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Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by SenecaTheYonger: 8:58am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Gokoyer0: But she might not be as bad as the OP describes her. For instance, he says she's hot tempered, but she might not be quick to get angry. She might just be those type that you have to really do something crazy to upset her. |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Youngaboy(m): 8:59am On Sep 28, 2021 |
I once had a girlfriend of that type. She was ok physically to my taste, except for the fact that didn't know her inner mind. So when I started seeing those signs/attitude, I just had to let her go because I could not cope with her and there was no point going deep with her. So you should have noticed this since before thinking of being serious with her. |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by adanny01(m): 9:00am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer: Marriage is about complementing each other. If you have the same character, it has serious pros and cons. Both of you loving the same things is likely and good but constantly clashing on other things brings disaster. You will have more clashes than normal because both of you have very little tendencies of compromise. I can't tell you to leave her or not, but it seems you take what you read too serious. A book cant find a wife for you. You have to use courtship to get the right woman. 2 Likes |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by zeenaman: 9:01am On Sep 28, 2021 |
You are hot tempered and you want God to bless you with an innocent, cool hearted woman? Who will now marry the cool hearted men? Work on yourself, bro and stop looking for who'll complement your imperfection. 2 Likes |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by olawaleroc: 9:01am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Since you are also choleric go for a phlegmatic lady. If you go ahead, frequent head on collissions between you too are all but guaranteed and the effect wont be pleasant |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by mary1985: 9:03am On Sep 28, 2021 |
ONCE YOU LOVE YOUR PARTNER,YOU WILL BE ABLE TO TOLERATE EVERYTHING ABOUT HER,LOVE CONQUER EVERYTHING INCLUDING HOT TEMPER |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by CPU25(f): 9:07am On Sep 28, 2021 |
there is really no big deal here for me oh, its just a matter of talking things through. i have seen females who were tigresses in their youth melt to a mouse when they get married. nobody go tell you when the hit don start, na only you go use your hand advice yourself cos you go tire one-day. but seriously if you cant handle her, then don't stress yourself and stress her in the process. and this things about not knowing when next you will see another person is what i don't get, is that low self esteem i sense there? bros you need to evaluate yourself, know who you are and what works best for you before you can bring in someone to your space, cos right now i know marriage should be the least of your problem. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Sunnydoo: 9:07am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Proverbs 25:24 It is better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman. The worst senerios is that, both of you are grenades. My brother, you both are advised to accept Christ and get sanctified, else.... 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by qtguru(m): 9:09am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer: Fire and Fuel in holy matrimony, they should create a Netflix show around this. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by wonlasewonimi: 9:10am On Sep 28, 2021 |
I thought she has cholera 1 Like |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Theunbothered: 9:10am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer: So you're going to marry an abusive woman just because you're afraid of being alone. I wish you good luck |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Cnach: 9:10am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Ok before u be dey find one cool girl wey u go carry hot temper kill abi? Bros e no work, na this one fit u and na this one u go marry. Who give u the hotness? Who tell u say e no get stop? Na this one u go marry. God forbid any good girl suffer wetin she no know 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by kapelvej: 9:13am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer:Have you checked the price of casket. All women can be a a mother but not all can be a wife 2 Likes |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by babyfaceafrica: 9:14am On Sep 28, 2021 |
BigDawsNet:Very bad advise, marriage should be enjoyed, not managed! 1 Like |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by iammolise(m): 9:15am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Hot needs cold to simmer down, have u ever heard of a negative+negative work together... In matters of LOVE&affair one of the parties have to be FOOL, so if u are not ready to play the fool and she's not giving u any impression she's ready to play that role I'd kindly advice u to break it off now. My2cents. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Cnach: 9:16am On Sep 28, 2021 |
zeenaman:Na God go help me bless u. Somebody has what people are scared of n u are even proud saying out side instead going for deliverance 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by ramatintin(m): 9:16am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Simple physics like like repel why unlike attract. Bro be wise and don't get burnt. 1 Like |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Odidigboigbo(m): 9:16am On Sep 28, 2021 |
