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Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by chinchum(m): 11:13pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
armzyville:You figured it out correctly ! The lady is insecure , but also toxic to boot. It is sad i have to write this about your wife OP. A bit of insecurity can be tolerated , but toxicity should not be tolerated. If she is going through your wallet and getting really angry and spewing insults over an unexplained "missing" 1000naira, i needed no other pointer to tell she was toxic. love and narcissistic behaviour should not be mixed together as many individuals mix it up., example is a lady slapped by her fiance because she was speaking with male colleague at work and she justifying that as her man loves her. OP, i wont mince words with you, you have to MAN up......... 7 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Gkemz: 11:17pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
ademidedavid: You're living in hell under your roof. If she said those words, call for the attention of the elders she yeilds to their counsel. Also invite your priest. Express your dissatisfaction to them. If it means using divorce threat use it to make them understand how serious you are. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Nephilim: 11:19pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
ademidedavid:She doesn't mean it! Ejoor! Women can be like that. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Olayetan(m): 11:22pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
ademidedavid: Brother You could tell it's out of anger but she didn't caution herself well to know some words carries heavy gravity. Pls I understand how you feel but don't let the words get into your head, cux if you do, just know your home is about to crash n think of your children mental health. I know your mental health is also at stake but you can handle that better than the young kids... 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by JBL316: 11:23pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
My Brother..na soooo.....i have been married longer (19+) and my wife said exact same thing (e be like say dem dey copy am from somewhere). I looked at her straight in the eyes and told her...UR STUCK WITH ME FOR THE REST OF UR LIFE!...i had a good laff and asked for my dinner. O'l boy no mind her...she was only venting..... |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Samanza89: 11:23pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
Kandeed: This is just me, may God bless you immediately you sound like a real man. 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Cvesta(m): 11:24pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
loliapoopy2013:Have you ever told your husband that you regret marrying him? 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Olayetan(m): 11:25pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
crackhaus: I love this response.... |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by neyobills: 11:26pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
I want to give u a candid advice in my own opinion and with my own little experience Whatever she must have said in the heat of anger in inconsequential,I don’t think there is any reason to lose sleep over that however your case might be different What I find strange is your wife nagging about a 1k unaccounted for by you and the fact that none of your female cousins or family friends can visit you and she controls who comes in and out,my dear brother u are the baby of the house and not only that u are already caged. NEVER let your wife know every single details of your finances,this is a golden rule every man should know to avoid this kain wahala,like how do u even want to surprise your wife with gifts and I didn’t see it coming scenarios,let’s even forgive u that u broke the golden rule it’s now as low as having to account for every kobo you spend,let’s say u win a jackpot tomorrow,will u also have to account for anything you do for your parents,siblings,friends,so even bros gimme urgent 2k from ur siblings or friends she must know,my brother you are not yet married. I’m not saying this as a spoilsport or to condemn u but to jolt u back into reality,but it doesn’t look like a healthy marriage in my opinion,for the fact that this is the first time u are hearing that trash in your 10 years in marriage already paints a picture of you been the perfect gentle man who has high family values,however u need your personal time and space too,no be everything be “my wife my wife”don’t u have hobbies,if not enrol in a gym,get a dog, do something different,your wife has already caged you and she sees no thrills in the union anymore in my opinion. Ladies with this kind of attitude are the ones who will be secretly building a house somewhere and one fateful day she elopes with the kids,you could just come home one day with gifts in hand only to meet an empty house and your echo she go change her sim self sotay u no go for reach am,she already knows your world revolves around her hence her attitude and this attitude pisses women off in the subconscious minds. You need to take your mental health seriously and take control