| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by DisLifeSha: 5:49pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
As for me, am a young man from a single mother. I've type 1 diabetes which has negatively affected all areas of my life. I find it very hard to buy the drug I take and the food I eat. I stress myself for nothing everyday pushing wheelbarrow to sell food. My mother even prefers me to die sometimes when I complain about my hard situation murphyibiam15:
I'm trying to encourage our men here to take good care of their health, physically and mentally.
It's not like women don't have theirs but those of the men are very much noticeable in the sense that it takes a toll on their physical and mental health.
(1) I entered lagos two weeks ago and I needed to take uber, this uber driver as I can guess will be bw his 50s and 60s.He needed to send money to his wife (3k)but somehow he couldn't do transfer since he was driving me but I helped him with my bank app while he gave me cash. Do you know after transferring the money his wife was ungrateful and demanded he returns home immediately (that was around 8pm).Now,the man started complaining to me how whether he brings money or not how his wife keeps complaining and he said he's pitying Nigerian men who are getting married to strange women and giving birth without knowing what they're going into. He looked stressed out and trying to make ends meet but yet his wife added more burden, not just financially but mentally. So tell me how this kind of stressed man won't die out so sooner than later. He was lucky somehow that one of his children got a scholarship to study in India.
(2) I attended a friend's wedding and to my utmost shock both fathers of the celebrants are late. Only their moms are still alive while other relatives represented their fathers. So I was wondering how their moms are still alive while their fathers are late.
Some may say men marry younger women that's why they die out but from the mothers of those celebrants they're not up to 60 years, so how much age difference that will make the two men be late?
Im saying this because I have noticed lots of people esp men are passing through a lot of stress, please men don't allow your wives, siblings or anything infact to overstress you to the point of dying out in time. We men aren't super beings, try to take things easy.
Just my 2cents, bye. |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by shantti(m): 5:50pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Pataricatering:
Demanding your husband comes home after 8 pm is being ungrateful? Instead she should let him keep driving till 2 or 3 in the morning ?.even uber tries to limit the number of hours drivers drive just to reduce their stress- so a wife trying to reduce her husband's hours is being ungrateful ? Its better for your wife's not to talk in the house because any thing a woman utters seems to be either a challenge to your manhood or nagging - even if its for your own good .
What do you women really want, he is working his ass off to provide for an ungrateful wife and yet this wife won't let him work in peace. She wants him to come home not because she cares but because she is controlling in nature. She want to impose her controlling nature on him. Imagine setting curfew and rules and regulations for a man in his own house. Really? you are trying to euphemize nagging? Talking is entirely different from nagging and you know this. Talking is talking, nagging Is nagging. 7 Likes |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by MummyD2020(f): 5:50pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
murphyibiam15:
I'm trying to encourage our men here to take good care of their health, physically and mentally.
It's not like women don't have theirs but those of the men are very much noticeable in the sense that it takes a toll on their physical and mental health.
(1) I entered lagos two weeks ago and I needed to take uber, this uber driver as I can guess will be bw his 50s and 60s.He needed to send money to his wife (3k)but somehow he couldn't do transfer since he was driving me but I helped him with my bank app while he gave me cash. Do you know after transferring the money his wife was ungrateful and demanded he returns home immediately (that was around 8pm).Now,the man started complaining to me how whether he brings money or not how his wife keeps complaining and he said he's pitying Nigerian men who are getting married to strange women and giving birth without knowing what they're going into. He looked stressed out and trying to make ends meet but yet his wife added more burden, not just financially but mentally. So tell me how this kind of stressed man won't die out so sooner than later. He was lucky somehow that one of his children got a scholarship to study in India.
(2) I attended a friend's wedding and to my utmost shock both fathers of the celebrants are late. Only their moms are still alive while other relatives represented their fathers. So I was wondering how their moms are still alive while their fathers are late.
Some may say men marry younger women that's why they die out but from the mothers of those celebrants they're not up to 60 years, so how much age difference that will make the two men be late?
Im saying this because I have noticed lots of people esp men are passing through a lot of stress, please men don't allow your wives, siblings or anything infact to overstress you to the point of dying out in time. We men aren't super beings, try to take things easy.
Just my 2cents, bye. Akuko! So its only men that die before their wives abi? I lost my aunt on Monday. The hubby is still alive.. I don't want to start writing what the woman was to her family. That is story for another day. Stop undermining the efforts of the women in the home. If you leave the whole family issues for the men to tackle, i tell you, they can never last. My mum played a vital role in our home. Im married now and can never imagine my hubby running the home on his own effectively. Stop undermining the women. 2 Likes |
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| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Cookie14: 5:53pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
The reason children choose their mother over their fathers mostly is because....despite the fact that men provide financially, they stop only at financing and forget the remaining attributes involve in training a child...Emotional,spiritual,mental. Most women are there all through. Mind you some children will choose their dads a million times.
