Meek127:
lol,i've had same experience. Just end it since she's not ready.
she's acting like she's the only one risking anything.
you made yourself vulnerable by pouring your heart out yet she dey use you catch cruise.Already you sound head over heels over her,even when there's no green light,thats not healthy man.
what if she pulls back,imagine the mental state you'd be getting yourself into.
women can be funny bro. I wish you best of luck either way.

Tonnyray:
She doesn't want what you want so what are you still doing with her?
I understand your position though cos I've been there too but the hallmark of maturity as a man (an adult at that) is the ability to take cold blooded decisions. My way or the high way. Give her 3 days max to make her mind up or take that needed walk. And don't look back. It's not manly to flipflop or tolerate flipflopping.

That's why it's always a thousand times easier with fvckbuddies where no emotions are involved.

DonMoel:


Not gonna lie, I like her and she knows it. But I doubt if I'll be disturbed if she pulls back.

Donnie835:


I didn't give too much attention. I just deduced she is trying to avoid being intimate with me.

DonMoel:
Not gonna lie, I like her and she knows it. But I doubt if I'll be disturbed if she pulls back.

DonMoel:
she'll still come back

SOZINN:
Ask another girl out and begin a relationship with that one. Don't tell her about your new relationship but let her know.
That should work.

foreman:
I think TRP can help in other ways. TRP has made me lose friends.

I used to move around with some friends; we hang-out; drink, womanize together. I did a little soul-searching and surmised that I have been holding the short-end of the stick. I was mostly picking up the bills when we go out. So I decided to do a little test. I started forming broke whenever we go out. I was surprised that they started giving me space. Even the ones that owed me money refused to pay back. I wouldn't worry about this normally but I just wanted to find out if I have been wasting my resources all along; I confirmed this to be true unfortunately.

Now my circle of friends has greatly reduced.

DonMoel:


Lol, I figured she was trying to check something when she asked that question and then the response I gave was in my own favour. Made her realised I left 4 out of the 5 cos they were steeping beyond their limits, and as for me, my love isn't blind. The moment you're becoming an issue, I cut you off... myself matter to me first.

That's the response I gave to her. No way she's going to use me cos I'm not investing heavily. She knows I'm not doing whatever I tell her I'm not ready to give in to no matter how hard she presses.

I understand your view tho

Tonnyray:
What pillers here term as choosing (i.e. she chose me) might just be what some others term love (she loves me)
Euphemisms depending on the individual's orientation..

..I think

Enavie:
Hi guys.

Sometimes ago, I made up my mind to never get married. I just did not see any point in it, and this thread has shown me more reasons to not consider it.

However, I am starting to reconsider.

I am a person who takes their health very seriously. And of recent, something started to dawn on me: if I ever find myself in an emergency and do not have anyone around, this decision I am making could lead to my untimely death (Imagine collapsing while I am alone in the house. Imagine bed-ridden that I can not even stand to take care of myself). I have parents, brothers, and sisters, but considering some things that occurred recently, I would be very stupid to think I can rely on any of them. I feel, if I get a quite good girl (I feel some can still be managed) and play my game well, I may have someone who is going to love me so much that she would be willing to go through a great deal to provide the help I need during such periods.

I thought of having an assistant I am going to employ to help me in periods like this, but I do not think this option is reliable either. I do not think such a person would do a great job during those potentially tough times: it will be just a job to them.

I really do not want to get into a marriage, but at this point, I feel I do not have a choice.

I would like to hear what you guys think. Do you feel it is still a bad idea? If yes, let me in on your thoughts. Or do you know of another option I can consider?

SkyFlint:


This is very valid.

I don't subscribe much to conspiracy theories, but it is very evident that someone, or a group is someones, is using movies/shows to brainwash the public.
I’m

Enavie:
Hi guys.

Sometimes ago, I made up my mind to never get married. I just did not see any point in it, and this thread has shown me more reasons to not consider it.

However, I am starting to reconsider.

I am a person who takes their health very seriously. And of recent, something started to dawn on me: if I ever find myself in an emergency and do not have anyone around, this decision I am making could lead to my untimely death (Imagine collapsing while I am alone in the house. Imagine bed-ridden that I can not even stand to take care of myself). I have parents, brothers, and sisters, but considering some things that occurred recently, I would be very stupid to think I can rely on any of them. I feel, if I get a quite good girl (I feel some can still be managed) and play my game well, I may have someone who is going to love me so much that she would be willing to go through a great deal to provide the help I need during such periods.

I thought of having an assistant I am going to employ to help me in periods like this, but I do not think this option is reliable either. I do not think such a person would do a great job during those potentially tough times: it will be just a job to them.

