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Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by Solofresh2: 7:51pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz:And why should men not be outrageous about parternity fraud? Why are you trying to justify this paternity fraud of a thing. Imagine you are a man, working your ass out and labouring everyday because of your child,only to find out that the child you have laboured for is not your child how will you feel. Why are you women so heatless and always trying to justify what is wrong Can you wish this for your male child?,if you can do that,then I don't have any problem with you 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by Nobody: 7:52pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: Stupi*d Feminist think they are wiser than God, read proverbs 7, you are daf*t with these statement, who controls access to sex, how many men are getting sex, why is mastubating a norms among men Dum*my equalist 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by Nobody: 7:52pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Biglittlelois: TBH !! i am beginning to see reasons why our forefathers subjugated women, if the best that could come out of educating a female child is what we now see online these days then we need to ask them for forgiveness amazontopaz opens a thread to justify paternity fraud cos men cheat, so if i cheat the next tin is for my wife to go fetch me a baastard, how many children of tuface idibia outside is annie paying there schools fee or footing there social welfare bills. 15 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by bukatyne(f): 7:53pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Arsenate: I honestly do not know any woman offline who would make light of paternity fraud. ![]() |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by mariahAngel(f): 7:55pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
bukatyne: The truth has so many enemies, but keeping saying/typing it anyways! If they stylishly call you a pick me, Iya mi wear it with pride because on this forum, it is a compliment to be called a pick me or a simp. Hehehehehehehehehehehehe ![]() 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by SenatePresdo(m): 7:59pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
LilMissFavvy: I detest it when a man is making the mother of his kids go through emotional trauma by cheating on her with impunity. Cheating is cheating. And a cheating wife is the worse, if we look at it in an analytical way. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by drlateef: 7:59pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: This is a partially correct observation but the OP must realise that men don’t incubate babies. It is the woman that has the womb to incubate babies. Therefore, the gender that produces the illegitimate child has greater responsibility to avoid such happening when they go about their randy business. And if they fail to be responsible then they must ensure that the right sperm donor is given his child. They should not rob Peter to pay Paul. You can’t eat your cake and have it by hiding the identity of your promiscuity. The men doing the same thing get away with it because they don’t incubate babies. So the women unfortunately have to bear the brunt of what they incubate. |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by Nobody: 8:00pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
cococandy: coco we are not asking you not to cheat, infact feel free to draft a timetable ... the main concern here any wife that wants to cheat must be ready to take responsibility just like men do. please cheat, buh don't force the consequence on an innocent man, all we are saying is women should also take responsibility for their actions 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by Missionaire: 8:00pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
I don't get the point the OP is trying to make. Is Paternity fraud justified because men are the ones who impregnate women? Were the women raped? Were the men who were cheated with the ones the women made vows to love and to hold at all times and be faithful to? What proofs are there that all the men who impregnate married women are married men? Were the women forced or raped? Every action no matter how sweet or bitter, has its rewards and consequences. Has it become a competition? Nobody likes to be deceived whether male or female. Many marriages have been destroyed when many women found out that their husbands had children with other women even while married. If you as a woman feel cheated because you were impregnated by a man you cheated with, then carry the bastard child and return to the real father and spoil his own marriage. Don't give another innocent man wahala. It is one thing to willingly and knowingly raise another man's child as a man and it is another thing to be deceived into raising another man's child. For this economy of scarce resources? My own is that all these ranting here will end here. It will not stop those who want to carry out DNA tests from doing so and neither will it stop those men who want to kick out their cheating wives out of their homes and lives from doing so. Nonsense! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by AmazonTopaz(f): 8:01pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
I come online and 23 mentions ![]() ![]() Why are you men still outraged lol,no time to respond to rubbish. I stand by what I said if you want paternity fraud to end control your third legs and call your men to order ![]() 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by saintmm(m): 8:01pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Every action has consequence. One of the unsung consequence of sexual immorality is paternity fraud. Any society that never see reason to preach sexual discipline but glamorizes immorality like some of our TV shows must be ready to dance to the consequences. Remember, the Bible says that righteousness exalts a nation, but, sin is a reproach to any man. I rise 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by revolt(m): 8:02pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
revolt: Like I predicted.... its a universal trait. When you ask them this question they deflect or run away...lol... |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by AmazonTopaz(f): 8:04pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
bukatyne: Go back to the beginning read slowly and try to comprehend my point if you can't walk away. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by AmazonTopaz(f): 8:05pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