of your life back,be a man,talk less,observe more,if she nags,be silent,be pressing phone but make your opinions and your words law,(something tells me she fit smash your phone self lol)if possible get a side chick that can shower u with love and respect u deserve,then u will spot the difference,I’m not trying to spoil your lovely home oo but she needs competition for your attention to bring out the maturity in her,it is what it is because all that matters at the end of the everything is staying alive. For example I take my wife out to bars or lounges to relax, sometimes and we could even joke about the size of a random lady’s butt,that’s maturity love and self respect,it doesn’t mean I’m lusting over the lady body,what’s the meaning of u are staring at other ladies lustfully,will she be policing your eye movements for the rest of your lives,however I don’t know your character too so maybe just maybe she has a reason for he action,will give her 1% of doubt too cos we never hear her own side of the divide. Lastly hate me or like me this is just my humble opinion,I might be right or wrong. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Nobody: 11:32pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
crackhaus: Almost 15 years of marriage and 3 kids, my wife has said that several times to me. She has threatened to leave me. I said ok, yet every morning I still see her in my house. Bros, no bother yourself, na women's way - emotion before reason. 3 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by collins07(m): 11:37pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
sola12:He is not lucky!that man is going through a lot from a nagging wife,she is controlling him and has no regard for him. We know d truth when people are angry or drunk,take those words serious and make ur findings.there is a different between I dislike u for ur actions,I hate u and regret marrying u is an heavy word that shouldn't have come out from d mouth of any right thinking person. Living with someone for yrs doesn't equate true love and loyalty.how can a wife pick quarrel cuz 1k is missing from her hubby's wallet?she is controlling him and want to always have her way. No matter d anger I make sure I guide my utterances cuz I understand d damage it could cause.u don't say hurtful words in d name of anger it shows u have no regard for d person. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by sammirano: 11:39pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
You lack control. And you worship your wife so i have no advice for you. 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Germi9: 11:41pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
She said it out of context |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by JustforMen: 11:48pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
Ok... never given a deep thought to the meaning! crackhaus: 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by collins07(m): 11:48pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
November24:Ur mama trained u well.that was an heavy word to be used for her hubby,it shows she has no regard for him.she is hurting him badly and people cheering her that is act of love.i play a lot and joke with my wife,I help her in d kitchen as well when I can but,she dare not use wrong word on me cuz she know I'll kill her with silence henceforth. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by seyz91(m): 12:10am On Sep 22, 2021 |
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Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 12:25am On Sep 22, 2021 |
JaneYave:Being a simp to a wife does not guarantee any more peace than being a simp to a girlfriend does. Take the red pill and live. That's my message to all guys. - Yours Ex simp, Adamudacowboy. 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by bigbossila: 12:40am On Sep 22, 2021 |
[bro, they do that all the time....my wife usually said the same thing |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Akuruoulo(m): 12:51am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Kandeed: Lolz he said he don't want to maltreat his wife because he doesn't another man to maltreat his sister but he go like make him sister maltreat another man the same way his wife is msltreating him. I don't know how how men buy the idea that women should be treated like a queen while she is free to treat men like trash. I spit on men who buy those ideas of feminists towards men 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Akuruoulo(m): 12:54am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Newboss: Women has finally made some simps believe they are worth nothing. I can't tolerate This bullshit 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Akuruoulo(m): 12:56am On Sep 22, 2021 |
JaneYave: U are one of those that give women and simps the notion that they should always now down to women stupidity 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by victons(m): 12:58am On Sep 22, 2021 |
sola12:Should we keep making excuses for them? 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by majorbravo: 1:02am On Sep 22, 2021 |
