James4358:
I Will bro.. This weekend. Thanks

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year. Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders.. Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank. He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints.. How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow. Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result. Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

oke2018:
By doing so you may be blessed beyond measure ,that's what the yorubas called Sara

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year. Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders.. Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank. He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints.. How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow. Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result. Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

FairlyUSEDpussy:


When next he appears........
Tell him to calm down and explain everything to him.....
After all u weren't there while he made the pledge.......

sisisioge:


Same place they've been meeting....in his dreams .. But really,how can the man be inconsiderate in death? How spiteful!

Based on my believe, I don't think it was the man... The man is dead and gone... If truly he was troubled, then it was a familiar spirit that was responsible not his dad... all he need to do is pray and cancel everything that will disturb his sleep at night..
before that, he should ensure his mattress was in good order.. u know what I mean..u can't sleep on a mattress that looks like a mat and wouldn't have nightmares

There's no more connection between the living and the dead when they have gone to the other side...If OP is a Christian, he doesn't need to see any pastor, he should just pray..

Besides why was the so called dad not tormenting the other sibling that doesn't care.. has he thought about that? Or spirit no dey reach overseas

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year. Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders.. Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank. He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints.. How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow. Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result. Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year. Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders.. Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank. He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints.. How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow. Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result. Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

Kobojunkie:
A dead person's image tells you in a dream to go fulfill a vow and you self go carry yourself go do am?

ROFLMAO

Kobojunkie:
Or he could inadvertently doom his own children to experience the same after his death.

A vow is a contract/covenant between the one who made it and the one who it is made to. Any third-party that attempts to interrupt/upset that agreement is likely to have himself to blame..

Now something comes flogging him in his sleep about the paying of a vow that he never signed on to or knew of, and you want him to go get "blessed" beyond measure by submitting to it?

I am not the superstitious type, but even I know this does not make superstitious-kinda sense.

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year. Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders.. Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank. He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints.. How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow. Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result. Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year. Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders.. Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank. He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints.. How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow. Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result. Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

bukatyne:

@Bold:

What if the father looped him in the vow?
Like if he is unable to pay, XYZ (the OP) would fulfill it on his behalf?

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year. Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders.. Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank. He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints.. How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow. Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result. Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

Richy4:


Based on my believe, I don't think it was the man... The man is dead and gone... If truly he was troubled, then it was a familiar spirit that was responsible not his dad... all he need to do is pray and cancel everything that will disturb his sleep at night..
before that, he should ensure his mattress was in good order.. u know what I mean..u can't sleep on a mattress that looks like a mat and wouldn't have nightmares

There's no more connection between the living and the dead when they have gone to the other side...If OP is a Christian, he doesn't need to see any pastor, he should just pray..

Besides why was the so called dad not tormenting the other sibling that doesn't care.. has he thought about that? Or spirit no dey reach overseas

Jerryherd:



Hahahaaa

Naso my Cousin also had dreams till he donated the chairs his late father promised one village ECWA Church, he even had to write donated unbehalf of elder Olu, in a sticker on all the chairs

You'd be shocked how your furtune would change after fulfilling your father's pledge


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sisisioge:


This makes a lot of sense. I hope he doesnt waste his money....he should just settle his mind. Imagine what will happen if he continues to get flogged after paying the ransome....that will be too bad.

He might be flogged even after the payment because he's not incharge of what he was dreaming about..

I once had horrible nightmares during my youth service days long time ago in Bayelsa state..
I was posted to a remote village.. there, I discovered that the mosquitoes in that state are of special breeds... U know the type that doesn't care if U were putting on trousers or sucks...
To make the matter worse, I was given a kind of mattress that was as narrow as a footpath and as flat as a mat.. every night I kept on dreaming how I was being chased by a snake, if snakes were not chasing me, I will be falling inside a pit or I will be seeing millipede crawling near me. I usually wake up more especially that millipede one to double check... This were some of the things I hated in my life..

For two weeks I could not sleep so I told the principal that he either buy a mattress for me or give me 1 month to go and look for money to buy myself a mattress..

The man knew that I was looking for an excuse to go home for one month .. he bought a New mattress for me, that was how my nightmares ended...

That was why I also asked people the kind of mattress they were using whenever they complain about nightmares..