Rotten chicks put too much to down play Virginity and make mockery of virgins. It's them exposing their weaknesses.

henrybomb:
So if you were to choose between a virgin with bad and annoying character or a non virgin with a calm and amazing character which will you choose?

What about choosing a virgin with a calm and amazing character rather than a non virgin with a bad and annoying character

advanceDNA:
Brace yourself nigga....those 20 body counts and several abortions babes are coming for you... It might be a long night...

If you have had more than 20 body counts and several abortions, are you any different from non virgins?

So what will happen to all the girls you dis-flowered and didn't marry, are you saying they won't make good wives?
Good attitude and compatibility is what matters, who keeps keeps toxic relationships these days cause you met her a virgin?

Anakojum:

Do you have daughters or female siblings?
Are they of age, single and are still virgins?
If they are of age, single and not virgins, are you in any way saying that you would not advise anyone to get married to them because they are not going to be good wives.
Bros think am now

Nice point.

chival:
Virginity is a virtue no doubt and young ladies should strive to go to their marriage beds with their virginity still intact. However, the truth is that virginity alone will not guarantee a successful marriage. I have been married for almost 13 years and I know marriage takes a lot of work and sacrifice on BOTH sides.

Did u marry as a virgin? No.
That is why you're working hard to make your marriage work.

Wetin bi virginity self? Person wey never have vaginal sex but has MouthAction and other kiniko?

Until men start placing emphasis on their virginity will I take anyone serious.

Kajaard:


You are going too far by saying The World.

Any girl in this sexually promiscuous Nigeria that keeps her virginity till marriage is a superstar.

You can say that again bro... she's a priceless gift

highchief1:
virgin oga.do u no how shameful it is that ur wife is Nigerian used?I attended my guys wedding three of us that drive down have slept with he’s wife.she couldn’t dance when we came to spray money.

after sleeping with other girls, I hope u are not planning to marry a Virgin. Because karma exist. If have had slept with 10 girls, 10 men will definitely sleep with ur wife even if u like go to Israel to marry.

Alohaa:



What about choosing a virgin with a calm and amazing character rather than a non virgin with a bad and annoying character

What about a virgin lady choosing a virgin guy with a calm and amazing character rather than a non virgin rotten diick with a bad and annoying character?

I strongly believe one should keep his/her virginity intact for their husband/wife.
Be kings stop demanding sex from your girlfriends if you want a virgin as a wife.
Be queens don't open your legs for a guy you ain't married to.

chival:
Virginity is a virtue no doubt and young ladies should strive to go to their marriage beds with their virginity still intact. However, the truth is that virginity alone will not guarantee a successful marriage. I have been married for almost 13 years and I know marriage takes a lot of work and sacrifice on BOTH sides.

What is the quantifiable value of that virtue.
Did those women have sex with themselves? What impact does all the women the men slept with before marriage. Africa is so interested in sex that they forget that there are other pleasure that can be derived in a good spouse. Dummy virgins running around that cannot string together an intelligent conversation. A successful marriage is not built on marrying a good / God fearing person. It is built on marrying someone who is compatible to you. If both of you love orgies, then that will be the item on the menu. One person cannot like role play sex while the other is busy speaking in tongues and being a virgin. That marriage will die

If you are not a virgin ,you dont deserve a virgin.

matthew41:
A lot of people are running after virgin simply because of tightness of the vagina. I assure you that’s going to expire after the first child and you’ll have to run after another virgin girl like an Alhaji.

This is FALSE, please.
While virginity means nothing to me, there's always that likelihood that a babe who has slept with different men would cheat on her husband than a virgin.

The second category of girl will always compare the experience she had with those guys with yours, including your d!ck size. On the other hand, a virgin has no idea what that means because yours is the only d!ck she knows.

chival:
Virginity is a virtue no doubt and young ladies should strive to go to their marriage beds with their virginity still intact. However, the truth is that virginity alone will not guarantee a successful marriage. I have been married for almost 13 years and I know marriage takes a lot of work and sacrifice on BOTH sides.

And I'm very sure that virginity has never played a role in any of the big sacrifices you have made to stay together in your marriage.

Don't mind people saying virgins virgins virgins upandan as if it's the only thing that determines good wives.

Alohaa:



What about choosing a virgin with a calm and amazing character rather than a non virgin with a bad and annoying character

The way they make comparism at times baffles me seriously

Let them show me a virgin with bad character and i will show them hundreds of thousands of loosed girls with rutten and disgusting character

shaybebaby:

Mentally enslaved people. Even with access to information at their finger tips, with everything going on the world, natural disasters, global economic instability, poor access to healthcare/education, a global pandemic, rising food prices, bad governance etc.
In the face of weightier issues facing mankind, their most pressing problem is..*drum roll* ....virginity.
It would be funny if it wasn't was soooo pitiful.

Sorry but a society with decayed societal norms and values cannot make a good healthy society listed above.

deavicky:
after sleeping with other girls, I hope u are not planning to marry a Virgin. Because karma exist. If have had slept with 10 girls, 10 men will definitely sleep with ur wife even if u like go to Israel to marry.

advanceDNA:
Brace yourself nigga....those 20 body counts and several abortions babes are coming for you... It might be a long night...

