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Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Unbothered14: 3:33pm On Sep 15, 2021
bunnae:

As in ehn, I find this topic highly judgmental and illogical coming from someone who knows the economic situation of Nigeria. You would be surprised that the op and those who would say yes to this post have not even gotten to the employment stage yet. Lots of people in tech work from home, people render services to foreign countries from home in this hopeless country. Legit jobs oh. Do not be close-minded Iyaebe. I still do not understand what people have against bankers, you all should stop talking down on peeps who are trying their best to make a living.

I just even came across teachers in the post. Like teachers? This is one occupation that should not be talked down but encouraged.
Iyaebe and this her particular topic is a huge turn-off....Imagine teachers fall in that category..smh..


Maybe beacause of their small pay check...What brings legit money on a lady's table can't be a turn-off for me, rather her characters and attitude will.

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Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by 989900: 3:38pm On Sep 15, 2021
Iyaebe:
We are not talking about my occupation here.

LOL . . . we should talk about it.
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by 989900: 3:39pm On Sep 15, 2021
Iyaebe:
I cautioned against this, stop it.

Sit down!
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by GeepyEnsemble(m): 3:44pm On Sep 15, 2021
You, what do you do for a living ? Plz
pocohantas:
1) Car dealers: These ones would drive different cars they want to sell and won’t let you hear word of how they have OWNED a million cars. Majority are very fake.

2) Contractors: What exactly are you contracting? Everyday it is stories and mood swings. They haven’t signed his proposal, blablabla. When money comes, they will just spend it voom. Two weeks later, back to square one.

3) Any illegal job, including the ones that have been normalized (e.g) yahoo boys.

4) Politicians and pastors.

I will pick Baba Saliu the Kazeem (roadside mechanic) or Chukwuma the okporoko seller before the aforementioned men. Not like it matters, but you asked. wink


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Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by pocohantas(f): 3:45pm On Sep 15, 2021
GeepyEnsemble:
You, what do you do for a living ? Plz

You can create another thread for that.

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Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by dammyllare(m): 3:47pm On Sep 15, 2021
HRHQueenPhil:
grin grin grin grin grin
Three careers
1. Police....if u like fine pass, I get turned off by them
2. Lawyer..... Not a fan
3. Jobless&Lazy...I wonder how their manhood use to stand

Even the jobless you whose signature is your account details begging for money still get choosy? � grin

So if any of those listed up there decide to send money to your Gtbank account, will you reject it

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Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by DarkCaesar(m): 3:53pm On Sep 15, 2021
truthsayer009:


Hmm these careers you mentioned are great except maybe car dealers and its just because their sales are inconsistent. Apart from that, it's fine.

Bitcoin trading is something I would happily resign my current job for if I have good capital. People have become billionaires from Bitcoin trading.
and some have become paupers too
It’s all down to Alubarika
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Nobody: 3:55pm On Sep 15, 2021
monex:


there are actually many who do these though and are not into runs or any of sorts.
Did you see runs in my post? Why did your mind go there.
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Nobody: 3:55pm On Sep 15, 2021
Comedian2019:

Na olosho you wan talk, wey you no fit talk?
Na my mouth you wan hear say Baale wife Na witch
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Sep 15, 2021
kokanepyramid:
Did you see runs in my post? Why did your mind go there.
Not every lady doing such business are into runs,change your mindset
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by dammyllare(m): 3:57pm On Sep 15, 2021
pocohantas:


A lot of people on the internet are so sensitive today and they’ll easily go with what they want to hear, but the truth is, for your own sanity, you would most likely have a set you avoid and some people will avoid you too. The earlier you make peace with this, the better for you.

I missed out actors (or celebs) generally. Over the years I have wondered what some women find attractive in them, but I avoid them because I can’t deal with all the unsolicited publicity and drama they come with. I have met a few and one spent minutes convincing me to give him my number. He kept looking at me as if to say “Don’t you know who I am?” I recognised him even before he walked up to me, but I showed no excitement because I wasn’t excited to start with. He wished me a lovely day and left me to my demons. Except I am dating one before stardom, I won’t attempt any of them.

Any small thing, Nairaland guys will start the money talk. I wonder how much some of them even have, lol. Some things are beyond money, for me at least. And if at all it is about money, I will pick an Engineer or IT guy over a politician.

