Re: Female Bosses by Hassanmaye(m): 11:09am On Sep 18, 2021 |
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Re: Female Bosses by Hassanmaye(m): 11:10am On Sep 18, 2021 |
Juicy001: Not all per say but yes they can be very troublesome, my boss is a lady, abi woman, shes never in a good mood, Mondays to fridays, from the security men down to the cleaners, everyone is always afraid of what might happen when ever she steps in the building, calling you names, zero regard for anyone, Sometimes I wish I can just quit but when I think of my Bills........ Hahahhahahaha
Buhari....this one na your fault, I swear |
Re: Female Bosses by Hassanmaye(m): 11:12am On Sep 18, 2021 |
1bunne4lif: yes, you're right. I rejected a job after a successful interview in PH because of this. THE LADY WAS LIKE; if you want to say something, you have to call me ma! I am your boss! AS IF I DON'T KNOW THAT. very annoying Hahahhahahaha |
Re: Female Bosses by witworth(m): 11:13am On Sep 18, 2021 |
My thought is to fvck female boss. That's it 1 Like |
Re: Female Bosses by Omoluabiii(m): 11:15am On Sep 18, 2021 |
Whenever you are around your female boss, keep your ego, play the emotional nature, compliment it with a good appearance, a good hair cut, simple and neat dressing, & smell good, & be efficient at work... You ll crack her open tottally, without any problem. But when you put on the whole masculine ego, she ll make life hard for you... 6 Likes |
Re: Female Bosses by JustforMen: 11:15am On Sep 18, 2021 |
I prefer a female boss. I get along very well with women and I have not met a female demon yet sha but female subordinates are a pain in the dick as they think having an uncleaned pussy replaces sense and decorum. they can be lazy and look for every excuse to be distracted... always on the phone slaying. Even though I own my own successful concern now, my mentor is still a Kenyan lady. super smart and respectful big girl. |
Re: Female Bosses by IJEYdiamond(f): 11:16am On Sep 18, 2021 |
MrbonZ: I just want to know if I am the only one to notice it, some female bosses are usually overtly arrogant, abusive and overbearing and most times they bring their family problems to work and can't deal with the stress that comes with working.
This is not a misogynistic post just an observation from me. Do you guys also experience this. Males bosses r worst and manipulative.. |
Re: Female Bosses by Oluromantic: 11:16am On Sep 18, 2021 |
Nijagogetsense: Female boss are the easiest personality to deal with. It's not about them, it is about you.
When dealing with a female boss, one thing you need to master is your emotions. Forget your ego and stoop to conquer. Make sure you always compliment them. Anytime she make a decision, flatter her and say you look up to her. Bingo! You're starting to getting her fall into your trap. She will start thinking about you. Don't stop there, buy her gifts. Compliment her. Make sure you know more about her. Make her a friend. Be interested in her like a family. But never lose yourself. Be professional in your work. Watch as events unfold and she will be fond of you. In an official setting..buy her gifts You're crazy. A boss should train his/her mind to absorbency and tolerance as requirements for such a post |
Re: Female Bosses by Danjikanbauchi: 11:16am On Sep 18, 2021 |
@ OP. For female boss I leave everything to God, I saw wickedness and witchcraft in high places at the end when my promotion came she make sure I was relieved of my good paying job. Fear Edo Ladies. 3 Likes |
Re: Female Bosses by fortune1968: 11:17am On Sep 18, 2021 |
Women are difficult to deal with in ANYTHING be it business ,office ,home, or even at play .Haven't you noticed that they are never satisfied with anything ? Anyway ,I know of only Nigerian women .I don't know if women are like that in other climes . My experience with them at job have been tragic ! 5 Likes |
Re: Female Bosses by adewaleadeyemi8(m): 11:19am On Sep 18, 2021 |
I lost my job this year June because my female boss felt i was not loyal to her. She wanted us to worship her even as she would cut our salaries monthly and deny us many benefits. I tried hard to avoid her by keeping to myself. She had already approved my termination letter before she realized i was only maintaining my lane, twas too late and i was kicked out. I have accepted my fate and praying to God for a better opening 2 Likes |
Re: Female Bosses by 1bunne4lif(m): 11:19am On Sep 18, 2021 |
Hassanmaye:
Hahahhahahaha very funny right? the next day she called and I told I was still contemplating on her rules and regulations. BOOM! that evening I won 300,000 in bet9ja, I kukuma block her line NONSENSE AND INGREDIENTS � 1 Like |
Re: Female Bosses by dingbang(m): 11:22am On Sep 18, 2021 |
Depends on the individual. Some good to work with, some are bad to work with. Let us not generalize. |
Re: Female Bosses by Originalsly: 11:24am On Sep 18, 2021 |
From experience .... women bosses are generally petty and can hold a grudge. They generally do not separate their private lives from their professional lives ... as in if they had a problem in the home... they will be miserable at work. If they were dumped or cheated on by their bf... all men at work will see hell. They can also be petty.... as in if a fellow female employee be the center of attraction ... dresses well ... great personality and receives compliments upon compliments all day every day .... and the boss gets none?... after trying her best to attract attention?.... that employee days will be numbered. Lastly.... the female bosses that have no say in their homes .... those ones are tyrants at work.... they take every opportunity to flex their power and can remind you every day who is the boss. To date... my current boss is the worse I've ever had period.... a female ... we're about to run her out of office. After saying all of this.... the best boss I've ever had period .... was a female.... professional ... clear thinker with foresight ... can handle various personalities and behaviours like a professional psychologist. Female bosses... a mixed bag... some sweet... more sour! 6 Likes |
Re: Female Bosses by TruthUntold: 11:26am On Sep 18, 2021 |
Nijagogetsense: Female boss are the easiest personality to deal with. It's not about them, it is about you.
