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Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by baby124: 1:36pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Tell your Dad. Let the world know with DNA proof sha. I suggest you take out the test for yourself first before revealing. It’s illegitimate children that destroy homes in the end. Their blood no de rest for the wrong house. Let him go to his father’s house. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by saintruky(m): 1:36pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh: Wetin make u go do DNA on d said brother in d first instance? |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Juliusmomoh: 1:36pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
brownemmanuel43:Best advice ever. Yes she's alive. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by sylve11: 1:37pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh: It's not faceless forum. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Henix(m): 1:37pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
What do u stand to gain by cutting the joy of ur old father and ur supposed half-brother with such news? I hope ur father's property is not what brought about such selfish thought. Don't send ur father to an early grave with such bad news 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Nobody: 1:37pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh: Which kind op be this sef? To settle down nack us better gist just dey hard you abi? Most people with yeye story go even dey beg us say make we no vex bcuz the story long with plenty grammar mistake, but ur story when be like wetin go sweet person aproko ears, you just give us only the last paragraph. No advice from me o, until you drop the full gist 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by mabea: 1:38pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Try and find out to he aim of your dad's friend for telling you now. Why didn't he do it earlier. Does it have beef with anyone? What's his relationship with the boy's mum? Just find out if there's any alterior motive behind this. I would advise you don't be in a hurry to tell your dad. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by gidado14(m): 1:38pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh:tell him na |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by brownemmanuel43(m): 1:38pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh:What u are planning to do would save the family now that your dad is still alive than in the grave |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Mcslize: 1:38pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh: How did you discover? The question no one cares to ask. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Babyboyforeal(m): 1:38pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh:abeg nor go kill that old man with that kind news oh, let the sleeping dog lye |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by gentlekash(m): 1:39pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
If he has been of good conduct, and his position in the family is not of threat to the legitimate children then they won't be need for that unless otherwise. You father raised him so he is still his son. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Burgerlomo: 1:39pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Sonnobax15: Wow! God bless those children |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by PDinteriors(m): 1:39pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh:wow this is deep |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by victorazy(m): 1:39pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
FreeSpirited: Guy you wiketh dai! |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by harmargedon: 1:40pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh:if the guy isn't a problem to the family, I'd advice you don't tell him anything. Family/brother isn't always blood related, I've seen friends and strangers that turned out to be better than brothers in the end. And I've seen brothers that betray his own too. If the guy is a good guy, and you're not dragging anything with him, why bother. Think about how it will affect him too if he receives the news, the shame and emotional breakdown he'll go through. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by vinexe: 1:40pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
good day bros according to what u said here.. ur dad is 70+ and u found out now that ur step bros in not his legitimate son? hmmmm,,, pls don't give Satan chance in ur family although i see Satan coming into the family if after the man of 70+ we leave the world... pls sorry for this question i want to ask u.. what is ur reason on this issue? what good have u done if eventually is true of flash? do u know that ur life may be in danger there will be a very big problem in ur family..... and u will be an enemy to ur step bros for ever.... what of the step mother cos am sure she not ur mother? i hope she is know more cos there is going to be a very serious dispute ..... pls is not good enough to encouraged man of 70+ to go and run DNA test to his children ..... just believe this if the true finally comes out u,ur father. ur step bros .. every one of u will be in danger ''' i hope u have ur own family as first son by now just go and take care of ur family ...... save ur family disgrace or maybe u have personal interest in ur father wil |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Drefaithful(m): 1:40pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh: how old are you? and how old is that step brother of yours? |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Nobody: 1:41pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
how did u discover he is not your dads son? MR DISCOVERER |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Juliusmomoh: 1:41pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
jaxxy: No circumstance Thank you sir... God bless you. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by nokspos: 1:41pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
if its not your truth, let it slide. RPG2020: |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by POTUT(m): 1:42pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh: You are sure you are his biological son. Your dad is 76...meaning he is done with the school of life and is just waiting in the hallway to go meet God. Put yourself in his shoes. If you receive such news at that age, everything you have accomplished in life will evaporate and regret and self-contempt will fill that void. Do NOT tell him. If he had adopted the boy, would it matter now? No. What if he already knew but had taken it in his stride in order to give all of his children a beautiful legacy of family? Let it be. But you know what you know, and do not let what you know introduce biases that could wreck your harmony. Do not also wreck the life of your half brother. Consider him adopted. Period! If he was still an infant, you may ask the mother to leave. But not anymore. He's a man now. Abi? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Juliusmomoh: 1:43pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Drefaithful:My step-bros is 46 |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Sens8: 1:43pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
That means you are ready to just see your father live the rest of his life as a sad man....why do you hate your step bro? You dont want to accept him as your brother fine, just allow your dad to live the rest of his life happily. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Johnsown1(m): 1:43pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh: Don't tell the old man before you send him to his grave quickly or he may fall sick. See your mum first and meet the guy involved. Total DNA test should be conducted and solve the puzzle once and for all |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Juliusmomoh: 1:44pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Mcslize:My dad friend tells me. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by tunize(m): 1:44pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Assuming the situation turns out to be "when the bushmeat go catch the hunter" waitn u go do? |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by jameel6: 1:45pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
If he isn't causing any problems to the family why not let him be. You want to cause problem to the young and your dad for what he knows nothing about. Please allow the old man live his remaining life in peace don't rush him to the grave |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Nobody: 1:45pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh:What makes you think that your father's friend is not the real father? |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by just2endowed: 1:45pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Wawelexy: this should be a debate in the court case. what if in the will, it was stated that the estate should be shared among his sons. DNA test show one of them were not his son. how will the will be executed? |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Nobody: 1:46pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh:What makes you think that your father's friend is not the real father? |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by walozanga(m): 1:46pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
1) IS YOUR STEP MOTHER STILL ALIVE? 2) WHAT DOES YOUR DADS FRIEND STAND TO GAIN BY TELLING U 3) WHO IS THE BIOLOGICAL FATHER OF YOUR STEP BROTHER 4) HOW COME YOUR DAD DIDN'T KNOW WHILE HIS FRIEND KNEW AND WAS TELLING YOU ** a good sign of a bad friend** 5) NOT JUST HAVING MONEY FOR DNA TEST. CAN YOU STAND THE HEAT AFTER THE TEST? 6) IF YOUR STEP MOM HAVE A BIOLOGICAL SON OR DAUGHTER FROM YOUR DAD, APART FROM THAT PARTICULAR STEP BROTHER. WHAT DO U THINK THE RELATIONSHIP WILL BE LIKE 7) WHY DID YOUR DADS FRIEND PICK U AND NOT UR MOM FROM THE ONSET ** cos woman Sabi fight that kind fight at the early stage** REMEMBER YOU ARE FROM A POLYGAMOUS HOME. IS YOUR OWN MOM THE FIRST OR SECOND WIFE. **a good reason to use ur head** 9) FINALLY!!!!!! TELL THAT YOUR DADS FRIEND TO BE MAN ENOUGH TO BREAK THE NEWS HIMSELF. |
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