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Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer: 3:25am On Sep 28, 2021 |
I won't bore you all with a long write up. I'm ready to settle down, actually I needed to settle down like yesterday. Problem is, I don't make friends easily and hooking up is even tougher. I don't trust easily. So I'm talking with this girl that checks all my boxes ( quite a rare feat for my high expectations), but for one thing...she is evidently a choleric. I know because I'm one myself. The hot temper, impetuousness, some bossy-ness, independent mindedness, low empathy, high ambition...all those tell tale choleric features give it away. Now I know cholerics are advised to get their opposites say phlegmatic for relationship purposes, but I want to ask the house: can I a hot tempered man cope with a hot tempered woman? Any people with experience on this here? Can both of us with low empathy really be compatible? The adverse statistics coming out of marriage these days scares the sh..t out of me. I don't want any of it. Should I drop this girl? Or can it work? Sorry oo...it may sound small but that's my own challenge. Cc newbornmacho, Ahnie, kestolove 21 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by newbornmacho(m): 3:34am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Bro...I'm not interested in anything female for now. You know this . 371 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by bmdmix11: 3:35am On Sep 28, 2021 |
why bother 11 Likes |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer: 3:38am On Sep 28, 2021 |
bmdmix11: well, i really need to settle down, and im really not the type that eadily gets into relationships. so im wondering how long it would take me to reach this extent again with a new person 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Nobody: 3:41am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Imagine a fight between Chelsea and ManCity... The outcome is not predictable. How about ManCity and Norwich? U know we'll all go for a City win. 2 Captains can't stare a ship. Unless she'll so love u to swallow her ego or you'll so love her to be the errand man. 376 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer: 3:42am On Sep 28, 2021 |
newbornmacho: sorry...no vex 28 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Saao(m): 3:43am On Sep 28, 2021 |
I know God can do anything but humanly speaking don't attempt it, its suicidal except both of you can manage yourself perfectly well since you know your problem. 43 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer: 3:43am On Sep 28, 2021 |
AlmonDeLemon: Na waa oo. So na to ditch the babe sure pass be dat? 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer: 3:46am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Saao: Wahala. Everyone seems to be saying the same thing...is it that big a deal? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Nobody: 3:47am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer: Na u talk am o... But sincerely, u should be able to decipher what'll work for u. At least. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Validated: 3:48am On Sep 28, 2021 |
All this grammar because you want to marry someone you do not love. Please, go and look for your wife and stop these nonesense choleric-ish. Even Hitler melts vefore the woman he married insipte of his irrational, brutal and harsh personality. Our own Buhari is known to be a puppep in the "oza room" with Aisha. You, ordinary you are here asking questions. 148 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer: 3:50am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Validated: sorry...no vex. na advice i dey find. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer: 3:50am On Sep 28, 2021 |
AlmonDeLemon: Ok. Thanks |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by ChiefSosa(m): 4:48am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Should I drop this girl?YES! Or can it work?NO! You should also work on yourself! I believe the only reason you're complaining is 'cause you've finally met someone that will treat you in the language you understand, and that scares you. If you (a choleric) decide to marry a Phlegmatic, you might want to take advantage of such person. The hot temper, impetuousness, some bossy-ness, independent mindedness, low empathy, high ambition...all those tell tale choleric features give it awayWith those features you stated, I don't think both of you will last. Unless you want to turn to the new Kpokpogarri and Tonto dikeh! 93 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by TheWolfen(m): 5:29am On Sep 28, 2021 |
If dem advice una now, Las las nah watin still dey una mind b4 una go do... 105 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Sonnobax15(m): 5:30am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Na fvck dey hungry this op 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Kestolove(m): 6:02am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer:if I tell u d truth now, u won't take it...so let mi keep to myself 8 Likes |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by AutoChick4U(f): 6:06am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer:Its best to have someone who balances things out for you bro, when you angry she can calm you down. Two choleric cannot work out in d same enclosure. 16 Likes |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by AutoChick4U(f): 6:09am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer:Better go look for who will give u peace of mind cos las las thats important. If person tick box but turns out to be a monster tomorrow, it will only end in regrets and "had I known", which ain't worth it. 16 Likes |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by AutoChick4U(f): 6:11am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer:Why exactly do you even need to settle down? Knacks? 3 Likes |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by AutoChick4U(f): 6:13am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer:These qualities will only get heightened with marriage. U saw d one that wants to end his 15 yrs old marriage cos wife takes about nothing else but her career 9 Likes |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by BigDawsNet: 6:47am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer: Manage if you love her 2 Likes |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by bmdmix11: 6:53am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer:u can't teach nothing. just look for another or regret d one u already know bout simple |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by johnsonmartina6(m): 6:55am On Sep 28, 2021 |
newbornmacho:;Dif you know you know,, my guy don japa |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer: 6:59am On Sep 28, 2021 |
AutoChick4U: family pressure, age don reach tey tey 2 Likes |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer: 7:00am On Sep 28, 2021 |
ChiefSosa: Ok. Gbege be dat |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer: 7:01am On Sep 28, 2021 |
AutoChick4U: Yeah |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer: 7:04am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Kestolove: Try me |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by 9japride(m): 7:45am On Sep 28, 2021 |
I don't know if all these stories is just for catching cruise, simply logic should tell you immediately if there are known fears in any situation best bet is to back off. Will you be the one to be calming down in the relationship? Because most ladies with that attributes won't calm down for any man. Marriage suppose not to be a steady fighting ground. Find someone that will give you peace. After all the Buhari government issues plus stress at work, home should be a relaxation place and not a battle ground. The choice is yours. 30 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by AutoChick4U(f): 7:52am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer:OK. Good luck |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Ayotemide(f): 7:52am On Sep 28, 2021 |
In this day and age, that is your only reason for being married? Modernizer: 7 Likes |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by SenecaTheYonger: 7:53am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer: It depends. If you look physically threatening and act like a dominant male, her temper will only be for the children. But if reverse is the case, she could boss the hell outta your life. You could try living with her for a few months and also test her temperament. 17 Likes |
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