When dealing with a female boss, one thing you need to master is your emotions. Forget your ego and stoop to conquer. Make sure you always compliment them. Anytime she make a decision, flatter her and say you look up to her. Bingo! You're starting to getting her fall into your trap. She will start thinking about you. Don't stop there, buy her gifts. Compliment her. Make sure you know more about her. Make her a friend. Be interested in her like a family. But never lose yourself. Be professional in your work. Watch as events unfold and she will be fond of you. Clearly you haven't met women who hate being complimented, them eye-don-open women who will watch with a knowing smile while you attempt to play the #game on them, hm hm. You try sha. 5 Likes |
Re: Female Bosses by SenecaTheYonger: 11:27am On Sep 18, 2021 |
Jcash90: Most of my female bosses always want me to knack dem. It’s all in your head bro 4 Likes |
Re: Female Bosses by kingreign(m): 11:27am On Sep 18, 2021 |
Nijagogetsense: Female boss are the easiest personality to deal with. It's not about them, it is about you.
When dealing with a female boss, one thing you need to master is your emotions. Forget your ego and stoop to conquer. Make sure you always compliment them. Anytime she make a decision, flatter her and say you look up to her. Bingo! You're starting to getting her fall into your trap. She will start thinking about you. Don't stop there, buy her gifts. Compliment her. Make sure you know more about her. Make her a friend. Be interested in her like a family. But never lose yourself. Be professional in your work. Watch as events unfold and she will be fond of you. Giggolo aka Füćk boy! Talking from experience eh?? cc: ishilove, sisisioge, |
Re: Female Bosses by zed7: 11:31am On Sep 18, 2021 |
Focusmind: Just find a way of "ass licking" them. My first boss when I joined the banking sector was a woman. I would praise her to high heaven. Sometimes she came with food from home and while eating it, I would be like, " Madam, this food smells nice and your husband must be enjoying". She would laugh and always found ways of trying to tell me things so that I would give her the kind of answers she would want.
I would praise her and her kids to high heavens to the extent that I had to come to her house to coach her son that was preparing for Federal government college entrance exam then. She was so impressed that I was favored among the staff under her. She was mean to the core and was dreaded by all, but I found favor with her. Sometimes, she sent me to her house with driver to pick up something and I practically warmed myself to her. It was a game I played very well since I could not change or select my boss. She was the one doing appraisal and a lot of things are taken into consideration. If you have been into corporate world, you would understand.
There was time she did 10 years marriage anniversary and invited everybody, including staff. I was practically serving food, doing every chore. When people left that Sunday evening, I went to the back of the house and started washing plates and coolers with her Nanny. She came to the back of the house to drop some plates and found me and shouted that I should leave the place and stop washing the plates. I said, " madam, don't worry, it was nothing." She stood there and was looking at me.
It was around, 8:30pm and I was about to go. She was staying in a massive duplex in festac, while I was leaving at Ire-Akari estate. She insisted that I should not go, that I should go and sleep at their boys quarter. But I told her that tomorrow was Monday and I needed to go home and prepare for work. She said I should not bother coming to the office in the morning and should take two days off. I did stay in their house, helped her kids with their weekend homework and other things.
