I was shocked when I came across a Facebook post of a wife whose husband raped their 15year old daughter.

So, the woman needed an advice on what to do about her husband r*pping her 15yrs old in a Facebook group and these are some of the advice from WOMEN oo…

Nigeria women na wa! It got me thinking.

Are we not hypocrites?

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ehnn this people prefer suffering in marriage than to do the right thing, honestly I'm shock. And they will come out saying marriage is bla bla bla.

Women should stop seeking validation.

What nonsense set of women are these? My advice to the woman is that she exit that God forsaken group with bunch of inferior Queens!!



Idont want to believe what iam reading

Marriage is the opium of women seriously. And it hurts me so much. No wonder NwaAmaikpe asserted that women see marriage as their greatest trophy. To some extent , he's right.

Men used marriage to hypnotize women, that when once they heard anything marriage, they become so stupid and useless.


Imagine women advising a woman like them , to sent her daughter away to save her marriage. What type of stupid advice is that. God punish such marriage.


So I must condone and tolerate and Idiotic man just to save my marriage. I can never be that foolish. Sister Osinachi did, and today he's in mortuary. May her soul rest in peace.

Unfortunately..many more have similar opinions but didn't have data to comment

I am not surprised.

I was just a child when I walked into my aunty in a discussion with her female children who were trying to talk her into walking away from my uncle who was a perpetual drunk and serial wife batterer.

She simply said,
"As a woman, if you no get husband, na wetin you gain?"
The yeye one wey you leave, person go collect am, las las, you go come dey struggle for the useless one another person no wan free."


I have a friend who arranges ladies to have anal sex with her husband because it hurts her ass just to keep her home.

My only advice to women is, if you have a good or bad man, just hold him tight.

A dating advice question I get asked a lot by women/men is "Should you have sex on the 1st date? When is the best time to sleep with a guy/girl? Is it bad for a woman/man to have sex with a guy on the first date?".

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Naso, it's the society we are in.I am not shocked.

It's easy to say Nigerian women this and that.

Lots of husbands sleep with the maid, sisters even step daughters and the wives will cover up for them because of what will people say. Too much randy men that can't control their peepee around these days, that is the real issue. If not I wonder why you would sleep with your step daughter.

Blame the men who can't control them selves not the women who try to keep their marriage whatever the cost. If you hear she divorced because the husband slept with the sister or maid, you guys are still going to blame the wife anyway so they would rather suck it up and make the little girl who is the victim get all the blames.

It's a very bad orientation but its the society we are in.

NwaAmaikpe:




I am not surprised.

I was just a child when I walked into my aunty in a discussion with her female children who were trying to talk her into walking away from my uncle who was a perpetual drunk and serial wife batterer.

She simply said,
"As a woman, if you no get husband, na wetin you gain?"
The yeye one wey you leave, person go collect am, las las, you go come dey struggle for the useless one another person no wan free."


I have a friend who arranges ladies to have anal sex with her husband because it hurts her ass just to keep her home.

My only advice to women is, if you have a good or bad man, just hold him tight.

Anal what?

Some women are going through a lot. Wow!

But if your aunty dies in the process of trying to keep her husband by all means, won’t the husband simply marry another wife and continue?

Klass99:
The Litigator and breaking news .

I shock pass you. A guy once asked a hilarious question on this forum that made me laugh.

While it was funny it was also a loaded question with depth and it was this - Dem use marriage swear for us in Africa?

How are you?

Trust you are doing good?

Dem be nor use marriage swear for us oooo. It’s just the way we have been conditioned to believe that marriage is the ultimate.

We make it seem like an adult human’s success is tied to been married and staying married.

Thank God we are gradually moving away from these acts of clinical conditioning.

litigator:
I was shocked when I came across a Facebook post of a wife whose husband raped their 15year old daughter.
So, the woman needed an advice on what to do about her husband r*pping her 15yrs old in a Facebook group and these are some of the advice from WOMEN oo…
Nigeria women na wa! It got me thinking.
Are we not hypocrites?

Commonsense don abandon many people Tay Tay!

SmileDance:
Women should stop seeking validation.

Many of them were raised believing their value depends greatly on their ability to cling firmly to their hushsnd in marriage. A great many of them end up abandoning commonsense altogether in the process of acquiring and keeping that value which ends up ridding them of their self-esteem.

I am not surprised. I will never trust a woman in this life.. Not her words, nor her actions.

Like seriously, are these women, potential mothers advicing the husband to send her raped daughter away instead of leaving the marriage and taking legal actions against the rapist she calls her husband.

This is why so many men get away with rape.

These are the women that their husbands assault but will stay married because of their low self esteem.

Nonsense group. I will exit the group immediately.

