Hi,
I really want to know if I'm fast becoming a simp, and being friend zoned.
I met this young pretty lady sometimes early this year, although it was social media we first met, although she stays around not really far. She's learning nursing(not nursing school) so, so she's always busy.. She came back from school last month and I requested we meet the first time, we met at a restaurant and I asked her out, I bluntly asked if she has someone and she said No, so we ended up accepting to be in a relationship that same day.
She went back to school and we kept speaking on phone, every time I do text her messages which she hardly replies, and I've been doing the calls too..and we only speak once a day cz of her work..The day I decided not to call her, she called very late in the night.
So, last week she came around again, and this time she made me know she's around, she texted me to come and meet her very close to her place I didn't go, I proposed we meet the second day at the same restaurant I gave her my second phone because her phone got spoilt.. The next day, she traveled back to school. Today we were speaking on phone, so I asked her why she's not responding to my texts and she asked me why she has to reply, and she could just say "thank you".
I was shocked, so I asked her why she would tell me thank you, like do I look like her friend or something?
Now, I want to know if she's actually just playing me..,or I'm rushing things to fast? Am I a simp or I'm just impatient.?

Op,First of all,you no well at alllllllllll..

Secondly,the bitter truth here is that that girl don use you do cash out.....Oya just imagine am na . Most of the time,na only you dey do the calling and messaging like say you dey work for MTN office...All of a sudden,she showed up and you ended up submitting your other phone to her . For whattttttttttt exactly?

Op,e be say na that your small money wey you get nai dey catch you so,plus say you don dey grow small small feather of SIMP already

Well,I pity your heart, because that girl dey use am dey play like two sure bet9ja odds

Why should you meet her the 2nd time again at a restaurant? Abi u no get house?

She don cash out with your head.
Keep on simping maybe she will pity you one day

op you are a mumu man

@op,you have "always been" a simp "not becoming" a simp. I just had to correct that blunder you spewed.

SmellySperm:
Why should you meet her the 2nd time again at a restaurant? Abi u no get house?

Hmmm.. I know what I could have just done tho..most times, even if its first time it has to be my place or s restaurant close.
I didn't want her to feel like I was just after her coming to my place. Yesterday, she was actually begging that she the network was bad that was why she couldn't pick my call or call..I just felt she's kinda interested and maybe give her time..but as it is now, I have to be patient with her till she comes around again, she comes often tho and it won't be long..now that she's comfortable around me She'll definitely visit.

When you love, you become vulnerable. When u are vulnerable, you automatically become a simp.
Women don't wanna love who love them but who use em.
They will call him weakness, call him mumu,doormat,atm, maga etc
Cos they believe a man cannot be weak, even in the eyes of love.

Sonnobax15:

Op,First of all,you no well at alllllllllll..

Secondly,the bitter truth here is that that girl don use you do cash out.....Oya just imagine am na . Most of the time,na only you dey do the calling and messaging like say you dey work for MTN office...All of a sudden,she showed up and you ended up submitting your other phone to her . For whattttttttttt exactly?

Op,e be say na that your small money wey you get nai dey catch you so,plus say you don dey grow small small feather of SIMP already

Well,I pity your heart, because that girl dey use am dey play like two sure bet9ja odds

I was the one that didn't invite her to my place, and that's because I'm yet to get an apartment which I will soon get next month or so...by then, I know She'll definitely come to my place

Lol.
Nairalanders will always come for simps

dboY1123:
Hi,
I really want to know if I'm fast becoming a simp, and being friend zoned.
I met this young pretty lady sometimes early this year, although it was social media we first met, although she stays around not really far. She's learning nursing(not nursing school) so, so she's always busy.. She came back from school last month and I requested we meet the first time, we met at a restaurant and I asked her out, I bluntly asked if she has someone and she said No, so we ended up accepting to be in a relationship that same day.
She went back to school and we kept speaking on phone, every time I do text her messages which she hardly replies, and I've been doing the calls too..and we only speak once a day cz of her work..The day I decided not to call her, she called very late in the night.
So, last week she came around again, and this time she made me know she's around, she texted me to come and meet her very close to her place I didn't go, I proposed we meet the second day at the same restaurant I gave her my second phone because her phone got spoilt.. The next day, she traveled back to school. Today we were speaking on phone, so I asked her why she's not responding to my texts and she asked me why she has to reply, and she could just say "thank you".
I was shocked, so I asked her why she would tell me thank you, like do I look like her friend or something?
Now, I want to know if she's actually just playing me..,or I'm rushing things to fast? Am I a simp or I'm just impatient.?

