Octopusssy:

She is still learning after one whole year of marriage??

eguarojeona:
Simdyofficial , what is BBC?

lol. Big Black cockk(dick)

Na spoil we spoil. We no dey thief

maybe she is into women

DavidNative:
Pls i need an honest and kind advice . I will deeply appreciate

I should have insulted you. A man like you doesn't know what's good for yourself only to come to nairaland to seek advice. Who forced you to marry her. Anlot of mistake you have been doing since when you decide not to test yourselves including sex before marriage is the same mistake your are still making now of trying to keep a woman who is tired of you. Stupid men everywhere.

KarinaLove:
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her.

Must marriage be all about sex?

I don tire.

Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh

Can't men use their time for something more productive in life

Coming from someone that dressed sexually provocative in her profile pic. Lol

olabrinks:
It depends on how long you last because 20 mins of non stop penetration is not only a workout, it is boring and not satisfying. Especially as most Nigerian men think pumping hard and fast is good sex. There’s a lot of sucking touching teasing and slow thrusts that need to be involved. Your wife seems to get satisfaction from clitoral stimulation( which is the reality for 90% of women). So it’s either you keep her clit stimulated whilst penetrating or you simply ask her what she wants you to do.

Men please learn how to kiss properly(less saliva and not too much tongue) , learn how to give head properly ( suck mainly on the clit pleeeassee! Located at the top of the vagina above the hole. ) and please learn how to penetrate well. ( slow thrusts + fast..changing the pace). Also suck nipples slowly and gently (NOT BITING no teeth) and keep your hands on the woman’s body. Try to massage clit whilst penetrating if you can. Please it’s not hard, try and learn ah beg. Your woman will never forsake you honestly. Good sex is very very hard to find. Most men are not good at it, even when they think they are because most women lie. This is why you see Married women withholding sex because they can no longer pretend. Just a few tips for you.

That's why it's good to be a player who played lots champions league in Nigerian ladies pussies before settling down, it will make you a champ in bed.


By the time you bed Bola, Chika, Rose, Angela, Aisha, Onome, Asante, Shantel, Suzy, Brenda, Funmi, Nkiru, etc as a single guy, there is no way you wont upgrade to a champ before marriage.

KarinaLove:
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her.

Must marriage be all about sex?

I don tire.

Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh

Can't men use their time for something more productive in life

Fine.. I hope you won't blame the man if he starts getting it from someone else

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Two things are involved here, is either she she's a virgin or she is seeing someone else but which ever one, continue to show her love

rottennaija:


Taah,
It's doesn't matter what I know or don't know. I'm just impressed.

Okay, boss. Nice impression.

Hello can a guru recommends a good sex lubricant here

When you allow religious laws dictate your life, you should be ready for the results. No sex before marriage is like diving into what you don't know. Anything you see, you take am like that.

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

She's not the sex type, then why marry?

You don't like cooking, washing dishes but to marry dey hungry you.

Confused gender.

Avoid asking for sex from her for about 1month if you can. Don't discuss the topic and don't be eager to, just let her be.
If she ask why haven't you ask for it.....then don't rush like hungry dog, keep calm them table your disagreement to her attitude.
If didn't yield, then know certainly YOU ARE ON THE LONG THING! I certainly won't encourage you, but I believe you know what to do.

Well, first of all she needs to understand that she can't be in a marriage without sex so she should admit that she needs help. Without her admitting that she needs help there will not be any solution. So if she admits that she needs help that is if she is not selfish and want to keep her marriage. If she is circumcised she will definitely have a low sex drive and will have pain during sex, then if she has given birth before she may experience the same thing or she has been abused before she may not open up on these things for you because you are not too sure if she has had sex before from your write up. But try the following and thank me later
1. Try and let her know the importance of sex in marriage and let her know that you are getting fed up but you are ready to help her and she also needs to be ready to help herself
2. Try to talk dirty with her whenever you are not at home since she works from home create time during your office hour to talk to her on phone romance her on phone, let her imagine having sex and how sweet and pleasurable it is. Try to engage her while you are not with her not that when you go out in the morning till you come back before talking to her, try to make her close to you let her miss your absence. Send dirty sms to her I mean sms that will make her wet.
3. Then get her libido booster to help boost her sex drive, try to encourage her also and make sure you lubricate her because women with low sex drive always find it difficult to get wet. Try simple positions don't follow some wird positions you see inside porn it will not help you, let her be in a convenient position and don't penetrate too deep make your penetration shallow at first talk to her while having sex with her tell her romantic stuffs and ask her if she is enjoying it inside of trusting in and out grind her instead she will definitely enjoy it. Let her to tell you the way she wants it. Try to have sex slowly with her don't be too fast and don't use any drug on your self, grind her very well replace trusting with grinding.
4. If all the above didn't work then let her go for therapy and counseling.
5. Always put it into prayers too

