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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 5:11pm On Oct 03, 2021

advanceDNA:

U are just answering based on emotions
And I didn't mention you with this comment...u have started jumping around the place out of context....u can't make sense omce you out of context...all u have is raging emotions

You responded to a guy that referred to me, that is why I mentioned you

And enough with emotions bullshit to guilt trip females, it's stale and dumb, every human feelings is based on emotions, you responding to me to prove yourself is an emotion, you should be educated to know this.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by edoairways: 5:13pm On Oct 03, 2021

henrybomb:
So if you were to choose between a virgin with bad and annoying character or a non virgin with a calm and amazing character which will you choose?

If you were to choose between a clean dress and a dirt one, what will you pick?. Why will you prefer a brand new electronic gadgets as against fairly used if the money was there?

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by deltateam: 5:15pm On Oct 03, 2021

brodalikeme:
I disagree with you absolutely! The virtue of being a virgin as lofty as it is alone, cannot guarantee a successful marriage.

Brand new tyres alone does not make an efficient vehicle.
Clean cups doesn’t make great drinks.
There are so many important tiny components that makes a good woman/wife.

Be one first. No one said it's every thing. It's commendable to be a virgin. Character is another face of it.

Count 1 before 2.

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by shaybebaby(f): 5:15pm On Oct 03, 2021

Hamiltonii:

Ashawo, Toto marketer!

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by chatinent: 5:15pm On Oct 03, 2021

Vinnie2000:

As I have told Mr Chatinent,
In History, Men have NEVER been expected to be Virgins!!

Infact, Male Virginity is not Respected!

Do ladies respect Male Virgins?

Ask many Naija Babes! Many do not want a Virgin as Partner or husbands!
Most wants a Johnny sins Nigga..A Man dat can Fvckk dem 3 Hours Non-stop!

So Really, If You are a Girl, Virginity is For u Pple..
Not for us Guys!

Your stress is on what you think the other gender wants and not on what is right. I don't support stereotypes.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 5:15pm On Oct 03, 2021

FreeSpirited:
What I know is that, any gal in this corrupt world who keeps her virginity till marriage is not an average woman.

And any man in this corrupt world, that didn't keep his manhood for his wife, is an average, rotten, overused, smelly man.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 5:17pm On Oct 03, 2021

edoairways:

If you were to choose between a clean dress and a dirt one, what will you pick?. Why will you prefer a brand new electronic gadgets as against fairly used if the money was there?

Are you a dirty dress or a clean dress? Are you a brand new electronic gadget or fairly used?

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by deltateam: 5:17pm On Oct 03, 2021

henrybomb:

There is no negativity in being open minded which still stands that being a virgin or non virgin doesn’t guarantee a successful marriage.
Or does that mean that people with virgins have the best marriages?
In life the grass is truly greener from the other side.

Shut up.

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by babtoundey(m): 5:18pm On Oct 03, 2021

IAMBlesssed:

Ahh. So we still have balanced individuals on this platform..More wisdom to your brain.. Thanks bros

Amen. God bless you too, sis.

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Hillarie(m): 5:19pm On Oct 03, 2021

JovialJune:

Okay, is she still a virgin? If yes, pls keep her like that till death do you part since it guarantees a successful marriage, the moment she becomes loose, your marriage will fail, you hear.

I didn't see this coming. You people will not kill me grin

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by humilitypays(m): 5:19pm On Oct 03, 2021

JovialJune:

How does money replace your virginity if you have a rotten diick? Does money guarantee a successful marriage according to the Op?

Dick self de rust

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by AbujaCitiBlog: 5:21pm On Oct 03, 2021

brodalikeme:
I disagree with you absolutely! The virtue of being a virgin as lofty as it is alone, cannot guarantee a successful marriage.

Brand new tyres alone does not make an efficient vehicle.
Clean cups doesn’t make great drinks.
There are so many important tiny components that makes a good woman/wife.

And sleeping around guarantees a good marriage abi?

Have you ever asked yourself why our forefather and foremother had very successful marriages?

Most of the women of those years knew only their husbands dick. Their only window to sex was through their husband. Even Almighty God whose standards support virginity is all knowing.

It is now you with your prostitute mindset that knows that being a virgin does not guarantees marriage!

Shut up!

You are a disgrace!

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by shaybebaby(f): 5:21pm On Oct 03, 2021

Techsupport:

Thank God for people like you. My God, most Nigeria men are so dumb, they should not be allowed to procreate that stupidity to the next generation.

