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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DavidNative(m): 12:51pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
I thought so Sir. am just being honest, but marriage made me realise my assumption is wrong georgeakins: |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Blackdisciple(m): 12:51pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
MASTERYANKEE: Kaiii |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Blackdisciple(m): 12:52pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Hmmm ok what do she want you to do then .? |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Factotum: 12:52pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative: Talking from experience Have a heart to heart to with her and be very frank and sincere about how you feel. Outline the cons of her actions and what it could make a man do outside marriage. Tell her you have tried and will not be making further efforts if she’s not willing to adjust. Tell her you love her but her actions are driving you crazy. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by erubati: 12:52pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative:The two of u should have sat down to discuss all these things before saying 'i do'. Little things that u both ignored now has become a big problem. |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by BlakKluKluxKlan(m): 12:52pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative: Did you disvirgin her then ? |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Gate050: 12:53pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
chatinent:Pointless! What are you even saying exactly? Meaningless! Don't be this, don't be that.. bullshit! She is his wife. When thing like this happen, best advice is to go to phymacy and get libido booster for her. My wife did got it for me when I performed less now it's like we both go online at a time and last like tomorrow no dey ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DavidNative(m): 12:53pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
not yet Sir mistijude: |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DMerciful(m): 12:53pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
So he is indirectly paying for sex? You can never really enjoy a one-sided sex, it's frustrating. No sex before marriage sucks! AutoC: |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by obowunmi(m): 12:54pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative: You shouldn’t have married her. Now you will deny yourself sweet knacks. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Mfangatak: 12:54pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
I guess she may be having difficulty in handling the sensation or feeling pain due to dryness. So take it easy with her and try to groom her. Before s3x take time to explore sensitive parts of her body like cli***is, bre*st, side of the neck by the ear, or lips. Be patient to play with and teach her how to kiss softly if she doesn't know how to kiss. While doing this, surprise her with some gifts, airtime, and money. |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by MrMacinterchi1: 12:54pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
grandstar:You can imagine o. very manipulative something. That marriage will Soon be hitting the rock . it's inevitable. I pity op cus frustration will soon set in 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by ArcFresky(m): 12:55pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by slevan: 12:55pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
She is manipulating you. Think! |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by HazzanTazzan(m): 12:55pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative: im not understanding you bro... she said she never had sex before you married her and you also said you believed her... did you confirm this on your wedding night? did you meet her a virgin? if she claimed she never had sex before, its expected that you met her a virgin... did you meet her a virgin on your wedding night? do not shy away from factual questions which will help you in resolving this issue cos thats what most married men do to keep their marriage but they end up disappointed in the end... |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by frozen70(f): 12:55pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative: You really know that you are big down there and you should know that not every woman wants it big down there Assuming you guys were having sex during courtship, she would have seen it a D either stay with it or pull out But you dodged that part, expecting her to accept it the way it is Well, that single part alone is enough to discourage her from sex due to pains and discomfort You have to look for Al alternatives so that when she can't stand it, you get it else where Men that are big down there, dates women that lives sex and ready to accommodate the size |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Lugianostar(m): 12:56pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Complicated though but to be honest with you why did you stay long with your elongated peninsula ![]() You really think anyone can help you solve these arithmetic ? You can't force yourself on her as it will be a rape case instead please engage her in any other hobby or activities. You might not know if she was a virgin since they wasn't a premarital sex and now you won't know since your peninsula is extraordinary ![]() |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by shakir0802: 12:56pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
[quote author=DavidNative post=106340084]Need Advice Pls Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground…. But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice. Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls[/quote u aren't man enough u come outside on social media talking about ur marriage issue and ur intimacy here don't u think it doesn't make sense, if it woman now I would have say it there way but man haba it not good and u stated u suck her and she said ur dick is big are u praising urself or what? Ok ooo if u want my answer on that please cut it off or u trimmed ur prick to her pussy shape because the last thing I would advise u to do is having extra marital affair outside because of the danger involve now, so mr man used ur brain. And mind u not everything u post on social media 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by ArcFresky(m): 12:56pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
chatinent: Did you read where OP stated he gave her head and spends long time in pre-intimacy? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Nobody: 12:56pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative: Three quick questions will give you an idea on what to do. 1. Is she happy or moody? 2. Does she get wet enough during intercourse? 3. Is she circumcised i.e. is the clitoris still present? |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by IkpuMmadu: 12:57pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative:the truth is that you need to make her understand the need to have sex or don't you guys want kids |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by JesseJo: 12:57pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative: Bros, stop masturbating...You will be fine |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by expiray: 12:57pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
From your conversation more like you and your wife are the religious type, one your wife doesn’t love you that a fact, First work your way to make her love second let your wife set the game tempo most time some girl prefer fore play and mild penetration and it possible she has lesbian tendencies. If you know you can cope just find your way, marriage is meant to be enjoy |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by jaelz(m): 12:58pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
She is complaining is too big yet saying you don't stay long? Your statement doesn't correlate. |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Madmazel99(m): 12:58pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative:Have a heart to heart discussion with her about her sexual fantasy, your wife has that sexual fantasy she doesn't want to disclose or reveal or too ashamed to say. If she can reveal this fantasy, you know where to take it from there. |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DMerciful(m): 12:58pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Is he married to a child? She can't communicate what she wants? If she doesn't enjoy it the way the husband is doing it why can't she tell him they way she enjoys it? I hate unnecessary complications IDERAWOLE: |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by prigoz(m): 12:58pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Octopusssy:Bad lady, you want to pay him a surprise visit
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Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Roseey0(f): 12:58pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
If she's not the sex type trust me she is not the sex type. But you have to let her know that her marital vow is to be there for you sexually. And as much as she keeps avoidinv it she will never do it, but as she engages more her v muscles will be losing us to accommodate you more no mater the size. Stop waiting for her to initiate, go for it provided she will not say No. Speaking from experience . It is still a marital obligation to some of us not necessarily that its something we want to do everyday. This has no relationship with the satisfaction we get from it. People are just built that way. That's why you are advised to jejely marry your type to avoid conflict of interest 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Nobody: 12:59pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative:Get unplugged. Read the Rational Male |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Nobody: 12:59pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
DavidNative: Must it be her pussy ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Can't you find any other female homo sapien across the world to bang ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() That thing you call love has to decrease or disappear since it facilitates a sexual urge towards someone that is not sexually compatible with you You will never have peace if you remain baselessly or fruitlessly stuck to that thing you call love towards that woman !!!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by DMerciful(m): 12:59pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
You'll learn the hard way if you don't know sex is one of the most productive thing. In fact, that's how you came to be! Nikeruka: |
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