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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:00pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
1Sharon: sadly, many women A) dont know the above and/or B) are too scared to tell the man to go for test because that may upset/anger the dude. its a psychological trick that is very easy to fall into... not only does the man wants to have sex with the lady, but he also wants to have unprotected sex with her. sadly, there is only one valid reply to the above story:" i am sorry that this is what you desire from me before marriage, because you clearly wasted your time and obviously fooled yourself, as i aint gonna have sex with you before marriage....that was my position yesterday, thats my position today, and this will be my position til the day of the wedding." 4 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Truvelisback(m): 8:04pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Nwachi22:Alright. |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by numericalguy(m): 8:24pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Nwachi22: Stop your lamentations and move on as the guy you are lamenting and gnashing teeth over has since moved on. 3 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 8:36pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
numericalguy: I hear you, Mr. Lamenter. |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Ugmama(m): 9:56pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Nwachi22: You're lucky. Anybody telling you such rubbish is evil and has no future for you. 3 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by okoroemeka(m): 10:06pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
lilvicky68:I smell pain and jealousy also |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 11:50pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
okoroemeka:Really? Lol. |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Oksman(m): 3:04am On Oct 27, 2021 |
Nwachi22: You didn't dodge any bullet. Forget that rap that made you feel okay as if you are smart. I understand you very well, and the reason why you had to resort to this forum to pour out your heart. The issue here is are you a virgin? Of course not. Have you slept with him? Of course yes. Have you taken in before? Sure yes. Have you done an abortion before? Yes. Age is not on your side that was why he demanded that you get pregnant first. you know you are in your 30s which means it may not be easy for you take in immediately hence your decision to keep him in suspense. Whatever the case you are pained because you feel used and still lost him and not that he has a wife in Dubai which you claimed was your after- discovery. My advice to you is to trust in God so that He will give you a husband, who may not fit into your choice, but would give you a peaceful married life. Goodluck 9 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Oksman(m): 3:20am On Oct 27, 2021 |
1Sharon: When the op has already said he impregnated another lady. Sometimes I wonder how people reason. 2 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nobody: 4:06am On Oct 27, 2021 |
Thank God for Dr. Myles Munroe. If you've ever watched any of his videos, you'd know that any man that gives you such a condition (or any condition) doesn't love you. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 4:24am On Oct 27, 2021 |
Oksman:Biko, who is this one? Lol. 1 Like |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 4:25am On Oct 27, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky: Exactly. That was what I told him the first time he approached me. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Elporo(m): 4:39am On Oct 27, 2021 |
Nwachi22: If this happens again. Tell the man you are ready to take a fertility test. Tell him you are ready to carry all his babies as every good wife looks forward to this. Most men would move forward. This is logical. 5 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by advanceDNA: 9:12am On Oct 27, 2021 |
Oksman: Nigga u cruel Lol 3 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by advanceDNA: 9:19am On Oct 27, 2021 |
Elporo: There are plenty cases of people medically certified fertile and not able to get pregnant.. It’s one thing to test/check for bio-markers of fertility it’s another thing for the mechanism of conception to fully happen.... Some ladies that have done multiple abortions are even fertile and get pregnant before some virgins..no one know exactly why Science cannot explain it all....that’s why there’s always a part of research with the statement “ the reason for this is not fully understood” 7 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Oksman(m): 9:40am On Oct 27, 2021 |
Nwachi22: You need not ask who is "This" because you already know before slashing the message, and accepting my goodluck wishes. I followed this thread from the beginning and realised that this was the only post you couldn't swallow. They say that "truth is bitter, but the bitter truth; sets you free" 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Oksman(m): 9:47am On Oct 27, 2021 |
advanceDNA: I am being objective and not cruel, brother. ![]() I see a lot of her type in my circuit and I know who she is, that all. Have a blissful day. 2 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 10:25am On Oct 27, 2021 |
Oksman: Look at this one. You see what happened to that lady, will befall your sisters and daughters. I rest my finger. |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 10:26am On Oct 27, 2021 |
Oksman: Look at this one. The kind of things we see on Nairaland. You see what happened to that lady, will befall your sisters and daughters. I rest my finger. 1 Like |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 10:40am On Oct 27, 2021 |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Oksman(m): 11:28am On Oct 27, 2021 |
Nwachi22: Nothing will befall anybody. You are so pained that you are not married yet, and someone else acted irresponsibly faster than yourself. Look if anyone has a share in your wish/curse, it's you and your evil friend who connected you to a "married" man to hook you up. It shows the low regards and the actual worth as a person she has for you because she alone knows you and your kind of lifestyle. "Birds of the same feathers flock together" so stop bleating like a goat in a pen! Your true self is not hidden to those who have discernment even if this forum is faceless. When you said a "friend" linked you up to this man, I hope you know the true def of the above quoted word when next you make an expose of yourself in a public forum. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by advanceDNA: 11:31am On Oct 27, 2021 |
Nwachi22: What is anuofia?? Sounds like a terrible insult.. |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 11:35am On Oct 27, 2021 |
Thrash. Lol. Are you sure you’re not even the man in question. I wonder why you’re so pained by my post. Chai! I pity you, please take it easy. I fully understand the root cause of your problems; Hunger and Frustration. Jobless anuofia. 2 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by jaybee345(m): 1:21pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Nwachi22: hi.. saw your email |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by adecz: 1:25pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Any man that tells you to take in first, you should also ask him to deposit 2m in your account as security..☺️☺️☺️ 4 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nobody: 1:26pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Nwachi22: Why do I see this comment as damage control? Anyways, I can't advise a close sis to accept such offer. 1 Like
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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by ignis: 1:27pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Nwachi22: You just goofed and messed up the opportunity you have to get married. You should be hiding your face in regret now. 3 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by mbjsuki(m): 1:27pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
The guy is just going about doing "random sampling". You are just lucky, thank your God. 2 Likes
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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by jditimiya(m): 1:28pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
One tribe guys I know always do that, and later run to the village to marry one small yellow girl. 4 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Bamzyriches451: 1:28pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Nothing bad with that, I'll definitely do same. 1 Like |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Poanan: 1:29pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Nwachi22: He kept that part from you? What about the friend that introduced u to him? 8 Likes |
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