She spent the night at ur place, she wanted u to f*ck her but u didn't. That's why she acted that way. Learn to read ladies' body language always.

What did the male voice say?

Her mindset is not ready for marriage yet or maybe she doesn't like you that much

Truvelisback:
She spent the night at ur place, she wanted u to f*ck her but u didn't. That's why she acted that way. Learn to read ladies' body language always.

Although she made the move but I didn't Bleep her. But she left hurriedly in the morning while I was still sleeping

SenecaTheYonger:
What did the male voice say?

The underground male voice said something I didn't hear but more like "who is that" I'm not sure.

Babaijeshaa:

The underground male voice said something I didn't hear but more like "who is that" I'm not sure.

Evanka22:

Ajeh that bitch dey motivate me.

Babaijeshaa:

Although she made the move but I didn't Bleep her. But she left hurriedly in the morning while I was still sleeping

She wanted u to f*ck her but u turned her down. Yes, that was her hidden annoyance. She assumed that u are a coward. Ladies generally hates it, when they willingly want a guy to f*ck them and the guy turned them down. The chances of not going back to guy is very high and they may never give u that opportunity again.

Truvelisback:
She wanted u to f*ck her but u turned her down. Yes, that was her hidden annoyance. She assumed that u are a coward. Ladies generally hates it, when they willingly want a guy to f*ck them and the guy turned them down. The chances of not going back to guy is very high and they may never give u that opportunity again.

Not even really like that bro. She is just a LovePeddler. Why can't she just motivate me by grabbing my penis if she's really in mood. Can a soft penis enter a pussy?

Babaijeshaa:

Not even really like that bro. She is just a LovePeddler. Why can't she just motivate me by grabbing my penis if she's really in mood. Can a soft penis enter a pussy?

No, bro. 99% of ladies won't so even if want s*x. They want u to intiate the s*x as the man. They don't want to appear as a wh*re to u or see them as too cheap or too easy. They will only give u some body signals. E.g like wearing mini skirt, Showing u her laps, deliberately make u see in btw her legs(seeing her panties) etc. Once miss these signals, and do not shoot ur shoot, just forget. She may never ever come to ur house again.

Honestly I'm tired of reading all this type of stories from Nairaland males.

A girl is treating you with this much disrespect and very likely cheating on you and you are asking for advise on what to do - Instead of dumping her ass. My guy, please put emotions aside and think.

Gynn:
Honestly I'm tired of reading all this type of stories from Nairaland males.

A girl is treating you with this much disrespect and very likely cheating on you and you are asking for advise on what to do - Instead of dumping her ass. My guy, please put emotions aside and think.

Bro, it doesn't take us a second to dump her ass but the evil she did to you won't let you be. Whenever I tried to forget about her I just get touched again of that thing she did that made me angry and I get mad. Even right now I feel like arresting her and put her in detention. The kind curse wey Don follow my mouth komot today no be here. So I'm not even thinking of the love I have for her I'm only thinking about the effontery she gat to do that shit. I can even upload her picture if I vezz finish.

Does she live alone.

Babaijeshaa:

Why can't she just motivate me by grabbing my penis if she's really in mood. Can a soft penis enter a pussy?

lol, Nigeria is really a land of cruising, @ O.P you really need to look inwards, leave that girl and concentrate on being a comedian...... that is your calling.

Lemme be logical here.
Kindly ask her where she was throughout that day. Ofcos her creatures always come up with something. After her answer don't give a f**k.

How can she be picking male calls that are not her work partner in ur presence.

And u be farmer self. U want her to spend the rest of her life with u, so that u go carry person pikin enter farm.
My advice focus on improving ur life b4 think about marriage.
Marriage without money is like money without marriage

it nearly impossible for ladies not to have multiple boyfriends this days. its a side hustle. it's that bad

Jeremani:
Lemme be logical here.
Kindly ask her where she was throughout that day. Ofcos her creatures always come up with something. After her answer don't give a f**k.

How can she be picking male calls that are not her work partner in ur presence.

And u be farmer self. U want her to spend the rest of her life with u, so that u go carry person pikin enter farm.
My advice focus on improving ur life b4 think about marriage.
Marriage without money is like money without marriage

So been farmer means he is poor?

