Ok. Story get as e be. If e long, abeg... No vex... My girl, she did her project def today. Returned home, we talked about how it went, prepared a nice meal, we ate and switched to other things. Later this evening, one of her lecturers called and was like... I saw your status On WhatsApp yada yada yada. Congrats etc.

Lecturer: ...And i was gonna take you and your friends out OOO.. phone was on speaker. Can you meet me at place xxxx, I'll pick you up etc.

Most times, she tells me things about her past, school life etc. How that lecturers been asking her out. A few said plainly they wanted to k*ack and sorts.

Back to the lecturer that called. After she dropped the call, she asked if she could go. Person wey dey smile when lecturer talk say make she show, shey you wan com use "shey make i go" set me up?... Shaaa, i said ok. She dressed up and went. Before leaving, i shaa told her to drop the person's number as nah late evening we dey enter. In case of in casity. I think it was when she got to her destination she texted the man's number. Dr XXXX... She later texted she was gonna return by 9pm. I was like. Ok. Flex. She got home past 9pm and brought a grilled or fried chicken or so... Was like... "I ordered this for you". I think that was what got me offended.

Dunno... If it is jealousy or dunno... I started thinking etc. I felt it was disrespectful in a way i can't explain. Sent her a message on Whatsapp... Although, I've been stressed lately. Dunno.

Any yoo experienced anything like this? How did you respond etc...

The soil have been watered .. soon he will plant..... and life goes on.

Don’t worry you won’t know the planting season.. you can never know.

Enjoy her while it last and leave all watering and planting for routine farmers

It normal..for them.

Which kind play dog dey follow lion play.

Now back to your question, the answer: Master your emotional self. You allowed your emotions to affect your thinking. I bet you think you are in control of your life or this relationship. Your answer recks of jealously. You felt the chicken came from the lecturer. You were offended you gave her permission. Now you feel it her fault. When you said yes, she should have said no.

She only asked for your permission because you were there, now she would avoid discussions like this with you.

Like a child throwing tantrum you sent the text her exposing your emotions to her, now her respect for you decreases.

Now wait for her reply, she would probably get offended too, which wouldn't solve anything.

Women lead double lives. She will project a strong outward good girl facade whilst engaging in acts of depravity in secret.
Now we know whoring reduces a woman's value,they know this too. But instead of simply not whorre, they would prefer to deceive - -TRP

With your permission she will eventually sleep with the lecturer and this time both of them will order something for you.I hate soft men,if I'm dating you and you don't get upset seeing another guy around me then know that I'll dump your sorry ass for a man that can totally make me blind to all other men out there.You are simply a vegetable man,I somehow like some of those redpillers, those ones that are not toxic but commands respect with their presence and absence without having to talk much to make me behave well.I hate vegetable men and will never marry one because I don't want such traits in my sons.

Truth be told, she has more to gain associating with the lecturer in pursuit of her acedmic life and her future.

Lols...same lamba my ex used wey the lecturer finally hijacked her from me.
Werey collect my babe still com threaten me join. Op e go soon clear u

Until Dem Bleep the girl before you go know say e no dey ok? There is no how a girl have a male bestie without catching feeling later

I can't have a girl as friend and we will not nack.

I can only LOL for now.

Space booked

Asgard73:
The soil have been watered .. soon he will plant..... and life goes on.

Don’t worry you won’t know the planting season.. you can never know.

Enjoy her while it last and leave all watering and planting for routine farmers

It normal..for them.

Lols...e don reach to speak in parables bro. Oya who is the soil and who is the farmer?

Devour that grilled chicken abeg..
No use hunger dey message her..

I pity you if you still love the girl. She asked for permission to hang out with another man? That shows she doesn’t give a damn about your feelings. If she did, she would sacrifice that hangout for you.

What do you think her reaction would be if you told her you were invited to hangout with another woman?

See, You’ve lost that girl. You just don’t realise it.

Maybe it’s time for you to start thinking of plan B. I assure you, if a yahoo boy comes her way she will forget you in a jiffy.

