So you had a bath, got dressed, sprayed perfume and walked out of the hostel to head to the class for lectures.

Then you meet someone dressed in rags with the most offensive smell ever. He says to you "being clean is not a guarantee for a successful graduate".

That marks are not given for being clean doesn't mean you should be a dirty pig. You being clean is for your own good, it's healthy to be clean.
Is being dirty a guarantee to be a successful graduate?

Now, you can see where I am heading to. Being a virgin till marriage is a healthy lifestyle. Borehole doesn't guarantee anything. Therefore, let virgins be free to virgins.

Brace yourself nigga....those 20 body counts and several abortions babes are coming for you... It might be a long night...

I disagree with you absolutely! The virtue of being a virgin as lofty as it is alone, cannot guarantee a successful marriage.

Brand new tyres alone does not make an efficient vehicle.
Clean cups doesn’t make great drinks.
There are so many important tiny components that makes a good woman/wife.

brodalikeme:
I disagree with you absolutely! The virtue of being a virgin as lofty as it is alone, cannot guarantee a successful marriage.

Brand new tyres alone does not make an efficient vehicle.
Clean cups doesn’t make great drinks.
There are so many important tiny components that makes a good woman/wife.

Ride the car with flat worn out tyres.

Drink with a cup that was picked from a septic tank.

What does borehole guarantees?

Virginity is a virtue no doubt and young ladies should strive to go to their marriage beds with their virginity still intact. However, the truth is that virginity alone will not guarantee a successful marriage. I have been married for almost 13 years and I know marriage takes a lot of work and sacrifice on BOTH sides.

brodalikeme:
I disagree with you absolutely! The virtue of being a virgin as lofty as it is alone, cannot guarantee a successful marriage.

Brand new tyres alone does not make an efficient vehicle.
Clean cups doesn’t make great drinks.
There are so many important tiny components that makes a good woman/wife.

U for jst keep quiet
This matter be like 7up
The difference is clear

jmoore:


Ride the car with flat worn out tyres.

Drink with a cup that was picked from a septic tank.

What does borehole guarantees?

I find it unthinkable that someone would suggest that a single aspect of an item can make it perfect when other parts are not right. This is laughable!
I bet you’re not married yet.
Forget the context of this discussion, think about life in general. Perfection, peace excellence etc. are a sum total of different things.

THIS IS NOT AN ATTACK ON VIRGINITY PLEASE!!!

brodalikeme:
I disagree with you absolutely! The virtue of being a virgin as lofty as it is alone, cannot guarantee a successful marriage.

Brand new tyres alone does not make an efficient vehicle.
Clean cups doesn’t make great drinks.
There are so many important tiny components that makes a good woman/wife.

so clean cups don’t make a great drink those that mean you I’ll drink from a cup picked up from the gutter without being washed or you I’ll drive your car without tyres let’s call a spade a spade op is right, take it or leave it

Saying that virginity doesn't guarantee a successful marriage is like saying that education and hardwork doesn't guarantee sucess. Well yea, it doesn't, but it's an indication. And I'll rather pick a virgin, than one who would compare our sex with truckloads of men she had slept with. Then say I'm not man enough.

brodalikeme:


I find it unthinkable that someone would suggest that a single aspect of an item can make it perfect when other parts are not right. This is laughable!
I bet you’re not married yet.
Forget the context of this discussion, think about life in general. Perfection, peace excellence etc. are a sum total of different things.

THIS IS BOT AN ATTACK ON VIRGINITY PLEASE!!!

why do you want to argue blindly what makes a stool stand is that it has it three legs break one of those legs regardless of two being new and watch the whole stool crumble, stop justifying nonsense.
Yes being a virgin is the absolute best cause that way you’d have an empty cup which you can fill to your taste rather than having an already filled cup of coke when you want to fill it up with coffee you’d definitely have issues

So if you were to choose between a virgin with bad and annoying character or a non virgin with a calm and amazing character which will you choose?

jmoore:
So you had a bath, got dressed, sprayed perfume and walked out of the hostel to head to the class for lectures.

Then you meet someone dressed in rags with the most offensive smell ever. He says to you "being clean is not a guarantee for a successful graduate".

That marks are not given for being clean doesn't mean you should be a dirty pig. You being clean is for your own good, it's healthy to be clean.
Is being dirty a guarantee to be a successful graduate?

Now, you can see where I am heading to. Being a virgin till marriage is a healthy lifestyle. Borehole doesn't guarantee anything. Therefore, let virgins be free to virgins.

