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My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 9:09pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
He's the first born out of 5 children. He's doing his PHD and has his own business. He still lives with our parents. So he does not pay for house, food or water. But can you imagine this brother of mine who makes money from his business doesn't contribute to the house for the same food he eats, when he makes money he goes to hotels and sleep over with women and prefers to train and help outsiders than bring something to the family. Recently, he had the effontry to reject my mummy's food on the ground that it was served late. I simply asked my mom to stop putting food for him. Honestly this brother of mine has never brought joy to my parents and siblings. He has had several accidents driving carelessly, yet my mom still takes care of it all and she has even stayed over in the hospital when he had the last accident and became unconscious. They're just the kind of brother one will have and you wished you never had a brother , my brother is exactly that kind of brother anyone will wish not to have. Not to talk of his dubious nature, you can't do simple business with him without him cheating on you. I once was rearing one animal and had to send him money for feeds but can you believe he was billing me in excess. We also contributed money to renovate our father's house and he emphatically told us he bought something which he didn't actually buy. I wonder why God gave us this kind of brother, he has been like this since we all knew something and hasn't changed for good. He has been sat down and talked to severally yet he will repent and still go back to his old ways . So pathetic! 66 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by chatinent: 9:09pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
He's the first born out of 5 children .He's doing his PHD and has his own business. He still lives with our parents.I guess he is married? So he does not pay for house , food or water.But can you imagine this brother of mine who makes money from his business doesn't contribute to the house for the same food he eats,Have you talked to him about it? You know, some people are so daft they need six-inches words nailed into their cranium. when he makes money he goes to hotels and sleep over with womenHe has signed to be foolish with this. and prefers to train and help outsiders than bring something to the family.His onyeoma-cy attitude is nauseating! Recently, he had the effontry to reject my mummy's food on the ground that it was served late.Are you kidding me? I simply asked my mom to stop putting food for him.Are you also living with them? Honestly this brother of mine has never brought joy to my parents and siblings. He has had several accidents driving carelessly, yet my mom still takes care of it all and she has even stayed over in the hospital when he had the last accident and became unconscious.It baffles me how most stupid persons get the best treatments. They're just the kind of brother one will have and you wished you never had a brother , my brother is exactly that kind of brother anyone will wish not to have.Oh, so sorry. Not to talk of his dubious nature, you can't do simple business with him without him cheating on you. I once was rearing one animal and had to send him money for feeds but can you believe he was billing me in excess.I understand. I wonder why God gave us this kind of brother, he has been like this since we all knew something and hasn't changed for good. embarassed embarassedBe you and be the brother your brother never was to your fam. Don't hurt yourself with memories. Tell mum to stop feeding the agbaya oshi. My kind of father will send you packing! Nevertheless, serve him his own cake...one day he'll come to his senses. You'll be fine. 132 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by helinues: 9:13pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Why not enlightening him about his ways of doing things politely? Candle can't see its own yansh 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by DaddyRochie1642: 9:15pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
That's how it starts, The next thing na, you'll start thinking of ways on how you'll "Poison that your brother" 35 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 9:15pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
helinues:We've done that severally. When we were growing up our dad nearly flogged him to his death and decided not to touch him anymore. We're just unfortunate to have him. Funny enough he's very smart and intelligent and makes money but character and behaviour is just zero. 121 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by virginprincess(f): 9:15pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
You guys should sit him down and talk some sense into him, invite someone you know he respect so much it may be friends, relative,or anybody, again you people shouldn't despise him instead show him more love, sometimes also tell him how hurt you guys are with his behavior, lastly don't forget to always pray for him, remember him in your prayers, I'm sure with God and advise he would change. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 9:16pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642:Poison him because of what exactly? 85 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 9:16pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
virginprincess:It has been done a zillion times 18 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by KiNg0G: 9:16pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Mybrotheralso: Are you a male or female? If you be guy and you dey bad-mouth your brother like so for public. It no make sense. You not be guy man at all. 19 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 9:18pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
KiNg0G:Well this is a faceless forum and I just have to express myself here 163 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by kenzysmith: 9:18pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Gerrout leave ur brother alone u re d main problem the fact he has his masters and PhD I think u should respect him and whereas he is the senior He is d ist son so it is his birth right Is your parents complaining? Y are u the one complaing better go and marry and leave your brother alone to enjoy himself. He is not a kid mind ur business 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by helinues: 9:20pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Mybrotheralso: May be your approaches have not been in a proper way. Btw, you might be seeing the guy acting awkwardly, but he might have his own reasons |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by BeeBeeOoh(m): 9:20pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
virginprincess:He has passed the stage of talking sense into, what oga Op and his people needs now is to gather people, tie him (both hands and legs), break that his coconut and pack a lot of sense into it. Nothing more, nothing less 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by zexy2030(m): 9:21pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
There is something, mum n dad isn't saying...he is acting on an information..people change according to what their ears respects to hear and eyes respects to see. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 9:22pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
helinues:Na, all approaches have been done the best way possible.These are not just my views about him , the rest of the family see him that way. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by EzegeNdiigbo: 9:22pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Fustration's Cause am ignore his ass |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 9:23pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
kenzysmith: 56 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by virginprincess(f): 9:24pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
BeeBeeOoh:it doesn't work that way, even if you kill him it changes nothing, I'm sure with prayers and advise he would change, talking from experience. 7 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 9:25pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
BeeBeeOoh:Violence is the least thing he needs, he got a good dose while growing up 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 9:26pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
EzegeNdiigbo:Not frustration, he never lacked and sees good money |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 9:26pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
virginprincess:A lot of prayers and anointing have been done for him since childhood |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by helinues: 9:26pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Mybrotheralso: Well, just let him be.. He might have his reasons . Someone that is that educative can't just be like that, may be you guys have been exhausting him without consciously aware. 6 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by daddytime(m): 9:27pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
When they say life isn't balanced, it ain't just some slang. No human has it all 100% something has got to give. You won't understand what you are deficient in unless you got told or complained about as you are doing right now. This is exactly how your brother feels too. Every human being get him own for body. The least thing we owe each other as humans should be " Tolerating" each other rather that being "judgemental and condemning". 11 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by virginprincess(f): 9:27pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Mybrotheralso:Don't stop talking to him, like I said invite someone he respects so much, it maybe an outsider it doesn't matter, what matters is that the person maybe able to talk some sense into him. |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 9:28pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
helinues:Oga you're finding all ways possible to blame us and not finding ways to help him. You're just saying maybe and maybe, when I have consistently told u he was never caged and he was shown love. He manages all the family businesses and keeps the money. 19 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by AfroKnight: 9:28pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Just move out. Ignore him and work on your own success. If you dwell on thoughts about him you won’t have time to move forward. 28 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 9:29pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
virginprincess:All what you've said have been done in the time past and recently too. |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by virginprincess(f): 9:30pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Mybrotheralso:Don't stop praying, God can still change him, it not too late. 3 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 9:30pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
AfroKnight:Its not about me, he's the only one that stays with our parents and he's giving them troubles that even an adolescent can't give . 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 9:31pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
virginprincess:Thank you dear for your enormous support |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by virginprincess(f): 9:33pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Mybrotheralso:Then maybe your parent should ask him to go on his own, let him experience the other side of life, that is taking responsibility for himself, maybe that would work. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by helinues: 9:34pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Mybrotheralso: You know, my dad taught me one big lesson in life... Never listen to one side story and act 12 Likes 2 Shares |
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