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Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Juliusmomoh: 1:22pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
jaxxy:I like him. Why will i not like him? He's part of us already |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Elonmuzk(m): 1:23pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh:And how did you discover that, if I may ask? |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Olumaeme: 1:24pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
If you can foot the bill and very sure your brother is not your brother, please go ahead. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by ba2remagaji: 1:24pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Please go ahead and tell him to safe the future Juliusmomoh: |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Juliusmomoh: 1:24pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
obinoral1179: He's in another state. Not with my dad now 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by ojasweb(m): 1:24pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh: Don't arrest the man, likewise don't bribe him. If he has known this for long, chances that other people know about it are high. The better thing is to tell your dad in a mature way. In fact, you can tell him blantly. Dad, i am being insulted outside for a serious issue but i don't know the authenticity. If he doesn't mind, i will want him to conduct a DNA test on all his child on your expense. If you tell him this way, it might be much better. All the best. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Ameduedwin: 1:25pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Sonnobax15:wicked woman why is she have to tell him at that time after the man have trained them all |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by BuddhaPalm(m): 1:25pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh: Why would the man tell you and not your father? Remember, his words are not proof of anything. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Blackdisciple(m): 1:25pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Go on and tell your dad in an intelligent way, or put a word in his ears then he will think if he refused don't bother cos in your heart you know that guy ain't your bro now you know your boundaries .. Forget about anyone telling you what if you are not also your dad's child. That's cheating, I hate seeing someone being cheated cos your dad was cheated upon... |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by RPG2020(m): 1:25pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
nokspos: If you know the truth say it no matter what 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by diana158(m): 1:26pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Think well before you act, having in mind that your family may never remain the same again if you bring that to light. How did the guy end up in your family? How will he feel if this news is let out? What will happen to the family's relationship going forward? Sometimes, there are certain things that can be left to lie low, it's maturity. If there is peace in the family, I would say allow the peace to continue, cos this might bring tension and quarrel into the family. Think deep and weigh the pros and cons. Bless you |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Juliusmomoh: 1:26pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
ojasweb: Thanks sir |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by chally100(m): 1:26pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh:werey u sef are u sure he's ur Dad... better let sleeping dog lie |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Juliusmomoh: 1:27pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Elonmuzk: My dad friend tells me |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Lexicon123: 1:28pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
FreeSpirited: |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by sylve11: 1:29pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Oblongata: I agree with you that having blood ties doesn't make a family, but take note that such children will always ruin the community they are adopted to. @op, bring in some elders and let them tell your father. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by jaxxy(m): 1:29pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh: Then depending on the circumstances I think the 1st to know should be ur step brother and he can make decisions if he wants to know his real father or not. Whatever the case ur dad is still his dad. Telling ur dad is risky and quite unnecessary at this point and age especially if the circumstances will hurt his feelings or break his heat. It cud actually hasten his passing rather than enjoy his last few years with his family in peace. Let’s things remain as they are. I think bt it all depends on the circumstances. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Bowwow11(m): 1:30pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh:and u tink that social media is the best place to share ur family dirty secrets? |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by adontcare(f): 1:30pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
FreeSpirited:lol |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by adanny01(m): 1:30pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh: My question is, does your brother know? I think you should care for your alleged step brother's feelings. Just because you have discovered your stepmother's secret does not mean you have the right to hurt other concerned parties if you care about them. The fact that your step bro is not really your bro is a new development, you not treating him well means there was some friction or you have bad feelings towards him before the discovery. What you need to find out is if your brother was aware. If he was, then I suggest you tell immediately. If not, it will be disheartening for him as well as your father. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by brownemmanuel43(m): 1:30pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
FreeSpirited:Your type will never have dull moment. Vagina people are not to be trusted |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by AsawanaDgreat: 1:32pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Why not do that and solve the problem once and for all |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by TortugaPrince: 1:32pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh: So your mother cheated on your father. Speak to your mother first and also, what makes you think your father doesn't know already. You'll be surprised. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Burgerlomo: 1:32pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
FreeSpirited: E shock you! in broda shaggi's voice
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Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Juliusmomoh: 1:32pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Bowwow11: Not what u may think.. This is a faceless forum 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Sheriman(m): 1:32pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Oxb90:Thanks for giving the yet to be original son of the house a lifesaving advice. You always remembered for this. Thank you!!! |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by josephft2000: 1:33pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
TELL HIM AND LET THEM BREAK COCONUT ON YOUR HEAD. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by brownemmanuel43(m): 1:33pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh:He is your step brother, and for u to be nursing DNA shows that your step brother has being showing some attitudes or lifestyle that is not in your family. If that's the case, pls go ahead and do dna, moreover is your step mum alive? If she's alive pls don't tell or ask her anything to avoid poisoning u or killing u. Tell your dad that everybody should go and do the dna test |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by GistFullGround: 1:34pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh: Your dad is more important. The right thing is to have your Dad do the DNA on all of you guys, so it won't like you were involved! Why would any woman cheat? |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Juliusmomoh: 1:34pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
TortugaPrince: You mean my step mom? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Burgerlomo: 1:35pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh: Are you sure you're your father's son? |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by sylve11: 1:35pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh: Na your dad's friend born the boy? Anyway, tell your father the truth. |
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