I'm telling you. At work, there is a huge drive to increase diversity and mobility for ethnic minority, all these training being given on identifying biases, calling on each other to allies so that black people can have equal opportunities to succeed.
And then I land here and read these nonsense. How can I be vocal and be an advocate for my people when this is the mindset that follows them around.

I am hopeful sha, I saw your comments and a few others. Proof that the entire basket of fruit isn't rotten.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 5:21pm On Oct 03, 2021

humilitypays:
Dick self de rust

Ask Google, check images, and see.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Tourist123: 5:21pm On Oct 03, 2021

lawkenoz:
40 secs man don drop quote. You want virgin so that she won't compare your weak arse game with better gbola abi? your analogy and comparison doesn't even make sense to begin with.

Virginity is a virtue which is dependent on your moral or religious value. Some men like the olosho you hate why? Cuz she dey knack well and sex is all he cares about, some men love the borehole you dismiss.

Virginity disappears once the hymen is gone. After it leaves what remains is what matters. The Oloshos of today were virgins of yesterday.

Virgin can turn olosho anyday, Nigerians aren't the most disciplined people on the planet after all....we rank highest for porn watching, google exposed us, so that your virgin is probably waiting to use it to mugu you! After all she knows you're likely not a virgin yourself and will use it to make you loose guard....by the time you realise what's happening, your gateman is chopping the kpomo you thought was your sole proprietorship.

Small children wey never marry go dey make noise noise about upandan.

reminds me of my Virgin ex those days. We were in a serious relationship and planned in getting married, because I was sure she would be my wife, I decided to devirgin her. Omo na so this girl begin knack her next door neighbor o. When I discovered I asked her why? She said she wanted to know what it feels like to do it with other ppl. Lol Imagine we had gotten married.
Marriage is a big deal and anybody that prioritizes Virginity over Love, good moral conduct and SENSE is heading for doom

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by kingxsamz(m): 5:22pm On Oct 03, 2021

Image123:

i can't wait for you to resume school tomorrow, you should not be in this kind of thread Samuel. Your virginity/chastity is a part of your character son.

School?
Who be this one? grin

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Kajaard: 5:23pm On Oct 03, 2021

JovialJune:

Are you a pure breed banny? Is your wife worthy of being the only woman you've diicked? Or you're just an overused rotten diick?

Banny is a Warri slang for babe. I believe the person you responded to is a dude cheesy

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by humilitypays(m): 5:23pm On Oct 03, 2021

JovialJune:

Ask Google, check images, and see.

Hahahahaha, wahala be like Tinubu, e no de leave London hospital cheesy

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 5:23pm On Oct 03, 2021

kokanepyramid:

So all things being equal, a virgin comes with less baggage than non-virgin.

How? Will she be a virgin forever?

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Hamiltonii: 5:23pm On Oct 03, 2021

[quote author=shaybebaby post=106408699][/quote]
No be me say make you begin fúck from age 10. Now your toto don't open waaa like wetin go swallow person na him you wan come here dey trivialise chastity. Mtcheew!

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Sprumbaba: 5:25pm On Oct 03, 2021

pansophist:
Saying that virginity doesn't guarantee a successful marriage is like saying that an educated hardworking man doesn't guarantee sucess. Well yea, it doesn't, but it's an indication. And I'll rather pick a virgin, than one who would compare our sex with truckloads of men she had slept with. Then say I'm not man enough.

Remember, Olosho was once a virgin.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Alohaa: 5:25pm On Oct 03, 2021

NigeriaIsGreat:
The way they make comparism at times baffles me seriously

Let them show me a virgin with bad character and i will show them hundreds of thousands of loosed girls with rutten and disgusting character

Anything to make agenda agend shaaaa

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 5:26pm On Oct 03, 2021

Ikpunwanyianamb:

Lol,you sabi their gimmicks, always ascribing negative things to virgins to make you biased in choosing
Happy to see you also turn it around

Will she be a virgin forever? Are there negativities in virgins yes or no?

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by jcross19: 5:27pm On Oct 03, 2021

duality:

Those who wallow in the filth of sexual recklessness didn't tie their love to sex?

So if marriage in not all about sex, we should condemn or belittle Chastity?

ah can't you read the line virginity is never a yardstick for successful marriage.. Mind you if you are a man looking for a virgin and you are not a virgin, please you are Pharisee!!!