If you were to choose to between a virgin with bad and annoying character or a non virgin with sweet and amazing character which will you choose?

henrybomb:
So if you were to choose between a virgin with bad and annoying character or a non virgin with a calm and amazing character which will you choose?

Why not this way...

If you were to choose between a virgin with good character and a non virgin with bad character. Which will you choose.

There's something in most people that makes them accentuate the negative to justify their stance

Snitch24:


U for jst keep quiet
This matter be like 7up
The difference is clear

Dis one hard me to keep quiet. Fine guy/babe no fit do bad tin again because dem fine, abi because pesin dey talk with American accent mean say him sabi book? If you no talk,
one guy go continue with this misconception.

Las las, I don talk finish, if dem wan continue make dem continue, dem don win the argument.

duality:


Why not this way...

If you were to choose between a virgin with good character and a non virgin with bad character. Which will you choose.

There's something in most people that makes them accentuate the negative to justify their stance

There is no negativity in being open minded which still stands that being a virgin or non virgin doesn’t guarantee a successful marriage.
Or does that mean that people with virgins have the best marriages?
In life the grass is truly greener from the other side.

A lot of people are running after virgin simply because of tightness of the vagina. I assure you that’s going to expire after the first child and you’ll have to run after another virgin girl like an Alhaji.

I married my wife of six years a virgin after ten years of friendship. I never and will never for a day doubt her chastity or question her whereabouts. Forget westernization or modernization, virginity is a virtue and our ladies should strive to keep it for their own good. I will respect and care for my wife till eternity.

What I know is that, any gal in this corrupt world who keeps her virginity till marriage is not an average woman.

Agreed...

Virginity ALONE does not guarantee a good marriage, but like I'd always say, Chasity till marriage is a virtue that is commendable and should become a norm... Because the mere fact that a person can stay a virgin till marriage especially in this 21st century is a pointer to so many things (character wise)...

And let's face fact...

If I were to choose between a virgin with GOOD CHARACTER and a nonvirgin with GOOD CHARACTER, blimey I would DEFINITELY settle for the former...

They're nonvigirns with exceptional character, and they're virgins with bad character....agreed. but let's be real here, the fact that your partner has had multiple sexual partners in time past before you will DEFINITELY lead to some form of comparism (even if they don't say it out verbally)...

And who would love to be compared with other people who they've never met??

Who would love to be seen as less when compared with other people??

And please go and do your research, marriages of virgins last longer (on average) than marriages with non virgins....

It has been scientifically proven, that the more sexual partners a person has had in times past, the lesser the chances at a successful marriage...

Una don Tok am finish, I love d points una buttress here

matthew41:
A lot of people are running after virgin simply because of tightness of the vagina. I assure you that’s going to expire after the first child and you’ll have to run after another virgin girl like an Alhaji.

So with all u are seeing outside, like

girls from decent home doing prostitution,

Infidelity,

Girls sleeping with their ex

Paternity fraud,

20 body count,

Abortion,

It's Tightness that u can see....

Wait forget tightness first...if no be say life son spoil..is it not disgusting that men and women would have slept with over 20 partners before marriage...

and worse some ladies have done more than 5 abortion with some men.. Wait should any man be looking forward to that type of woman..is it suppose to be na nice thing

If it doesn't mean anything, why do women always lie that they've had only one or two boyfriend ...some will even lie that it's was rape that disvirgined them to make u feel they are decent...

I don't know about una,but as for me, virginity na one major recipe that must be added to marriage..It may not be as important as to prove a point of her decency but you see that HYMEN,if I no see am,I no go ever respect that banny

So this is why productivity is so low in Nigeria.

People are focused on useless topics.

1. Women that says virginity doesn't matter has seriously messed up with their lives during their h0e/party/appreciative days by accumulating a significant truckloads of body counts. Or, have been fvcked mercilessly by a single guy or two (and involved) in a relationship that led nowhere.

1b. The women that says virginity doesn't matter are the same women who will not marry repentant rapists, ex convicts, paedophiles. They always prefer the good to go men for a long lasting relationship. Ditto for men when selecting good suitors for their sisters and daughters.

2. When women want to retire or have retired you hear the mantra from their mouth: "virginity doesn't guarantee good marriage... not all virgins are loyal (in their cognitive bias minds, h0es are loyal)...who will you choose between a virgin with bad character and a h0e with good character(all of a sudden, virgins have bad characters: a very stupid comparison)...virgins also get involved in other kinds of sexual depravity: mouth action, anal sex, masturbation blah blah blah". They always find possible ways to rationalize their stupidity in order to save face and this is done by ridiculing virginity.

