable person should have tried having conversation with the person who contacted her to know what exactly the person has to say... Whether he's the victim or not... But here you are vomiting trash knowing fully well that you brought up your case in a faceless forum.
At this point, I rest my case and I wish whoever that wants to continue assisting you GOOD LUCK!

You're not smart, you created the account today, if you want people to believe you, you should have created the account several days ago, "do not make it worse" is a statement he used to threaten me via voice calls, I have proof of our voice recordings of him clearly repeating those words, next time, think before you do anything.

DoNotMakeItWors:



Nne you are funny ooo .... So someone contacting you privately to offer private help has amounted to the person being the one you are fighting ba.
Now I see that you might not be as innocent as you want to make us believe if this is how you reason.
A reasonable person should have tried having conversation with the person who contacted her to know what exactly the person has to say... Whether he's the victim or not... But here you are vomiting trash knowing fully well that you brought up your case in a faceless forum.
At this point, I rest my case and I wish whoever that wants to continue assisting you GOOD LUCK!

DoNotMakeItWors:



Nne you are funny ooo .... So someone contacting you privately to offer private help has amounted to the person being the one you are fighting ba.
Now I see that you might not be as innocent as you want to make us believe if this is how you reason.
A reasonable person should have tried having conversation with the person who contacted her to know what exactly the person has to say... Whether he's the victim or not... But here you are vomiting trash knowing fully well that you brought up your case in a faceless forum.
At this point, I rest my case and I wish whoever that wants to continue assisting you GOOD LUCK!

Do you see how she changed the narration of the story. Earlier she doesn’t say she visited the guy.

Well she should do whatever she have to do. I hope in the end she doesn’t soil her image along the line.

Think before you speak, you're even supporting him, I know he's the person hiding under that Monika, the truth will reveal it self, at the end light will always overshadow darkness, nothing can stop God, you can never hide the truth.

vikgreen01:


Do you see how she changed the narration of the story. Earlier she doesn’t say she visited the guy.

Well she should do whatever she have to do. I hope in the end she doesn’t soil her image along the line.

Adeolaissacutie:
You're not smart, you created the account today, if you want people to believe you, you should have created the account several days ago, "do not make it worse" is a statement he used to threaten me via voice calls, I have proof of our voice recordings of him clearly repeating those words, next time, think before you do anything.

Mrs Smart ...
If this is how you reason,,, then I guess no one can help you.
Attacking whoever that has contrary opinion says a lot about your kind of person ...'always right and all knowing'
This account might be new but I'm not new on Nairaland (have it at the back of your mind)
This account was created yesterday because I wanted to reply to a topic which I didn't want to use my main account for (because it points to my real life nickname and I wouldn't want to be known here).
The topic I commented on that yesterday was one saying ... 'My girlfriend is about to go for NYSC, should I be worried ?' (my comment is on pg 14)

Biko go and settle your scores and don't mention me again.... Allow us to rest as we were not there when you guys started.
Maybe your case is that of 'bush meat catching the hunter'