U are dating urself. U have been simping around her all these while.

Op no apologies, the balls in your sack aint useful and needs to be cracked

O.P you were never a red piller. You've always been a simp and will remain a simp.
There is nothing bad being a simp. It's just that being a red piller is cooler.

walkingshadow911:
When you love, you become vulnerable. When u are vulnerable, you automatically become a simp.
Women don't love who love them.
They will call it weakness, mumuism,doormat,atm etc

What do you suggest I do... I actually gave her the phone because it has been at home for months and its just a very small phone which I could just dash out..Itel p36. SO its not like I gave her because my sense no dy, I gave her cz its what I can dash out to anyone in need. And I've never dash her Monet before and. Neither did she ask..the day she asked I told her later...not that I didn't have ur I'm just playing along.

dboY1123:


I was the one that didn't invite her to my place, and that's because I'm yet to get an apartment which I will soon get next month or so...by then, I know She'll definitely come to my place

You just talked like a simp. Excuses for your failures.
You have to first accept that you are a simp and is tired of being a simp, that is the first step to redemption.

Redpiller's don't give a damn if they have an apartment or not they just do their thing.

You just reminded me of my ex, she left me for a dubai baesd guy, Look ehn don't stress your self or try going through pain to please a girl oh, give what is within your finance, Don't be foolish in the name of being in love, because anything can happen, and you can't blame her, because if you were in her shoes you might do the same. Life will always go on, either for better or for worse.

Kingpin1000:


You just talked like a simp. Excuses for your failures.
You have to first accept that you are a simp and is tired of being a simp, that is the first step to redemption.

Redpiller's don't give a damn if they have an apartment or not they just do their thing.

Lol, this month I don smash more than 2 babes despite not having an apartment and very busy.. I'm wicked o., I just decided to play it cool with this babe unto say I no wan rush things and I want make she be my babe.
If it were to be that my intention it would have been so, I'm just wondering why I treated her differently.. I have two girls I never asked out and we are just banging and that just withing two months.. I'm just going crazy for this particular babe and she has luck that I'm not just after her body. I like her tho

It sounds like she's not interested. Move on, pls.

dboY1123:



Lol, this month I don smash more than 2 babes despite not having an apartment and very busy.. I'm wicked o., I just decided to play it cool with this babe unto say I no wan rush things and I want make she be my babe.
If it were to be that my intention it would have been so, I'm just wondering why I treated her differently.. I have two girls I never asked out and we are just banging and that just withing two months.. I'm just going crazy for this particular babe and she has luck that I'm not just after her body. I like her tho

I hope you can also dash a guy, even your brother a phone.

2special:
I hope you can also dash a guy, even your brother a phone.

Yes sir

2special:
I hope you can also dash a guy, even your brother a phone.

We just met the second time.. And besides I don't need her love tho.. I know that if I can play it smart, it would work.
Just by ignoring her sometimes and focusing more on myself and having more fun..

The phone is not the main point that makes me think I'm becoming a simp o, itel p36 is a phone I can dash out and not even new phone, I didn't buy phone for her and never fave her shishi out of say I love her..even those I didn't date and give money I sha didn't die.
Everything is what I could afford even if she decides not to accept relationship with me..

Ma gee
It is well...


Na mumu dey take woman serious....

dboY1123:


Yes sir

Good to hear that

dboY1123:



Lol, this month I don smash more than 2 babes despite not having an apartment and very busy.. I'm wicked o., I just decided to play it cool with this babe unto say I no wan rush things and I want make she be my babe.
If it were to be that my intention it would have been so, I'm just wondering why I treated her differently.. I have two girls I never asked out and we are just banging and that just withing two months.. I'm just going crazy for this particular babe and she has luck that I'm not just after her body. I like her tho

you either like them or bang them.
choose one cuz you cant have both

Love, I am done with that thing called love. If I find you attractive, I will let you know so that we can hang out if you are interested. No drama, no commitment. After wetin Cynthia do me and wetin I hear about her today, rest in peace to any stupid feelings I have for the other gender.