kingxsamz: You are the daft one with a fish brain 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by revolt(m): 8:05pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz:lol No that's not what will happen.... Just like western men are avoiding their women and not marrying them that's the fate of women in naija. It's already getting very difficult to find men willing to we'd u chics soon you ppl will be going international looking for man attention. Come ask western women... 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by Nobody: 8:07pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: We know the difference between a stup*id woman and a wise woman Thank God Feminism has really exposed women's nature ![]() Religion was decieving us too much 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by MrColdsweat: 8:08pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
It's very unfortunate that I found myself here. |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by vickydevoka(m): 8:09pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz:Who say me. Don't sleep with demselves. Lol. Men sleep with themselves by masturbating lol |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by AmazonTopaz(f): 8:09pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Biglittlelois:I didn't see this until someone mentioned me while quoting you, The point is that failure to hold men accountable for their promiscuity results to paternity fraud when people try to absolve someone of infidelity and don't condemn what needs to be condemnable these men will continue sleeping with wives of other men I didn't justify paternity fraud I chose to see it from another angle. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by abbey621(m): 8:10pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: You're childish and lack comprehension! We know in most households the men usually are the breadwinners, nobody is saying men cheating is right or justified, the point is simple, your opening post asked a question and I gave you the answer, the reason men react so harshly is because of the investment in time and money. When men cheat and it leads to a child, the child is taken care of outside the home or the man becomes polygamous or pretends it never happened(deadbeat). Even when the man has kept the child hidden for several years, his wife has not devoted time and financial resources to raising the child of another woman. If you don't understand how both scenarios differs then you're a lost cause....SIMPLE! 7 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by MufasaLion: 8:10pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
nairaman66: Absolutely! They are creatures that nobody can understand except them alone. Can't you see how some of them are justifying their promiscuous lifestyle? |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by AmazonTopaz(f): 8:11pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
JESHAL: When will you realise or choose to get it to your head that I don't read your trashy post. I only scroll through,I didn't even read this one I am just typing to let you know that you are irrelevant to me and so are your trashy opinions 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by Nobody: 8:12pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: Men accountable for a crime they didn't commit, the fraud Feminist logic Keep giving me the raw female harlo*t* nature, I'm learning ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by vickydevoka(m): 8:13pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA: I can agree with you if you make it a law in our constitution that men should stop paying for Bride price. Any marriage should be done equally between the family of the agreed couple |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA: In my opinion, marriage should either be scraped or everyone practice an open relationship |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
vickydevoka: You don't understand the court divorce system destroying men in Western Societies, that's why you are making these comments |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by DrayZee: 8:17pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz:So mens “promiscuity” is why married women sleep around? You people blame men for all your shortcomings. You also wrote that with what you’ve seen, you can also be sure that women are also promiscuous, right? Should I now come out asking why women are outraged over cheating men when other members of their gender also cheat? Or maybe men are only promiscuous because there’s an equal number of women willing to enable their promiscuity to come to fruition....therefore, we should blame women. That’s what whataboutism gets you. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by Nobody: 8:17pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
AdeOri99: Not at all, we need an institution to properly raise children, men should instill morality in women by shaming mechanism to prevent them from cheating and rejecting men who want to cheat |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by AmazonTopaz(f): 8:19pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
abbey621: You are the one who lacks comprehension, don't say what you don't know by using the word 'most' there are many homes where the women are the breadwinners bring your stats even some men still find it hard to be responsible to their children. Some of the children gotten from men playing away matches another man can be taking care of such child unknowingly which is the same paternity fraud The scenarios don't differ they both contain deceit, infidelity,lack of trust and even betrayal none is better or explicitly different. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by DrayZee: 8:23pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz:Who shamed women for choosing not to take infidelity? When did that ever happen? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by Nobody: 8:23pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
JESHAL: I sincerely believe in freedom, if you don't give people their freedom, believe me, it's an unending war. |
Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by Nobody: 8:24pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: And Men pay 90% of child support and alimony in Western Societies, how much more Africa Feminist and their logic ![]() ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
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