Some people do not like stay-at-home-jobs because many of them end up as recluse. Another set do not pay attention to their looks because they rarely have the need for outing clothes. It is not always about the money like guys like to insinuate. But that is understandable. Everything is a dick-measuring contest for Naija men. They are beginning to bore me real bad. embarassed embarassed

LOL... In a way you made me feel bad cheesy
Most civil engineers who don't function as consultants have poor dress sense.
How do you make yourself dress well when you spend your week days (Monday - Saturday) on sites.
You always have to wear some old jeans and tops as you cannot afford to be changing clothes every month..

We only get to wear our nice clothes on Sundays and belief me it has affected a whole lot of them.

My babe actually helps in buying clothes for me cos I can't remember the last time I bought a few on my own.

I have come to never shame any type of hustle because Men are giving their all out there to provide for the family.

Most of your dream jobs out there, when you visit his workplace and see numerous insult and abuse your man goes through just to ensure he brings back that money, you would shed some tears...

To all the Men doing any type of legal hustling out there, you guys are the real MVP.

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Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Omoluabiii(m): 3:59pm On Sep 15, 2021
Iyaebe:
lol.Can you marry a banker as wife?
Just listen to yourself..... Shiooooor
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Omoluabiii(m): 4:01pm On Sep 15, 2021
Bouz:
As in ehh, no mind the house wife.

monkey no understand how baba take dey grow.
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by dammyllare(m): 4:03pm On Sep 15, 2021
missidy:
The thread is meant for ladies, as usual the guys have come to dominate it. Everything is always about money for nairaland guys, that is why they don't have an identity outside money. OP nice topic, any career that has womanizing as their trademark, I don't accept.
cheesy cheesy :Dplease enlighten me, what career has womanizing as trademark?
I really want to learn from you. Thanks
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Nobody: 4:04pm On Sep 15, 2021
Iyaebe:
Not every lady doing such business are into runs,change your mindset
Na me type runs? grin grin
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Omoluabiii(m): 4:06pm On Sep 15, 2021
Turn off is a sign of ignorance and stupidity.... You dont need it....
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by 989900: 4:06pm On Sep 15, 2021
dammyllare:


Even the jobless you whose signature is your account details begging for money still get choosy? � grin

So if any of those listed up there decide to send money to your Gtbank account, will you reject it

I weak . . . tongue
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by mentro: 4:06pm On Sep 15, 2021
Doradorwa:
They are money making community. Where you get paid for your unique ideas and comments.
Awesome. Can I send a dm?
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Mboi: 4:08pm On Sep 15, 2021
Iyaebe:
Let's be truthful to ourselves, we all have that careers of men that immediately turn us off on finding out. Mine goes thus:
- Anything media is a big turn off, Bankers, The ' I work from home' groups, Teachers, Bitcoin traders and other Internet businesses, Car dealers.Please add yours, no insults.
You said "No insult" but know you're not making sense. I strongly believe that you're still in school. Go and finish your school first and start feeding yourself before you talk about what men do to earn a living. Nairaland has made children to be dipping their hands inside the same pot where elders eat from because we don't see their faces.
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Nchabuomo: 4:16pm On Sep 15, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


Ask yourself honestly. Will you chose an actress over a teacher for a wife, especially after knowing the stereotype that follows actress?

It isn't about the money the make, it's about the integrity of the job they do, and thus their loyalty as a human being.

To be very honest with you, the last thing I think about in a partner is their career. Once what they are doing is legitimate. This is my personal opinion, people are not defined by what they do especially in a poor country like Nigeria where most people are in jobs to keep body and soul together. The most important thing for me is: Is the person a good person?

If you feel your partner will be sleeping around then it's not about their job but who they are as a person. Ajo mmadu bu ajo mmadu

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Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Sep 15, 2021
Ritzybeauty:
Your own no be here oo.. Lol, tell me you belong to any force and I am out..

You still don't reply messages on IG abi
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by pocohantas(f): 4:22pm On Sep 15, 2021
dammyllare:


LOL... In a way you made me feel bad cheesy
Most civil engineers who don't function as consultants have poor dress sense.
How do you make yourself dress well when you spend your week days (Monday - Saturday) on sites.
You always have to wear some old jeans and tops as you cannot afford to be changing clothes every month..

