chatinent:


We may not like the work sb does, yes, it's normal..but understanding that your liking it or disliking it doesn't count should help us to stop expecting much from the lives of others.

Do you know how many hours I have to stay in the scorching sun to sell three rolls of sausages in the competitive road of Lagos traffic?

I have to come back sometimes with ₦400 and ₦50k worth of insults from drivers, and generational curses from cyclists who I often double-cross to sell my gala?

Do you see how rich I am to be worried about how others likes me?

Iyaebe:
Let's be truthful to ourselves, we all have that careers of men that immediately turn us off on finding out. Mine goes thus: - Anything media is a big turn off, Bankers, The ' I work from home' groups, Teachers, Bitcoin traders and other Internet businesses, Car dealers.Please add yours,no insults.

Iyaebe:
Let's be truthful to ourselves, we all have that careers of men that immediately turn us off on finding out. Mine goes thus: - Anything media is a big turn off, Bankers, The ' I work from home' groups, Teachers, Bitcoin traders and other Internet businesses, Car dealers.Please add yours,no insults.

Iyaebe:
Let's be truthful to ourselves, we all have that careers of men that immediately turn us off on finding out. Mine goes thus: - Anything media is a big turn off, Bankers, The ' I work from home' groups, Teachers, Bitcoin traders and other Internet businesses, Car dealers.Please add yours,no insults.

Differentiate:
No offense pls What is your occupation.?

Iyaebe:
We are not talking about my occupation here.

Iyaebe:
We are not talking about my occupation here.

Magnoliaa:
None...that I can think of. As long as it is a legit job and source of livelihood. When I like someone, everything else is secondary... So maybe if you'd asked this question like, 'jobs you don't like' or 'work you don't fancy' or 'careers you dislike' bla bla bla...but in dating? I don't know. I can't think of any that turns me off.

dingbang:
spoken like an adult.

Ritzybeauty:
Your own no be here oo.. Lol, tell me you belong to any force and I am out..

Iyaebe:
Let's be truthful to ourselves, we all have that careers of men that immediately turn us off on finding out. Mine goes thus: - Anything media is a big turn off, Bankers, The ' I work from home' groups, Teachers, Bitcoin traders and other Internet businesses, Car dealers.Please add yours,no insults.

Differentiate:

No offense pls
What is your occupation.?

Iyaebe:
I cautioned against this, stop it.

dingbang:
excuse me..TF you say?

Iyaebe:
Come off it,don't be stubborn Ben

dingbang:
spoken like an adult.

haslaw:




Wonders shall never end. Even all these urgent 2K sef dey get mouth.

anthonyuncle:
Iyaebe! see them here! na them be this

Magnoliaa:
None...that I can think of. As long as it is a legit job and source of livelihood. When I like someone, everything else is secondary... So maybe if you'd asked this question like, 'jobs you don't like' or 'work you don't fancy' or 'careers you dislike' bla bla bla...but in dating? I don't know. I can't think of any that turns me off.

pocohantas:
1) Car dealers: These ones would drive different cars they want to sell and won’t let you hear word of how they have OWNED a million cars. Majority are very fake.

2) Contractors: What exactly are you contracting? Everyday it is stories and mood swings. They haven’t signed his proposal, blablabla. When money comes, they will just spend it voom. Two weeks later, back to square one.

3) Any illegal job, including the ones that have been normalized (e.g) yahoo boys.

4) Politicians and pastors.

I will pick Baba Saliu the mechanic or Chukwuma the okporoko seller before the aforementioned men. Not like it matters, but you asked.

chatinent:
I hawk gala to put food on my table. So I should commit suicide because sb doesn't like it?

olamidedivotee:


Lie gently biko

Thunder is back from vacation

Magnoliaa:

Lol. It feels somehow sha. And really uncomfortable. I mean, people are just out there trying to live and do something, I will now ''sit down'' to be talking about whether me, I find what they are doing attractive or turning me on? Like. Ki lo kan aye? It leaves a judgmental taste in my mouth somewhat. I don't feel like I have that right.

Matter of fact, I think there's a 'shaming' undertone to it - it's just my opinion. Because I'd feel unsettled too if guys started talking about how women who hawk and sell agbos, okrika tops or wigs or are career women who travel around the world, models, actresses and lawyers turn them off. I'd even be the no.1 fighter in such a thread... I mean, what's their business with women's works? Women who do not give a fk about them? I don't know how the fine line between preferences and shaming can be towed, though. I guess it's the former the OP had in mind.

Iyaebe:
Let's be truthful to ourselves, we all have that careers of men that immediately turn us off on finding out. Mine goes thus: - Anything media is a big turn off, Bankers, The ' I work from home' groups, Teachers, Bitcoin traders and other Internet businesses, Car dealers.Please add yours,no insults.

Iyaebe:
Anything wrong in been a housewife?its a whole work itself, I bet you don't have an idea.

Iyaebe:
[s]Let's be truthful to ourselves, we all have that careers of men that immediately turn us off on finding out. Mine goes thus: - Anything media is a big turn off, Bankers, The ' I work from home' groups, Teachers, Bitcoin traders and other Internet businesses, Car dealers.Please add yours,no insults.[/s]

dingbang:
i'll just ignore you because you don't match up.

Ritzybeauty:


LOL.. Hope your mother and sisters are involved

pocohantas:
1) Car dealers: These ones would drive different cars they want to sell and won’t let you hear word of how they have OWNED a million cars. Majority are very fake.

2) Contractors: What exactly are you contracting? Everyday it is stories and mood swings. They haven’t signed his proposal, blablabla. When money comes, they will just spend it voom. Two weeks later, back to square one.

3) Any illegal job, including the ones that have been normalized (e.g) yahoo boys.

4) Politicians and pastors.

I will pick Baba Saliu the mechanic or Chukwuma the okporoko seller before the aforementioned men. Not like it matters, but you asked.