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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Fiscus105(m): 4:20pm On Oct 03, 2021

jmoore:
So you had a bath, got dressed, sprayed perfume and walked out of the hostel to head to the class for lectures.

Then you meet someone dressed in rags with the most offensive smell ever. He says to you "being clean is not a guarantee for a successful graduate".

That marks are not given for being clean doesn't mean you should be a dirty pig. You being clean is for your own good, it's healthy to be clean.
Is being dirty a guarantee to be a successful graduate?

Now, you can see where I am heading to. Being a virgin till marriage is a healthy lifestyle. Borehole doesn't guarantee anything. Therefore, let virgins be free to virgins.

Not a stupid statement but consolation statement.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by shaybebaby(f): 4:20pm On Oct 03, 2021

advanceDNA:

I guess so..They will make decision to spread their legs and also go to the abortion clinic to cover their mess but will now be looking for equality when another man is stating his standards.....

Na man they spread leg for abortion clinic.??

Na man dey pvssy dey wide..??

Na man dey go through near death experience on abortion tables..??

Na man dey become barren from excessive abortion

I will never understand how the gender that has more too lose are the ones that throw caution to the wind..

Ever heard of condoms, doofus?

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 4:20pm On Oct 03, 2021

brodalikeme:
I disagree with you absolutely! The virtue of being a virgin as lofty as it is alone, cannot guarantee a successful marriage.

Brand new tyres alone does not make an efficient vehicle.
Clean cups doesn’t make great drinks.
There are so many important tiny components that makes a good woman/wife.

Did you read what the op wrote from down to up?

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by OBALOLA55(m): 4:20pm On Oct 03, 2021

chival:
Virginity is a virtue no doubt and young ladies should strive to go to their marriage beds with their virginity still intact. However, the truth is that virginity alone will not guarantee a successful marriage. I have been married for almost 13 years and I know marriage takes a lot of work and sacrifice on BOTH sides.

SO WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN LOOKING FOR IN THE ROMANCE SECTION shocked

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Kajaard: 4:21pm On Oct 03, 2021

advanceDNA:

I guess so..They will make decision to spread their legs and also go to the abortion clinic to cover their mess but will now be looking for equality when another man is stating his standards.....

Na man they spread leg for abortion clinic.??

Na man dey pvssy dey wide..??

Na man dey go through near death experience on abortion tables..??

Na man dey become barren from excessive abortion

I will never understand how the gender that has more too lose are the ones that throw caution to the wind..

The bold faced is food for thought cool

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by na2016: 4:21pm On Oct 03, 2021

jmoore:
So you had a bath, got dressed, sprayed perfume and walked out of the hostel to head to the class for lectures.

Then you meet someone dressed in rags with the most offensive smell ever. He says to you "being clean is not a guarantee for a successful graduate".

That marks are not given for being clean doesn't mean you should be a dirty pig. You being clean is for your own good, it's healthy to be clean.
Is being dirty a guarantee to be a successful graduate?

Now, you can see where I am heading to. Being a virgin till marriage is a healthy lifestyle. Borehole doesn't guarantee anything. Therefore, let virgins be free to virgins.

You dont have any point here. Your analogy and argument is so so weak. I can only pity those who liked your post. Virginity is not a guarantee for a successful marriage! Copy that and know peace.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 4:22pm On Oct 03, 2021

jmoore:
So you had a bath, got dressed, sprayed perfume and walked out of the hostel to head to the class for lectures.

Then you meet someone dressed in rags with the most offensive smell ever. He says to you "being clean is not a guarantee for a successful graduate".

That marks are not given for being clean doesn't mean you should be a dirty pig. You being clean is for your own good, it's healthy to be clean.
Is being dirty a guarantee to be a successful graduate?

Now, you can see where I am heading to. Being a virgin till marriage is a healthy lifestyle. Borehole doesn't guarantee anything. Therefore, let virgins be free to virgins.

Well written. What I expected ladies to do was to at least admit virginity in marriage is a virtue they regretted not achieving. But the way they want to turn it and make virgins unfashionable is disgusting. And the lady who shared her bed was criticized. Lol. They are sick in the head. They want to change the standard. Lol.

chival:
Virginity is a virtue no doubt and young ladies should strive to go to their marriage beds with their virginity still intact. However, the truth is that virginity alone will not guarantee a successful marriage. I have been married for almost 13 years and I know marriage takes a lot of work and sacrifice on BOTH sides.