In the morning, before leaving, the husband gave me N10k and one new Turkish suite that he has not used before. The man is well to do anyway. Since that day, I was one of the most favored staff, recommending me for promotion. This was someone that everybody saw as "wicked" and feared by staff. She could shout to people anyhow and woe to you if you fail to balance your investment account after close of business.
When an opportunity came for someone to be recommended for a new project, she didn't waste time and put me forward. It was not that I was not good on my job, but I needed to build good relationship with her to help my career. In life and in corporate world, your boss can determine the trajectory of your growth. You must manage the person and play to his/her sentiments and massage ego.
But you must know your job and be dedicated. Adding interpersonal relationship and managing difficult bosses are just the icing on the cake.
I hardly insult people but you are despicable for this act of ass licking. It's people like you that can stab a person in the back. A worm is better than your kind. People should always be themselves and do their job. What sycophants don't know is that people actually know they are sycophants but they just tolerate them but will never take them serious. In times of trouble, they actually run to those who are real and avoid the sycophants. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Female Bosses by Lamasta(m): 11:33am On Sep 18, 2021 |
I can't work under a woman |
Re: Female Bosses by flokii: 11:39am On Sep 18, 2021 |
I can't really say sha.. but women generally can't handle positions of authority. They always find a way to throw it in your face that they are the boss. 4 Likes |
Re: Female Bosses by viqSmallz(m): 11:39am On Sep 18, 2021 |
Focusmind: Just find a way of "ass licking" them. My first boss when I joined the banking sector was a woman. I would praise her to high heaven. Sometimes she came with food from home and while eating it, I would be like, " Madam, this food smells nice and your husband must be enjoying". She would laugh and always found ways of trying to tell me things so that I would give her the kind of answers she would want.
I would praise her and her kids to high heavens to the extent that I had to come to her house to coach her son that was preparing for Federal government college entrance exam then. She was so impressed that I was favored among the staff under her. She was mean to the core and was dreaded by all, but I found favor with her. Sometimes, she sent me to her house with driver to pick up something and I practically warmed myself to her. It was a game I played very well since I could not change or select my boss. She was the one doing appraisal and a lot of things are taken into consideration. If you have been into corporate world, you would understand.
There was time she did 10 years marriage anniversary and invited everybody, including staff. I was practically serving food, doing every chore. When people left that Sunday evening, I went to the back of the house and started washing plates and coolers with her Nanny. She came to the back of the house to drop some plates and found me and shouted that I should leave the place and stop washing the plates. I said, " madam, don't worry, it was nothing." She stood there and was looking at me.
It was around, 8:30pm and I was about to go. She was staying in a massive duplex in festac, while I was leaving at Ire-Akari estate. She insisted that I should not go, that I should go and sleep at their boys quarter. But I told her that tomorrow was Monday and I needed to go home and prepare for work. She said I should not bother coming to the office in the morning and should take two days off. I did stay in their house, helped her kids with their weekend homework and other things.
In the morning, before leaving, the husband gave me N10k and one new Turkish suite that he has not used before. The man is well to do anyway. Since that day, I was one of the most favored staff, recommending me for promotion. This was someone that everybody saw as "wicked" and feared by staff. She could shout to people anyhow and woe to you if you fail to balance your investment account after close of business.
When an opportunity came for someone to be recommended for a new project, she didn't waste time and put me forward. It was not that I was not good on my job, but I needed to build good relationship with her to help my career. In life and in corporate world, your boss can determine the trajectory of your growth. You must manage the person and play to his/her sentiments and massage ego.
But you must know your job and be dedicated. Adding interpersonal relationship and managing difficult bosses are just the icing on the cake.
Eye service 5 Likes |
Re: Female Bosses by Nobody: 11:40am On Sep 18, 2021 |
Its only ass lickers that would prefer female bosses. Though it's not a gender thing, there are ladies with good personality, but majority love their ass being licked. ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) 2 Likes |
Re: Female Bosses by Prime1(m): 11:41am On Sep 18, 2021 |
Nijagogetsense: Female boss are the easiest personality to deal with. It's not about them, it is about you.
