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Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by Kobojunkie: 3:49pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
wazobia68:So Dele Giwa and Fela were delusions of ours! |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by RodgersAkpafu: 3:52pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
holocron:I was about to applaud you for the Initial comment you made Then I scroll down to see this This comment is in bad taste and is uncalled for The civil war was an ugly part of our story as a country And Igbos are Nigerians too The suffering should be acknowledged And your comment Insensitive You still have a point The years before Buhari first coming were good old days 1 Like |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by wazobia68: 3:53pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: I never told you we had perfect rulers. I said only Abacha was brutal. That does not mean that others were Saints. |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by anfanio: 3:55pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
wazobia68:It wasn't for the few then, it was the norm in the West and I was talking about Oke-Ado Ibadan, not some exclusive GRA area in Ikeja, Victoria Island, Ikoyi etc, and remember the East suffered the brunt of the civil war, recovery never started for years. 1 Like |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by JuanDeDios: 4:13pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
tensazangetsu20:NIgerians in their 40's today did suffer a lot after SAP was introduced by IBB. But take it from me: those who destroyed this country didn't suffer. 1 Like |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by lanreonplanet(m): 4:14pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
life in the 80s was that of contentment, those saying it was boring because of lack of internet should realize you don't miss what does not exist . The programmes on our national TV stations (NTA) kept us entertained- village headmaster, cock crow at dawn, mind your language, some mothers do have them by Frank Spencer, Love boat, Globe trotters, Alaadin, Bill Cosby show, Family matters etc in education, both the children of the rich and the poor attend public schools with foreign teachers from different African countries, original textbooks from Macmillian, and same text use in best schools of the world from great authors- Stones &Cozen, Micheal West, Lambert, Harwood Clarke, Chinua Achebe, Lamb (books of Shakespeare) On job opportunities, there were fewer graduates compare with available job, women with ordinary secretarial knowledge trained up children up to university level in this country. No graduate was unemployed for upward of six years as we have now. the environment was better, lots of playground for children, fewer gates and low fences because you are not afraid of your neighbor. 12 Likes |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by JuanDeDios: 4:15pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
RodgersAkpafu:You're right. |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 4:17pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
tensazangetsu20:Reading your post felt like I was drinking milk! So smooth!!! |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by tensazangetsu20(m): 4:29pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Xilsbridalhouse:Thank you. |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by babaowambe: 4:32pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
naira was stronger than the pound then, school and health care was free with quality service true life was simple, with only 2 tv channels (nta)was quality tv programs nepa was a little bit better than now, crime did exist not as bad as now,nigerians traveled to the uk visa free then i could liveon ten naira pocket money for a week i remember there was no such things like second hand items all things where brought new that was life before IBB,i traveled on my own in safety when i was 11 years old from Lagos to ondo state on a smooth ore benin expressway at 120 kph in a new 504 station wagon in complete safety that was life then 3 Likes |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by rickleye: 5:17pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
hmm not the kind of responses I was looking for 1. In the 80's we had reliable power supply - You knew when there would be light and when they would turn off power. 2. There was discipline and high morals - Anyone remember W.A.I - you lined up for stuff. ( Idiagbon - I still think the dude was poisoned) 3. The Naira was on par with US and 1.5 against Pound 4. The population was half what it is now. 5. NNPC refineries were working and producing Oil. We didn't import. 6. There was Austerity measures implemented by IBB ( how the dude is alive and well and is in 80's after all he did to Nigeria is Appalling !!!! . He moved the seat of Power to Abuja ( Fine) , Took power from Buhari who took from Shehu Shari ( bad), Imprisoned Abiola ( bad) Killed Dele Giwa ( bad) 7. We had the Village Headmaster and Things fall apart and Dauda the sexy guy . The height of immorality where the pin up gals from the Sun newspaper on the weekend. If you think things are better now than back then. I disagree. 3 Likes |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by Gfskw: 5:44pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Everything was still better |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by Frenzy01(m): 5:46pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
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Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by ExtraVioment: 6:12pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
I sorry for your inquiries, you go dey ask failed generation people. Na joke I dey o. Somewhat. |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by Authoreety: 7:27pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
crackhaus: God bless you, you poured out my mind... More ink to your pen sir 1 Like |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by isreddnewgreen: 7:35pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