Avoid asking for sex from her for about 1month if you can. Don't discuss the topic and don't be eager to, just let her be.
If she ask why haven't you ask for it.....then don't rush like hungry dog, keep calm them table your disagreement to her attitude.
If didn't yield, then know certainly YOU ARE ON THE LONG THING! I certainly won't encourage you, but I believe you know what to do.

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Op you're a mumu man

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

That is the weirdest flex I've ever heard

00FFT00:


Madam, did you count all the chores you listed for one man to do in the course of satisfying his sexual partner?
And what will the woman be doing in that process?
Why una selfish like dis sef?

if you see all these simple things as chores, then don’t complain when your wife or your future wife doesn’t respect you or desire sex from you. Dont complain when your wife prefers her vibrator/masturbating than you. Don’t complain when your wife complains to her friends about her wack sex life. The best sex occurs when a woman is satisfied because it’s rare. That is the difference between a basic man, and a man who is exceptional in bed.

Men naturally do not require much to orgasm, you’re moved by what you see. Women need much more than that. Understand this and have peace.

KarinaLove:
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her.

Must marriage be all about sex?

I don tire.

Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh

Can't men use their time for something more productive in life

When u get marry tell your husband. That one, as for this guy. He is not your husband this one like sex

Hmm me hen,my wife didn't just like sex I think,since two years we married she as been shouting it's painful,I will even try to finger her but she no go gree,I married her as a virgin,since, I noticed I can never penetrate her without a lubricant,her Virgina is very stiff, I don't just no why,

I remember yetunde,a girl I was fornicating with before I got married,she like sex die and I enjoy sex with her always,penetration was never a problem then,
may Allah forgive
Omo I am tired

DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Enter one olosho joint for area dey relive ur self na. Body nor be firewood o

Sharaaap you liar..... Nah tactics to get sugar mummy on nairaland.

KarinaLove:
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her.

Must marriage be all about sex?

I don tire.

Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh

Can't men use their time for something more productive in life

The way you think ehn... Its so unfortunate that stupid ladies like you still exist... More productive? That he worked hard to setup a work for his wife so she won't stress her self... So he asking for sex from his wife, sex is a duty if you don't know... And stop spitting rubbish and use your brain

Bros, all u need is to continue to talk to her and in ur talks let her understand your frustrations, that shud help drive home the point. Having a side chick shouldn't be an option because that will worsen an already bad situation. Then she too need to be more receptive, if she continues to run, instead of learning the ropes then u guys are heading for the rocks! Just continue to talk to her and like i mentioned, let her understand your frustrations!

rottennaija:


Woah
Achorladey. Come and see your chatinent oo. I mean, woah.

He is well informed and have expertise knowledge for the matter.

DavidNative:
Yes Sir, she said she never had sex

She said Lol this dude funny ooo.
Wetin you confirm when you chook?

DavidNative:
Yes Sir, she said she never had sex

She said Anyways, do what lesbyans do and see if she enjoys dat more dan penetration.

DavidNative:
Yes Sir, she said she never had sex

What she said? What did you find when you entered first time mumuu?

nairaman66:
Even the Bible says, too much of everything is bad. Sometime, just do little and leave the rest, it is not every time you’d spend hours on top of her, you have to learn to understand her sexual needs.

Forget all these people who says big dickk is this and that, I spend minimum of 1hrs on my wife etc. You can’t believe all these! You are having sex and at the same time being the time keeper?

There is honor in moderation.

2 minutes man don drop quote

thorpido:
You need to be patient with her. She is a 'learner' when it comes to sex. It's like just learning to ride a bicycle. It's rough initially and full of falls.
Keep doing what you're doing... pre-intimacy. It will help her become more receptive. You also need to make love to her mind. You keep talking to her.

Is she a virgin because she said so?

Scottz:
off point

And I asked for your opinion? Nonsense. You can’t even contribute, but quickly to jump on my comments