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Re: Bored In Marriage by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 11:30am On Oct 16, 2021 |
And some men are looking for more blessings from God to marry...... Ok life no balance shaa,....just wait for the first child to come up,then you will advice yourself properly. |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Elhabeeb1(m): 11:31am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44: B Give am belle quick, when the kids start coming, you will be considerate and not selfish. 1 Like |
Re: Bored In Marriage by grandstar(m): 11:32am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44 What your parents did was selfish. They wanted you to settle down because you're an only son and give them grandchildren. Anyway, the deed is done. You can't turn back now. "I have hated a divorcing" is the utterance of Jehovah. So, you can make the best of the situation. Perhaps wait a while before having kids. Go for dates with your wife. Think of things. |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Octopusssy(f): 11:32am On Oct 16, 2021 |
advanceDNA:So you think writing properly at all times is 'unimportant'? Think again- https://www.nairaland.com/6387551/boss-dropped-internship-applicant-because Bad habits can cost us plenty. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Lexusgs430: 11:32am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44: It's a phase, you shall pass..... Stop hanging out with single guys...... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Bored In Marriage by TwoTalk(m): 11:33am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44:Be a man bro by not allowing sensual cravings to wreck your marriage and invariably your life on the long run. You are not bored but you are fed up with one pussy. You crave varieties of women. That's not cool. 2 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by bareal(m): 11:33am On Oct 16, 2021 |
You still think you are young at 29.....if them dey deceive you, you too dey join deceive yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Bored In Marriage by CAPTIVATOR: 11:34am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Mercychen:Great. Although I will say You are in Nigeria, the only thing people see as readiness for marriage is the financial aspect, forget mental , Spirituality and emotional aspects. Most of My country people no dey check that one. Lol 2 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by providencia(m): 11:35am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Michael662: Wetin concern benin for this one na? 1 Like |
Re: Bored In Marriage by mercy87: 11:36am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Op the problem is you. I have gone through your all your threads and you're a very confused man. You don't know what you truly need and what's good for you. Always restless and unsettled and asking for help but never contented. Always looking for more more more. If you go on like this you will regret your life in future cos of the mistakes you're about to make. The grass always looks greener on the other side untill you get there. Find yourself and work on you. 3 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:37am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Poopypants: When people are told, "marry your friend," they never understand what it means. The very minimum in a relationship should be communication. Think about how you are with your chummiest friend and marry someone who can be close enough to that. You have endless things to talk about. They don't always have to make sense, or be serious conversations. Breezy conversations. Someone with whom you're not scared of judgement. If they're advising you, they do it with love and gentility. Someone you can't fight with for long because you'll be terribly uncomfortable. There's a new gist you want to share with them... There's a new place you want to try out with them... There's a movie you want to see with them... You're genuinely happy and at ease being around them... You don't put on airs around each other... No pretence... Bare to each other... Being like that with a romantic partner may not happen overnight. But that's what building a relationship is all about. You can get it there. And when/if you do, you'll be super thankful because it will make so many things a lot easier. 5 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Bored In Marriage by AlphaStorm: 11:37am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44: Are u not d same mofoka that posted sh*t about wanting a life partner around april this year YOU MUST BE MAD !!!!! |
Re: Bored In Marriage by flokii: 11:38am On Oct 16, 2021 |
@OP I know what is happening to you.. it's psychology. You thought you'll be happy and satisfied after marriage not knowing it's just a mood (wedding event and honeymoon) like you gaining admission, graduating from college etc. that will subside with time. Make your marriage fun and work with your partner to reduce the boredom and thirst for bachelor life. |
Re: Bored In Marriage by MONEY247: 11:42am On Oct 16, 2021 |
I don't like marriage.... |
Re: Bored In Marriage by YungTemy(m): 11:42am On Oct 16, 2021 |
foleskay: My parents mustn’t be married before I can be brought into existence. |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Ayo081(m): 11:43am On Oct 16, 2021 |
