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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Kobojunkie: 5:00pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:Why ask an outsider when your wife is there for you to mine for the answers you seek. Communication is key! |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Nobody: 5:02pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Do you know its your fault? That's the foundation you laid, by agreeing to do all the chores, you started this even before children came, she is used to it and won't change. Better get a domestic help for the kids. Women like taking advantage of nice guys. Never a good idea to pamper a woman every time, she won't respect you. 4 Likes |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Nobody: 5:03pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Thank God you used the word helping your wife and also cos you have ample free time compared to your wife, you were not compelled to do it by your wife's nonchalant abdication of her duty. Your narrative is far different from the Op's story . If he was doing the house chore out of love he won't be complaining and considering divorce. We all love to make our home function effectively by going out of way to get things done but not when you are made to do them caused by negligence by a partner . Kobojunkie: 2 Likes |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by neonly: 5:05pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
She just came back from work now 5pm not even a greet just straight to her room Or should I just leave d house for now because am really emotionally hurt |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by cassyrooy(m): 5:07pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
ahnie:Your words too direct, e dey cut both from front and back. Kinda abrasive. Hope sha you're good? |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by poiZon: 5:07pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:He mentioned it, he said she is working but doesnt contribute to the house. |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by wonderr(m): 5:08pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:was she like that from the beginning or she just changed of recent? Believe me this questions are really important to take into consideration before u make your decision |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by DMCY: 5:09pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Kestolove: Responsible ladies full where? |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by ahnie: 5:09pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
cassyrooy:Yeah am good Cassy! Many thanks for the spot on. 1 Like |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by ufotty2001: 5:09pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
hopexter:I have told her.. that I don't want her..!! She keep disturbing me that we most settle down together |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by kelmicheal: 5:10pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
ufotty2001:What are you still waiting for? Give her Red card |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by neonly: 5:10pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Bro's I even told her d Bible say love yur husband has you love him Just imagine she just got home now since 7am to 5,05pm not even a greet just straight to her room as it nothing is happing Well Anger don dey build up now make I just waka go my friends place 2 Likes |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by omooba969(m): 5:12pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
sabreal: It's not as easy as you suggested because things would not remain the same. Childcare will definitely suffer some setbacks as both parents would now be living separately and they're not expected to show the same level of performance as though they're together. |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by ahnie: 5:12pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:Locate any tavern go drink beer by the time you return you would be too drunk to notice anything. But on a more serious note,I think someone mature that has seen it all in marriage and is still standing tall should counsel this guy. I fear for his mental health. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by thinkdip(m): 5:14pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly: Go to school very quick. I just noticed a gap |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by solidmyk(m): 5:14pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:Make you start to dey cry now, cry and go and beg her for forgiveness What's he even saying sef radar ada |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by neonly: 5:15pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
wonderr: She was not working before she gave birth to my first child But down d lane she said she didn't want to be idle at home then........ |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by omooba969(m): 5:15pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly: Lol , you're funny...why are you so clingy? |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by hopexter(m): 5:15pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
ufotty2001: She just dey use you keep up but if you like her and think she would change then go ahead and settle down with her, you should know hungry girls like that no deserve husband. Know what you want and deserve bro 1 Like |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by cassyrooy(m): 5:16pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:Bros abi na Oga I go call you. Chill. Sometimes the things we give bleeps about aren't what they are, and the things we handle with somewhat negligence are the biggest issue. Some women are stubborn and the only way to get them into realigning with the family formation is to tame them through unconventional show of character. Probably she's hardwired your oppression into her psyche and has elected to look beyond you for happiness. Where you offend her? People who rebel don't just wake up to, dem dey get reasons. Drop ego, study her hard and see if you're dead to her before you proceed else you'd be getting a cold wall with her, and don't even use force, e no go work. Her spirit has taken a new phase, art of war no be only canon and ballistic missiles, be preemptive and less mechanical. 1 Like |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Chinny024(f): 5:16pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:If that's the only issue, it can be amended.. Get a house girl or boy..When she's at work,the person would be doing one or two things while you both are at work... Apart from infidelity, I don't think you have a valid reason for a divorce here.. Or you want a house wife?....Your marriage lack proper communication..Two of you should plan together.. Oga,get a helper for her and have your peace..Shalom!!!! She's your wife and deserve the Best in her career!!! Period!!!! If she's a house wife,you will still complain of having too many load on your back,head,and stomach... Nawa for men sef..... |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by SarkinYarki: 5:17pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly: Don't listen to that bitter 46 woman oo |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by AutoChick4U(f): 5:17pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
MALIGNANTGuest:His wife is a career lady and she chose d career to her home. I see how u didnt comprehend his post cos what's employment through marriage got to do with anything |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Kobojunkie: 5:18pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
poiZon:I just saw that too, and trying to understand what reasons she gave for this to OP. |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by cassyrooy(m): 5:18pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
ahnie:Isoko Amaka. |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by omooba969(m): 5:18pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly: You come across as needy. Go out and have fun with your mates, they're waiting for you at the bar. 1 Like |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by AutoChick4U(f): 5:19pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:They said u should get househelp |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by ahnie: 5:19pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by AutoChick4U(f): 5:19pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:is she earning more than you? |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by eyinjuege: 5:20pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Kobojunkie: 5:21pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
flavnwokem:The house is yours and the children yours. So doing chores in your own house for your own family shouldn't be a burden but a part you play to build your own family. 1 Like |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Toks2008(m): 5:21pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:Which can talk be this? Is this coming from a man or woman. This is the definition of gbewu da ni husband. Anyways just sit her down and talk to her rather than rant here. Discuss the possibility of getting a maid as that will help both of you. Her career is important and your own well being also so get a maid and pay her good money to do the job. E never reach to leave your marriage so remain there bro. Cheers |
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