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Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Unbothered14: 3:33pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
bunnae:Iyaebe and this her particular topic is a huge turn-off....Imagine teachers fall in that category..smh.. Maybe beacause of their small pay check...What brings legit money on a lady's table can't be a turn-off for me, rather her characters and attitude will. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by 989900: 3:38pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Iyaebe: LOL . . . we should talk about it. |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by 989900: 3:39pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Sit down! |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by GeepyEnsemble(m): 3:44pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
You, what do you do for a living ? Plz pocohantas: 1 Like |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by pocohantas(f): 3:45pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
GeepyEnsemble: You can create another thread for that. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by dammyllare(m): 3:47pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
HRHQueenPhil: Even the jobless you whose signature is your account details begging for money still get choosy? � ![]() So if any of those listed up there decide to send money to your Gtbank account, will you reject it 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by DarkCaesar(m): 3:53pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
truthsayer009:and some have become paupers too It’s all down to Alubarika |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Nobody: 3:55pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
monex:Did you see runs in my post? Why did your mind go there. |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Nobody: 3:55pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Comedian2019:Na my mouth you wan hear say Baale wife Na witch |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
kokanepyramid:Not every lady doing such business are into runs,change your mindset |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by dammyllare(m): 3:57pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
pocohantas: LOL... In a way you made me feel bad ![]() Most civil engineers who don't function as consultants have poor dress sense. How do you make yourself dress well when you spend your week days (Monday - Saturday) on sites. You always have to wear some old jeans and tops as you cannot afford to be changing clothes every month.. We only get to wear our nice clothes on Sundays and belief me it has affected a whole lot of them. My babe actually helps in buying clothes for me cos I can't remember the last time I bought a few on my own. I have come to never shame any type of hustle because Men are giving their all out there to provide for the family. Most of your dream jobs out there, when you visit his workplace and see numerous insult and abuse your man goes through just to ensure he brings back that money, you would shed some tears... To all the Men doing any type of legal hustling out there, you guys are the real MVP. 6 Likes |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Omoluabiii(m): 3:59pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Iyaebe:Just listen to yourself..... Shiooooor |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Omoluabiii(m): 4:01pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Bouz: monkey no understand how baba take dey grow. |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by dammyllare(m): 4:03pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
missidy: ![]() ![]() I really want to learn from you. Thanks |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Nobody: 4:04pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Omoluabiii(m): 4:06pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Turn off is a sign of ignorance and stupidity....
You dont need it.... |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by 989900: 4:06pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
dammyllare: I weak . . . ![]() |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by mentro: 4:06pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Doradorwa:Awesome. Can I send a dm? |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Mboi: 4:08pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Iyaebe:You said "No insult" but know you're not making sense. I strongly believe that you're still in school. Go and finish your school first and start feeding yourself before you talk about what men do to earn a living. Nairaland has made children to be dipping their hands inside the same pot where elders eat from because we don't see their faces. |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Nchabuomo: 4:16pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: To be very honest with you, the last thing I think about in a partner is their career. Once what they are doing is legitimate. This is my personal opinion, people are not defined by what they do especially in a poor country like Nigeria where most people are in jobs to keep body and soul together. The most important thing for me is: Is the person a good person? If you feel your partner will be sleeping around then it's not about their job but who they are as a person. Ajo mmadu bu ajo mmadu 1 Like |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Ritzybeauty: You still don't reply messages on IG abi |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by pocohantas(f): 4:22pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
dammyllare: Nobody is shaming anybody, Sir. Continue giving your all to your job. Thank you. 2 Likes |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Nobody: 4:25pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
kokanepyramid: You no mention massage. |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by spiceadole: 4:33pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Iyaebe: I am a medical doctor. And my plan was to marry a fellow medical doctor, an engineer,a lawyer,an accountant,a pilot or a geologist. I ended up with a doctor(first choice). I was turned off by men with certain careers, of course. Some of which were : Politicians,Media personalities, Actors and musicians,Chef,Sportsmen, Military and paramilitary, educationists(teachers & lecturers),those who claim to be "bloggers, influencers, freelancers",those awon PA to the PA to the PA nonsense, sailors,all forms of "businessmen". It wasn't about what they earned. I didn't just want a spouse from these people,for personal reasons. I once met a guy who was a chef in a 5-star hotel..he was doing very well,had his personal house and a car.Immediately,I knew what he did,I got turned off and I shunned him. It's not always about money. The way men are wailing on this thread that women can actually have a choice. Same men who say they can't marry Actresses,bankers and marketers,nurses,salonists..labelling them as pros.titutes. Why this thread dey choke them? Funny Naija men.lol 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
spiceadole:I'm actually happy to read this, you perfectly understood where I was coming from 2 Likes |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Kelechi009: 4:39pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: Hi beautiful, I am a mechanic, please can I meet you? I don't do Yahoo & I also don't go Crypto I am a God-fearing guy, 6FT & a little chocolate in complexion. I have one small car I am managing & I do business hear & there. I have sent you a PM, kindly respond thanks. Edit: I'm also a graduate |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by spiceadole: 4:39pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
AmosFishon: What you earn doesn't matter. I will choose a lawyer or accountant who earns far less than you do. What are you developing? 4 Likes |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Darkmode64: 4:40pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Doradorwa:Nice one jare. Who the hell is even turned off by someone who works from home? Is the Op any better sef. If only you knew how crazy Lagos traffic is. |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Darkmode64: 4:41pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
spiceadole: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm sure he meant web/app developer |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by dammyllare(m): 4:53pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
pocohantas: Thanks dear, I don't have a job though but I have a career and a company I am building. I am very comfortable all thanks to God. I am a young Man and I have been home all week as I work for myself, I have few staff handling a few project for me. But the truth is I have had to work myself out to be here and a lot of Nigerians are doing that too. Talking about job security, sincerely only a lazy person dwell on that. For us on the line of business, make x10 of a good salary earnings a year.. Your thinking should be on investment, setting up a good future for yourself and unborn kids. I don't want to see myself working around in my 50s except maybe I venture into politics. Let your investment bring good cash for you while you also have capable hands running your firms/businesses. |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by dammyllare(m): 5:02pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
spiceadole: Nice of you.... But it is a bit relative We should agree same law doesn't guide men/women in this nation. For most ladies; passion, desire, strong will e.t.c usually pushes them into a particular job except it got so desperate where no one is particularly responsible for their bills. For Men, it isn't same... Nigeria men are one of the most judged from what I know and read about. A lot of pressure on them to succeed, to pay bills, to be responsible for siblings and finally to own a family. Desperation pushes so many men into what they do these days. Agreed, we all have a particular career we wouldn't want to see our spouses in but you need to be in a man's shoes to feel that exactly. I hated Police so much but at a period in my life when I got desperate, I wanted to try it out ![]() But the way the O. P actually placed it made that defence a little poor. It's a cloudy Wednesday abeg, Hope we still have those jabs available at your working place Doc ![]() |
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Sixfeetbelle: 5:21pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Nchabuomo: A person's job most times is defined by their character. Just because you want to survive doesn't mean it's every job you'll accept nah. People are different like that. |
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