The mere thought of the fact that there are women who behave like this actually turns my stomach. How can you police your husband everywhere he goes? Her type is ready to start a fight with her husband's female boss if she finds her husband greeting her cheerfully. She will falsely accuse him of sleeping with the landlord's wife and the neighbour's daughter not based on fact but on some conjured ludicrous imagination due to her own crazy insecurities. This type will ruin her husband and family in time to come. Her husband would soon lose focus and will in life and poverty would take over. 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Akuruoulo(m): 1:10am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ademidedavid: U DON'T WANT A MAN TO MALTREAT YOUR SISTER ; RIGHT ? BUT DO YOU WANT UR SISTER TO MALTREAT ANOTHER PERSONS BROTHER ? YOU ARE THE BOSS, AND U SHOULD KEEP UR SISTER OUT OF THIS BECAUSE IF SHE MALTREAT ANOTHER MAN THE SAME WAY YOUR WIFE IS MSLTREATING THEN I GUESS HE HAVE TO TAKE ACTION. YOU HAVE TO BUILD YOU HOME THE WAY U WANT IT TO BE , AND NOT BELIEVING THAT'S A MERE WORD FROM HER. SHE SAID ALL THAT FOR NO REASON, JUST GUESS WHAT WILL HIT YOU FINALLY WHEN HAVE A REASON TO BELITTLE YOU. LISTEN TO WOMEN ADVICE AT UR PARIL BECAUSE THEY WILL NEVER GO AGAINST THEIR GENDER . THAT'S YOUR HOME AND U MUST TO TALK TO HER ABOUT HER STATEMENT BECAUSE IT MIGHT NOT BE MERE AS U WOULD BELIEVE. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Akuruoulo(m): 1:18am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ogbenimax007: Do you want her to go her seperate ways since she has nothing to gain at leaving ur home. To most women it's better they poison you than leaving. Learn to handle ur home better than hearing I regret marrying you on several occasions. Thanks 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Slurity(m): 1:23am On Sep 22, 2021 |
November24:I am disappointed that you claim to be a woman and this insensitive statement coming from you, just because you can not say such does not mean you can not do something worse than that from another area of relationship, every man has a unique way to manage their wife and you should respect your husband for managing that your own weak area. For you to even publicly advice another man, someone's husband to stop acting like a child has shown that you too is not perfect and need schooling when it comes to settling misunderstanding in marriage. |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Akuruoulo(m): 1:33am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Kandeed: WOMEN HAVE FINALLY MADE SIMPS BELIEVE THEY ARE THE ONES WHO DESERVES BEEN MALTREAT. I DON'T EVEN UNDERSTAND howTANDING UR GROUND TO RIDE UR HOME TO THE RIGHT DIRECTIONS MEANS MALTREAT TO HIM ... To prove how cruel and DECEITFUL women can be, they are all SUPPORTING the man not to make a move to stop the doom that is about befalling him but they would want the man's head if reverse is the case . Have u ever heard " a real man doesn't hit a woman " ? It simply means a real man should simp, take abuses from a real woman only to become a real man . No one takes women abuse on men as an issue only because they want men to believe they are mere servant to his queen wife . OP SUFFER THE WAY U LIKE BIKO. ITS YOUR HOME AFTER ALL , AND U CAN CHOOSE TO SWITCH ROLES EVEN WITH UR KIDS 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by chrizzyace: 1:39am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ademidedavid: I feel your pain bro, for me I don’t think she hates or regrets marrying you... She definitely loves you bro... don’t take those words to heart, also I think you both need to communicate more even if it’s a topic that would trigger a nerve... do it all with love and compassion. It would help cement those loopholes that’s causing all the misunderstandings... there’s no home that doesn’t go through all this. Handle it with love my brother everything will be alright... Goodluck 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Akuruoulo(m): 1:54am On Sep 22, 2021 |
chris20000: LEAVE THE GUY TO TAKE WOMEN AND SIMPS ADVICE. AT LAST SHAME NO GO GREE AM COME HERE SAY NA ADVICE HIM WANT, OR HIM GO CHANGE MONIKA. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Akuruoulo(m): 1:56am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ademidedavid:In ur own home she decides who come and go while u are listening to people who made her look like semi Angel 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Trueyarn(m): 1:57am On Sep 22, 2021 |
After 10 years and 3 kids? Call her and tell her you hate her too and that you regret marrying her too. Stamp your foot and act like you mean it...stay out a bit late and stop eating her food, deny her sex if need be. If she truly didn't mean it, she will come around an apologize. Take note, it is very important that you do this to find out if she really meant what she said. Truly I say unto you, if she meant what she said and you are not convinced she did and carry on like she said it out of anger, you are on your way to early grave. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Akuruoulo(m): 2:02am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ademidedavid:THIS IS THE THINGS U ARE SUPPOSED TO DO, AND LET HER KNOW IT SHOULDN'T REPEAT. 1 Like |
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