Itzurboi:
No offense taken ma'am... I offered to help; job wise and stated clearly how and when the job might pull through, and the chat ended there, only to start seeing good morning, good afternoon, crying emoji and things like gas has finished, then subsequent chat revealed other details...

May no one mock you at ur time of need. Thank u

AutoChick4U:
I do not have a problem being a single parent, I ain't scared of working hard either. I'll try harder for our sake.

How about smarter?
Scope out suitable childcare provisions ( family, paid ones etc) so your time is free to earn.

What jobs would allow you to be self sufficient?

What are skills you've got/ identify any gaps.

How can you close those gaps? ( online training, etc)

What decisions did those who have walked the same path as you and come out on the other side make, How did they overcome the same challenges that did not involve selling pumpum?

There are other sections on here, jobs, education, programming that are filled with tons of knowledge, use them.

But lose the mindset that you have to be helped first. Help any potential helpers, help you.

All you have detailed consistently is how bad you feel. Detail your skills on your threads so someone looking for something similar will recognise you as a potential fit.

I haven't seen that, so hardly surprising that in this section where a lot of the menfolk see women as sex objects, that is their term of engagement.

Itzurboi:
No offense taken ma'am... I offered to help; job wise and stated clearly how and when the job might pull through, and the chat ended there, only to start seeing good morning, good afternoon, crying emoji and things like gas has finished, then subsequent chat revealed other details...

Okay, note to other potential helpers

OP ain't selling her body. If you are looking to render such help, waka pass.

EOD

AutoChick4U:
May no one mock you at ur time of need. Thank u

if someone tells you that if you put your hand in fire, it will burn you and you say, I reject it in Jesus name, no you are wrong, he/she didn't curse you. We all know fire would burn when you try it, I'm not perfect, we all at some point do need help, but in my case I use to and will always be exact with my details....

shaybebaby:

Okay, note to other potential helpers

OP ain't selling her body. If you are looking to render such help, waka pass.

EOD

Yes.She stopped selling her body after she couldn't find the buyer that got her preg.The way you are covering up seems like both of you are same person.

shaybebaby:

How about smarter?
Scope out suitable childcare provisions ( family, paid ones etc) so your time is free to earn.

What jobs would allow you to be self sufficient?

What are skills you've got/ identify any gaps.

How can you close those gaps? ( online training, etc)

What decisions did those who have walked the same path as you and come out on the other side make, How did they overcome the same challenges that did not involve selling pumpum?

There are other sections on here, jobs, education, programming that are filled with tons of knowledge, use them.

But lose the mindset that you have to be helped first. Help any potential helpers, help you.

All you have detailed consistently is how bad you feel. Detail your skills on your threads so someone looking for something similar will recognise you as a potential fit.

I haven't seen that, so hardly surprising that in this section where a lot of the menfolk see women as sex objects, that is their term of engagement.

Thank you so much.

Jamesbiodun:
I am just laughing since morning with the conversation, maybe sheybebaby and the scammer na friend
The kid press the call button got me cracking, abeg both of you should show all the screenshot I want to confirm something...
I have got so many guys claiming they are girls but I get kushi for head

Mans got jokes.

Justbehave:
Yes.She stopped selling her body after she couldn't find the buyer that got her preg.The way you are covering up seems like both of you are same person.

Will you stop this nonsense

That's men for you. A man that wants to help you must Bleep you. And they are the same people that will come online to call women prostitute.

Anyway, what skill do you have? What can you do? When you are asking for help, you need to be specific. Na you cause all this whahala.

Justbehave:
Yes.She stopped selling her body after she couldn't find the buyer that got her preg.The way you are covering up seems like both of you are same person.

.

luvmijeje:
That's men for you. A man that wants to help you must Bleep you. And they are the same people that will come online to call women prostitute.

Anyway, what skill do you have? What can you do? When you are asking for help, you need to be specific. Na you cause all this whahala.

digital marketing, admin jobs, I can also teach as well. I hope to improve on more skills.

This lady insulted me and broke-shamed me on some other thread, I just laughed. She obviously didn't know who she was talking to. I didn't even know that she's a beggar in real life.

Go and look for the idiot who impregnated you and stop disturbing us here. You can't get a job or skill but you can collect pennis and you can insult people. Foolish thing.

luvmijeje:
That's men for you. A man that wants to help you must Bleep you. And they are the same people that will come online to call women prostitute.

Anyway, what skill do you have? What can you do? When you are asking for help, you need to be specific. Na you cause all this whahala.