Asgard73:
The soil have been watered .. soon he will plant..... and life goes on.

Don’t worry you won’t know the planting season.. you can never know.

Enjoy her while it last and leave all watering and planting for routine farmers

It normal..for them.

I completely agree with you sir.

your girlfriend is like a pet chicken to that lecturer, no matter how much you try ,he is still gonna eat her one day. soon enough sef

They will take permission the first time. But will never take permission from you again

Na boyfriend wey be Mumu dey allow that kind nonsense to happen . Unless na woman wey you no too Like

Just waking up to this.... Sincerely speaking Op you bleeped up big time. How on earth would u allow your babe to hangout with her lecturer. O wrong nau. She even had the guts to get u grilled chicken.That's the height of it. It's the audacity for me. I bet my balls she would see that lecturer again without ur knowledge. A girl who truly loves u would be oblivious to other men.Quit being a simp.

you dey Bleep toto wey dirty old lecturer dey tear . You're a disgrace to yourself only! Haba! I remember how i used to knack one girl back then. After every every I'll buy her chicken to carry go house go chop with her siblings so that they won't tell her parent that she went out. Op, your mumu never do you yet

Clickguy44:
Which kind play dog dey follow lion play.

Now back to your question, the answer: Master your emotional self. You allowed your emotions to affect your thinking. I bet you think you are in control of your life or this relationship. Your answer recks of jealously. You felt the chicken came from the lecturer. You were offended you gave her permission. Now you feel it her fault. When you said yes, she should have said no.

She only asked for your permission because you were there, now she would avoid discussions like this with you.

Like a child throwing tantrum you sent the text her exposing your emotions to her, now her respect for you decreases.

Now wait for her reply, she would probably get offended too, which wouldn't solve anything.

You people should tying these girls down unnecessarily...what's the guarantee that Xtrabrain will marry her tomorrow?

The only woman you have the right to order about is a lady you have paid her bride price. It's fine to get jealous....it comes with relationships.

However, I agree that she sought his consent because both of them were together when the man called. The only time you can trust a girlfriend is when she is lying in your bed. So, a girl that will cheat on you will cheat and you cannot change that fact.

Xtrabrain, control your emotions; free the babe to live her life...she's just a student and not your wife. Her parents don't know you as her husband. It's not as if you have put a ring on it and there's no assurance you won't dump her tomorrow.

Damilare65:
your girlfriend is like a pet chicken to that lecturer, no matter how much you try ,he is still gonna eat her one day. soon enough sef

keep deceiving yourself there, punna wey lecturer Don knack tire since.
Don't you know once your girlfriend is in school she becomes democracy. Punna of the people, by the people and for the people.

Nwodosis:
Truth be told, she has more to gain associating with the lecturer in pursuit of her acedmic life and her future.

How?

Person wey no be your wife dey give you panic attack. Oga allow the girl to flex! She was obviously excited and didn’t want to remain in that boring house with you. Do you know the excitement that comes with writing final exams and completing project defense? Na em you carry am keep for house. The moment you noticed the excitement when the man offered to take her out why didn’t you offer to take her to a nice place instead if the thing pain you like that . Op receive sense

SmartPolician:


You people should tying these girls down unnecessarily...what's the guarantee that Xtrabrain will marry her tomorrow?

The only woman you have the right to order about is a lady you have paid her bride price. It's fine to get jealous....it comes with relationships.

However, I agree that she sought his consent because both of them were together when the man called. The only time you can trust a girlfriend is when she is lying in your bed. So, a girl that will cheat on you will cheat and you cannot change that fact.

