Share your thoughts and experience let learn from you.

To trust any female or love male again especially in a relationship,

Never to trust Buhari ever again in my life. Wailers warned me that year.

I do good samaritan and lend or even sometimes gives out money...

But when it's my turn to borrow money from people nah story, they feel because I give out freely, i can't be broke too...

I have learnt to keep my money too even if i have alot to spare

I learnt never to interfere in a relationship fight no matter how close your are to the couple...


That sh*t landed me in the worst relationship I have ever had in my life!

Do not trust women

Ok

OP come and share yours first, you can't start a thread and expect us to start sharing our own first....


Don't let us drag you before you start talking ooo

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Bola146:
To trust any female or love male again especially in a relationship,

Don't vow yet

Sapa is d best teacher..

Fx

Don't lend more than what you can't forfeit.
Don't sign as guarantor for anyone not your nuclear family.
Don't send money to someone through anybody, it must be direct.
Save for a rainy day, live below your means.

A hungry stomach and an empty pocket teaches the best of lessons

Trust is something you gotta earn on the street but
Trust nobody that's what I learned from the streets
Even Paul no trust Peter
Pastor say he's talking to God
I say put am for speaker

In short, I stop trusting folks a long time ago.

1. That FAMILY may not be what it should be, but you must remain your best all the same. However, don't allow your enemy get the
best of you BY BRINGING OUT THE WORST IN YOU...

2. That MOST of life's battles are in your mind, win the battle of your mind, and you will win 80% of life's battles...

Don't you ever date ladies in their early 20s. Omo!!!! I wan mad

Keep written receipts and agreements even when dealing with friends

When you want to get married, pay attention to dissenting voices even though the people don't like you or you feel they don't like you.

And more importantly, pay attention to your own perceptions: it is not everyone you must get into a relationship with and it is not everyone you must have sex with. Infact, it is not everyone you should be talking with.

And most importantly, stand up and speak up for yourself, no one will. I did not learn this the hard way, it is the reason why I surmounted some of life's toughest challenges.

This last one is honourable mention: Never disclose how much you have in savings to ANY friend. They are not asking because they care, but they are asking to be sure you can be useful when they need you.

People will love you and support you when it's beneficial.
You would have a lot of friends when all is rosy ,but when times are hard you're on your own.

Stopping addiction

If I start to talk, when I go finish?

People are not what they seem. The worst are the ones that claim spiritual! Let me repeat myself; the worst of them are the ones that claim spiritual - any small thing, God told me this, God told me that.

Long story short, lost close to 2m in an investment with a Christian friend. Then the story changed. Started to see unchristian attitudes from the person.

Learnt that your family and friends( especially friends) are not your real customers when you start a business or have one, they rather buy from other people than buy from you!

But when they wanna buy from you they tend to buy on credit cause the other person doesn’t give em credit!


I thank God for God

Certain opportunities come only once in a lifetime so always be ready to grab them

Be obedient to spiritual warnings.

You see those strange people that come across your way be it mad folks, white garment pastors, Alfas, in short those that come to give you any warning.

Please I beg you in whatever you believe in, even if you're an atheist, please learn to listen and obey.

That life isn't fair, and thinking people will be there for you because you've once been there for them is setting oneself up for depression.

That there is a thin line between poverty between children and parents.

That no matter the situation, people will always push their own interests first before yours, no matter the relationship you have with them.

That nobody loves you or wants to see you succeed more than them, infact, your success could infuriate them.

That people will not ordinarily show you a way that they're earning from except if they get to have more money from such actions.

Life sucks indeed !!!