NoToPile:
Naso, it's the society we are in.I am not shocked.

It's easy to say Nigerian women this and that.

Lots of husbands sleep with the maid, sisters even step daughters and the wives will cover up for them because of what will people say. Too much randy men that can't control their peepee around these days, that is the real issue. If not I wonder why you would sleep with your step daughter.

Blame the men who can't control them selves not the women who try to keep their marriage whatever the cost. If you hear she divorced because the husband slept with the sister or maid, you guys are still going to blame the wife anyway so they would rather suck it up and make the little girl who is the victim get all the blames.

It's a very bad orientation but its the society we are in.

Apt.

The knife has cut you

Why throw it away

It's their opinion

At the end of the day, it'll be easier to blame the church/religion for the consequences of the terrible decisions/choices these kinds of women make.

Some women are never known to accept blame/responsibility for consequences of the bad decisions/choices they made and refused to correct in time.
They'd rather make/accept excuses.

That was how one lady like that wanted to marry her own sister's husband because "she didn't appreciate and treat him right" O gbasara gi!? Unu hugburu onwe unu na nwoke!

Saw these posts somewhere on IG but I wasn't surprised. Facebook is where the real Nigerians are not fake celeb posters on IG and savage-seeking and clout chasing Twitter users. If you want to know the mind of the average Nigerian, just go to Facebook.

These comments look very ridiculous but the truth is that many women in Nigeria tolerate cheating and abusive spouses. We only come to Nairaland and Twitter to condemn these things but the reality is completely different.

Now to the post. I have some reservations. First, where is the actual OP, where the woman narrated her ordeal? The word "rape" has been overly abused lately and I'm learning to respond carefully to "rape" related issues. Nevertheless, whether it is rape or mutual sex, the man has failed in his responsibility as a "father" and he deserves no mercy. However, it must be noted that "rape" did not appear in the comment section. Whoever narrated the story should provide the original post with the word "rape".

A 15 year old is still a baby as far as I'm concerned and deserves to be taken as one. We can't but also blame the society where 15 year old girls have now been made to look like 27. You see them with wig, full makeup, and can hardly tell their actual age. Today, even toddlers are now forced to wear wig and makeup with "buba" all in the name of fashion and photoshoot. Age of sexual consent used to be 21, but now it is 18 and 16 in some countries because of this fvcked up mentality. But that's by the way.

Should the woman leave the marriage? Well the reality is that many (most actually) Nigerian women (and maybe men) have been cheated on at least once in their life whether they know it or not. Many women have been cheated on so much in their past relationships that cheating don't mean sh!t to them anymore. Telling them to leave a marriage where the husband foots the bills and give regular and good sex because of cheating is like sending them on a suicide mission.

Many women who have cheated on a man sometime in the past also do not think that leaving a relationship because of cheating is the right thing to do. We only come online to speak against these things but the reality is different.

The entire relationship and marriage lifecycle is fvcked up.

This is madness honestly..... What do you mean stay there?

We really don't value ourselves as people in this Nigeria.

Very tragic state of affairs.

Here on nairaland, Vivian was told to discard her son of 12 years because of marriage. When she stood her ground, the religious folks called her names and even told her how her future will be.

Check out the names of those women in that group, what did you see?

Marriage for some of our religious folks is life. They are ready to forsake everything including their uburu to remain married.

Zoom the pictures of these women and you will observe that majority of them are older women, women in their 50s. The only two ladies who made sensible comments in the screenshot are young modern ladies.

That's why I keep saying that majority of the women of old groomed bad* sons/future husbands. See them openly covering rape. None of them is interested in the child's wellbeing. They are only interested in protecting the rapist*.

Many are mad na only few dey roam
We go dey okay las las sha

Graxie:
Here on nairaland, Vivian was told to discard her son of 12 years because of marriage. When she stood her ground, the religious folks called her names and even told her how her future will be.

Check out the names of those women in that group, what did you see?

Marriage for some of our religious folks is life. They are ready to forsake everything including their uburu to remain married.

Where? When ?

Klass99:
The Litigator and breaking news .

I shock pass you. A guy once asked a hilarious question on this forum that made me laugh.

While it was funny it was also a loaded question with depth and it was this - Dem use marriage swear for us in Africa?

Is it an African thing though?

Those women must be delusional.

Kobojunkie:
Where? When ?

https://www.nairaland.com/5731810/husband-doesnt-want-son-come


I love that thread because it exposed a lot of things about we Nigerians.

NoToPile:
https://www.nairaland.com/5731810/husband-doesnt-want-son-come
I love that thread because it exposed a lot of things about we Nigerians.

I hope the woman in question didn't end up abandoning her kids in the name of marriage abeg.