I have helped ladies without any string attached, they called me a maga behind my back. Now, I don't help ladies. Let them Bleep off.

AutoChick4U:
Deep down u know you lying

Did you just call me a liar?

If you check my profile very well you did realize I have been on this platform for a very long time if not before you started using a mobile phone, so you know I'm not a kid moreso I've been on the street for a while and that's where I grew up from.

Because of the nature of scammers on this platform I tried as much as possible to limit my interaction and all, what made me develop interest in your case was because of the innocent baby you claim to presently have. My motive in life has always been no kid deserve to suffer for whatever decision their parent made. Either your story is real or not, I decided to contact you to see way (s) which I can help your situation, even though this economy is not friendly to all of us, we still have to thank God for where we are and continue the hustle.

So I contacted you & made you understand I'm willing to help but I need to confirm the authenticity of your claim first before rendering any help, when I asked where you were staying in Abuja, the location you mentioned was where I've never been to before so I requested if you could come to anywhere in town, the purpose of this was for me to hear you out physically and chart a positive sustainable way for you that won't made you to come online or anywhere to beg anymore.

I asked if you were ready for business which you said yes, we fixed Friday for you to come to town so we could see. After we agreed, so many thought came up on my mind, I discussed your issue with a friend and explained that my intention was to give you 10k & transport when you come to town, if your story & situation is genuine maybe I can make the 10k a monthly thing for the sake of the baby till you are back on your feet.

Then my friend call my attention to the fact that why not see if you can be set up for a business since there is a connection which we can pull for federal government intervention fund (Covid-19) loan which can be secured for you. This we know most people have enjoyed and be able to start something. So if you were able to secure 500k you should be able to start a sustainable business that will be able to take care of your immediate needs and future one. Moreover the repayment of this loan won't start until after 12 months at 5% interest rate per annum. This I even sent a nairaland link of it to you for you to confirm as I made you understand that so many people are looking forward to this kind of offer which is not coming their way but I'm giving it to you free of charge.

This I discussed with you for this option that instead of you coming online to beg people for money every now and then, this option is there for you to take since you somehow claimed in one of your post that you were into business before all this issue started which gulp all your capital and you can still do business.

I was stunned by your response that you were not interested in the loan because you are scared of loan, scared of running a start up business with 500k which might fail and where will you get the monthly repayment from if the business fail. My mind was like, so you will be more comfortable if I said I want to dash you 100k or 200k to start up a business rather than you working for your money bah?.

After going forth and back on this, I was able to deduce that what you were only interested in was free money or manna from heaven. My instinct was that maybe your intention is trying to play on people's emotions to get cheap money from them, if you get like 2k from 20 people that's 40k without stressing yourself....well, I'm not in to help somebody who is not ready to help herself/himself somebody that will be comfortable begging rather than get herself up for business even when given the option of full funding.

After you said you weren't interested in the intervention fund, you still requested if our agreement to see in town by Friday is still in place and I responded in affirmative. So many thought kept creeping up on my mind that I needed to be careful for my safety & security, what if it's a guy that will want to use a lady as a decoy come Friday..I was ready to take the risk and waiting for you to beep me up on Friday to decide where you will be coming to in town for me to meet up with you but ALAS you NEVER chatted me or anything till late in the evening when you gave excuse that[b] "you forgot to meet me up due to some activities" [/b] please who will be in dire need as you claim & when she was asked to come and get help will suddenly forget to go due to activities? Na street we all dey nah...haba.

You suggested we can still see the following day which was yesterday but pending that, you said you were out of cooking gas and wouldn't mind if I can help, I had to ask you again if what you are requesting is for me to send you money which you answered in affirmative, I requested for your account number which you immediately send but I haven't send you any Kobo till now. This was the point that actually gave you out cos my instinct was that if I send you any money you might likely not see me yesterday, I also came online to check your profile on this platform, I realized you have edited some of your comments and posts you made earlier.

When you didn't see me send money, you chatted me up yesterday asking why I didn't send the money and I said I wasn't still convince you are who you claim to be, you suggested maybe we can do video call which I said yes, you called me immediately but I declined the call cos my street OT was that for you to have chatted me up to ask for the money, a lady who you might be working with might be beside you which will be the one to talk to me, I'm too wise to fall for this kind of cheap scam, meanwhile, when we started chatting you didn't have any picture on your DP but when you beep me up yesterday, what you have on your DP was a guy picture with a lady at the background which you removed immediately I responded to your chat...so I ex you and stop responding to your chat pending when I verify you are who you claim to be and for my safety.