You almost sounded cool, but the truth is that you can only dish out this advice if you were a virgin when you got married. If not, kindly shut up and let virgins come out and dish such out. Listen, out of 10 virgins, 9 always have successful marriages. I can bet on it. If you want us to go on a real bet and carry out an extensive research, we can put N20 million down. I will bet on it that 90% virgins always have successful marriages. Are you ready? But we do not need to bet that most non virgins divorce. Lol. (I am not talking about men cos men too should be virgins).

I advise you to shut up and not say what you are not in marriage.

Listen, to be a virgin means to be submissive. Yes, it may not be directly, but it is indirectly. Any girl who is a virgin is discipline. And there is a strong reason to believe she will not go out reporting her husband to every jack and Jerry. Also, it means she listens to someone which is a sign of obedience. Also, it may be that she has a strong fear of God. Many things are attached to keeping virginity till marriage. So, do not compare the "loosed" girls with such person.

Anyone who gets a virgin is lucky, and the girl should be treated like a queen. You are not one, so shut the crap up. Thank you!

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by steinalb(m): 4:22pm On Oct 03, 2021

Someone that couldn't land a sex partner will also consider herself a virgin, right?

Someone's overall character should be more important than virginity. Some acclaimed virgins are really devils in the making.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by shaybebaby(f): 4:22pm On Oct 03, 2021

DrayZee:

What foolish stance?
“Virginity doesn’t guarantee a successful marriage, not being a virgin also does not.”
Is that it?
I don’t see the need for feedback in that statement. It’s quite clear.
What exactly are you people angry about?
And I wouldn’t use Reddit. Being a virgin is more or less an insult there. That’s probably where you want us to be.

More or less yes because I don't see folks from that society dying trying to cross the med in dinghies. Na una dey try "japa", na una dey carry virginity for head like gala.
Cognitive dissonance much? undecided

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by NigeriaIsGreat: 4:22pm On Oct 03, 2021

TearNinja001:
When a topic is about "virgins", some people will spring up with their usual nonsensical statement "virginity doesn't guarantee a successful marriage".

What's that suppose to mean?

They're consoling themselves grin

Moreso, you know misery want company

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by farem: 4:22pm On Oct 03, 2021

advanceDNA:
Brace yourself nigga....those 200 body counts and several abortions babes are coming for you... It might be a long night...

Fixed

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Lifebenzy: 4:23pm On Oct 03, 2021

I see many people admonishing girls to keep their virginity till marriage..how about the guys or is it goat or dogs dis virgin these girl?

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by kingthreat(m): 4:23pm On Oct 03, 2021

You all will never understand. A woman is a complicated being. You can marry her a virgin and she can change into a monster in the house.
One of my neighbors then married his wife at 18 year old. She was a virgin. When her married clique of friends used to talk about sex, she never enthusiastic about it because she never really liked it but she wanted to like it. Reason was because the husband was not very good on bed. She used to watch porn regularly. Then one day she decided to secretly have a taste of another man's action. Ever since then, she never yearned for her husband's sex again. There was a time that one of her boyfriends disguised as a pastor from the village who came to pray for their family and stayed for few days. She screwed this pastor under her husband's roof. They are both divorced now. Hope you get the message. Just pray you marry a good woman. Virginity is no assurance for a successful marriage. Some ex-prostitutes are running some good marriages as we speak.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 4:24pm On Oct 03, 2021

jmoore:
So you had a bath, got dressed, sprayed perfume and walked out of the hostel to head to the class for lectures.

Then you meet someone dressed in rags with the most offensive smell ever. He says to you "being clean is not a guarantee for a successful graduate".

That marks are not given for being clean doesn't mean you should be a dirty pig. You being clean is for your own good, it's healthy to be clean.
Is being dirty a guarantee to be a successful graduate?

Now, you can see where I am heading to. Being a virgin till marriage is a healthy lifestyle. Borehole doesn't guarantee anything. Therefore, let virgins be free to virgins.

Wrong analogy my friend. You are comparing orange with apple.
There are other qualities that make for a successful marriage and being a virgin is not one of them. Most of the time, the man is never a virgin anyways.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by NigeriaIsGreat: 4:24pm On Oct 03, 2021

SteelMcqueen:
Some people clearly didn't read the ops post before commenting......except you have comprehension problems.

