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What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by Bluntsisi: 2:25pm On Sep 05, 2021 |
Pardon my wrong grammar. I need you guys to give me some better suggestions on the way forward. I can't just control myself whenever my husband is around. In fact, I can't practice natural family planning methods, because I can't resist the urge whenever it comes up either in me or in him. (Even if I'm not in the mood, once he is in the mood, no matter the time I am in my cycle, I will get in the mood immediately - and that's how it is for him too. No matter how tired he is, once I'm in the mood, he gets strength from no where, and that's how we will continue firing non-stop until our bones are both dead). The main issue now is that, I don't like condoms, or daily contraceptives, or all these morning-after pills, and I don't want to sterilize myself because I might still want a last baby after 6 or 7 years from now. The worst of it all is that these urges are always spontaneously unplanned. We usually don't just know how they start. From normal daily gistings to more normal gistings, and the next thing, serious urges from no where would just overcome us. I don't want to have more kids. I have had enough already. I am really very grateful that my husband takes good care of me during all my pregnancies. But I have had enough kids for now. I want to be enjoying him non-stop without having to remind him that the timing is not right.,, after which I would still rush back to him to calm my own burning nerves. Pardon me for my ranting. I really need help. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by Bluntsisi: 2:25pm On Sep 05, 2021 |
Lalasticlala.. |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by Bluntsisi: 2:26pm On Sep 05, 2021 |
Lalasticlala, please help me |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by tk4rd: 2:30pm On Sep 05, 2021 |
Hmmmm |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by Goldbw122(m): 2:31pm On Sep 05, 2021 |
Ok after having the last child, you can flip your womb, but talk to your husband about decision first. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by Papa12(m): 2:58pm On Sep 05, 2021 |
Now this is serious ![]() |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by Bluntsisi: 3:30pm On Sep 05, 2021 |
Goldbw122:I don’t think I need a womb-flip at-all. I have had the last child for now. At least, I don’t need another baby within the next four years. Are there no long-lasting medicines that i can take or inject? 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by sisisioge: 3:48pm On Sep 05, 2021 |
Visit a family hospital, they will help you. By the way, it is nice that you and your husband still have the hots for each other. 12 Likes |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by yuping(m): 4:15pm On Sep 05, 2021 |
O boy hmmmm see gist where this guy make dey give chair na here I dey. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by MufasaLion: 6:12pm On Sep 05, 2021 |
Go to a clinic and meet with a physician. |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by ogashman(m): 8:00pm On Sep 05, 2021 |
Encourage your man to man to learn the withdrawal method 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by Bluntsisi: 8:09pm On Sep 05, 2021 |
ogashman:I don't even like him to remove his thing after coming sef. We stay intact together and wait for the next turn. So, I don't think withdrawal is what I really need 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by Bluntsisi: 8:11pm On Sep 05, 2021 |
MufasaLion:Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by Bluntsisi: 8:14pm On Sep 05, 2021 |
sisisioge:Thanks so much. He's my best friend. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by ogashman(m): 8:21pm On Sep 05, 2021 |
Bluntsisi: There is no way u did refuse condoms and other contraceptives plus withdrawal method and not get pregnant in the long run 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by Ishilove: 8:52pm On Sep 05, 2021 |
Madam, go for family planning at a family clinic. Nairaland is not a hospital. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by Bluntsisi: 11:35am On Sep 06, 2021 |
ogashman:That is why I am seeking medical alternatives. No natural methods had worked. We can't just resist. |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by Bluntsisi: 11:38am On Sep 06, 2021 |
Ishilove:Thanks. That's what I'm considering. |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by Vision101(m): 1:12pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
This is nice. Go to family planning clinic. But madam small small now. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by Pinkzebra: 6:14pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
ogashman: This hot babe want no method of contraceptive but don't want to fall pregnant. Wahala dey ooo |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by Pinkzebra: 6:16pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Bluntsisi: You just describe my hubby and I with your story .I get worried , too . But will be seeing a family doctor soon for family planning . 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by debbydams(f): 7:38pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Papa12:seriously serious |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by debbydams(f): 7:42pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Ishilove:family planning is not advisable.. |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by cococandy(f): 7:46pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
1) let hubby get the snip since you guys already have enough kids. 2) Nexplanon in your arm. Last for 3 years. 3) Depo provera Intramuscular every 3 months (use only for a maximum of 2 years at a time). Take a break and use something else before you go back to it if you must. 4) I don’t like IUDs but they work for many women. Last for 3-10 years depending on the type. So that’s an option 5) daily pills. Lol. I could never but it works for some ladies. You might be able to adhere to that. It just seems so inconvenient 6) always have plan B (levonorgestrel) in your medicine cabinet. For emergencies. Always. It will save your behind once in a while 3 Likes |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by cococandy(f): 7:46pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
debbydams:explain |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by debbydams(f): 8:10pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
cococandy:e don tey wey I leave graduate and I no use my license work na KOfood stuff I dey sell now, brain don empty,,ask about food stuff I'm very good, all i know is family planning is not advisable the bad effect is more than the good,,and too much contraceptive is not good too, condom is the best we condom that will look like flesh to flesh |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by Karleb(m): 8:15pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Go to hospital and do family planning. All these epistles ontop wetin everybody know. |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by descarado: 9:01pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Hospital. There are trained personnel ready to help. What worked for A may not work for B so specialists to the rescue. |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by cococandy(f): 9:59pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
debbydams: I mean most birth control does have side effects. And yes condoms are physiologically better. But the side effects of using other means of birth control are not worse than what they prevent which is unwanted pregnancies. Pregnancy is a HUGE deal so it’s technically worse than birth control side effects unless the couple are intentionally wanting to get pregnant 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by Ishilove: 9:20am On Sep 07, 2021 |
debbydams:Why? |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by Ishilove: 9:21am On Sep 07, 2021 |
cococandy:What are the side effects? |
Re: What Is The Best Long-lasting Contraceptive Method Suitable For Me? by debbydams(f): 9:34am On Sep 07, 2021 |
cococandy:hu mm mm |
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