You can work and also be involved in ur childs life....women are doing it so do it too.
Alot of men are out there sleeping around,smoking,drinking ,that wears you out quickly too. Not saying women dont but the percentage is very low. 2 Likes |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by LoveJesus87(m): 5:53pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
odinson1:
I'll be A Capital FOOL if I ever Get married.
Have you been to divorce courts before? enlighten me abeg my brother. What if I get married but I don't do court wedding? |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by murphyibiam15(m): 5:57pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
thatigboman1:
POS operator Lmao, it's even now I understood everything, that woman is stress herself  5 Likes |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by specialmati(m): 5:57pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
GenBuhari:
If it was me I had advise the uber driver to look for some other business, nobody is making a living wage from driving Uber.
Do you know the cost of foodstuff alone these days? And you want her to be grateful for #3000? chai where are we getting this kind of ideas from,she shouldn't be greatful on the 3k she cant produce by herself.may God help the men of this generation. 6 Likes |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Hndrrxxx(m): 5:58pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
BadRadio:
Stress or no stress... ya'all still gonna die one day... none of you will become immortal... death in 100 years is no different than death in few seconds...just enjoy for the main time...just assume everyday as the last day of human existence on earth...achieve more financial freedom... drink more beer... smoke weed, suck and finger more clitoris, dig more pussies and rest in peace when it's time.
Let's drink beer for now you talk shyt like a preacher .xdd it seems your mental capability is in doubt |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by MummyD2020(f): 5:59pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
greendice:
Tears dropped from my eyes after seeing this comment.
I miss my Dad mehn.
I will get married when I feel I am ready to do so and not for my mother or any stupid pressure.
Rip Dad! Kids will always know the parents that were there for them. If both suffered for them, why will they turn there backs on the parents? Although some parents are nothing to write home about 2 Likes |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by ojuolu(m): 5:59pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
murphyibiam15:
I'm trying to encourage our men here to take good care of their health, physically and mentally.
It's not like women don't have theirs but those of the men are very much noticeable in the sense that it takes a toll on their physical and mental health.
(1) I entered lagos two weeks ago and I needed to take uber, this uber driver as I can guess will be bw his 50s and 60s.He needed to send money to his wife (3k)but somehow he couldn't do transfer since he was driving me but I helped him with my bank app while he gave me cash. Do you know after transferring the money his wife was ungrateful and demanded he returns home immediately (that was around 8pm).Now,the man started complaining to me how whether he brings money or not how his wife keeps complaining and he said he's pitying Nigerian men who are getting married to strange women and giving birth without knowing what they're going into. He looked stressed out and trying to make ends meet but yet his wife added more burden, not just financially but mentally. So tell me how this kind of stressed man won't die out so sooner than later. He was lucky somehow that one of his children got a scholarship to study in India.
(2) I attended a friend's wedding and to my utmost shock both fathers of the celebrants are late. Only their moms are still alive while other relatives represented their fathers. So I was wondering how their moms are still alive while their fathers are late.
Some may say men marry younger women that's why they die out but from the mothers of those celebrants they're not up to 60 years, so how much age difference that will make the two men be late?
Im saying this because I have noticed lots of people esp men are passing through a lot of stress, please men don't allow your wives, siblings or anything infact to overstress you to the point of dying out in time. We men aren't super beings, try to take things easy.
Just my 2cents, bye. I am sitting all by myself somewhere now just to relax and think straight because of stress. I consider my self lucky because I ain't married to a wife like the one you shared above but then men stressors are numerous. Rent if you are like me, school fees, housekeeping, children health care, career, social needs and what have you... I almost develop BP yesterday when I was told at the gas station that a 12.5k gas I bought at 6100 naira about 3 weeks ago is now 7200 naira. Pure water bag is 250 naira from 100 and then bread has gone up too. And I remember my salary has not even shift an inch. If the staple foods of the "common man" (as if we are not all common) like beans, melon and co are beyond the reach of the so call common man then I wonder what we will be eating. Like I said, I am sitting here by myself to clear my head...and relax too. Today is the world's Mental Health day. I am taking it easy on myself.. 12 Likes |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by odinson1(m): 6:00pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
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| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Meedon: 6:03pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
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| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by vickydevoka(m): 6:06pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
SweetiliciousD:
This topic is a sad truth. I know of a woman who has been to yankee twice for omugwo. The training of the daughter was 100% paid by the struggling man. She went to yankee at the expense of her husbands failing health.