This! But not usually easy. God help you. Romanoff: |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Roseey0(f): 11:43am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Age they say is just a number. There are 25yrs old thinking marriage and here you have a 29yr old who feels bored in marriage. Take away; People are wired differently. Let people go with their flow. Stop mounting pressure on people just because of age. This happens to women a lot 2 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by delzbaba(m): 11:43am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Why getting married at such a young age? You are not serious maybe you think marriage is a joke? |
Re: Bored In Marriage by ceeceeuwa: 11:43am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44:Did you marry the lady you both exchanged email addresses on your last thread while seeking for a life partner?. If so, we the online inlaws need some bottles of wine as our share of the bride price. 1 Like |
Re: Bored In Marriage by LordReed(m): 11:43am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44: Yes it is normal to feel this way but if you want to remain married then you have to make adjustments. Lemme ask what do you mean by you feel bored? Is it because you have to go home everyday to your wife as opposed to hanging out with the guys? |
Re: Bored In Marriage by marsup: 11:43am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Human beings are insatiable. People will see trouble, and still walk into it. If you are bored, climb a mountain, go sky diving. Upon all the problems in this country right now, your own is boredom? Smh. |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Utchman1: 11:45am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Just endure for now. The first two years of marriage are the most challenging. You can still go out with your friends with a good understanding with your wife. Go out with her sometimes too. By the time you start having kids she would be more relaxed with you. Trust me; later in life, you will wish you married earlier. Try and be very open to your wife. |
Re: Bored In Marriage by OhiOfIhima: 11:46am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Just be always grateful to your God that he has favoured you alot. Many are praying for this blessings but not fruitful yet. Try to navigate ur mind from bachelorhood n see urself as someone with responsibilities. Explore anything explorable with your wife, I swear down, those ur single guys will in turn envy you. I am 31 and I wish to get marry now but no formidable work yet. |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Angrymode: 11:46am On Oct 16, 2021 |
From one married man to another, na dog life de hungry you @OP. Grow up or get a divorce before you destroy the life of your wife emotionally, mentally and physically. 1 Like |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Mom007(f): 11:47am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Mr married man, first thing I want to say is that there is nothing wrong with you or your marriage. The notion that you should change automatically just because you got married is a fallacy and the result is what you are seeing. Also, the people who said 'marry your friend' knew what they were talking about. When you marry your friend, she is your buddy, your goon and y'all can have fun hanging out together. Even just chilling at home watching a movie or playing cards is great fun when you are with the right person. Also, being married doesn't mean you cannot go and hang with friends without your Mrs. Go visit your friends, watch a match, sit out and gist with your buddies but create boundaries as the married man that you are and go home at a decent time. Stop seeing marriage as a kind of bondage, it is not. And stop thinking you married early, you did not. My husband was 27 when we got married and 9yrs down the line, he is still my partner in crime... Get rid of bad thots, be determined to enjoy your marriage and you will. Good luck. 2 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Johel(m): 11:47am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44: Marriage is forever...be happy in it,you signed for it...your wife didn't offend you, Don't hurt her...All the best. |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Emma1Oj(m): 11:47am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Raalsalghul:the way you guys keep pple record in this forum baffled me. |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Ten06(m): 11:48am On Oct 16, 2021 |
What you suffering from is youthful exuberance. Endure in the marriage, later you discover that you made the right decision. It is better to marry early than to marry late |
Re: Bored In Marriage by almarthins(m): 11:48am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44: Why men dey look for trouble when e no find them? That exploration wey u wan do go end you quick quick. U beta talk to ur self now before u enter aye wahala. My father used to say if u have friends that are living care free, don't follow them. You being d only man of the house, you wan caught ur journey half way. U beta tell those friends URS bye bye before u go bcom laughing stalk. |
Re: Bored In Marriage by emmyN(m): 11:48am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44: Yelz. You need a second wife. |
Re: Bored In Marriage by ashawopikin(m): 11:51am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44:u miss the bachelor lifestyle simply means you miss fucking different pussies, why not treat her like a girlfriend, u know like take her on dates, just spice up your marriage, u won't be bored |
Re: Bored In Marriage by SAMAJ: 11:52am On Oct 16, 2021 |
https://www.nairaland.com/5821202/lonely-heart In this thread above, you came shouting that you wanted an Akwa Ibom Lady that you are a lonely heart. Now you are saying marriage is boring. Which kind person you be sef. |
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