I never even ask you for anything before proposing the help I wanted to render for you, the way you communicate gave you out to be a guy working together with a lady just to play on people's emotions, moreso actions speak rather than voice....
I leave you up to other people to judge my encounter with you as you claimed I'm a liar

Kindly note, if there's a lie in all I said, you can point it out or if I ever requested for anything in return for wanting to help you. Mind you, our chat history is still here for confirmation

AutoChick4U:
Thank you so much.

You gon be okay.
Yes you will come back and share a positive story.
There are tons of women killing it here. If they can do it, so can you. On your terms.

shaybebaby:

Okay, note to other potential helpers

OP ain't selling her body. If you are looking to render such help, waka pass.

EOD

Let her apply for jobs like everyone else and stop shopping for sympathy about.
No one is interested in her pity stories.

Terrier99:


Let her apply for jobs like everyone else and stop shopping for sympathy about.
No one is interested in her pity stories.

No quibbles with your submission, just the tone.

AutoChick4U:
Are you trying to say I do not have such need? I lied? You think it gives me joy to be in this situation?

Yes I'll survive

Don't you have family members?

For you to be begging online shows that you either have very useless family members or you are the useless one and they are tired of you.

AutoChick4U:
digital marketing, admin jobs, I can also teach as well. I hope to improve on more skills.

What subjects do you teach?

shaybebaby:

No quibbles with your submission, just the tone.

What tone? If you or her don't like it, that's your problem. I don't owe you or her anything.

Let her put her hands to work and stop begging. No one owes her anything because she had a baby she can't take care of.

@Eldega you were too specific in asking me to take a loan of 500k. You think I asked someone to talk to you? Well its all good, I was opened to you. If okay though God will definitely provide.

AutoChick4U:
digital marketing, admin jobs, I can also teach as well. I hope to improve on more skills.

Hello. I don't know you but something draws me to your story.

If you're fake, that's your business as you'll be repaid in full by the God I serve. I am only following my heart.

Within the next 10 mins, Go to any of your old posts, modify it, type my moniker Cheerfulgiver, and post your account number. When I acknowledge, I'll mention you somewhere.

I don't need nothing from you, only what I have asked. Don't post your name. Don't post email, don't post your number. Don't even quote this post. Only your initials to confirm the name on account. I'll send you something.

Cheers

Terrier99:


What tone? If you or her don't like it, that's your problem. I don't owe you or her anything.

Let her put her hands to work and stop begging. No one owes her anything because she had a baby she can't take care of.

Never said anyone owes me anything, I simply begged for help. Wasn't feeling entitled or anything

eldega:


Did you just call me a liar?

If you check my profile very well you did realize I have been on this platform for a very long time if not before you started using a mobile phone, so you know I'm not a kid moreso I've been on the street for a while and that's where I grew up from.

Because of the nature of scammers on this platform I tried as much as possible to limit my interaction and all, what made me develop interest in your case was because of the innocent baby you claim to presently have. My motive in life has always been no kid deserve to suffer for whatever decision their parent made. Either your story is real or not, I decided to contact you to see way (s) which I can help your situation, even though this economy is not friendly to all of us, we still have to thank God for where we are and continue the hustle.

So I contacted you & made you understand I'm willing to help but I need to confirm the authenticity of your claim first before rendering any help, when I asked where you were staying in Abuja, the location you mentioned was where I've never been to before so I requested if you could come to anywhere in town, the purpose of this was for me to hear you out physically and chart a positive sustainable way for you that won't made you to come online or anywhere to beg anymore.

I asked if you were ready for business which you said yes, we fixed Friday for you to come to town so we could see. After we agreed, so many thought came up on my mind, I discussed your issue with a friend and explained that my intention was to give you 10k & transport when you come to town, if your story & situation is genuine maybe I can make the 10k a monthly thing for the sake of the baby till you are back on your feet.

Then my friend call my attention to the fact that why not see if you can be set up for a business since there is a connection which we can pull for federal government intervention fund (Covid-19) loan which can be secured for you. This we know most people have enjoyed and be able to start something. So if you were able to secure 500k you should be able to start a sustainable business that will be able to take care of your immediate needs and future one. Moreover the repayment of this loan won't start until after 12 months at 5% interest rate per annum. This I even sent a nairaland link of it to you for you to confirm as I made you understand that so many people are looking forward to this kind of offer which is not coming their way but I'm giving it to you free of charge.