20 body count.... Are you a learner? There are girls that have live 15 different sexual partners in a calendar year.

This generation different gan o. If you are in your mid 20s and find a girls with a body count of 20 or less, you are blessed.

nijaomegacode:

Did u marry as a virgin? No.
That is why you're working hard to make your marriage work.

Is this for real? So marrying as a virgin automatically makes a marriage work easily? Are you just daft or an illiterate?

shaybebaby:

Mentally enslaved people. Even with access to information at their finger tips, with everything going on the world, natural disasters, global economic instability, poor access to healthcare/education, a global pandemic, rising food prices, bad governance etc.
In the face of weightier issues facing mankind, their most pressing problem is..*drum roll* ....virginity.
It would be funny if it wasn't was soooo pitiful.

Just shut it.....

How many have u solved out of those problems u listed?

Hoe lo show.....

DrayZee:

Yes of course...citizens of more advanced nations only discuss about the factors you’ve listed above.
They don’t say anything about their preferences in non-platonic relationships.

Never have I heard it. Tell you what, one of your ilk mentioned reddit and quora. Why don't you go over there and repeat the foolish stance on here? Come back and report on the feedback you get.

what sort of rubbish is this?

Virginity and successful marriage?

shey na everyday the wife will be virgin? Once she is broken, she becomes like other women.

what is left for her is her character...

who virginity help na? mumuu talk

chival:
Virginity is a virtue no doubt and young ladies should strive to go to their marriage beds with their virginity still intact. However, the truth is that virginity alone will not guarantee a successful marriage. I have been married for almost 13 years and I know marriage takes a lot of work and sacrifice on BOTH sides.

But if there are no EXs from both sides, don't you think couples would have lesser things to worry about ?

NigeriaIsGreat:
You can say that again bro... she's a priceless gift

Quantify that gift. What makes her different. What qualities will she bring to the marriage solely based on her virginity

JovialJune:



If you have had more than 20 body counts and several abortions, are you any different from non virgins?

Please don't mention me....
I don't dialogue with people that do gender war illogically....

I only said they are coming for the Op...


You can Carry your equality, body counts and past abortions elsewhere...

jmoore:
So you had a bath, got dressed, sprayed perfume and walked out of the hostel to head to the class for lectures.

Then you meet someone dressed in rags with the most offensive smell ever. He says to you "being clean is not a guarantee for a successful graduate".

That marks are not given for being clean doesn't mean you should be a dirty pig. You being clean is for your own good, it's healthy to be clean.
Is being dirty a guarantee to be a successful graduate?

Now, you can see where I am heading to. Being a virgin till marriage is a healthy lifestyle. Borehole doesn't guarantee anything. Therefore, let virgins be free to virgins.

before I got married to my wonderful wife years ago I was going out with one virgin in my church who was carrying her virginity on her head like a trophy barking it on anyone who cared to listen that shes a virgin at 29 but this particular girl in question is the most selfish and self centered female ever known to man, nothing makes sense unless it comes from her, she always wants everything to go her way, when I notice this indelible trait in her I did a tactical withdrawal. Fast forward to present, this same virgin has 3 kids for three different men and each of the 3 marriages didn't last up to 2 yrs each. She's currently a single mother. In marriage it maturity and character that counts that's what sustains a family and not virginity, get your priorities right bro or your case will end in premium tears!!!

proxillin:
what sort of rubbish is this?

Virginity and successful marriage?

shey na everyday the wife will be virgin? Once she is broken, she becomes like other women.

what is left for her is her character...

who virginity help na? mumuu talk

Thank you for being factual. People love being emotional and running on advise that cannot be quantified

humilitypays:
I get plenty money, that alone should replace my virginity, abi

How does money replace your virginity if you have a rotten diick? Does money guarantee a successful marriage according to the Op?

shaybebaby:

Never have I heard it. Tell you what, one of your ilk mentioned reddit and quora. Why don't you go over there and repeat the foolish stance on here? Come back and report on the feedback you get.

What foolish stance?
“Virginity doesn’t guarantee a successful marriage, not being a virgin also does not.”
Is that it?
I don’t see the need for feedback in that statement. It’s quite clear.
What exactly are you people angry about?
And I wouldn’t use Reddit. Being a virgin is more or less an insult there. That’s probably where you want us to be.

advanceDNA:


Please don't mention me....
I don't dialogue with people that do gender war illogically....

I only said they are coming for the Op...


You can Carry your equality, body counts and past abortions elsewhere...

She is just triggered as if the thread was aimed at her.

Well virginity alone does not guarantee a good marriage

Keeping your virginity is a choice, virginity should not about female it should also be applied to the male
As a male if you are not a virgin u don't really deserve to marry a virgin Lady

pappilo:


20 body count.... Are you a learner? There are girls that have live 15 different sexual partners in a calendar year.

This generation different gan o. If you are in your mid 20s and find a girls with a body count of 20 or less, you are blessed.

You are wicked....
You wickedness doesn't have season two..

Na one full season...350 episodes..