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My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DavidNative(m): 11:37am On Oct 01, 2021 |
Need Advice Pls Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground…. But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice. Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls 132 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by MASTERYANKEE: 11:41am On Oct 01, 2021 |
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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DavidNative(m): 11:42am On Oct 01, 2021 |
Pls i need an honest and kind advice . I will deeply appreciate 40 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Foodqueen(f): 11:44am On Oct 01, 2021 |
Continue talking to her, one day she will reciprocate. 40 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by thorpido(m): 11:45am On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative:There was no pre-marital sex while you were dating, was she a virgin when you married her? 362 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DavidNative(m): 11:46am On Oct 01, 2021 |
Thank you ma. Has any one gone through this pls, how were you able to fix. kindly help a brother, its been a lot of struggle , something i just sleep and just wait to go to office the next day so i can distract my mind, i am deeply struggling on my inside as a man, 45 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by yuping(m): 11:46am On Oct 01, 2021 |
Until I'm married I still don't have The to advice you, let me wait for elders. 78 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by chatinent: 11:46am On Oct 01, 2021 |
Make sex enjoyable, then, since that is the only option you both have. Of course, you know cheating is never an option. You never indulged premaritally, she likewise. Good one! Big Gbenga shouldn't be a problem with the perfect how-tos. Now let's hit the bulls eye! Try lubrication, fair play, lubrication again. Don't replicate porn roles you watched. Don't watch it... because you'll start replacing her with the other figures you fantasize on. Don't do fantasy oo! Just have it as a blessing of marriage! Try not to be a sexddict too! You know na person daughter. You can't be having it twelve times daily na, baba. You both need to discuss on the perfect time! Tell her hoo haaa she has to learn to love sex; that's an only option for her too! She has to be in with the right stimulation, yeah? Learn it. Make stimulation good. And when it's about to hit 10pm, reach for the sky. I still feel you missed sth during courting. Yes, no to premarital sex but you had to have discussed this intimate situation since you think you know it already before marriage. By the way, be a stimulant! Buy a booster! Hit the bulls eye. It works! Enjoy. Lol. Don't tag me. 165 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DavidNative(m): 11:47am On Oct 01, 2021 |
Yes Sir, she said she never had sex thorpido: 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Ynix(m): 11:52am On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative:Play a simple game... Write this word on paper and say, I CANNOT TAKE THIS ANY MORE, BYE BYE WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST IN LIFE Drop it and travel to a friend's place Notice her reaction, if disturbed, don't come back until she begs and after that prepare a written agreement. Also be an alpha man 220 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DavidNative(m): 11:53am On Oct 01, 2021 |
hmmm Ynix: 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Simdyofficial(f): 11:56am On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative:hmmmm.. Oga she need understand you or tell her you will need another wife.. Some ladies are like that. When they hear anything like competition they will start fixing themselves.. Its no sin if you both watch porn xvideos.com can help.. She need see other ladies feeling happy on BBC's. Marriage is crazy though 130 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by thorpido(m): 12:04pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative:You need to be patient with her. She is a 'learner' when it comes to sex. It's like just learning to ride a bicycle. It's rough initially and full of falls. Keep doing what you're doing... pre-intimacy. It will help her become more receptive. You also need to make love to her mind. You keep talking to her. 41 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Octopusssy(f): 12:06pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Oga, what is the measurement of the said oversized preek? I want to check something 156 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DavidNative(m): 12:06pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
She has been exposed to porn in the past from what she said. All saying am comparing her to other ladies. i had bought books sex to help, she enjoys its when i perform romance and oral o her, but when i request for sex or she should give me some, she says she cant cos of my size and i should give her time, but its been a year, hence why i had to voice out Thanks alot once again for your comment ma Simdyofficial: 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Tokskob2008: 12:08pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative:She said "she never had sex" or you confirmed she never had sex? Which is correct ![]() Then again this is why it's always good to know each other "properly" before getting married to see what both partners can or can't cope with cos it will definitely be hard to change from old ways after marriage. 215 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Octopusssy(f): 12:08pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative:Don't answer them o. They will just help you to scatter your marriage 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Octopusssy(f): 12:09pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
thorpido:She is still learning after one whole year of marriage?? ![]() 84 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DavidNative(m): 12:10pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
hmm. Thank you Sir 4 this, this is what i had been doing, i had tried not to even react negatively since, but could get tiring, sometimes i had to masturbate of if i cannot bear it again , last week wen i brought it up with her even in a very gentle and romantic atmosphere , we could not sleep as she was crying all through that i was not understanding , i had to plead with her never to bring it up before we could sleep at midnight thorpido: 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DavidNative(m): 12:11pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Thanks everyone for the advice . Am deeply grateful 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DavidNative(m): 12:14pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Well, i believe .r Tokskob2008: 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Ancecoker(m): 12:16pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by SapphireBlue: 12:16pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Why not find a sexual position that suits both of you. This life can be somehow though, person wey get small pr!ck go dey shame to fvck and person with gbola go dey tear toto upandan, dey cause pain for person daughter making sex less enjoyable. 90 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by nairaman66(m): 12:17pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Even the Bible says, too much of everything is bad. Sometime, just do little and leave the rest, it is not every time you’d spend hours on top of her, you have to learn to understand her sexual needs. Forget all these people who says big dickk is this and that, I spend minimum of 1hrs on my wife etc. You can’t believe all these! You are having sex and at the same time being the time keeper? There is honor in moderation. 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Charmingrascal(m): 12:17pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Haaaa!!! Get a lubricant, let her lubricate very well and also up your pre-intimacy/for*play games. Don't rush the pre-intimacy/for*play, you can decide to have pre-intimacy for not less than 45 minutes before penetration. (Intense pre-intimacy). Try to avoid sex positions that will allow you to penetrate too deeply and hit her cervix, (Doggy should never be ur sex position) Missionary style is better, let her be on top and control the moment. But with some of the things you wrote here I think ur wife doesn't like sex and she is has low libido. You need to talk to her again, because if a woman refuses to give a man SEX and food when he needs it, it is just a matter of time before he starts getting it else where. And don't stay too long during sex, sex is more sweeter when it is short, intense and pleasurable. Too long sex can be so boring especially with the fact that your wife sex drive is very low. I wish you all the best in your marriage Mr DavidNative Signed Charming Rascal EXPERIENCED bachelor 49 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by BigBelleControl(m): 12:17pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
I have seen women who lost sex drive after one or two children but this one is strange. Woman's wants are insatiable. They complain when you're small under and also whine when when your ponron is too big. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by KarinaLove(f): 12:17pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her. Must marriage be all about sex? I don tire. Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh ![]() Can't men use their time for something more productive in life ![]() 19 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by bishop4life(m): 12:17pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by OutisComputers7: 12:17pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Did you Bleep her before marriage? |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Obaxxx(m): 12:17pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
![]() Eyahhhhh...... Your wife no know wetin she dey miss ![]() Those of you advising the op not to cheat,how will the op change his engine oil when his wife is depriving him of her pot of beans ![]() 18 Likes
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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by MrHighSea: 12:17pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
whatever the solution. No side chicks. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
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