This I discussed with you for this option that instead of you coming online to beg people for money every now and then, this option is there for you to take since you somehow claimed in one of your post that you were into business before all this issue started which gulp all your capital and you can still do business.

I was stunned by your response that you were not interested in the loan because you are scared of loan, scared of running a start up business with 500k which might fail and where will you get the monthly repayment from if the business fail. My mind was like, so you will be more comfortable if I said I want to dash you 100k or 200k to start up a business rather than you working for your money bah?.

After going forth and back on this, I was able to deduce that what you were only interested in was free money or manna from heaven. My instinct was that maybe your intention is trying to play on people's emotions to get cheap money from them, if you get like 2k from 20 people that's 40k without stressing yourself....well, I'm not in to help somebody who is not ready to help herself/himself somebody that will be comfortable begging rather than get herself up for business even when given the option of full funding.

After you said you weren't interested in the intervention fund, you still requested if our agreement to see in town by Friday is still in place and I responded in affirmative. So many thought kept creeping up on my mind that I needed to be careful for my safety & security, what if it's a guy that will want to use a lady as a decoy come Friday..I was ready to take the risk and waiting for you to beep me up on Friday to decide where you will be coming to in town for me to meet up with you but ALAS you NEVER chatted me or anything till late in the evening when you gave excuse that[b] "you forgot to meet me up due to some activities" [/b] please who will be in dire need as you claim & when she was asked to come and get help will suddenly forget to go due to activities? Na street we all dey nah...haba.

You suggested we can still see the following day which was yesterday but pending that, you said you were out of cooking gas and wouldn't mind if I can help, I had to ask you again if what you are requesting is for me to send you money which you answered in affirmative, I requested for your account number which you immediately send but I haven't send you any Kobo till now. This was the point that actually gave you out cos my instinct was that if I send you any money you might likely not see me yesterday, I also came online to check your profile on this platform, I realized you have edited some of your comments and posts you made earlier.

When you didn't see me send money, you chatted me up yesterday asking why I didn't send the money and I said I wasn't still convince you are who you claim to be, you suggested maybe we can do video call which I said yes, you called me immediately but I declined the call cos my street OT was that for you to have chatted me up to ask for the money, a lady who you might be working with might be beside you which will be the one to talk to me, I'm too wise to fall for this kind of cheap scam, meanwhile, when we started chatting you didn't have any picture on your DP but when you beep me up yesterday, what you have on your DP was a guy picture with a lady at the background which you removed immediately I responded to your chat...so I ex you and stop responding to your chat pending when I verify you are who you claim to be and for my safety.

I never even ask you for anything before proposing the help I wanted to render for you, the way you communicate gave you out to be a guy working together with a lady just to play on people's emotions, moreso actions speak rather than voice....
I leave you up to other people to judge my encounter with you as you claimed I'm a liar

Kindly note, if there's a lie in all I said, you can point it out or if I ever requested for anything in return for wanting to help you. Mind you, our chat history is still here for confirmation

I hope you are not the Oshogbo guy...

shaybebaby:

What subjects do you teach?

Government, English language, religious studies

AutoChick4U:
Never said anyone owes me anything, I simply begged for help. Wasn't feeling entitled or anything

You want alms instead of wages. Okay. Goodluck to you.

Itzurboi:
I hope you are not the Oshogbo guy...

Not at all

Terrier99:


Don't you have family members?

For you to be begging online shows that you either have very useless family members or you are the useless one and they are tired of you.

They do not know what I'm passing through. But I've decided to make my case known like d prodigal son.

Terrier99:


You want alms instead of wages. Okay. Goodluck to you.

More than anything I want wages. Wanna earn my keep

AutoChick4U:
Government, English language, religious studies

So why don't you look up TEFL ( Teaching English as a foreign/ second language)?

You could also look into being a virtual tutor of those subjects, online classes? You could do it from home. Market yourself on online platforms ( using the digital marketing skills you have).

See, you already have some tools in your arsenal.

eldega:


Not at all

Good, I thought it too that its kinda a business venture between a guy and a lady...
I knew even at their business, either the lady won't accept a freaky video call because it wasn't in her terms with the guy... Or the guy won't allow his babe go through that, Men issue....
It is crystal clear that all he/she want is those petty change...
All she does is to type thank you.....

shaybebaby:

So why don't you look up TEFL ( Teaching English as a foreign/ second language)?

You could also look into being a virtual tutor of those subjects, online classes? You could do it from home. Market yourself on online platforms

Got bsc and not B.Ed but thanks for d info I'll look it up. Following up teaching autistic kids, it will take huge patience but I'm ready.