vickydevoka:

Ones pocochant has commented every other female opinion is not really valid as such in Nairaland

So pocohantas with d ancestors bank rolling her is d standard. Lord, epp our soul.

Tajbol4splend:
An average Nigerian lady thinks it is shamelessness for a guy to ask her for money, I watched a Tacha interview with TVC and I was shaking my head for young girls, the nonsense she was confidently spitting was unprecedented, she might be a star but she has this crude mentality. Even the ones who will give you will still have a feeling like "this is not right" except few like that who are understanding, who know that giving is the job of those who have to the needy, not the job of a particular gender. In fact some mumu guys share that stupid mentality too, something like "I don't let her touch her money so I give her money every time" giving is an act of love, an act of humanity rather than responsibility, being loving and humane is the responsibility of every gender including Bobriskies

Verily, verily... Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you, but by our Ancestors who refused to wear the toga of folly

OracleOfTheMost:
Hello nairalanders...

The other day I had to ask my girlfriend for some cash because I was short of cash and needed to pay someone for a work done. Of course she gave me but her attitude changed from that day onwards even as she tries so hard to mask it. Respect dropped and she cared less unlike how we were before I borrowed the money from her. I’ve never been stingy as I always showered her with alerts.. I purposely decided not to give give back the money shaa so as to observe her reaction to it and from the look of things it doesn’t look good.

PS: Our relationship is 3months old and this is my first time of seeking financial assistance from her and it’s little money.

So ladies how do you feel when your boyfriend borrows money from you and don’t give back??

Please pay back the loan as soon as possible, we can't afford 3rd world war this time.

Magnoliaa:


Hm-hmmm. This one is small. Me I feel as if my whole world is crashing and tumbling down on me, as if I'm going into a cardiac arrest and someone is pouring sand on my face, throat, ears to bury me alive. It's not a smiling something oh. I don't think I can ever try that nonsense with one yeye boyfriend again. Borrowing money from me is like cutting away a vein from my body o. I cannot fit to, I'm sorry.

na so you broke reach?
Eeeyahhh,so sorry

I

... and then you woke up

BeeBeeOoh:
It depends on the kind of lady you are dating.


I had a problem with my woman some time ago reason is because I ran out of cash which resulted me borrowing money from my manche, my woman didn't take it lightly oh. She said, why should I borrow from a friend when she has more than the money sleeping in her account and she isn't using it to do anything at that moment?. Brothers and sisters, no be small issue like this o.

She said Nnaa, if I can't help you when you're in need then why am i your lover or friend in the first place?. Mehn! I marvelled I swear.

So, e get one day I stylishly asked her to help me with 10k, babe gave me her ATM and told me to collect 20k. O boy, I no know wetin I go talk, I collected the money, kept it for 2wks, then used it to get her a very nice gown and a sexy sandals. Mind you she never mentioned about paying her back.

Then on 21st April which is my birthday, babe said that I should prepare that she wanna take me out and I thought it's just normal taking out o, no be small thing. Babe took me to Onitsha mall, she bought a birthday cake and wine for me, we entered one shop there A**.ng(if you know OSHA mall, you'll know this shop), babe said, Nnaa, take whatever you like, at first, I thought she was joking but she isn't.

Brother and sisters on NL, this babe got my surprise surprised, I took 2 Pakistani jeans(a trouser and a short) which cost more than 20k, took 2 T-shirts which is roughly 15k, babe wanna buy pams that is more than 10k for me I rejected because she don over spend jare, I was just smiling sheepishly, in fact, my legs no fit carry me at that moment. I've never experienced such in my life before. At some point, I begin to wonder if this is truly a naija babe because I never expererit.

That's why I always laugh whenever my NL goons keep on bashing our naija babes, but me I dey always ask God to bless Nigerian girls who doesn't see relationship as a meal ticket or a one way street or a poverty alleviation scheme. Relationship ought to be a two way street, you rub my back, I rub my back that's it.

pocohantas:


The same way you would feel is a NIGERIAN girl begs you for money just after 3 months of dating.

But then, considering you have been giving her, I hate to say she is a selfish and ungrateful person. She gave you and she is waiting for you to ask a second time. That would be the final nail to the coffin

I don’t feel anyway. If I have, I give. That is not something that happens as I am with an ancestor. Ancestors have money.

Do you have any female ancestor you can give me

Let's mingle n tingle. I won't ask you for cash.

Blessiing:
I dont feel bad because relationship is meant for us to help each other and have each other's back, but those mofos never appreciated my efforts, been single for years now... Not the best but nothing i fit do

FashionCookie:
Nothing...if I can ask him for money, why he no go ask me too? This life no hard...

Marry me (in k-show's voice)

Silentgroper:
evening newspaper, abeg swerve nd start preparing to take ur kids 4rm sch. Bloody housewife.

And more evidence keeps pouring in.

Rotfl.

Woman wrapper.

KillIgbohoN0W:
Only a simp will ask a woman for money, especially a Naija woman. Hmmm

I'll rather die than do that because that will mark the beginning of the end for you. How una take dey keep mouth talk am sef?? Via text or call or physical??