Xtrabrain, control your emotions; free the babe to live her life...she's just a student and not your wife. Her parents don't know you as her husband. It's not as if you have put a ring on it and there's no assurance you won't dump her tomorrow.

thrash..run along ,na adults dey talk

Iyaebe:
With your permission she will eventually sleep with the lecturer and this time both of them will order something for you.I hate soft men,if I'm dating you and you don't get upset seeing another guy around me then know that I'll dump your sorry ass for a man that can totally make me blind to all other men out there.You are simply a vegetable man,I somehow like some of those redpillers, those ones that are not toxic but commands respect with their presence and absence without having to talk much to make me behave well.I hate vegetable men and will never marry one because I don't want such traits in my sons.

you Wan go knack, something wey dey your mind already, the permission was a formality..
Now you will still get angry for not telling you not to go?
Which kin women full naija self

This kin person, na steady knacking and to dey collect orders and give away o..
Na one spanner lost already..

It is a win win situation for me cos I no fit wife this kin hoelosho

this is why I'm still single lol... though I knack 2 times weekly on average but still no girlfriend

She only asked for permission because you deh there...The guy deh knack am behind you trust me...Na d small respect weh hin give you unto say him deh ur house be dat...Her toto deh hungry lecturer that night...hin no deh pass 1 hour to quick knack freshen up,watch first half and come back to you for a short time beer palor...

She eve bring you chicken come back....

Na so so life be...Nigerian girls are the future for a mumu man weh deh love..

person weh you soppose deh use coke bottle knack to destroy her toto while she deh sleep your place.

SmartPolician:


You people should tying these girls down unnecessarily...what's the guarantee that Xtrabrain will marry her tomorrow?

The only woman you have the right to order about is a lady you have paid her bride price. It's fine to get jealous....it comes with relationships.

However, I agree that she sought his consent because both of them were together when the man called. The only time you can trust a girlfriend is when she is lying in your bed. So, a girl that will cheat on you will cheat and you cannot change that fact.

Xtrabrain, control your emotions; free the babe to live her life...she's just a student and not your wife. Her parents don't know you as her husband. It's not as if you have put a ring on it and there's no assurance you won't dump her tomorrow.

It starts from now..in marriage it would be worse and she would end up bringing out the inner demons.

SmartPolician:


You people should tying these girls down unnecessarily...what's the guarantee that Xtrabrain will marry her tomorrow?

The only woman you have the right to order about is a lady you have paid her bride price. It's fine to get jealous....it comes with relationships.

However, I agree that she sought his consent because both of them were together when the man called. The only time you can trust a girlfriend is when she is lying in your bed. So, a girl that will cheat on you will cheat and you cannot change that fact.

Xtrabrain, control your emotions; free the babe to live her life...she's just a student and not your wife. Her parents don't know you as her husband. It's not as if you have put a ring on it and there's no assurance you won't dump her tomorrow.

You have said it all.. Bravo

my girl told me about a man who has been on her case, she don dribble am tire, she doesnt know how to jeep dribbling him again, cos the man been dey send her money. he resides outside of her state. she stays in the same states as me, truth is wether she tol you or not, if she wants to hang out and Bleep that lecturer, there is nothing you can do about, women are good at covering their tracks,, your mistake was allowing her to visit him opr hang out with her, i can bet my tight ass they had bleeped before, you will be surprised.

this is a message to other men, when your girl seek permission to visits a man whos capable of having and sustain an erection, tell her no, if you cant put her back against the wall and Bleep her that very moment, and she insists on going , let her go but be wary and super careful with her, no carry woman matter for head.

Gadafii:
my girl told me about a man who has been on her case, she don dribble am tire, she doesnt know how to jeep dribbling him again, cos the man been dey send her money. he resides outside of her state. she stays in the same states as me, truth is wether she tol you or not, if she wants to hang out and Bleep that lecturer, there is nothing you can do about, women are good at covering their tracks,, your mistake was allowing her to visit him opr hang out with her, i can bet my tight ass they had bleeped before, you will be surprised.

this is a message to other men, when your girl seek permission to visits a man whos capable of having and sustain an erection, tell her no, if you cant put her back against the wall and Bleep her that very moment, and she insists on going , let her go but be wary and super careful with her, no carry woman matter for head.

You nailed it my gee

Xtrabrain you suppose update us

Dear, it is in case of necessity and not in casity and yes your gf has no respect for the relationship. I would suggest you cut loose such waste of time & resources.