I really do not want to get into a marriage, but at this point, I feel I do not have a choice.

I would like to hear what you guys think. Do you feel it is still a bad idea? If yes, let me in on your thoughts. Or do you know of another option I can consider?

MJBOLT:
https://www.nairaland.com/6785837/girlfriend-boyfriend-please-advise-me#106437752

Tonnyray:
This here seems to be the real problem
Because she knows she can. She knows you will always let her. I take it she's marriage material for you to be this accommodating of her yoyo games with your mind.
I understand your plight bro, in fact there's something brewing in my own sphere that's most ideal but spelling complication right now. Unfortunately for the girl in question the problem is not even her. But that's by the way.

It's all about how long you're willing to stay in this "kashimawo situationship" bro
Exactly. A new chick, especially one that matches or surpasses her in beauty usually does the magic in cases like this but please don't start a relationship with this rebound option biko. Just use her to play the game. If at all you have to play it.

MJBOLT:
https://www.nairaland.com/6785837/girlfriend-boyfriend-please-advise-me#106437752

Donnie835:


I didn't give too much attention. I just deduced she is trying to avoid being intimate with me.

Battalion1:
all na shakara bro ,,ignore her ,,,she will be the one callin

Enavie:
Hi guys.

Sometimes ago, I made up my mind to never get married. I just did not see any point in it, and this thread has shown me more reasons to not consider it.

However, I am starting to reconsider.

I am a person who takes their health very seriously. And of recent, something started to dawn on me: if I ever find myself in an emergency and do not have anyone around, this decision I am making could lead to my untimely death (Imagine collapsing while I am alone in the house. Imagine bed-ridden that I can not even stand to take care of myself). I have parents, brothers, and sisters, but considering some things that occurred recently, I would be very stupid to think I can rely on any of them. I feel, if I get a quite good girl (I feel some can still be managed) and play my game well, I may have someone who is going to love me so much that she would be willing to go through a great deal to provide the help I need during such periods.

I thought of having an assistant I am going to employ to help me in periods like this, but I do not think this option is reliable either. I do not think such a person would do a great job during those potentially tough times: it will be just a job to them.

I really do not want to get into a marriage, but at this point, I feel I do not have a choice.

I would like to hear what you guys think. Do you feel it is still a bad idea? If yes, let me in on your thoughts. Or do you know of another option I can consider?

His madness is special
Even though he won't admit it,he wants to continue the relationship hoping the girl will dump her fvck boy,too bad reality is often disappointing.

SOZINN:


He is in a different state. While her fûckboy is in the same state with her.
Chai
people dey mad
as in MAD

Enavie:
Hi guys.

Sometimes ago, I made up my mind to never get married. I just did not see any point in it, and this thread has shown me more reasons to not consider it.

However, I am starting to reconsider.

I am a person who takes their health very seriously. And of recent, something started to dawn on me: if I ever find myself in an emergency and do not have anyone around, this decision I am making could lead to my untimely death (Imagine collapsing while I am alone in the house. Imagine bed-ridden that I can not even stand to take care of myself). I have parents, brothers, and sisters, but considering some things that occurred recently, I would be very stupid to think I can rely on any of them. I feel, if I get a quite good girl (I feel some can still be managed) and play my game well, I may have someone who is going to love me so much that she would be willing to go through a great deal to provide the help I need during such periods.

I thought of having an assistant I am going to employ to help me in periods like this, but I do not think this option is reliable either. I do not think such a person would do a great job during those potentially tough times: it will be just a job to them.

I really do not want to get into a marriage, but at this point, I feel I do not have a choice.

I would like to hear what you guys think. Do you feel it is still a bad idea? If yes, let me in on your thoughts. Or do you know of another option I can consider?

Winnerautomatic:


Is it still conspiracy theory when the theory is playing out in full glare?

This revelation you had about movies and indoctrination should take you down a path that would involve spirituality and all the way down to corona virus and lots more. It’s thesame actors pulling the strings.

You’re right about all you said but youre yet to scratch the surface.

The rabbit hole runs deep but you have it in you to find the answers.

Clue: Distrust over 85% of whatever is pushed as mainstream truth.

We live in an occult controlled world and the signs are everywhere for all to see. You won’t need to look too far before you see someone doing the one eyed symbol or a satanic ritual in Hollywood or tv in general. Yet, thesame people obsessed with occultic symbols are also the people who told you there is something called atheism and you bought the lie.

In my opinion, red pill= awareness= open mind

If your redpill awareness does not lead to the following insight then you have failed.

