Belafonte:


It is you, the children that can defend the poor man in his old age. Your mum will not rest until he gives up the ghost. That's when you children will be forming fake tears and "he was a good man". Honour him while he's still alive

Habib101:
That's Nigerian women for you

Osobi32:
Nothing in this world is worth the stress and I will never allow any woman to stress me. Despite the stress men go through and the sacrifices they make on daily basis to make ends meet and to provide for the family, it will shock u to know that ur children will always choose their mother over u. The thought of this alone dey pain me! I came across a post on Facebook two days ago where a guy said he had 500k to share btwn his parent and that he need an advice on how to share the money...... I was surprised at the response I saw. 95% of the comments was for him to give his mom 450k and give the father 50k. Honestly I dropped tears

Simdyofficial:
Stress or no stress.. Everybody go die... U no want stress but you go still carry big gbola dey panelbeat big ass. Lol.

Live life bruh.. Only poor men reason this way..

Doyou2019:


Only a toxic manipulative female, lacking in empathy, reasons this way.

murphyung:
I recently boarded a bus from ojota going to obanikoro. Somewhere along Maryland, the passenger at the front seat started asking the driver " Oga why u de cry?". In an instance the driver burst into an uncontrollable cry. They had to tell him to park. After series of questions, he confessed that his wife at home is making his life a living hell. Please lets try to be nice to people around us in this unbalanced life. E get why

Lush100:
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My brother, his only grace is if he gets a woman that is very very understanding.
Woman that prefer to never apologize and believe their decision is the best even when they are not contributing any penny to that decision.
Woman to beg u?
Na only if one pastor is there,
They can do it for show
U get home,
They will change it for u.
They can even tell people you wanted to do party, even when na she bring up the idea, who go believe you?
Brother, make e sail the sea,

drimzsmoke:

Amen and you too...Boss,I just sent you an email,please,would you be kind enough to reply....Thanks

Simdyofficial:
check my other comments before talking rubbish. Its Monday.. Lovely weather here in Cairo. Go sort your low life before getting married- and make sure you don't marry a lady cux of her sweet honeypot but some hardworking one.. Thankiu

jesmond3945:
when you marry come get pikin you go know how far

jesmond3945:
God I just want to cry. God bless your soul brother.

Amarisco:


Firstly,
Regarding the epistle on generalisability - OK. I’m not going to keep repeating myself on that aspect. If you can evidence that the research is automatically non relatable to Nigeria - please do so.

Secondly,
No gender pay gap? Please can you share the stats/data you saw on that with me.

In fact please also the Nigerian data that informed you on your following staments



Thirdly,
We are talking about the behaviours of different genders, which would most certainly also include gender roles which inform those behaviours.

Furthermore, saying that Nigeria still believes in gender roles is not really accurate. All nations have gender roles - as it’s a social construct, but different types. So what you mean to say is Nigeria still prescribes to traditional gender roles. Whereas USA may have more egalitarian gender roles.

Oh, and thanks for your opinion

alexola20:
It’s not that the men want to be stressed,knowing that you don’t want your children to suffer because of your decision and because of unkindness attitude from the mother of your children or your wife is mind torturing.
Walahi many men dey suffer fir women hands including myself.And not only from their wives but from their mothers too.
I came to realised that the only person that will truly love you is your father because your carry his dna,name and everything forever.And this is some kid of bitterness in many women too,just of of jealousy.

Amarisco:



You see, you did not even read that definition well. Pay attention to detail, it says quotation OR reference and I referenced the papers. You don’t want to accept the research because of the premises stated, no problem. I’d just like to see you back your own claims.

You keep mentioning generalisability, which is a very basic and feeble critique attributed to ALL research. You think that every research based decision is based upon the sole and unique population of which that decision effects? OK

Stop expunging far too much energy on this.

HIPROFILE:


Its quite unfortunate for men bro
The thing is our fathers would never tell us what they go through do you know that many children thinks its their mum that provides food for the family just because she is the one they always see in the kitchen and who always serve food to the family
Again most women would make sure everybody in the house including the kids knows her 1kobo has been used to take care of the family.

So much pressure on the man...His immediate family His wife's family his own family friends and other relatives are all on him most especially when the man is seeing small money.

Bro I can go on and on but this issue they burst my brain and I deh vex for our fathers somehow cos they will never tell us how these things deh be from early
someone like me only got to understand what my father went through only when I became a husband and a father too Its just too long a time before I understand their pains.

Evolutionlove:


Every time I come across this word. I'do laugh uncontrollably. Well I no blame Una. Na Men so themselves. No be only Honeypot, Na Honeydrum......

nenyewrites:


And I have been hearing lots of stories like this. So what exactly are the men stressing on if it's the women taking care of the children's expenses?

loswhite:
You should just disown your dad na.

Lush100:
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I will give my dad 270 and my mum 230.
I still love my mum more, but I appreciate my dad better now.
The only issue is it is my mum that can still be going to the bank.
Her strength is 101%

Osobi32:
Nothing in this world is worth the stress and I will never allow any woman to stress me. Despite the stress men go through and the sacrifices they make on daily basis to make ends meet and to provide for the family, it will shock u to know that ur children will always choose their mother over u. The thought of this alone dey pain me! I came across a post on Facebook two days ago where a guy said he had 500k to share btwn his parent and that he need an advice on how to share the money...... I was surprised at the response I saw. 95% of the comments was for him to give his mom 450k and give the father 50k. Honestly I dropped tears

HIPROFILE:


Its quite unfortunate for men bro
The thing is our fathers would never tell us what they go through do you know that many children thinks its their mum that provides food for the family just because she is the one they always see in the kitchen and who always serve food to the family
Again most women would make sure everybody in the house including the kids knows her 1kobo has been used to take care of the family.

So much pressure on the man...His immediate family His wife's family his own family friends and other relatives are all on him most especially when the man is seeing small money.

Bro I can go on and on but this issue they burst my brain and I deh vex for our fathers somehow cos they will never tell us how these things deh be from early
someone like me only got to understand what my father went through only when I became a husband and a father too Its just too long a time before I understand their pains.

jumpandpas:


One thing I have achieved is making sure all my children chose me ahead of their mum. I started by feeding them, bathing them and buying them good things whenever I am Coming home everyday. I created an irresistible friendship environment with them and it paid off. Today all my children don't even care if their mum is around.

Simdyofficial:
Stress or no stress.. Everybody go die... U no want stress but you go still carry big gbola dey panelbeat big ass. Lol.

Live life bruh.. Only poor men reason this way..

jumpandpas:


Do you know that after marriage I realized why my father always tell me DON'T EVER BEAT YOUR WIFE".

Osobi32:
This the sad reality men live with, we only get to know the truth only when we become husbands and fathers. God will surely see us through.

tunary:
Stress or no stress everybody go die, well no be lie Sha but you go die first

Amarisco:


Thank you prophet Uganda for knowing what I would and wouldn’t do.

Why not do some research around discrimination, glass ceilings, sticky floors, marriage penalty and children penalty. Just do some reading first.

You don’t seem to understand how pay gaps work or are measured and you’re not the only but - at least the angles of some others were a bit more plausible.

I simply refuse to waste any bullet on you.

How icky

murphyibiam15:

The guy is right about the meaning of that quotation though, I'm a researcher and I understand what he meant. Not everything is subject to argument. We're here too to learn and not to argue blindly on who is right or wrong just to massage our ego. Thank you

Amarisco:


It is your ego that pushed you to jump in and speak out of point or context. Keep your thanks