hahn: Touche |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by Nobody: 7:51pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Who says? Of course we socialized and I partied hard in my university days, in fact I don’t think Uni students of today party as much as we used to then. But we always maintained our focus and had much stronger principles at the end of the day. The shame and stigma of failing in school, getting pregnant before marriage or generally not doing well in life was so strong back then that it always kept us in check no matter how much we wanted to misbehave. Kids today no longer have that fear that’s why they busy doing drugs, getting knocked up and dropping out of school anyhow. Also we didn’t have to deal with what I call the ultimate distraction of this generation - social media. Back then we had distractions but they were not as instant and “in your face” like it is today with smartphones and social media. I don’t see any mind stimulating thing on most of these platforms. It’s all sex and other forms of immorality 24/7. We expanded our minds back then by reading books, watching documentaries and other educational stuff to the extent that I am more articulate and knowledgeable than most kids currently in university that I speak with. Why is that? despite all the easy access to information they have with the internet today that we didn’t have. That just shows you all they do with these technologies is play and debase their minds with nonsense not learn. Mind you I am just in my mid 30’s, not that old and I can already see the vast decline in the quality of youth we are producing today compared to my university days. 3 Likes |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by Nobody: 8:40pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
crackhaus: This Is the only sensible comment on this thread so far. Thank you. I was born In the 80's.... 1 Like |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by twosquare(m): 9:34pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
If wishes were horses, beggars would ride. I took time to read all. So much lies and lies of people trying to paint the good old days. Idealising the past is sweet; just looking at their head, spurning lies like spiders... *If you want to know the truth, check the art of that era (literary themes & works); newspapers, memoirs, journals, etc. You will sniff it out. Not people who lived with privileged parents or someone who was fed by his/her parents, only thinking the world revolves around 1% of their experiences. It is relative. |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by hahn(m): 11:08pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Ikwerelastborn: Lol. At least something comes to mind |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by Kobojunkie: 12:44am On Sep 16, 2021 |
twosquare:ROFLMAO Art during the 80s and 90s? Na images from Festac 77 still dey my mind from that time... |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by calcal: 1:42am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Sincerely, that was a terrible experience. awaiting results, no job, even no fuckmate. When the sleeping was too much, I join Jeahoval withness to pass away time. No day wey that country good. |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by Kobojunkie: 1:53am On Sep 16, 2021 |
calcal:Many people probably ended up joining one religious group or another to pass away them. Unfortunately, that was also the beginning of Nigeria's nosedive into the pit of religiosity as we see today. |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by Offpoint1: 5:12am On Sep 16, 2021 |
hahn:They slept and ruined our present |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by Offpoint1: 5:14am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Citygal:this thread is meant for 70s and 80s, you're too young to contribute. 1 Like |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by Kobojunkie: 5:28am On Sep 16, 2021 |
calcal:Let's please not forget how ASUU made our lives miserable even back then. I don't understand why that group remains relevant to this day. Nigerians suppose don throw dm inside dustbin by now. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by Nobody: 7:06am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Offpoint1: Until we start exchanging banters now before you respect yourself. |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by VTJN(m): 7:27am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Limassol:You Can't compare the lifestyle of that generation to this present one, it's a two different thing. Every generation had their bad side no doubt, but this present one is nothing to write home about and worse than past generations. This isn't new to us that this generation got lots of baggages. |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by Offpoint1: 7:38am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Citygal:This early morning? Lol you're too old for that |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by VTJN(m): 8:01am On Sep 16, 2021 |
SlyfoxxjReturns:Aptly said. We mis-used, and abused the opportunities having access to the internet. Their general slangs now is "school na scam." They indulged in all sorts of crimes and atrocities just to make money. Infact, some parents encourages their wards to go into crime. They laughed and make jest of some of us who ain't in support of such. They claimed we couldn't land a job despite our utmost performance in school. Yet, we bent on punishing ourselves since we ressolved never to join the bandwagon and live a fulfilling life according to them. The social media had done more harm than good no doubt. I was in a public bus last week, a man was telling his fellow passenger he doesn't had TV set in his house. The passenger responded why? The man claimed that TV you see, is one of the factors influencing today's generation astray. He claimed there's absolutely nothing good on it aside sports and cartoons. He claimed his kids would live with or without a TV set. Go to secondary school today, you hardly see students who doesn't indulged in boyfriend and girlfriend of a thing. Our tertiary institutions is nothing to write home about that. Our government also are not helping matters. Some TV programmes needs to be ban seriously. Less than 30% of this our generation stand firm. Drugs, cyber crime, sex, porn, bad dressing et al. God have mercy on us. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by Nobody: 8:17am On Sep 16, 2021 |
crackhaus: I grew up under millitary rule, and trust me, Nigerians have it much better now. Economically, job opportunities were far and few between - and there certainly was still a lot of man know man. There was a lot of insecurity and (non-political) assassinations were rampant. Social mobility was pretty difficult. The government frequently sponsored cultists to kill and maim student activists on campus. Random people were disappeared, and we couldn't mention Abacha's name out loud on our own front porch. Covol Servants earned bloody peanuts, and we all stood in long queues at NITEL to make phonecalls. Nigeria's name was bad even back then: the country was a transit hub for drug smuggling (aided by the millitary regime) - google Gloria Okon. If you think Yahoo boys are new, then clearly you are too young to remember the glory days of Goddy Anabor, Anajemba, Ade Bendel etc. 1 Like |
Re: Older Nigerian Men How Did You Survive Nigeria In Your 20s by tensazangetsu20(m): 8:25am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Bagehot:God terrible narration. Nigeria has always been an absolute shithole damn. |
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