Babaijeshaa:

Bro, it doesn't take us a second to dump her ass but the evil she did to you won't let you be. Whenever I tried to forget about her I just get touched again of that thing she did that made me angry and I get mad. Even right now I feel like arresting her and put her in detention. The kind curse wey Don follow my mouth komot today no be here. So I'm not even thinking of the love I have for her I'm only thinking about the effontery she gat to do that shit. I can even upload her picture if I vezz finish.

your next girlfriend would do the same. see, no matter how faithful you are, Nigerian ladies don't put their egg in one basket anymore. they are on a rampage. if her womb is still intact, get one or two child from, perform DNA test on your kids, train them and enjoy your life. forget bout fidelity from Nigerian ladies. This is the reality now oooo

The rate is simp diz days is alarming I weak

Evanka22:
Her mindset is not ready for marriage yet or maybe she doesn't like you that much

or maybe she's just a hoe by nature it's in some ladies even if they love you they will still cheat nah dere lifestyle

biddostandard:
or maybe she's just a hoe by nature it's in some ladies even if they love you they will still cheat nah dere lifestyle

yea possible

Epeegee:




So been farmer means he is poor?

No the girl no like bend dey farm

Evanka22:
yea possible

I don't know why you guys are all worked up about girls, marriage and all that bs.

My advice: there's more to life than the opposite gender.

Babaijeshaa:
I have a girlfriend I've been dating for 7 months now and she seems to be the kind of girl I can marry. I've been planning marriage with her and even my parents have been telling me many times to bring the girl to them and talk about marriage because they see her sometimes when she comes over and they actually like her. Since the beginning of our relationship she had never hear me talking to a girl on the phone, though she knows I'm always on whatsapp and I might have some girls I talk to but I don't make calls or get female calls beside her of which she gets male calls most of the times. But due to my understanding, I believe female tends to receive male calls for the fact that they are female and they will always have many guys disturbing them. I use to get mad at her sometimes when she's recieving a call and I notice she's speaking with a guy and all she will say is that they are just normal person and I should just stop worrying about her that she's not that type that do what I'm thinking. I will still tell her to just stop recieving all those calls beside me. To cut the story short, she slept over at my place last night and she hurriedly left the following morning which doesn't happen. I asked her where she's going so early but she said she's going home and that I should escort her but I said no because I'm still feeling sleepy. Since then that she left, I didn't wake up until 10:00 am and I didn't even bother calling her maybe she's home already or not and I don't even have call card tbh. So in the afternoon I went to my farm to harvest the maize and did lots of work there until 7:00 pm before I could get chance to look at my phone. I was expecting to see her calls but no I didn't see one. I called her number and it ring like four times which she didn't pick. I actually don't trust her too much because of the male calls she receives so I started feeling unrest and I started calling her multiple times which she didn't pick. I gave up and expect she will call me back whenever she see my missed calls. Later this night, I checked the time and Its already 11:00 and I'm feeling sleepy already because all these social media platforms are down so I was feeling bored and sleepy. I tried calling her befre sleeping and thank God she picked and I started asking her why she have not been picking my calls and she was faking being sleepy on the phone and said she was charging her phone. I was about asking with anger why didn't she call me back until I heard a guy's voice under. I was shocked and had to cut the call and immediately blocked her two numbers by a very hot anger. After that, I got a call showing a private number and I know she will be the one so I cut the call too. Her elder sister is someone who likes me a lot and even want me to marry her sister even she plans for us most of the times. I made a call to her elder sister and narrated everything to her and she said she will call her right away and find out whats going on. Later, her sister called me and told me her number was not reachable and I should be calmed till tomorrow morning and she will go to their family house and see her if her number don't go through still. I said OK and ended the call. So guys please what do you think I can do after the sisters investigations because I know that the sister will beg me and my girlfriend will deny the allegation which is visible to the blind and audible to the deaf.

Guy,..You no suppose call her sister at all...
You no dey take red pill....
Chai...which kind guy you be ...you heard a guy's voice at the background while you on call with her...you have been calling before that time she didn't pick up....
So wtf are you thinking?...
You already got the info you needed...
This is the end of the relationship guy....
She is a whoore...she is fcking somebody else...

See...lemme tell you my own relationship story just last two weeks I ended my relationship with my ex ..
Wetin she do?
I have been telling her to come see me at my business unit so we can talk..she go dey postpone am ..dey give me stories about how busy and traffic ridden the route to my place is....ok oo
So I think she left home on Sunday she didn't tell her sis where she was going to, she stays with her sis. When she came back, her sis asked her where she's been all day...she told her sis she was with me...her sis perceiving she was lying... threatened her she is gonna ask me about it..she joyfully told her sis to go ahead and ask me ..... omooo na so that ask me ...omoo my head blow up say which kind rubbish..... person wey I don dey beg come see go out with another guy at will on Sunday still come lie say she dey with me...
Ommooo...I ended the relationship with immediate effect...I don't take shit...
I take red pill ...you Bleep up...I move I don't care if you're the prettiest on earth I don't give a Bleep......if you go cheat, cheat...but make I no catch you...but on to say you cheat sti wan come rub am for my face mean say you no respect me be that ....and I hate it .. respect in relationship matters...I would never stay with a partner who doesn't respect me

biddostandard:
lol hope u ain't like one

nahh

Evanka22:
nahh

ok