3. Because the above women sexual market value has dropped greatly, they begin to pretend repentance, behave as good fellows, seeming patient and loyal. But why didn't they remained like this from the onset? Why did they enjoyed or spent their past lives carelessly without giving a thought about the future? They didn't because:

4. a foolish beta man will come one day and asked for their hands in marriage; a man who doesn't care for the well-being of his genetic line. Since society comprises emasculated men in high degree, virginity doesn't matters. Since these men are feminized and sexually thirsty, they wouldn't bother vetting their so-called fiancées or be able to withstand the destruction of the beautiful illusions they hold concerning these women.

5. Virginity is fertility! Virgin women ranks higher than their non virgin counterpart. Non virgin women are even more predisposed to sexual infections and diseases.

6. O yes! Virgin women are more loyal, faithful, submissive and have a happy and long standing marriage. The lower her body count, the lower her propensity to divorce.

7. Like I said somewhere before, individuals must be judge based on their principles, personalities and what they represents overtime. This is necessary so that we won't fall into fundamental attribution biases.

Quite alright, repentant h0es or non virgin women are not evil, and many still got good qualities. However, inasmuch as the intersexual dynamics is concerned, selecting for the best amongst women is necessary and virgin women always comes first! Non virgin women can still qualify if they pass the scrutiny test.

8. As being wealthy, strong, powerful and brave comes first before moral values, ethics, principles when women are choosing men for marriage, same way virginity comes first for men. Homo sapiens are sexually dimorphic, hence, the need for different qualities in both mates. And as far as the genetic pool and evolution is concerned, these qualities matters and are the most significant factors considered when choosing a mate.

The fact that cars do have accident on the road doesn't mean we should prefer damaged cars to brand new ones. At least starting with the best of cars enormously guarantees a sweeter ride and a safer journey. The best cars can be enjoyed by the owner and will even be appreciated more as it depreciates over the years. (This is not about cars but true of cars).

For the inquisitive, here is some data for your enjoyment.

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I just tire o.. That's how one man that married his wife as a virgin made a stu*pid statement while they were having issues. He said, "if you're truly a good person, how come I'm the first to have sex with you". That talk pained me en..
Virginity is a choice please.. Allow virgins be..

henrybomb:

There is no negativity in being open minded which still stands that being a virgin or non virgin doesn’t guarantee a successful marriage.
Or does that mean that people with virgins have the best marriages?
In life the grass is truly greener from the other side.

In your life, will you advocate chastity and cleanness even if you're not measuring up?

OP
This Virginity Topic is now Getting Overthrashed and now misunderstood!

What I am Against is the Attempt by Some to Denigrate the virtue of keeping one's Virginity!

But In Real facts, Virginity doesn't Determine the Success of a Marriage!!

Let's assume a 12 yr old Girl saw her Father Rapes her Mother to Coma!
She Develops Real Hatred for Men and Sex and @24, You see her, woo her, She agrees due to societal pressure, You marry her and find out she is a Virgin, You are so Delighted, but in dis case, Is dis a guarantee dat d Marriage Will b Success?

Because Her Misonomyst Tendencies will still remain!
She Will Harbour Strong Hatred for You!! Sex with her will be a Painful and Traumatic exercise!

This is One Instance where Virginity DOESN'T guarantee marital bliss!

brodalikeme:
I disagree with you absolutely! The virtue of being a virgin as lofty as it is alone, cannot guarantee a successful marriage.

Brand new tyres alone does not make an efficient vehicle.
Clean cups doesn’t make great drinks.
There are so many important tiny components that makes a good woman/wife.

Does being a non-virgin guarantee successful marriage?

cooooooks:
So this is why productivity is so low in Nigeria.

People are focused on useless topics.

Mentally enslaved people. Even with access to information at their finger tips, with everything going on the world, natural disasters, global economic instability, poor access to healthcare/education, a global pandemic, rising food prices, bad governance etc.
In the face of weightier issues facing mankind, their most pressing problem is..*drum roll* ....virginity.
It would be funny if it wasn't was soooo pitiful.

I don't even want to talk about virgins.

I don see many things.

A girl claiming virgin but has had anal sex numerous times, what do we call that?

Make una de deceive unaself.