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I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by ADURA123(m): 9:05pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
Good evening fellow NL members, My story may be long but pls endeavor to read to the end so that you can make proper suggestions or advice. I have been married for more than 10yrs now with beautiful kids, my marriage is one that many Young guy will wish to have, but along the the line I don't know what happened things begin to nose dive. In the last 6yrs I discovered that I struggle to make love to my wife, she will either tell you ohh, she is tire or she don't like sex much..this I have endured for all this years with no cheating. Her qualities are She can cook She can keep the house clean She can manage resources And she is accommodating to my people In all this years I have never cheated on her, proudly saying it coz my dad warned me of cheating on my wife rather I should divorce her and go for another wife. My qualities are I work and earn like about 700k net a month. I give feeding allowance and personal total of 100k a month while I invest the rest on a project which she is aware of. I don't drink or smoke I don't keep late night and I am the best friend to her and my kids. Honestly having talk to her for over 5yrs on this issues of love making and she refused to change, then I have decided to yield to my dad advice and ask her to leave...she is not aware of this plan, but trust me it will hit her. I allow her to do little job to have her own finance is not as if she contribute anything in the house, but she is claiming stubborn, I love her so much, it will hurt me to cheat on her, something I have not done since I got married to her. I plan moving to a new place in February, and she doesn't fit into my plans. My decision between now and December is 1 Avoid asking her for lobe making 2 Continue taking care of her so she won't suspect anything 3 when she comes close I avoid her. 4 February I issues divorce papers and give her like 1m to go get her life back Is there anything more I can do for her? Advice me pls... 73 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by JONSYN7154: 9:12pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
Yes everything is wrong. Why take advice from your father when him and your mother are enjoying their own marriage? Think twice before divorcing her so that you won't regret it later. My ten kobo advice. 325 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Foodqueen(f): 9:13pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
And if the other woman too starts doing the same thing after some years Besides, adhere to your signature. 125 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Ahmed0336(m): 9:15pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
Since your problem is Sex and your wife cannot meet up your demands I don't think the issue of divorce should be brought up. Remember, there are children in the picture. My take, since your dad prefer divorce to cheating, I'd advise you take a second wife and let the sleeping dog l.. 265 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by ADURA123(m): 9:15pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
Foodqueen: I am not divorcing to remarry, I want to be alone and be free. Thank you 157 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by ADURA123(m): 9:15pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
JONSYN7154: My dad hates cheating, but support divorce...my mum is late 36 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by izonborn098(m): 9:16pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
Don't divorce her because of sex if u know she don't cheat.. She need some silent treatment but just that u can't control ur sex drive and u don't like cheating if not u would have find urself an understanding side chicken to satisfy ur urge... Oga when marriage get to one stage the rate of sex reduce either from the man or woman (but not all marriages).. Go to ur new enviroment and left her alone in the old house then u visit her once in a while, and anytime u visit her don't talk about sex since she don't cheat as u claim, she will crave for it as time pass by... Reason the fate of ur kids and give her time... 142 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by ADURA123(m): 9:17pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
Front page pls...I need to hear from people...my head is running crazy right now 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by JONSYN7154: 9:17pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
ADURA123:is she cheating on you? 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by mariahAngel(f): 9:17pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
ADURA123: So, what is the point? 36 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by ADURA123(m): 9:19pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
JONSYN7154: No...this I can swear with anything...she is not just meeting my sexual needs, simple, she complained I have too much sex drive and she is not ready to be killed. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by JONSYN7154: 9:21pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
ADURA123:Then reduce your sex drive. One is that don't divorce her 52 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Stevenbright(m): 9:49pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
ADURA123: In the picture you painted, you didn't factor in your children. How about that? Also, why not move away to the new location without issuing the divorce and watch if she will realize her mistake, be remorseful and with the promise to change. So that you guys can have the chance of getting back together. 69 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Wodu89: 9:51pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
ADURA123: Go ahead.with your plans but pause on the divorce proceedings to see if that will compel her to change 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Nobody: 9:54pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
Nairaland and marriage wahala 11 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by FreeIgboho: 9:54pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
ADURA123: Live alone NOT Leave alone!! 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by woginid967: 9:58pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
ADURA123: Sir pls dont divorce There are simple herbal solutions that will increase her libido very well and she will be a tigress It may even be the way you do it too. This is a sensitive matter that can destroy you both... So be wise. Seek herbal and medical solutions to low libido and go on a private trip with her. Work it out. Sex is too flimsy to end a good home. Never make permanent decisions on temporary emotions. 134 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Acidosis(m): 10:02pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
You no try, sir. You earn 700k and all you have to spend on your family with kids is 100k every month, leaving your wife to cook, clean, wash, do nanny work and market runs, and probably still do her regular job, and you expect her to give you hot sex? With which energy, please? The same energy you could have preserved by spending extra 50k on a good cleaner or cook? Give yourself a heavy knock on the head. 255 Likes 22 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by ADURA123(m): 10:05pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
[quote author=FreeIgboho post=125672455] Live alone NOT Leave alone!![/quote Thank you my head is really hot 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by ADURA123(m): 10:05pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
Stevenbright: There is plans for them...and the plan is intact 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Stevenbright(m): 10:08pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
ADURA123: Ok. Do whatever you think is to your best interest. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by ADURA123(m): 10:08pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
Acidosis: You dey M*D ni? did you not read the part I said I am investing on a project she is aware of? Does that not tell you it was our agreement to give her that? Mod: This project is costing me over 7-8 by end of 2024 where the dividend will start flowing in? 47 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Acidosis(m): 10:13pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
ADURA123: Mr Project, keep your yeye co r.k until you finish your project. No kill pesin daughter! You want her to work like elephant at day and still do vigilante night work because you don't want to spend ordinary 25% of your finance to run your home. 161 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Offpointng: 10:15pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
Acidosis: clean, wash and market runs. is it an everyday thing?? And what's the duty of a wife if she wouldn't cook? Like nigga are you this dumb?? So he that risk his daily life daily to rake in 700k monthly is playing? Some of y'all lots ought to be in concentration camps cuz what nonsense is this?? 118 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Acidosis(m): 10:17pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
Offpointng: You're the du m.b one, clearly. Your earning is useless if it doesn't reduce the burden and workload in your home. Stingy criminal. 193 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Offpointng: 10:19pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
Acidosis: What do you refer to as work load?? You really can't expect any iota of intelligence from a Glorified subliterate 63 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Acidosis(m): 10:31pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
Offpointng: Workload is the amount of work you'd prefer your wife to do to the point of exhaustion, rather than spending 2% of your income on a cleaner. Y'all wicked men will buy expensive phones for your girlfriends that contribute absolutely nothing to your lives, but watch your wife at home work herself to a state of exhaustion and unconsciousness. 162 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Nobody: 10:33pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
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Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by descarado: 10:35pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
Acidosis:You dey mind the guy. See him feeling so good with himself. 94 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by NoToPile: 10:37pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
Loool what a thread, hilarious comments. Acidosis is on point though. Reduce her workload first then the sex will increase but will the OP listen? Maybe maybe not. ADURA123: How often do you ask from her that she's thinking she would be killed. Do you have too much sex drive as she says? Either way it's not worth having a divorce, you guys should work it out. 56 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by eniolorunfe: 10:40pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
@op The chances that she will try to change if you carry out what you intend to do is quite high. If she changes, are you willing to continue with the marriage or you just want out? 5 Likes |
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