Lucky Dube said it all "Men are born to suffer" One reason I won't marry an Igbo lady, is bcusnof omugo. I go de de enjoy my wife one useless mother inlaw go come destroy my home |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Nobody: 6:07pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
murphyibiam15:
I'm trying to encourage our men here to take good care of their health, physically and mentally.
It's not like women don't have theirs but those of the men are very much noticeable in the sense that it takes a toll on their physical and mental health.
(1) I entered lagos two weeks ago and I needed to take uber, this uber driver as I can guess will be bw his 50s and 60s.He needed to send money to his wife (3k)but somehow he couldn't do transfer since he was driving me but I helped him with my bank app while he gave me cash. Do you know after transferring the money his wife was ungrateful and demanded he returns home immediately (that was around 8pm).Now,the man started complaining to me how whether he brings money or not how his wife keeps complaining and he said he's pitying Nigerian men who are getting married to strange women and giving birth without knowing what they're going into. He looked stressed out and trying to make ends meet but yet his wife added more burden, not just financially but mentally. So tell me how this kind of stressed man won't die out so sooner than later. He was lucky somehow that one of his children got a scholarship to study in India.
(2) I attended a friend's wedding and to my utmost shock both fathers of the celebrants are late. Only their moms are still alive while other relatives represented their fathers. So I was wondering how their moms are still alive while their fathers are late.
Some may say men marry younger women that's why they die out but from the mothers of those celebrants they're not up to 60 years, so how much age difference that will make the two men be late?
Im saying this because I have noticed lots of people esp men are passing through a lot of stress, please men don't allow your wives, siblings or anything infact to overstress you to the point of dying out in time. We men aren't super beings, try to take things easy.
Just my 2cents, bye. I noticed this issue when my father died. So i have been living with this knowledge. You see women living 20 years older after the death of their husbands. It's pure selfishness and wickedness from the female gender. They don't understand that some of the actions or things they say don't make any sense. They pile their financial, emotional burdens on the men. Some of them think men exist to impress or make them happy. When I spot such burden, I avoid such women. Anything that removes my happiness. Everybody needs to learn how to make himself/herself happy. 6 Likes |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by EndRape2(f): 6:10pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Men are the once killing themselves, an average Africa man will not accept one child or two, you will hear I want 5children , I want 8children? Who will take care of the children?
Give birth to one or two, to reduce the financial stress
Then look for a good self contain and stay
Period.
uoauthor=murphyibiam1post=106597314]I'm trying to encourage our men here to take good care of their health, physically and mentally.
It's not like women don't have theirs but those of the men are very much noticeable in the sense that it takes a toll on their physical and mental health.
(1) I entered lagos two weeks ago and I needed to take uber, this uber driver as I can guess will be bw his 50s and 60s.He needed to send money to his wife (3k)but somehow he couldn't do transfer since he was driving me but I helped him with my bank app while he gave me cash. Do you know after transferring the money his wife was ungrateful and demanded he returns home immediately (that was around 8pm).Now,the man started complaining to me how whether he brings money or not how his wife keeps complaining and he said he's pitying Nigerian men who are getting married to strange women and giving birth without knowing what they're going into. He looked stressed out and trying to make ends meet but yet his wife added more burden, not just financially but mentally. So tell me how this kind of stressed man won't die out so sooner than later. He was lucky somehow that one of his children got a scholarship to study in India.
(2) I attended a friend's wedding and to my utmost shock both fathers of the celebrants are late. Only their moms are still alive while other relatives represented their fathers. So I was wondering how their moms are still alive while their fathers are late.
Some may say men marry younger women that's why they die out but from the mothers of those celebrants they're not up to 60 years, so how much age difference that will make the two men be late?
Im saying this because I have noticed lots of people esp men are passing through a lot of stress, please men don't allow your wives, siblings or anything infact to overstress you to the point of dying out in time. We men aren't super beings, try to take things easy.
Just my 2cents, bye. [/quote] 5 Likes |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Worksunlimited: 6:11pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
murphyibiam15:
I'm trying to encourage our men here to take good care of their health, physically and mentally.
It's not like women don't have theirs but those of the men are very much noticeable in the sense that it takes a toll on their physical and mental health.