Op exhalted the chastity of virginity.......he didn't argue about virginity been the only recipe for a good marriage.

So where did this stupid comparison come from, if you aren't already biased.

If you've thrown away your virginity, sorry for you.......but please let virgins be........let them enjoy their most Noble decisions of remaining pure till marriage.

Whether it's a recipe for a good marriage is not your fucking business.......you didn't have the discipline to keep yourself pure, let those who have disciplined themselves to be pure decide for themselves.

As in eh

They're just being bitterly bittered

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 4:24pm On Oct 03, 2021

advanceDNA:

I guess so..They will make decision to spread their legs and also go to the abortion clinic to cover their mess but will now be looking for equality when another man is stating his standards.....

Na man they spread leg for abortion clinic.??

Na man dey pvssy dey wide..??

Na man dey go through near death experience on abortion tables..??

Na man dey become barren from excessive abortion

I will never understand how the gender that has more too lose are the ones that throw caution to the wind..

Sometimes I wonder where you men kept your brain when typing, but I'll answer you same measure

Men that become infertile, what is the cause, or you think women the only cause of barrenness?

Men that diick their life away is no different from non virgins

Men that pay and take their gfs to abort are no different from non virgins

Men that have rotten, smelly, overused diicks are no different

Again, I ask, are you a virgin, unused and untouched?

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Ojady(m): 4:25pm On Oct 03, 2021

chival:
Virginity is a virtue no doubt and young ladies should strive to go to their marriage beds with their virginity still intact. However, the truth is that virginity alone will not guarantee a successful marriage. I have been married for almost 13 years and I know marriage takes a lot of work and sacrifice on BOTH sides.

Did you get married as a virgin? If yes, you have an argument, otherwise Ma'm, please sit down, you might learn a thing or two

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 4:25pm On Oct 03, 2021

You Clearly Don’t understand Women and how their minds work , Virginity does not and cannot guarantee a successful marriage what guarantees one to a certain degree is An understanding of the institution of marriage for both parties and agreeing to honor the institution as well as accomplish their marital goals . Virgins can cheat on you virgins can make your marriage a living hell, don’t be deceived it’s just a Tag attached to an unused vagina nothing more . It doesn’t define the individual you marry. And if your argument is attachment due to first time penetration omo forget it she will definitely sleep with someone better without your knowledge …….

No be only you like Chicken and chips for this world if you know you know . I rest my case

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by duality(m): 4:25pm On Oct 03, 2021

jcross19:
people clamouring for virgin are the people who tied their love base on sex which always backfired.... Marriage is not alla about sex.. When you married you understand..

Those who wallow in the filth of sexual recklessness didn't tie their love to sex?

So if marriage in not all about sex, we should condemn or belittle Chastity?

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Hamiltonii: 4:25pm On Oct 03, 2021

shaybebaby:

Indeed I feel pained. Pained at the abundance of stupidity on display.

If this is your contribution to humanity, then you existence is inconsequential.

Ashawo! Borehole!

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by AutoChick4U(f): 4:25pm On Oct 03, 2021

Why do some men feel ladies compare sexx? Its weird though.

This op is weird referring to female kini as boreholes though. Let he who is deserving of a virgin find one and marry, its a choice.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by emmyN(m): 4:26pm On Oct 03, 2021

Missionaire:
Some Questions:
1. Virginity of the man or the woman? I have observed even on this thread how people always focus on the ladies when it comes to marital and societal issues.
What if the lady is a virgin but the guy is quite promiscuous?
If you can marry as a Virgin, fine but if you are no longer a virgin, don't be discouraged or think that you can't have a great marriage because neither (virginity or non-vigirnity) is a guarantee of a successful marriage.
2. Is virginity of the body alone or it includes the heart? I mean, some ladies can do all sort of sexual acts like giving BJ, hand jobs, anal sex etc but will not allow penetration. Their minds are already wild. They watch porn and do many things. Will you call them virgins because their hymen is intact and can that virginity guarantee a successful marriage?

Let those who are virgins be and let those who are not virgins not made to feel like their own is finished. They are some people like me who don't care whether a lady is a virgin or not. Others are very particular about virgins and others can't marry a virgin.

To each his own.

Men are never virgins. Virginity is a term ascribed to women alone.