OP go ahead, if she's the perfect match for you. At first (first five years) it might be tough but last, last, both of you will be alright due to maturity and understanding. In my former compound, I used to know a couple (then, they were dating) that fought almost every day, to the extent of the lady stabbing the guy. They are both joyfully married together now, the last time I saw them, it was like wow! I jokingly asked if they still fight, both were accusing each other for the cause of the fight then. That shows lack of maturity on both of them then. When I was much younger, I was very stubborn, even in school majority thought I was a cultist. But now, I'm gentle as dove. OP, one day you will change especially when you begin to have children. 3 Likes |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by babyfaceafrica: 9:17am On Sep 28, 2021 |
SUGARCyprian247:Marriage shouldn't be based on luck, let's learn to get our own luck |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by babyfaceafrica: 9:19am On Sep 28, 2021 |
whodeyhere:That is if they survive High blood pressure, stroke and mental abuse |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by wunmi590(m): 9:23am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer: Sorry that I have to quote you, I guess this is the way I could pass my message and you will get it immediately... I hardly talk on peoples relationship, because I don't know how and where you guys meet each other and how you love each other but: If you possess all these attribute, don't marry somebody who also possess same, the outcome would be brutal, and it would reflect on your kids.. Your kids would definitely tap into that gene/trait, which would not be nice for a family... God would lead you well 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Nobody: 9:23am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer:check her zodiac sign to know if you guys are compatible. Some persons don't believe in it but it works. |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Dada4me: 9:24am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Both of you should visit Calvary, you concern will be taken care of. |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by TeddBundy: 9:26am On Sep 28, 2021 |
newbornmacho:See this idiot, but you opened and reply to this thread. Useless being |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Gee64: 9:27am On Sep 28, 2021 |
When you were knacking her you didn't consider the fact that she's choleric, it is now that you have demolished her abuna you know that she's choleric. Chimeric kor, chloronackric ni..YOU must marry her oh..if you are not willing to, then, don't spy on my signature below oh..because I don't want you to mine Pi COIN. Just joking. My advice is that you can marry her and learn to tolerate each other. It might be rocky at first but everything would go well with time. My marriage is a good example of what you mean. Modernizer: |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Pharaohny: 9:28am On Sep 28, 2021 |
She tick all boxes as if naa footballer she be She be attacking midfielder 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by SenatePresdo(m): 9:30am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer: For you to share this here, shows that it can't work. Because sharing it here for Advice consciously or Unconsciously shows that you don't find her being a choleric comfortable. And she would never change, because temperament is naturally imbedded, and not learnt. The choice is yours to make. |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by bentuzene(m): 9:31am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer: My Brother, As a Melancholic with a Bitter taste for Cholerics, I wish you all the best and pray for divine wisdom for you. You'll know what to do eventually. PS. Cholerics can be lived with tho but are you ready to tolerate Her completely?! 1 Like |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by bragamycin: 9:31am On Sep 28, 2021 |
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Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by karnafiu03(m): 9:33am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer: Is like you are eager to die very quick? |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by chymeze: 9:33am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Lolzzz you know whom you're about to marry doesn't fit your temperament and you're still asking if you should go ahead. The good thing about this is that you're not already committed in marriage so the decision of walking away should be much easier for you to make without the input of anyone here. Understand that marriage is something that can make or Mar you not just on earth but eternally. Marrying a lady with a hot temper to start with is a very big no. Go for a lady that gives you peace of mind, not one who would most likely give you issues on a daily basis and take away your peace. And I always tell people, especially ladies, do not rush into marriage because you see your mates going into it. It is not a competition. There are certain decisions in the life of someone which are called "life decisions", e.g. choice of a life partner, choice of a course in school, your salvation etc. These are decisions you make which could alter the entire course of your life and your destiny, and as such you don't look at your friends or even your parents or siblings when making such decisions cos you might be pushed into making the wrong decision! You consult God only. I always advice that even if it takes you a lifetime to find the right partner, then it's worth waiting for it. Don't feel time is passing you by. Take your time and make the right decision and enjoy. Cheers. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Ybaby: 9:34am On Sep 28, 2021 |
Modernizer: You are hot temper, impetuousness, some bossy-ness, independent mindedness, low empathy but You want the opposite which is gentle temper, patient and considerate, submissive, a team player, empathetic My brother, marry her!! leave your opposites alone for people like them. 4 Likes |
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