According to some traditions, you cannot disown a child born within marriage on the basis of a DNA test. The moment you pay the bride price every child from that woman is yours. So I have to ask this question: Is it right for a man to disown a child born within marriage due to paternity fraud? What is the fate of these children involved?

Sorry Folks, I am well informed that it is the prerogative of the man in question to accept or let go of the bastard child. We learned every day and may we not fall victim to all this mess up life.

The child should be taken to their real Father once the child is disowned simple.

Which kind culture warrant illegitimate child. Let the mother search for the father of the child.

This is true in some cultures.

But paternity fraud is a ground for disowning a child and if the child is the fruit of adultery, the marriage can be ended.

DaddyRochie1642:
The child should be taken to their real Father once the child is disowned simple.

. Some traditions and cultures may not accept that, again what is the fate of the children involved?

How many men will tolerate such?most men will damn such culture and send them with their mother packing.It is not and never right

sirjamesjnr:
. Some traditions and cultures may not accept that, again what is the fate of the children involved?

If the person is touched by the Holy Spirit, the person can decide to Carter for the child, as long as the person was touched by the Holy Spirit to do so.

People respond to Betrayal differently, and most of the time, people always seem to respond to Betrayal in a Violent manner.

DaddyRochie1642:



If the person is touched by the Holy Spirit, the person can decide to Carter for the child, as long as the person was touched by the Holy Spirit to do so.

People respond to Betrayal differently, and most of the time, people always seem to respond to Betrayal in a Violent manner.

. I will prefer to send the woman away quietly but still, take care of the kid as I will see it as my responsibility.

deep... but both has to go cuz illegal can never be legal

E be like say the tradition dey mad. Nonsense!

DaddyRochie1642:



If the person is touched by the Holy Spirit, the person can decide to Carter for the child, as long as the person was touched by the Holy Spirit to do so.

People respond to Betrayal differently, and most of the time, people always seem to respond to Betrayal in a Violent manner.

as Nigeria is concern, the holy spirit can be the man's best friend or him neighbor ooo

Very funny tradition. Actually, most people nolonger live by tradition o....theres really no time to say no time anymore

sirjamesjnr:
According to some traditions, you cannot disown a child born within marriage on the basis of a DNA test. The moment you pay brideprice every child from that woman is yours. So I have to ask this question: Is it right for a man to disown a child born within marriage due to paternity fraud? What is the fate of these children involved?

Which culture is that? Stop lying. No culture in Nigeria will insist you keep taking care of a child once it's shown the kid is not yours once a DNA test is done.

Stop telling lies for clicks and likes. Spits

Kajaard:


Which culture is that? Stop lying. No culture in Nigeria will insist you keep taking care of a child once it's shown the kid is not yours once a DNA test is done.

Stop telling lies for clicks and likes. Spits

. Maybe your elder should educate you. Now run around boy

sirjamesjnr:
. Maybe your elder should educate you. Now run around boy

Answer the question you born liar.

I don't know for others o but to me as a Deltan n proudly Urhobo, I can't own what is not mine. There's difference between my child n my spouse's child bcoz u can't love both equally no matter how hard u try. Hatred is wat such a child will get due to betrayal from d mother, it's better to dissolve d union dan to stay under one roof with a sell out. I pity pple dat says u can forgive n accept ur spouse n d illegitimate child as ur own. We will forgive but will never accept dem into our lives. I rest my case.

Caramia2020:
I don't know for others o but to me as a Deltan n proudly Urhobo, I can't own what is not mine. There's a difference between my child n my spouse's child bcoz u can't love both equally no matter how hard u try. Hatred is what such a child will get due to betrayal from d mother, it's better to dissolve d union dan to stay under one roof with a sell-out. I pity people dat says u can forgive n accept ur spouse n d illegitimate child as ur own. We will forgive but will never accept dem into our lives. I rest my case.

. What then happens to who pays the bride price has the right to own the child?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_U056KWgW2w

The holy spirit should touch wives to not cheat and conceive.

DaddyRochie1642:



If the person is touched by the Holy Spirit, the person can decide to Carter for the child, as long as the person was touched by the Holy Spirit to do so.

People respond to Betrayal differently, and most of the time, people always seem to respond to Betrayal in a Violent manner.

sirjamesjnr:
. What then happens to who pays the bride price has the right to own the child?

No o, na who give belle get pikin.

Yes, a man should disown any illegitimate children that ain't his.

sirjamesjnr:
. Some traditions and cultures may not accept that, again what is the fate of the children involved?

Dude, if you were to be in such mess, what would you have done?

sirjamesjnr:
. I will prefer to send the woman away quietly but still, take care of the kid as I will see it as my responsibility.

How exactly is this supposed to work: "sending the woman away and wanting to carter for the child."

MufasaLion:


Dude, if you were to be in such mess, what would you have done?

. If I adopt and take care of less privileged kids, why won't I take care of a child who my spouse bring home? I won't punish the child because of the sin of the mother. Trust me I will never live in the same roof with an unfaithful wife.

sirjamesjnr:
. If I adopt and take care of less privileged kids, why won't I take care of a child who my spouse bring home? I won't punish the child because of the sin of the mother. Trust me I will never live in the same roof with an unfaithful wife.

Taking up responsibility of less privileged is different from that of a child that your wife brought home as a result of her infidelity.

I would never take both wife and the child/children!

sirjamesjnr:
According to some traditions, you cannot disown a child born within marriage on the basis of a DNA test. The moment you pay brideprice every child from that woman is yours. So I have to ask this question: Is it right for a man to disown a child born within marriage due to paternity fraud? What is the fate of these children involved?

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Where do they practise this yeye tradition please??

The truth is, there is no culture that practice or encourage such madness.

Women should learn how to be decent abeg. Stop making arguments for this insanity.

sirjamesjnr:
According to some traditions, you cannot disown a child born within marriage on the basis of a DNA test. The moment you pay brideprice every child from that woman is yours. So I have to ask this question: Is it right for a man to disown a child born within marriage due to paternity fraud? What is the fate of these children involved?

That tradition is madness unlimited. Marriage is an agreement predicated on faithfulness, sincerity and openness. If a woman brings home the child of another man the marriage is nullified. In biblical times both the woman and the adulterer will be stoned to death for this thus freeing the man cheated on to marry another woman. The children involved in paternity fraud should be delivered to the real father, shikena. The child did not fall from the sky two idiots came together to produce the child so they have to bear responsibility of raising the child and in the event that the secret of the paternity fraud is revealed when the child is already an adult the child should be promptly informed for him/her to decide what to do!

Even if none of them are his? Which silly traditions are these?

sirjamesjnr:
According to some traditions, you cannot disown a child born within marriage on the basis of a DNA test. The moment you pay brideprice every child from that woman is yours. So I have to ask this question: Is it right for a man to disown a child born within marriage due to paternity fraud? What is the fate of these children involved?

I don't know

InTheCloudySky:
Even if none of them are his? Which silly traditions are these?

One call to an elderly person in the family will shock you. I was surprised myself.

efficiencie:


That tradition is madness unlimited. Marriage is an agreement predicated on faithfulness, sincerity and openness. If a woman brings home the child of another man the marriage is nullified. In biblical times both the woman and the adulterer will be stoned to death for this thus freeing the man cheated on to marry another woman. The children involved in paternity fraud should be delivered to the real father, shikena. The child did not fall from the sky two idiots came together to produce the child so they have to bear responsibility of raising the child and in the event that the secret of the paternity fraud is revealed when the child is already an adult the child should be promptly informed for him/her to decide what to do!

I am making a case here for the innocent child.