We only get to wear our nice clothes on Sundays and belief me it has affected a whole lot of them.

My babe actually helps in buying clothes for me cos I can't remember the last time I bought a few on my own.

I have come to never shame any type of hustle because Men are giving their all out there to provide for the family.

Most of your dream jobs out there, when you visit his workplace and see numerous insult and abuse your man goes through just to ensure he brings back that money, you would shed some tears...


To all the Men doing any type of legal hustling out there, you guys are the real MVP.

Nobody is shaming anybody, Sir. Continue giving your all to your job. Thank you.

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Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Nobody: 4:25pm On Sep 15, 2021
kokanepyramid:
For me it’s this latest trend of multi-talented girls.
You meet a lady and ask what she does next is she’s a PR, she does personal errands, she promotes brands, she does home cooking, she sells bags, boxers and singlets online.

One person all the above.

I will not even call you afterwards, cos I already know what you do.

You no mention massage.
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by spiceadole: 4:33pm On Sep 15, 2021
Iyaebe:
Let's be truthful to ourselves, we all have that careers of men that immediately turn us off on finding out. Mine goes thus:
- Anything media is a big turn off, Bankers, The ' I work from home' groups, Teachers, Bitcoin traders and other Internet businesses, Car dealers.Please add yours, no insults.

I am a medical doctor.

And my plan was to marry a fellow medical doctor, an engineer,a lawyer,an accountant,a pilot or a geologist.
I ended up with a doctor(first choice).

I was turned off by men with certain careers, of course.

Some of which were : Politicians,Media personalities, Actors and musicians,Chef,Sportsmen, Military and paramilitary, educationists(teachers & lecturers),those who claim to be "bloggers, influencers, freelancers",those awon PA to the PA to the PA nonsense, sailors,all forms of "businessmen".
It wasn't about what they earned.
I didn't just want a spouse from these people,for personal reasons.

I once met a guy who was a chef in a 5-star hotel..he was doing very well,had his personal house and a car.Immediately,I knew what he did,I got turned off and I shunned him.
It's not always about money.



The way men are wailing on this thread that women can actually have a choice.
Same men who say they can't marry Actresses,bankers and marketers,nurses,salonists..labelling them as pros.titutes.


Why this thread dey choke them?
Funny Naija men.lol

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Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Sep 15, 2021
spiceadole:


I am a medical doctor.

And my plan was to marry a fellow medical doctor, an engineer,a lawyer,an accountant,a pilot or a geologist.
I ended up with a doctor(first choice).

I was turned off by men with certain careers, of course.

Some of which were : Politicians,Media personalities, Actors and musicians,Chef,Sportsmen, Military and paramilitary, educationists(teachers & lecturers),those who claim to be "bloggers, influencers, freelancers",those awon PA to the PA to the PA nonsense, sailors,all forms of "businessmen".
It wasn't about what they earned.
I didn't just want a spouse from these people,for personal reasons.

I once met a guy who was a chef in a 5-star hotel..he was doing very well,had his personal house and a car.Immediately,I knew what he did,I got turned off and I shunned him.
It's not always about money.



The way men are wailing on this thread that women can actually have a choice.
Same men who say they can't marry Actresses,bankers and marketers,nurses,salonists..labelling them as pros.titutes.


Why this thread dey choke them?
Funny Naija men.lol


I'm actually happy to read this, you perfectly understood where I was coming from

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Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Kelechi009: 4:39pm On Sep 15, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


You're missing the point.

Between an actress and a teacher, which one of these women would be prefer to marry? If you chose teacher, it is probably because you think the actress is an olosho even though that might not be the case.

This is the same way some occupation turns women off. I will chose a mechanic over a crypto trader as he might be a yahoo boy in disguise

Hi beautiful, I am a mechanic, please can I meet you?

I don't do Yahoo & I also don't go Crypto

I am a God-fearing guy, 6FT & a little chocolate in complexion.

I have one small car I am managing & I do business hear & there.

I have sent you a PM, kindly respond thanks.

