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Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by shedy03(m): 5:03pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
odinson1:How then will the 3rd leg get oiled legitimately? 1 Like |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by mipeesoft(m): 5:04pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
[You are really on point broquote author=murphyibiam15 post=106597314]I'm trying to encourage our men here to take good care of their health, physically and mentally. It's not like women don't have theirs but those of the men are very much noticeable in the sense that it takes a toll on their physical and mental health. (1) I entered lagos two weeks ago and I needed to take uber, this uber driver as I can guess will be bw his 50s and 60s.He needed to send money to his wife (3k)but somehow he couldn't do transfer since he was driving me but I helped him with my bank app while he gave me cash. Do you know after transferring the money his wife was ungrateful and demanded he returns home immediately (that was around 8pm).Now,the man started complaining to me how whether he brings money or not how his wife keeps complaining and he said he's pitying Nigerian men who are getting married to strange women and giving birth without knowing what they're going into. He looked stressed out and trying to make ends meet but yet his wife added more burden, not just financially but mentally. So tell me how this kind of stressed man won't die out so sooner than later. He was lucky somehow that one of his children got a scholarship to study in India. (2) I attended a friend's wedding and to my utmost shock both fathers of the celebrants are late. Only their moms are still alive while other relatives represented their fathers. So I was wondering how their moms are still alive while their fathers are late. Some may say men marry younger women that's why they die out but from the mothers of those celebrants they're not up to 60 years, so how much age difference that will make the two men be late? Im saying this because I have noticed lots of people esp men are passing through a lot of stress, please men don't allow your wives, siblings or anything infact to overstress you to the point of dying out in time. We men aren't super beings, try to take things easy. Just my 2cents, bye. [/quote] |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Amarisco(f): 5:04pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Amarisco: njelrapheal: WinningEleven: celebgists01: When none of you are blind. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by ekerintee: 5:05pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
We live in an age where Most of the Nigerian women are Not responsible .However my sincere apology to the good ones.Things are changing and marriage is No longer what IT used to be in the time of Our fathers.The load is getting heavier and Most men carry much load than they could.we have proud men WHO will rather carry the load than complain the load is too much ,we have women WHO cant Support their husband and will watch him struggle.we have women WHO will ASK the man to relinquish His authority in the Home If He wants her to Help or Support him.most men will Not Like to Lose their Respekt at Home and will rather die carrying load at Home .the Definition of marriage has Changed,the Feminist have Changed IT.To be balanced ,we also have irresponsible men WHO are Womanizer .The truth is that the modern day Woman will Tell you there IS No head in the home.we all have equal right ,so men Must dont deserve respect but Must earn IT by their Work and Money.i think in the nearest Future,people wont marry again.its already Happening ,people have children and Baby Mamas without marriage .i dont Support IT,but its reality murphyibiam15: 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Fasshyt(m): 5:07pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
BadRadio: Its true that everyone will die one day but don't let us live a miserable life...drinking beer, smoking weed and fvcking is not the only ways to enjoy life...too much of everything is bad let's do it normal way so we can live a better life... 4 Likes |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by drimzsmoke(m): 5:07pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
murphyibiam15: For every man you know going through that kind of stress,I will show you 9 women living in hell.It's just that women are very strong MENTALLY,1/5th of the event that drove some women to church would kill a man or turn him into an alcoholic Give a woman love,respect,attention and care...Peace of mind will be the least of the things you're going to get in return 3 Likes |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by loswhite(m): 5:08pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Trumann:lol bedroom research 2 Likes |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Nobody: 5:08pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Lol no matter how much you try, Men "MUMUNESS" will never do In as much as that "Snail Mukus Thing" Is still between the thighs of Lilith's offspring. Although many men have started to wise up lately but we still have a large chunk of SIMPS. Millions of them are currently In between those thighs as I'm posting this, Some are In between those thighs while some are begging to Slide In despite having the Cash and Materials things, While some who knows the Game are doing Shakara and Avoiding the Pvssy...... 4 Likes |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by SocialJustice: 5:09pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
murphyibiam15:Tell them now to only do baby mama them go say you be wizard. Everybody should carry their load with sense, who die na im luck. 1 Like |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Forgodsgrace: 5:09pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
murphyibiam15: You are right.The rate at which men are having High BP is alarming.It’s not easy at all to be a man in this century’s like our fathers 3 Likes |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Simdyofficial(f): 5:09pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
anthony533:why will a man go for lazy woman.. Did anyone force him ![]() 9 Likes |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Befii: 5:09pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Wel done - that's why i broke up with my ex, & now my bp is normal. 9 Likes |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by loswhite(m): 5:10pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
