confirm!

Rubbiish:
Not only wife!
Nobody will respect u if u lose your source of income.

OkuFaba:
no wahala, I go just carry my pikin go

Anyway it was a joke....truely there are loyal women...me don see

No woman loves without money. The love will certainly fade out, speaking from experience.

A lot would depend on how responsible and caring Husband was to Wife and children while the going was good.

If I hated d job, I will be happy for my man
If it was a super.loaded job, I will be super happy for my man and give GOD my car as a sacrificial gift, cos I know a better job is coming

arantess:

This is not true with all marriages

There are families where the women earns higher and is still submissive...

I know that...i am not dismissive of that

Snitch24:
No
Will you still love her if she lost her beauty ?

Only a fool marries a woman because of her beauty.

Vaginarian:

She's a thug...

I bleeped a fuckkin gal-thug.
Now, I'm thinking of going back home and beat the hell out of her but somebody urged me to visit the nearest Police station before anything.

don't beat her,what are you going to police station to report about,be patience to solve family issues out!

yes...she will respect me, never marry a woman when you are rich....marry when you are starting life to avoid all threse things you listed

Havesomesense:
It is the duty of a man to provide for the family, women consider financially buoyant men for relationships.

Imagine if you lost your job/business or your income reduced drastically.

Will your wife love you?
Will your wife be jovial with you?
Will your wife give you her palliative as usual?
Will she disrespect you in front of the kids and others?
Will she watch you starve when she has food in the kitchen?
Will she keep reminding you that you are not contributing anything?
Will she start seeking other mens' attention?
Will she Change?

I need honest answers.

How you treated your wife when you had money will determine how she will treat you when the money is gone .most men pretend to the world they care for their wives,but only the two of them know the truth...for someone like me I will pay you back with the same coin.

Yes boss. All glory to God. But u know as e dey be nah, money no dey ever do.. it's very sweet when your wife relies on u for footing bills at home. It can only get better.

Havesomesense:

I hope things are better with you financially now?

smpie question that needs simple answer
its all about the girl's upbringing

some are very poor but they like money like kilode
some are rich but they dont shake too much for money
all because of their family background

frozen70:


Marriage is all about live and respect

If you ever love your wife and its obvious you have always loved her

No matter the hard times she will never berat you

But if you have been treating her like an option

That time is when she will give it to you every hour

Women don't forget negative treatment and tends to pay back no matter how long it takes

Oga u are not entirely right! Love a woman to high heavens, ones you can no longer provide in the house, oga they go reduce you to rag! Examples abound! Am talking from experience.

Havesomesense:
It is the duty of a man to provide for the family, women consider financially buoyant men for relationships.

Imagine if you lost your job/business or your income reduced drastically.

Will your wife love you?
Will your wife be jovial with you?
Will your wife give you her palliative as usual?
Will she disrespect you in front of the kids and others?
Will she watch you starve when she has food in the kitchen?
Will she keep reminding you that you are not contributing anything?
Will she start seeking other mens' attention?
Will she Change?

I need honest answers.

The answer to these questions depend on how you treated her when you had money and power.
Secondly, how you tried to stand again when you fall.

If you treated your wife so well when you had all it takes, majority of them will tend to reciprocate this.
Remember that no matter how well you treated them, women are not wired to be financial providers for men. They may try but the longer they do it, the more angry they become irrespective of how much they are getting.
Based on this, when you fall, try as much as possible to struggle back to ur feet.
Once the woman sees that your are trying your best to get back to your feet, she may worry less in taking care of you.
When you remained where you fall, my dear, the love that woman has for you will start dying irrespective of how well u treated her before now.

uthlaw:
do you know the power of money....they won't respect me ke,if I ignore them for 1month,them go know watin de sup!

Well, I guess we all have different meanings for the word "respect". If "thank you sir" is your own meaning of respect, then this argument would remain unproductive.

uthlaw:
do you know the power of money....they won't respect me ke,if I ignore them for 1month,them go know watin de sup!

Yeah, I know the power of money. The power of money will make you bow when you meet Buhari but lack of respect will make you curse the hell outta his life online.

Even my mother won't respect me if I lost my job.

That is the bitter truth of life.

No need to deceive yourself.

The answer is No. There's nothing to think about it. At first love will blind her eyes but few months down the line the love will clear and she'd start to doubt your manhood

Havesomesense:
It is the duty of a man to provide for the family, women consider financially buoyant men for relationships.

Imagine if you lost your job/business or your income reduced drastically.

Will your wife love you?
Will your wife be jovial with you?
Will your wife give you her palliative as usual?
Will she disrespect you in front of the kids and others?
Will she watch you starve when she has food in the kitchen?
Will she keep reminding you that you are not contributing anything?
Will she start seeking other mens' attention?
Will she Change?

I need honest answers.

It depends on the individual person, u can't get a general answer, all women in the world are not thesame, same as men.

Psoul:


The answer to these questions depend on how you treated her when you had money and power.
Secondly, how you tried to stand again when you fall.

If you treated your wife so well when you had all it takes, majority of them will tend to reciprocate this.
Remember that no matter how well you treated them, women are not wired to be financial providers for men. They may try but the longer they do it, the more angry they become irrespective of how much they are getting.
Based on this, when you fall, try as much as possible to struggle back to ur feet.
Once the woman sees that your are trying your best to get back to your feet, she may worry less in taking care of you.
When you remained where you fall, my dear, the love that woman has for you will start dying irrespective of how well u treated her before now.

Well said. Thank you.

No woman will respect u. Except she is that huzzling type(financially independent type), who doesn't rely on what u are earning or what u give to her. Sadly, these women are very few and very rare to find but they exist.

This new generation of women no go respect you 10kobo even with your money dem no get respect.

Worksunlimited:


I'll tell you a short story..

I had a girl long time ago, that we had something going on.. the day she found out she earned more than I did.. Her affection dropped drastically...

Long story short, relationship didn't work out after that day..

I am in a better place now and I hope she is too..

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Thank God for your current status.

Not true, l just loss my job 2weeks ago and guess what, my wife has been the one trying to encourage me to be strong. Yes am not happy, no body is but her reactions to the whole thing has been positive. Dear nairalanders, love indeed supercede everything.

Truvelisback:
No woman will repect u. Except she is that huzzling type(financially independent), who doesn't rely on what u are earning or what u give to her. Sadly, these women are very few and very rare to find but they exist.

If you are in a relationship with them they expect you to spend on them too once in a while.

No they don’t

Nigerian wives will show their true colors when you go broke

Just act broke you will know you are living with a finesse

Matheusmartin:
..
If all of these are true, then we should stop deceiving ourselves with love.

All love are conditional except your mom's love!... Reason why you shouldn't ever joke with her!

Acidosis:

Yes, you will lose your respect when your respect is built on money and nothing else. Build your respect on values, lifestyle, and things that are more sustainable.

Whats lifestyle and sustainable without money!?... Shey you dey whine yourself!

Havesomesense:


If you are in a relationship with them they expect you to spend on them too once in a while.

Yes, but they don't pressure u with the need of money.

Justbehave:
The only woman that can love you unconditionally is your mum.No job,no love.Fellas stop deceiving yourselves.

You know that's not true. There are a lot of ladies out there that would love and cherish their man unconditionally. Even your mother was once a young lady. I have one of such ladies. We still have good ladies who love and want to be loved back. What these ladies just want from us is our love, respect and peace

Every lady has an endurance limit she can still be caring for some time but once she reaches her endurance limit oga forget story her love. Will become history