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by derecho(m): 4:26pm On Oct 03, 2021

KarinaLove:
It's only Men that want Virgins as wives.

The question is how many men are virgins

You'll be surprised there are more male virgins nowadays.
Most ladies are naive.You can easily sway a lady nowadays.
In the past, this topic won't be an issue because many girls were virgins and are proud of it BUT now it is the girls who will frown at virginity.You know why? Many of them have been deflowered hence they see it as normal to lose one's virginity.

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Kajaard: 4:26pm On Oct 03, 2021

Lifebenzy:
I see many people admonishing girls to keep their virginity till marriage..how about the guys or is it goat or dogs dis virgin these girl?

This got me laughing cheesy

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by shaybebaby(f): 4:26pm On Oct 03, 2021

JovialJune:

Is this for real? So marrying as a virgin automatically makes a marriage work easily? Are you just daft or an illiterate?

Both. Daft and illiterate.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by DMerciful(m): 4:27pm On Oct 03, 2021

Were you a virgin when you married your wife? If no then you shortchanged her. The fact that she's a woman doesn't make her less than a man

Gbolarshow:
I married my wife of six years a virgin after ten years of friendship. I never and will never for a day doubt her chastity or question her whereabouts. Forget westernization or modernization, virginity is a virtue and our ladies should strive to keep it for their own good. I will respect and care for my wife till eternity.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Vinnie2000(m): 4:28pm On Oct 03, 2021

chatinent:
I vote for male virgins for female virgins and nothing less.

Brolosho for borehole, as you call it!

My Friend!;
There is Nothing like Male Virgins!

I have said it here B4

Nature/society DOES NOT place any value on Male Virginity!
Infact, you as a 26 yr old dude, gather a group of girls and tell Dem you are a Virgin, Many will Deride and think of you as a Weirdo! sad

But for Ladies, Their Virginity is Like Precious Diamond!
It has always been of High value!!

So you see, Male Virginity is Thrash! Female virginity is Bae! wink

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by faithfull18(f): 4:28pm On Oct 03, 2021

My own is that virginity should apply to both gender. If you are a man looking for a virgin, you should be one too, simple. You can't eat your cake and have it.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by NigeriaIsGreat: 4:29pm On Oct 03, 2021

femi4:
Foolish comparison.
When does losing virginity before marriage makes a woman unclean.

What solidifies marriages are inward appearance and not physical/outward/artificial stuff like virginity.

And being virgin isn't inward abi

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by shaybebaby(f): 4:29pm On Oct 03, 2021

sakanifemi123:

Pot hole woman does not guarantee long time relationship

Precisely. Presence or absence of the hymen is irrelevant to the longevity of relationships.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by DrayZee: 4:30pm On Oct 03, 2021

shaybebaby:

More or less yes because I don't see folks from that society dying trying to cross the med in dinghies. Na una dey try "japa", na una dey carry virginity for head like gala.
Cognitive dissonance much?

Lol. You seem unable to reply one person at a time. Who is trying to “japa” or carrying virginity on their head?
Don’t insult virgins for being virgins. It doesn’t guarantee a successful marriage (yes), but it isn’t a worthless attribute either. Allow those who value it to value it in peace. That’s all that matters.
The OP and some other commenters are being vile in their support of the above, which is wrong.
But these days, people are literally trying to demonize virgins. They did it to men successfully, now everyone is asking why there are few virgin men. Because it’s a shameful attribute for a man these days.

We’re getting there sha. The demonizing will soon be complete, and women will finally be “free”. All this talk will stop.
We will achieve civilization at last.

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by FlipModeSquade(m): 4:31pm On Oct 03, 2021

Joeboy4ever:
why do you want to argue blindly what makes a stool stand is that it has it three legs break one of those legs regardless of two being new and watch the whole stool crumble, stop justifying nonsense.
Yes being a virgin is the absolute best cause that way you’d have an empty cup which you can fill to your taste rather than having an already filled cup of coke when you want to fill it up with coffee you’d definitely have issues

This statement is so myopic..

I will bet you are not married..

While virginity is a virtue..

Virginity in no way or form guarantees a successful marriage..

Some people are virgins because of their caustic and toxic nature..

You think that she will change overnight..

Just because she is married and no longer a Spinster?

Take it from a more than 12 year marriage veteran..

A successful marriage is much more than Virginity..

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