(1) I entered lagos two weeks ago and I needed to take uber, this uber driver as I can guess will be bw his 50s and 60s.He needed to send money to his wife (3k)but somehow he couldn't do transfer since he was driving me but I helped him with my bank app while he gave me cash. Do you know after transferring the money his wife was ungrateful and demanded he returns home immediately (that was around 8pm).Now,the man started complaining to me how whether he brings money or not how his wife keeps complaining and he said he's pitying Nigerian men who are getting married to strange women and giving birth without knowing what they're going into. He looked stressed out and trying to make ends meet but yet his wife added more burden, not just financially but mentally. So tell me how this kind of stressed man won't die out so sooner than later. He was lucky somehow that one of his children got a scholarship to study in India.
(2) I attended a friend's wedding and to my utmost shock both fathers of the celebrants are late. Only their moms are still alive while other relatives represented their fathers. So I was wondering how their moms are still alive while their fathers are late.
Some may say men marry younger women that's why they die out but from the mothers of those celebrants they're not up to 60 years, so how much age difference that will make the two men be late?
Im saying this because I have noticed lots of people esp men are passing through a lot of stress, please men don't allow your wives, siblings or anything infact to overstress you to the point of dying out in time. We men aren't super beings, try to take things easy.
Just my 2cents, bye. Very true.. Just yesterday I was so stressed, it was heartbreaking... I got home around 5.30pm, drop my bag, lie down for bed and I slept till 8.30a.m the next day.. 2 Likes |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by womenareapess: 6:18pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
abusafyan:
When you take the statistics, you will notice that men are dying in higher numbers than women, the stress alone is so much, couple with women of nowadays who don't appreciate anything and in the process of satisfying them, death caught up with them 3 Likes 1 Share 
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| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by FLYFIRE(m): 6:18pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
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| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by donhackaz: 6:24pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
murphyibiam15:
I'm trying to encourage our men here to take good care of their health, physically and mentally.
It's not like women don't have theirs but those of the men are very much noticeable in the sense that it takes a toll on their physical and mental health.
(1) I entered lagos two weeks ago and I needed to take uber, this uber driver as I can guess will be bw his 50s and 60s.He needed to send money to his wife (3k)but somehow he couldn't do transfer since he was driving me but I helped him with my bank app while he gave me cash. Do you know after transferring the money his wife was ungrateful and demanded he returns home immediately (that was around 8pm).Now,the man started complaining to me how whether he brings money or not how his wife keeps complaining and he said he's pitying Nigerian men who are getting married to strange women and giving birth without knowing what they're going into. He looked stressed out and trying to make ends meet but yet his wife added more burden, not just financially but mentally. So tell me how this kind of stressed man won't die out so sooner than later. He was lucky somehow that one of his children got a scholarship to study in India.
(2) I attended a friend's wedding and to my utmost shock both fathers of the celebrants are late. Only their moms are still alive while other relatives represented their fathers. So I was wondering how their moms are still alive while their fathers are late.
Some may say men marry younger women that's why they die out but from the mothers of those celebrants they're not up to 60 years, so how much age difference that will make the two men be late?
Im saying this because I have noticed lots of people esp men are passing through a lot of stress, please men don't allow your wives, siblings or anything infact to overstress you to the point of dying out in time. We men aren't super beings, try to take things easy.
Just my 2cents, bye. God bless you for this write-up 2 Likes |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by EyeTaspirant(m): 6:25pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Have you read "the manipulated man? “ egopersonified:
This is the effect of generations of family life. When we start solving this problem from the cause, there will never be answers.
We encourage our girls to focus on being wife materials and mothers. We teach them how to cook and take care of the home while the brothers are outside playing ball, making connections and going places. He is taught that a man's place is outside the home. To bring home the bacon. To take care of his family and be the bread winner. Till we start to teach our kids differently, we will still get this same results till eternity.
We teach our boys to not cry, don't show emotion and he bottles it up till he has a heart attack while a woman will cry from morning till night, shout out all her frustrations and be relieved from that burden.
We tell our men to take care of this girlfriend so another man doesn't snatch her. So he does two jobs and a side hustle just to 'maintain' her.
Why can't we teach our kids that both parties should be equal contributors to the family purse? Why can't the first person home make dinner? Why can't the man take the kids to the hospital while the woman goes to sell her tomatoes? Why do we have men coming on nairaland to tell us 'I take care of all the responsibilities in the home and all she does is to fill gas and she is complaining when I boil ordinary water to bath'?