When dealing with a female boss, one thing you need to master is your emotions. Forget your ego and stoop to conquer. Make sure you always compliment them. Anytime she make a decision, flatter her and say you look up to her. Bingo! You're starting to getting her fall into your trap. She will start thinking about you. Don't stop there, buy her gifts. Compliment her. Make sure you know more about her. Make her a friend. Be interested in her like a family. But never lose yourself. Be professional in your work. Watch as events unfold and she will be fond of you. waste of time.. that is why this country will never develop than it is....wasting all that energy pleasing someone else because you want them to look upon you favourably....... that's not been professional, it is pure stupidity, you will only end up bootlicking her later. 6 Likes |
Re: Female Bosses by HIPROFILE(m): 11:41am On Sep 18, 2021 |
MrrGary post=105932270[b: Female bosses aren’t so bad.. [/b]
My only problem with them is trying to manipulate everyone under them, and then try to make life very difficult for the ones she isn’t so comfortable with ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png)
In summary, power nor good on them ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) So why saying they aren't so baaad?? 2 Likes |
Re: Female Bosses by gentleguy1975: 11:42am On Sep 18, 2021 |
Mehn! I worked under a woman for one month and I saw hell! the person that introduced me to her had forwarned me about her but added that her sister is very generous.Those 30 days were like years in hell,so insultive and come to think of it,she is an illiterate! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Female Bosses by flokii: 11:42am On Sep 18, 2021 |
adewaleadeyemi8: I lost my job this year June because my female boss felt i was not loyal to her. She wanted us to worship her even as she would cut our salaries monthly and deny us many benefits. I tried hard to avoid her by keeping to myself. She had already approved my termination letter before she realized i was only maintaining my lane, twas too late and i was kicked out. I have accepted my fate and praying to God for a better opening That is their problem.. they want you to be loyal and submissive which is not part of professionalism. Some will even go as far as asking you to go to the market to buy foodstuff or do their house chores just because you work under them. May God provide a much better job for you soonest. 1 Like |
Re: Female Bosses by lekonso: 11:44am On Sep 18, 2021 |
It depends on the personality of the person. Forget about gender. |
Re: Female Bosses by Aaaaarghmed(m): 11:46am On Sep 18, 2021 |
Nijagogetsense: Female boss are the easiest personality to deal with. It's not about them, it is about you.
When dealing with a female boss, one thing you need to master is your emotions. Forget your ego and stoop to conquer. Make sure you always compliment them. Anytime she make a decision, flatter her and say you look up to her. Bingo! You're starting to getting her fall into your trap. She will start thinking about you. Don't stop there, buy her gifts. Compliment her. Make sure you know more about her. Make her a friend. Be interested in her like a family. But never lose yourself. Be professional in your work. Watch as events unfold and she will be fond of you. you never jam.dey dere dey form romantic. 2 Likes |
Re: Female Bosses by Maobichek: 11:47am On Sep 18, 2021 |
MrrGary: Female bosses aren’t so bad..
My only problem with them is trying to manipulate everyone under them, and then try to make life very difficult for the ones she isn’t so comfortable with ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png)
In summary, power nor good on them ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) Pray that you are on their "good book," female bosses are cool to work with. 1 Like |
Re: Female Bosses by StPete: 11:47am On Sep 18, 2021 |
Nijagogetsense: Female boss are the easiest personality to deal with. It's not about them, it is about you.
When dealing with a female boss, one thing you need to master is your emotions. Forget your ego and stoop to conquer. Make sure you always compliment them. Anytime she make a decision, flatter her and say you look up to her. Bingo! You're starting to getting her fall into your trap. She will start thinking about you. Don't stop there, buy her gifts. Compliment her. Make sure you know more about her. Make her a friend. Be interested in her like a family. But never lose yourself. Be professional in your work. Watch as events unfold and she will be fond of you. Isn't your work supposed to be strictly professional? Doing all these just to get your boss to like you is as good as being the snitch amongst your colleagues. 3 Likes |
Re: Female Bosses by Think9ja(m): 11:48am On Sep 18, 2021 |
I'm currently working with one now. She's extremely abusive.
Abusive in every sense of the word 5 Likes |
Re: Female Bosses by Ahmeduana(m): 11:49am On Sep 18, 2021 |
Nijagogetsense: Female boss are the easiest personality to deal with. It's not about them, it is about you.
When dealing with a female boss, one thing you need to master is your emotions. Forget your ego and stoop to conquer. Make sure you always compliment them. Anytime she make a decision, flatter her and say you look up to her. Bingo! You're starting to getting her fall into your trap. She will start thinking about you. Don't stop there, buy her gifts. Compliment her. Make sure you know more about her. Make her a friend. Be interested in her like a family. But never lose yourself. Be professional in your work. Watch as events unfold and she will be fond of you. IS ALL THESE LISTED REQUIRED FOR A MALE BOSS? 1 Like |