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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by jericco1(m): 4:14pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Nwachi22: You didn't play your cards why you're in this situation.. If not, you wouldn't come here to yammer 1 Like |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by RightToReject(m): 4:23pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Nwachi22: Irresponsible - wannabe-woke - people cut across both genders, so don't make it a male issue. In fact, don't blame men who insist on having the non-virgin women in their lives proving the potency of their fertility by getting pregnant before formalizing their relationship - however unpalatable it seems - citing the kind of life most women live. One is in my house as a guest presently; her fiance, who happens to be the godson of one of my trusted associates, pleaded that I host her in my house and allow her to stay in my guest room because she told them that she's here on an official assignment on behalf of the Nigeria branch of her employer. Her fiance even made me understand beforehand that she's a scrupulous woman, which fortunately or unfortunately she appears to be like in her persona and demeanor, but the reality from what I have observed and seen as her character is that of a typical high-end corporate LovePeddler who is here not just only running high-end hookups, but also fighting a man she's unconsciously told me made her abort severally for him when she was younger. All this is happening without the knowledge of her fiance, who's back home believing that he has the best kind of woman as a fiancee, citing how he boasted to me about her scrupulousness. 18 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 4:34pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
RightToReject: Inukwa! So you think that once a woman is a virgin, it automatically makes her fertile. Lol. 7 Likes 1 Share
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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Kobojunkie: 4:36pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Nwachi22:You dodged a bullet! ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by RightToReject(m): 4:48pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Nwachi22: Stop trying to be too clever by half. A responsible man who got married to a true scrupulous woman, virgin or not, who turned out to be infertile won't find it difficult bearing with her, but the same can't be said of a hypocritically disingenuous unscrupulous woman who wears the garb of scrupulousness and whose infertility is as a result of her wayward lifestyle. 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 5:14pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
RightToReject: Lol. So how do you know a true scrupulous woman. I bet you didn’t comprehend my message before dropping this. I think I understand your personality. No need wasting my time arguing with you. 8 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Angelacruz: 5:24pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Nawoooo...maybe d wife can't give birth Nwachi22: 2 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Angelacruz: 5:26pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Pele bro...adoption is still good,IVF nko Collysmith: |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by MufasaLion: 6:20pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by numericalguy(m): 6:29pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Nwachi22: He doesn't want to marry a woman who cannot bear him children. The reason why some guys take that route is because some ladies have lived a rough and carefree life and later became church girls, but the womb may have been damaged already. I personally don't subscribe to pregnancy before marriage because of my religious beliefs. 6 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by numericalguy(m): 6:38pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
lilvicky68: She is seriously regretting it. 9 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by numericalguy(m): 6:40pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Nwachi22: How is a the other lady's life destroyed? You are seriously regretting your decision which is why you had to open a thread of lamentations over someone who has obviously moved and doesn't even remember you again. 24 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Truvelisback(m): 6:47pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Nwachi22:That's not the issue. The issue is that, did he marry the lady? If yes, then, the lady didn't messed up her life. Infact, she is even lucky. Note: some men are scared of delay in child bearing or barreness. My uncle once fell for this trap. The wife he married is yet to bear him a child. Although, the wife manoever him with fake pregancy, so that my uncle would marry her. It was after their marriage that my uncle discovered that she had dated/married several men, because she couldn't bear them children, they broke up with her. Nai my simp uncle go marry so. Now, she is yet to bear him a child. 7 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Truvelisback(m): 6:53pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
jericco1:She f*ck up, she no know. She go slack, another girl come take her space. 5 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 7:10pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Truvelisback: He didn’t marry the lady. The guy is married. 2 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 7:12pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Truvelisback:I go slack for married man. Lol. 2 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 7:13pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
numericalguy:Mr. Lamenter. Lol. 1 Like |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 7:18pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
jericco1: I would have been in a situation if I had given in. The guy is married afterall. I created this thread to share my experience so that people will learn from it. |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Truvelisback(m): 7:35pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Nwachi22:was he married b4 u met him? |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 7:38pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Truvelisback:Yes he was but never mentioned it to me. |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Truvelisback(m): 7:39pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Nwachi22:U should have said so in ur post. I hope u aren't trying to use that to cover up? 13 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 7:40pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Truvelisback:Cover up for wetin. Lol. |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Truvelisback(m): 7:40pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Nwachi22:How did u find out? |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 7:42pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Truvelisback: Did my findings when he started asking me out. |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Truvelisback(m): 7:44pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Nwachi22:From people or from him? |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 7:45pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Truvelisback: From his family. |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by 1Sharon(f): 7:51pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1: There is a better way to deter if she's fertile before marriage. They can both go for genetic counselling together and have themselves tested. If she gets pregnant there's no incentive to get married anymore. 6 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by 1Sharon(f): 7:52pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Olachase: There's a better way to determine if a woman is fertile for Christ sake. You can both go for medical check ups together. 5 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Truvelisback(m): 7:55pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Nwachi22:U are very smart then. Has his wife bear him any child? 1 Like |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by 1Sharon(f): 7:55pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Angelacruz: And he may be the cause ya know? |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 7:57pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
1Sharon: Don’t know. Not my business. |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 7:58pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Truvelisback: Don’t know. Not interested. 1 Like |
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