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 5:28pm On Oct 03, 2021

Kajaard:

Banny is a Warri slang for babe. I believe the person you responded to is a dude

I don't care.

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Elporo(m): 5:29pm On Oct 03, 2021

KarinaLove:
It's only some Men that want Virgins as wives.
THESE MEN ARE SO STUPID.

What nonsense!

Get a lot of 100 virgins between the ages of 23 - 25. Line them up, in front of the nearest well-populated church. With a signpost saying "Virgins for Marriage Only"

Let's see if the entire lot won't get married before the day runs out. Especially the fair ones or those with better waist and boobs!

They will pay even those exorbitant bride prices After all, we have been paying womens bills ; so paying extra for a virgin won't even be questioned. I am a man/male, so I know many of my kind are not willing to get married to their current girls or even girls around them because they are yet to find something about these girls to justify the marriage.

Ohh you think the man who leaves his 30year old girlfriend to marry at 25 years old is a fool. or the other who married a 19-year-old as his first wife (Yusuf Buhari) is an idiot, or Ned Nwoko who married Regina is an idiot.

Men instinctively know they can wait until they find the best alternative!

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Kajaard: 5:30pm On Oct 03, 2021

JovialJune:

I don't care.

you just dey vex anyhow. Drink water sha cheesy

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by femi4: 5:30pm On Oct 03, 2021

NigeriaIsGreat:
And being virgin isn't inward abi

You better start going to school

Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by kevoh(m): 5:30pm On Oct 03, 2021

When you have faced the stress and challenges of being married for more than 4 years, you will just be laughing at the ridiculousness of these type of topics. It's hard for me not to conclude that it's kids or self-righteous hypocrites that bring up such topics.

Pampers, school fees (3 times in a year), house rent/mortgage, monthly feeding, nepa bill, money for aged parents, money for siblings, money for malaria drugs, family car maintenance etc. not one of the responsibilities I have mentioned is solved by being a virgin.

Let everyone marry whoever he/she deems it fit to marry. Virgin or non-virgin, after you leave the reception hall of your wedding, it no longer matters!

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by shaybebaby(f): 5:30pm On Oct 03, 2021

advanceDNA:

Context please....but I'll indulge you a bit...

May be u should ask countless girls with several abortions that match their body counts...it's sad and I genuinely feel for you guys

Oh let me guess..this is where u blame the men... Something like.."I did abortion for him"...isn't he the ons that slept with me ..what happened to saying no sex without condom, what happened sitting your asss at home and say no sex at all

Education! Education!! Education!!!
Empower women to say no when men say "oooo I like it skin to skin". Use condoms..it protects against pregnancy and stds.

If you must have sex, do it safely and protect yourself. Both parties are responsible. But how can you blame the lasses when they are shamed in the first place for having sexual desires?

Do you think that encourages them to talk and seek guidance on how to protect themselves if they choose to be sexually active? It is the fear of judgement that threads like this cause there perpetuates the cycle of sexual health ignorance.

Asides condoms ( which sorts the std risk) there are myriads of other forms of contraception if they are in committed relationships.

Ignorance and lack of education is why abortions has become in and of itself a form of birth control.

Allow women to have autonomy over their bodies, educate everyone on the options available to them to protect themselves.
Provide ready access to those options.
Respect individual choices made. EOD

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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 5:30pm On Oct 03, 2021

babtoundey:
The Op got everything muddled up.
Being virtuous and and striving to be sexually pure is a virtue both genders should have. Virginity is an indication of moral uprightness particularly in this present time when sex is cheap and being sexually immodest is considered fashion and smartness.

The statement is however correct. Virginity is not enough guarantee for a successful and happy marriage. As much as I will love to have a woman who is sexually modest and decent, I wouldn't look forward to her coming with just her virginity. After the virginity what else? That a woman or man is a virgin doesn't mean she will be upright and adequate in other areas of human endeavors.

Nature has a way of doing its things. Those wayward things always have happy stories while the modest, unfortunately, go through undeserved hell. Being a good, brilliant and focused student sometimes does not guarantee success after graduation. The unserious ones and the ones labelled olodos always fly higher. It's a mystery.

The statement can be said to be stupid and useless if it is said with the intention of encouraging philandering in men or promiscuity in women folks.

It is good and fulfilling to be a virgin purposely to fulfil your own personal moral or Philosophical principles and not in expectation of special treatments from the society.

The only sensible male here.

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