Edit: I'm also a graduate
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by spiceadole: 4:39pm On Sep 15, 2021
AmosFishon:


I am developer and I work from home. Infact, I'd spend a whole week without leaving my estate. And you know what ? I earn 10 times more than the minimum wage. Am just 21 years of age and still an Undergrad. Get educated.

What you earn doesn't matter.
I will choose a lawyer or accountant who earns far less than you do.
What are you developing?

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Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Darkmode64: 4:40pm On Sep 15, 2021
Doradorwa:
I'm actually doing some of those jobs that turn the Op off. I'm a crypto trader, I work from home because of my online jobs for some forums. I'm mining the internet for money to the fullest extents. Anyways whatever rocks our boat sha
Nice one jare.
Who the hell is even turned off by someone who works from home? Is the Op any better sef. If only you knew how crazy Lagos traffic is.
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Darkmode64: 4:41pm On Sep 15, 2021
spiceadole:


What you earn doesn't matter.
I will choose a lawyer or accountant who earns far less than you do.
What are you developing?
cheesy cheesy cheesy grin
I'm sure he meant web/app developer
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by dammyllare(m): 4:53pm On Sep 15, 2021
pocohantas:


Nobody is shaming anybody, Sir. Continue giving your all to your job. Thank you.

Thanks dear, I don't have a job though but I have a career and a company I am building. I am very comfortable all thanks to God.
I am a young Man and I have been home all week as I work for myself, I have few staff handling a few project for me.

But the truth is I have had to work myself out to be here and a lot of Nigerians are doing that too.

Talking about job security, sincerely only a lazy person dwell on that.
For us on the line of business, make x10 of a good salary earnings a year.. Your thinking should be on investment, setting up a good future for yourself and unborn kids.

I don't want to see myself working around in my 50s except maybe I venture into politics.

Let your investment bring good cash for you while you also have capable hands running your firms/businesses.
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by dammyllare(m): 5:02pm On Sep 15, 2021
spiceadole:


I am a medical doctor.

And my plan was to marry a fellow medical doctor, an engineer,a lawyer,an accountant,a pilot or a geologist.
I ended up with a doctor(first choice).

I was turned off by men with certain careers, of course.

Some of which were : Politicians,Media personalities, Actors and musicians,Chef,Sportsmen, Military and paramilitary, educationists(teachers & lecturers),those who claim to be "bloggers, influencers, freelancers",those awon PA to the PA to the PA nonsense, sailors,all forms of "businessmen".
It wasn't about what they earned.
I didn't just want a spouse from these people,for personal reasons.

I once met a guy who was a chef in a 5-star hotel..he was doing very well,had his personal house and a car.Immediately,I knew what he did,I got turned off and I shunned him.
It's not always about money.



The way men are wailing on this thread that women can actually have a choice.
Same men who say they can't marry Actresses,bankers and marketers,nurses,salonists..labelling them as pros.titutes.


Why this thread dey choke them?
Funny Naija men.lol



Nice of you.... But it is a bit relative
We should agree same law doesn't guide men/women in this nation.

For most ladies; passion, desire, strong will e.t.c usually pushes them into a particular job except it got so desperate where no one is particularly responsible for their bills.

For Men, it isn't same...
Nigeria men are one of the most judged from what I know and read about.
A lot of pressure on them to succeed, to pay bills, to be responsible for siblings and finally to own a family.
Desperation pushes so many men into what they do these days.

Agreed, we all have a particular career we wouldn't want to see our spouses in but you need to be in a man's shoes to feel that exactly.

I hated Police so much but at a period in my life when I got desperate, I wanted to try it out grin because of the pressure and need to pay bills.

But the way the O. P actually placed it made that defence a little poor.
It's a cloudy Wednesday abeg,
Hope we still have those jabs available at your working place Doc grin
Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by Sixfeetbelle: 5:21pm On Sep 15, 2021
Nchabuomo:


To be very honest with you, the last thing I think about in a partner is their career. Once what they are doing is legitimate. This is my personal opinion, people are not defined by what they do especially in a poor country like Nigeria where most people are in jobs to keep body and soul together. The most important thing for me is: Is the person a good person?

If you feel your partner will be sleeping around then it's not about their job but who they are as a person. Ajo mmadu bu ajo mmadu

A person's job most times is defined by their character. Just because you want to survive doesn't mean it's every job you'll accept nah. People are different like that.

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