GenBuhari:why don't you advise the woman to get a job? Is she handicapped? Useless men 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by ActuaRise696969: 5:10pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Work hard in your youth and build investment portfolios with passive income. Retire in your 40s and get married then while your businesses and investment finance the home and your hubbies. When you retire in your 40s you can afford to have your PA handle your phones. If no one gets you directly their wahala will not reach you. 11 Likes |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Valuc: 5:11pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Seriously the stress is too muc on men... That's why u see Dem every small pin u owe Dem... Dey will make sure u pay back cus they know wot they re seeing .. 4 Likes |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by loswhite(m): 5:11pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Simdyofficial:Only poor women reason like you. 5 Likes |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Nobody: 5:12pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
raymondhillmimi: Just concentrate on that drinking alcohol because that's what kill men not all that rubbish op wrote. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by emakgaga: 5:13pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Best response on Nairaland. Thoughtful! egopersonified: |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Simdyofficial(f): 5:13pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Spain007:if she no sabi do. U go complain too and still look outside. I lie? |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Forgodsgrace: 5:13pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
[quote author=Osobi32 post=106598906]Nothing in this world is worth the stress and I will never allow any woman to stress me. Despite the stress men go through and the sacrifices they make on daily basis to make ends meet and to provide for the family, it will shock u to know that ur children will always choose their mother over u. The thought of this alone dey pain me! I came across a post on Facebook two days ago where a guy said he had 500k to share btwn his parent and that he need an advice on how to share the money...... I was surprised at the response I saw. 95% of the comments was for him to give his mom 450k and give the father 50k. Honestly I dropped tears[ You are right ,men’s rewards are not appreciated and that’s why children buys properties for their mothers but compensate their fathers with ogogoro schnapps and that’s why I advise all men to take things easy ,have funds and enjoy themselves while still alive . 1 Like |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by loswhite(m): 5:14pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
tosaino95:You should just disown your dad na. 1 Like |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Nobody: 5:14pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
murphyibiam15: Cc: MrColdsweat Comma see something. Food don land..... ![]() |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Ogundex(m): 5:15pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
[quote author=Osobi32 post=106598906]Nothing in this world is worth the stress and I will never allow any woman to stress me. Despite the stress men go through and the sacrifices they make on daily basis to make ends meet and to provide for the family, it will shock u to know that ur children will always choose their mother over u. The thought of this alone dey pain me! I came across a post on Facebook two days ago where a guy said he had 500k to share btwn his parent and that he need an advice on how to share the money...... I was surprised at the response I saw. 95% of the comments was for him to give his mom 450k and give the father 50k. Honestly I dropped tears[/quote Honestly bro it's very painful but I reason too that we men being providers for the family, the kids always wrongly assume that fathers have everything and so don't need much. I did same too until I married and that was when I started appreciating my late dad for all his selfless sacrifice. Men indeed are under appreciated. 1 Like |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Simdyofficial(f): 5:15pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
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Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by newoffer: 5:17pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
It is true. At the end the kids we appreciate the mother more and that is another depression loading. I provide everything while my wife also work but babe no go play with her money. I started leaving some bills before man go use stress kill himself. The rate of ungrateful women now is alarming. They compare in any given opportunity. Most of the men died of stroke and heart related disease. 13 Likes |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by SweetiliciousD: 5:18pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Angelfrost:Bros, I beg to disagree with you. Thank God you quoted the Good Book. Please read Gen 3:17-19 There, God cursed the ground because of man. Your wife is also your ground cos after digging her borehole, she gives you fruit of the womb.(Your hard labour before you come inside her and plant your seed) If foolish men suffer (rhetorically speaking) you and I are foolish from the beginning till date, inherited from our forefather Adam cos we listened to the woman against God's injunction. Take it or leave it, based on this singular premise, Lucky Dube was right. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by hedonido: 5:19pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
That's why it's very painful when I see well to do or even very rich men who have been mumufied by their 'dependant' wife or girlfriend who herself is from a broke background. The least a guy can do for himself when he is expected to bear all the financial pressure in the union (whether he's dealing with a wife, girlfriend, fling or olosho) is to assert and exert his utter masculine dominance, almost to a stupendous/dictatorial/uncompromising extent. There's no nice way to say this. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by cbrezy(m): 5:20pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
LIVINGICON: I'm really scared my dad is heading to 70's and my mum is the type that never contributed in our life financially but she's also ungrateful if my dad give her money and she's always complaining that my dad should complete our house in the village when she know that things are not going well for him, and my dad lose his first born son in 2018 from a strange health condition or attack and my dad was even scammed by spiritualist and even people who called their self Pastors and this has been hurting my dad but my mum keep pressuring him. ![]() 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by murphyibiam15(m): 5:20pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Pataricatering:Is that the only thing you picked up? The woman didn't appreciate the money since it wasn't much and yet wanted to cut short the time he has to hustle, please try to understand very well 5 Likes |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by tamdun: 5:21pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
bepositive11:Are u married? Ur advice won't work on Nigerian women,u have no idea what married men are going through 10 Likes |
Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Nobody: 5:21pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
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