Silentgroper:
Leave me na.

i will send u p.m nw. Ur husband will see it nd send u to ur parents house..

last warning.

Lol

Magnoliaa:


Hm-hmmm. This one is small. Me I feel as if my whole world is crashing and tumbling down on me, as if I'm going into a cardiac arrest and someone is pouring sand on my face, throat, ears to bury me alive. It's not a smiling something oh. I don't think I can ever try that nonsense with one yeye boyfriend again. Borrowing money from me is like cutting away a vein from my body o. I cannot fit to, I'm sorry.

That's why you are still single and with no hope of a reasonable suitor for marriage

Silentgroper:
Leave me na.

i will send u p.m nw. Ur husband will see it nd send u to ur parents house..

last warning.

Rotfl.

Na mad people full everywhere. You don't even know how this works. You think sending PM to someone of NL means the person will automatically get the message?

Na single digit IQ person I dey follow talk self.

Let me save my energy for who reach.

NewSoul:

That's why you are still single and with no hope of a reasonable suitor for marriage

Baba... Take am easy on her na..
Maybe she is just speaking from experience in her last act of giving to a boyfriend

As for me I don't feel bad about it, once I noticed you need financial assistance to would gladly assist you without you requesting for it. That's what relationship is all about and shouldn't be one sided.

luminouz:

Are you for real?

Yes i am

DannyG8:
I have been searching for you

Lol

Emma1Oj:
Let's mingle n tingle. I won't ask you for cash.

Iamagoodgirll:
As for me I don't feel bad about it, once I noticed you need financial assistance to would gladly assist you without you requesting for it. That's what relationship is all about and shouldn't be one sided.

Very true...
But, majority of the ladies see relationship as an employment opportunity, a means to get steady cash-out from guys, without been ready to reciprocate.

SimplyFacts:


Which gender do you belong to? I'm asking for a friend.

Female

Blessiing:





Yes i am

Am sure many guys have been sending u p.m...
After this ⌚ out, u will no longer be single again.. Lol

Blessiing:


Female

Okay ooo
Continue

Well, it is good to be very supportive in a relationship.

But let me ask this questions

How would you feel if you are in need of cash to resolve an important issues that can lead to the termination of your job and your guy lied he doesn't have or refused to assist you but preferred to assist someone else, and after few months same person came to asked for your assistance?

1, Would you assist?

2, If the Lady in question is your sister will you advise her to assist the guy?

3, What would you do have done in this instance?

NOTE:- The lady has really being faithful and that's the first time she will request for any assistance from him.

OracleOfTheMost:


I thought so too.. but funny enough she’s not asked for a dime since then.

and you think you are debt free? Try leave her make you see

Chibae4real:
Well, it is good to be very supportive in a relationship.

But let me ask this questions

How would you feel if you are in need of cash to resolve an important issues that can lead to the termination of your job and your guy lied he doesn't have or refused to assist you but preferred to assist someone else, and after few months same person came to asked for your assistance?

1, Would you assist?

2, If the Lady in question is your sister will you advise her to assist the guy?

3, What would you do have done in this instance?

As a lady, Where will the guy expect me to get the money from, knowing fully well that I needed help to sustain my job and he wasn't there positively?

If truly he had and he refused to help u when u were in need, he will be shameless to come to u for help afterwards!!!

Blessiing:





Yes i am

Ok...will get across to you

noel22:

Am sure many guys have been sending u p.m...
After this ⌚ out, u will no longer be single again.. Lol

I sent her one too

She needs lumi, but for something else sha

noel22:


Very true...
But, majority of the ladies see relationship as an employment opportunity, a means to get steady cash-out from guys, without been ready to reciprocate.

yes but it shouldn't be so

luminouz:


Ok...will get across to you

Hunter with bow and arrows.. Lol

luminouz:

I sent her one too

She needs lumi, but for something else sha

*for something else*

Romanoff:


Rotfl.

Na mad people full everywhere. You don't even know how this works. You think sending PM to someone of NL means the person will automatically get the message?

Na single digit IQ person I dey follow talk self.

Let me save my energy for who reach.

If u think i dnt knw how sending a pm works then u must be one with a micro unit I.Q .. Like xay na today i been just dey recieve nd send p.m. I knw u wont get d content of d message on d 1st instance esp if we are nt following each.