Till we begin to train ourselves as one and the same unit, men will keep dieing young and women will keep enjoying the fruits of both their labours. |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by revcompaty(m): 6:25pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Osobi32:
Nothing in this world is worth the stress and I will never allow any woman to stress me. Despite the stress men go through and the sacrifices they make on daily basis to make ends meet and to provide for the family, it will shock u to know that ur children will always choose their mother over u. The thought of this alone dey pain me! I came across a post on Facebook two days ago where a guy said he had 500k to share btwn his parent and that he need an advice on how to share the money...... I was surprised at the response I saw. 95% of the comments was for him to give his mom 450k and give the father 50k. Honestly I dropped tears So saddening..... Have you ever pause to realize how many times mother's day is being celebrated in a year compared to father's day? 4 Likes |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by murphyibiam15(m): 6:25pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
nenyewrites:
[s] If you like drink bottles of beer and spirit, mix it with coke or black bullet and be expecting to live long. Nonsense! You better go and start adopting a healthy lifestyle. Eat healthy foods, drink lots of water, replace sugar with honey. Let me see how you'll die young if bus doesn't hit you[/s] . Says a numbskull , for your info i didn't read your gibberish. B/w those it is meant for have read and learnt. Keep your stupidity to yourself. Besides you're quoting the wrong person, I never mentioned taking alcohol. Last time I'm replying a low life like u  4 Likes |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Lush100(m): 6:26pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
ActuaRise696969:
Work hard in your youth and build investment portfolios with passive income. Retire in your 40s and get married then while your businesses and investment finance the home and your hubbies.
When you retire in your 40s you can afford to have your PA handle your phones. If no one gets you directly their wahala will not reach you.
Sir, what u said is true, I did all that from the very day i got a job in a well paying company. But as the economy's for worse after the OBJ era , i lost my job some years after, Of course i had a lot of cash but having it is different from getting the best out of it. But life can throw a spin such that even though u will survive, it was that investment that i fell back on, I even did my Master's with it and still had it going I took a fairly low paying job because of my family which i wouldn't ordinary do.(by my standard) I was lucky while doing this job, I got a very good side gig that lasted for about 2 years.( I invested almost 80% of it-i even tried learning french when the money kept coming Trust me, i know all about investment, That's my specialty (if u are to grade me). As at now, i have 4 sources of income. A family member just made it 5 sources. But expenses are rising. Then u need a supportive wife. My goal was to retire at 46/47 yrs old. But sometimes u have to adapt ur goal. I am still many years from that age but i wish i had more to make me want to retire early. In all i thank God |
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| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by faceland: 6:29pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
It is self-inflicted. What about those guys that would marry 3 or 4 women? Have 16 children?
If it's becoming too much break up and hire a house maid (for those who did family planning, the others would lay on the bed they made). |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Lush100(m): 6:29pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
EyeTaspirant:
Have you read "the manipulated man? “ . Sir, do u have the e-book ? |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by descarado: 6:30pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Funny lots |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Nobody: 6:32pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
newoffer:
It is true. At the end the kids we appreciate the mother more and that is another depression loading. I provide everything while my wife also work but babe no go play with her money. I started leaving some bills before man go use stress kill himself.
The rate of ungrateful women now is alarming. They compare in any given opportunity. Most of the men died of stroke and heart related disease. The main reason why kids appreciate their mum more is because the father was never there or didn't have a good relationship with the kids, there was no bonding. The father was just obsessed with providing that he forgets that his kids also needs him at home. How many fathers have taught their children how to play chess, a hobby, take a walk with their kids, talk to them, play with them,take them outing, how many fathers have done that. It is who the kids see at home, they will get affection for. 1 Like |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by odunayo4william: 6:32pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
No matter what, I would take care of myself 1 Like |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by Nobody: 6:33pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Taywon:
I lost my dad last year (age 62) as a result of sickness ... A very hard working man (an accountant).... His whole body system shut down .... Am still not happy about his departure.
This was a man i had great plans for.
My mum complicated the whole issue cause she wasn't a caring type.
Mine died at 60. If you are the only son, she will transfer that burden she gave him to you. I don't understand how women reason. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Men Please Try And Reduce Your Stress And Live.. Real Life Lesson by murphyibiam15(m): 6:34pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
ojuolu:
I am sitting all by myself somewhere now just to relax and think straight because of stress. I consider my self lucky because I ain't married to a wife like the one you shared above but then men stressors are numerous. Rent if you are like me, school fees, housekeeping, children health care, career, social needs and what have you...
I almost develop BP yesterday when I was told at the gas station that a 12.5k gas I bought at 6100 naira about 3 weeks ago is now 7200 naira.
Pure water bag is 250 naira from 100 and then bread has gone up too. And I remember my salary has not even shift an inch. If the staple foods of the "common man" (as if we are not all common) like beans, melon and co are beyond the reach of the so call common man then I wonder what we will be eating.
Like I said, I am sitting here by myself to clear my head...and relax too.
Today is the world's Mental Health day. I am taking it easy on myself..
I wish you luck bro, I hope your wife works too? |