1. There are demonic actors pulling the strings of the world that intend to pervert all natural orders we once knew

2. Feminism bears a striking semblace to satan’s revolt against God.

3. The symbols of feminism are occult related

4. The battle is not between men vs women or simp versus beta. Its between evil and good. Before you blame the simp, ask yourself who created the system that made the simp? I strongly believe simps are made and not born. So, who makes them and why?

5. Evil will eventually prevail all over the world and there will be an armageddon as prophesied in the bible.

6. This world is only temporal. The new Jerusalem as spoken about in the bible should be everyone’s goal.

7. Science is evil and comes from the devil. Every scientific discovery is nothing but a greek gift that brings sicknesses as side effects

8. If you believe there is no God, then there is no devil, right? You then owe us a favour to verify the two claims. Why don’t you join the nearest occult group and see if they aren’t able to invoke demons? If they can do so, then is it still far fetched to think there is no God? Jesus changed the game and made Christianity less dramatic. This however had the downside of less belief for the easily deceived.

There was no talk of atheism in the old testament when Christianity was rule based and seemed like rituals. The ease brought the disbelief and is the greatest lie the devil has succeeded in selling to the new world.

Etc etc. red pill without salvation = you are finished

Winnerautomatic:


Is it still conspiracy theory when the theory is playing out in full glare?

This revelation you had about movies and indoctrination should take you down a path that would involve spirituality and all the way down to corona virus and lots more. It’s thesame actors pulling the strings.

You’re right about all you said but youre yet to scratch the surface.

The rabbit hole runs deep but you have it in you to find the answers.

Clue: Distrust over 85% of whatever is pushed as mainstream truth.

We live in an occult controlled world and the signs are everywhere for all to see. You won’t need to look too far before you see someone doing the one eyed symbol or a satanic ritual in Hollywood or tv in general. Yet, thesame people obsessed with occultic symbols are also the people who told you there is something called atheism and you bought the lie.

In my opinion, red pill= awareness= open mind

If your redpill awareness does not lead to the following insight then you have failed.

1. There are demonic actors pulling the strings of the world that intend to pervert all natural orders we once knew

2. Feminism bears a striking semblace to satan’s revolt against God.

3. The symbols of feminism are occult related

4. The battle is not between men vs women or simp versus beta. Its between evil and good. Before you blame the simp, ask yourself who created the system that made the simp? I strongly believe simps are made and not born. So, who makes them and why?

5. Evil will eventually prevail all over the world and there will be an armageddon as prophesied in the bible.

6. This world is only temporal. The new Jerusalem as spoken about in the bible should be everyone’s goal.

7. Science is evil and comes from the devil. Every scientific discovery is nothing but a greek gift that brings sicknesses as side effects

8. If you believe there is no God, then there is no devil, right? You then owe us a favour to verify the two claims. Why don’t you join the nearest occult group and see if they aren’t able to invoke demons? If they can do so, then is it still far fetched to think there is no God? Jesus changed the game and made Christianity less dramatic. This however had the downside of less belief for the easily deceived.

There was no talk of atheism in the old testament when Christianity was rule based and seemed like rituals. The ease brought the disbelief and is the greatest lie the devil has succeeded in selling to the new world.

Etc etc. red pill without salvation = you are finished

DonMoel:


Like I said earlier, I've tried cutting off the communication but she would always come back and act like nothing happened.

I just don't want a situation where she feels I totally discarded her because I couldn't get what I want...kind of immature to do that, for me.

MJBOLT:
https://www.nairaland.com/6785837/girlfriend-boyfriend-please-advise-me#106437752

Enavie:
Hi guys.

Sometimes ago, I made up my mind to never get married. I just did not see any point in it, and this thread has shown me more reasons to not consider it.

However, I am starting to reconsider.

I am a person who takes their health very seriously. And of recent, something started to dawn on me: if I ever find myself in an emergency and do not have anyone around, this decision I am making could lead to my untimely death (Imagine collapsing while I am alone in the house. Imagine bed-ridden that I can not even stand to take care of myself). I have parents, brothers, and sisters, but considering some things that occurred recently, I would be very stupid to think I can rely on any of them. I feel, if I get a quite good girl (I feel some can still be managed) and play my game well, I may have someone who is going to love me so much that she would be willing to go through a great deal to provide the help I need during such periods.

I thought of having an assistant I am going to employ to help me in periods like this, but I do not think this option is reliable either. I do not think such a person would do a great job during those potentially tough times: it will be just a job to them.

I really do not want to get into a marriage, but at this point, I feel I do not have a choice.

I would like to hear what you guys think. Do you feel it is still a bad idea? If yes, let me in on your thoughts. Or do you know of another option I can consider?