I already asked u to piss off. So na u knw wetin u dey use ur energy do. Maybe na to collect prik 4rm oga wen he comes back. Well na housewife u be b4. U have no tangible thing to do than to sit infront of d tv nd watch bbnaija like ur life depends on it.

Magnoliaa:

Singlet? Hehe. That one far, con dey expensive. Na Kiwi polish and brush I dey buy. If I wan come dey generous, I add a local sponge, Okin soap and Gillette shaving stick. You baff and smell nice for me, baby. No greater birthday presents than that.

lol na lie na ur type de spoil their bf pass especially when in love

Omihanifa:
Don't mind them

An average Nigerian girl sees relationship as a meal ticket and to them nah only the man go dey shoulder all the responsibilities

True

noel22:

Am sure many guys have been sending u p.m...
After this ⌚ out, u will no longer be single again.. Lol

Lol , i dont even know what to reply

noel22:


Hunter with bow and arrows.. Lol

Not what you have in mind bro.

Blessiing:





Lol , i dont even know what to reply

Say Cheese!!!

Blessiing:





Lol , i dont even know what to reply

Lol...
Ur reply should be towards exiting singleness na...

lilvicky68:
They feel depressed cheated and scammed..

Imagine o, but they want to us to Carry All their liability without help

KillIgbohoN0W:
Only a simp will ask a woman for money, especially a Naija woman. Hmmm

I'll rather die than do that because that will mark the beginning of the end for you. How una take dey keep mouth talk am sef?? Via text or call or physical??


Some men no dey shame o!! Tufiakwa!!

Haha real Nigga

OracleOfTheMost:


But there’s nothing wrong in giving you weekly allowance baah.. na your type Dey buy singlet as birthday gift

OracleOfTheMost:
Hello nairalanders...

The other day I had to ask my girlfriend for some cash because I was short of cash and needed to pay someone for a work done. Of course she gave me but her attitude changed from that day onwards even as she tries so hard to mask it. Respect dropped and she cared less unlike how we were before I borrowed the money from her. I’ve never been stingy as I always showered her with alerts.. I purposely decided not to give give back the money shaa so as to observe her reaction to it and from the look of things it doesn’t look good.

PS: Our relationship is 3months old and this is my first time of seeking financial assistance from her and it’s little money.

So ladies how do you feel when your boyfriend borrows money from you and don’t give back??

should I tell u the truth ,it was too early bro ,if u had asked her to do cooking for you but u really aren't financially capable at the moment ,she for understand,now she will definitely start having doubt about you because the African social media is filled with na man day spend for woman

BeeBeeOoh:
It depends on the kind of lady you are dating.


I had a problem with my woman some time ago reason is because I ran out of cash which resulted me borrowing money from my manche, my woman didn't take it lightly oh. She said, why should I borrow from a friend when she has more than the money sleeping in her account and she isn't using it to do anything at that moment?. Brothers and sisters, no be small issue like this o.

She said Nnaa, if I can't help you when you're in need then why am i your lover or friend in the first place?. Mehn! I marvelled I swear.

So, e get one day I stylishly asked her to help me with 10k, babe gave me her ATM and told me to collect 20k. O boy, I no know wetin I go talk, I collected the money, kept it for 2wks, then used it to get her a very nice gown and a sexy sandals. Mind you she never mentioned about paying her back.

Then on 21st April which is my birthday, babe said that I should prepare that she wanna take me out and I thought it's just normal taking out o, no be small thing. Babe took me to Onitsha mall, she bought a birthday cake and wine for me, we entered one shop there A**.ng(if you know OSHA mall, you'll know this shop), babe said, Nnaa, take whatever you like, at first, I thought she was joking but she isn't.

Brother and sisters on NL, this babe got my surprise surprised, I took 2 Pakistani jeans(a trouser and a short) which cost more than 20k, took 2 T-shirts which is roughly 15k, babe wanna buy pams that is more than 10k for me I rejected because she don over spend jare, I was just smiling sheepishly, in fact, my legs no fit carry me at that moment. I've never experienced such in my life before. At some point, I begin to wonder if this is truly a naija babe because I never expererit.

That's why I always laugh whenever my NL goons keep on bashing our naija babes, but me I dey always ask God to bless Nigerian girls who doesn't see relationship as a meal ticket or a one way street or a poverty alleviation scheme. Relationship ought to be a two way street, you rub my back, I rub my back that's it.

Bro you are just lucky All the girls I dated are leeches I have never chop a single Kobo from a Nigerian girl