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His Marriage Has Finally Crash by Xj2020: 9:00pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
The 3rd of September is significant to someone I know given that it was 10 years ago (2011) that he got married to his wife. Exactly 10 years after, instead of marriage anniversary the wife ran mad on same date. Thank God that she is okay now. He has been disrespected, abused and treated with disdain by his wife, her mum, step father and step siblings all these years. He was even accused by the wife's step father of being responsible for his wife madness. Mind you, she is a product of a broken home. Haven taken everything in his stride and sacrificed everything to keep his family together, he thinks it's time to call it quit before he dies before his time and would welcome useful suggestions on how he could go about it. Children expenses would be taken care of. The marriage was carried out in the Court registry. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by Kobojunkie: 9:04pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Xj2020:His wife ran mad? What exactly happened to the woman and how did she get better? ![]() Why does he want to quit the marriage? ![]() He needs to file for a divorce if it is what he wants to do. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by NwaAmaikpe: 9:05pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
![]() I don't know what other advice you want. You can't completely cure a mad person, take NwaAmaikpe as an example. So if you expect me to tell you to endure and continue loving a mad woman then it means you must have contracted some of the madness from her. Ogbeni leave that woman and japa before she slices up your preek like Kilishi one night when you're asleep. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by justfriends: 9:09pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Xj2020: |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by justfriends: 9:11pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
The wife has regain sanity NwaAmaikpe: |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by KpagoGIN(m): 9:14pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Let me digest this well and maintain my peace before he choke me. P.S this very topic na for elders. |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by greenie77: 9:17pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Why did the wife's step father accuse him of being responsible for his wife madness? 3 Likes |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by Xj2020: 9:26pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
That I cannot say. What I know for sure was that the step father never supported the marriage right from the onset. He is a greedy fellow that believes that whoever that intends to marry her step daughter must have a lot of money. My guy doesn't have that type of money greenie77: 1 Like |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by JimmyDarmody: 9:50pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
I am short of words. |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by sisisioge: 10:30pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Hmmmm...so your friend frustrated his wife to the point of mental illness and he wants to run now. ..it is well. Well, for everyone's sanity better to separate. Let him find a lawyer. 2 Likes |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by Fundamentalist: 10:43pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
The story does not add up. We need details. 7 Likes |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by ahnie: 10:47pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Here for the comments. Thanks! |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by wunmi590(m): 10:51pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
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Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by Xj2020: 2:43am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Be more specific about the kind of details you need and I promise to do my best to provide it Fundamentalist: 1 Like |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by Xj2020: 2:48am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Who said he frustrated his wife? The matter seems to be more spiritual than physical. Besides, she had barely settled down after spending the past 3weeks holidaying in her home town in her mummsy house. There was no argument, fight or quarrel whatsoever sisisioge: 1 Like |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by cococandy(f): 3:22am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Mental illness is such a difficult thing both for the patient and especially for those around them who have to care for them but don’t understand what they are going through.Laying accusations around doesn’t help. OP you can file for a divorce if you’re looking to not be married to her anymore. But who will physically care for the children? Paying money is not enough if their mom has bouts of mental illness. They need a hands-on parents 24/7. That’s gonna have to be you. By reason of mental instability, your wife may not be allowed primary custody of the children. What’s your plan to be around for the children? Would have helped if you had the support of your in-laws. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by Xj2020: 6:47am On Sep 13, 2021 |
I said a friend and not me. You're right, her mum has an history of mental and emotional imbalance. Though he would have love filed for divorce, he wouldn't want to do that now given her present condition and concern for his kids cococandy: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by cococandy(f): 6:56am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Xj2020: Sorry But you get the message. Pass it onto your friend. Better yet, send him the link 1 Like |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by Kingcalls: 7:21am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Avoid women from broken homes, if u want peace.... they easily give up 1 Like |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by RightToReject(m): 7:22am On Sep 13, 2021 |
He has to tell himself the truth and base his decision to quit the union or stand by his wife and maintain the union in general on it - it'll amount to a betrayal of the highest order should he abandon her at this juncture if she has been a good wife. The main issue they have in the union, according to your submission, is abuse/respect or lack of it. If the disrespect and abuse that have always been meted out against him by his wife and co stem from his weakness; then, he's at fault and should mend his ways and give the union a new lease of life. If they, however, stem from the wife and co weakness, he should discard the wife with alacrity. |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by BEANSndPLANTAIN(m): 8:05am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Just pass by in silence |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by greenie77: 8:25am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Xj2020: If he finally gets to divorce his wife and based on her mental health condition, he will have to take custody of their children and make sure the children get to see their mother. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: His Marriage Has Finally Crash by Crossroad1(m): 8:28am On Sep 13, 2021 |
So he was disrespected by his wife before she ran mad and now she is OK again or partially OK?. To me, I dey see frustration pro max very soon |
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