Some men no dey shame o!! Tufiakwa!!

Guy shut up, swear say you never ask woman money before??

OracleOfTheMost:
Hello nairalanders...

The other day I had to ask my girlfriend for some cash because I was short of cash and needed to pay someone for a work done. Of course she gave me but her attitude changed from that day onwards even as she tries so hard to mask it. Respect dropped and she cared less unlike how we were before I borrowed the money from her. I’ve never been stingy as I always showered her with alerts.. I purposely decided not to give give back the money shaa so as to observe her reaction to it and from the look of things it doesn’t look good.

PS: Our relationship is 3months old and this is my first time of seeking financial assistance from her and it’s little money.

So ladies how do you feel when your boyfriend borrows money from you and don’t give back??

Since you "borrowed' the money please pay back. ASAP. St least she borrowed you.

qtguru:
God thank you for giving me a reasonable lady, If you like frown, if I need money and you have, I will collect from you. Either your bag, your pocket or anything call it shame if you want. It's equality to me. Cuz I give and smile, so I must collect and smile too.

That's my niqqa

Barezzi:
... and then you woke up

I am not Joseph by name. What I typed above is a true life story

Temigirl95:
It will shock u dat someone else is putting plenty money in her account. Sleep der, make pant dey wear u

But dat doesn't dispute the fact the girl is reciprocating the act of giving in her man's life.

Okayl … E go shock u… for dis Buhari economy ��… E go shock u.

BeeBeeOoh:
Nobody puts money in her account except me. In fact, you no go understand.

She's principled lady brought up in a Christian home.

She has given me reasons not to doubt her on several occasions.

In fact, my mannest man has that kind of babe also. Very loyal to the core, understanding and lovely. She's an Anambra babe like mine also.

God bless the women(loyal and understanding ones).

Lest I forget, she's a working class lady that earns relatively well.

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ANDREW91:

Dem actually dey
When u see a lady wey dey well, and she discovers u are serious with her, she will spend on u.

No be lie

Yea true. But I am 90% sure it can’t be from her Har earned money. Make e dey deceive himself. Girl carry u go mall to shop as u like? In Buhari economy? Lmao

noel22:

But dat doesn't dispute the fact the girl is reciprocating the act of giving in her man's life.

BeeBeeOoh:
She's an Anambra babe.

A very loyal, cool headed and understanding babe.

Hold they your nanny wella o! Make she dey loyal to only you..

Any money you give a naija girl is forgone, na money throway. Cut down on your hoe intake and watch as you save.

Romanoff:

And more evidence keeps pouring in.
Rotfl.
Woman wrapper.

Piss off, will u...

Silentgroper:
Piss off, will u...

Rotfl.

Kai.

McStoic:


She is an Igbo lady

Boss, I hail o

Magnoliaa:


Hm-hmmm. This one is small. Me I feel as if my whole world is crashing and tumbling down on me, as if I'm going into a cardiac arrest and someone is pouring sand on my face, throat, ears to bury me alive. It's not a smiling something oh. I don't think I can ever try that nonsense with one yeye boyfriend again. Borrowing money from me is like cutting away a vein from my body o. I cannot fit to, I'm sorry.

E don reach like dis?

dchamp234:

Guy shut up, swear say you never ask woman money before??

NEVER.
You can believe it or not, na ur business.

Most is they cook for me but even that sef dem go still bill me afterwards & collect pass wetin dem spend to cook 4 me. Scammers!

Temigirl95:
Yea true. But I am 90% sure it can’t be from her Har earned money. Make e dey deceive himself. Girl carry u go mall to shop as u like? In Buhari economy? Lmao

Are u aware that some persons are not affected by the so-called buhari economy... Giving is a thing of the mind, no matter the economy...

Even in the so-called buhari economy, guys still give to ladies... What's the difference..

Temigirl95:
Okayl … E go shock u… for dis Buhari economy ��… E go shock u.

I'm really amazed that this is coming from a lady, the truth is that I expected this from my fellow guys but reverse is the case now.

Well, I think you don't trust yourself so it will be hard for someone to trust you and that's the reason why you are having this doubt.

Some ladies are contented, ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS.

Good day

Kirkman:

Hold they your nanny wella o! Make she dey loyal to only you..

Na 2 hands I take hold am padi mi

Romanoff:

Rotfl.
Kai.

Leave me na.
i will send u p.m nw. Ur husband will see it nd send u to ur parents house..
last warning.

You're so funny

Magnoliaa:


Hm-hmmm. This one is small. Me I feel as if my whole world is crashing and tumbling down on me, as if I'm going into a cardiac arrest and someone is pouring sand on my face, throat, ears to bury me alive. It's not a smiling something oh. I don't think I can ever try that nonsense with one yeye boyfriend again. Borrowing money from me is like cutting away a vein from my body o. I cannot fit to, I'm sorry.

Blessiing:
I dont feel bad because relationship is meant for us to help each other and have each other's back, but those mofos never appreciated my efforts, been single for years now... Not the best but nothing i fit do

Which gender do you belong to? I'm asking for a friend.