Collysmith:
If i insisted for her to be pregnant before marriage I wouldn't be suffering right now. I don't even know what to do whether to marry another wife because adoption is not in my plan.

Truvelisback:
That's not the issue. The issue is that, did he marry the lady? If yes, then, the lady didn't messed up her life. Infact, she is even lucky. Note: some men are scared of delay in child bearing or barreness. My uncle once fell for this trap. The wife he married is yet to bear him a child. Although, the wife manoever him with fake pregancy, so that my uncle would marry her. It was after their marriage that my uncle discovered that she had dated/married several men, because she couldn't bear them children, they broke up with her. Nai my simp uncle go marry so. Now, she is yet to bear him a child.

RightToReject:


Irresponsible - wannabe-woke - people cut across both genders, so don't make it a male issue. In fact, don't blame men who insist on having the non-virgin women in their lives proving the potency of their fertility by getting pregnant before formalizing their relationship - however unpalatable it seems - citing the kind of life most women live.

One is in my house as a guest presently; her fiance, who happens to be the godson of one of my trusted associates, pleaded that I host her in my house and allow her to stay in my guest room because she told them that she's here on an official assignment on behalf of the Nigeria branch of her employer. Her fiance even made me understand beforehand that she's a scrupulous woman, which fortunately or unfortunately she appears to be like in her persona and demeanor, but the reality from what I have observed and seen as her character is that of a typical high-end corporate LovePeddler who is here not just only running high-end hookups, but also fighting a man she's unconsciously told me made her abort severally for him when she was younger. All this is happening without the knowledge of her fiance, who's back home believing that he has the best kind of woman as a fiancee, citing how he boasted to me about her scrupulousness.

Collysmith:
If i insisted for her to be pregnant before marriage I wouldn't be suffering right now. I don't even know what to do whether to marry another wife because adoption is not in my plan.

Nwachi22:


From his family.

Nwachi22:
Why do guys always insist that a lady gets pregnant before marriage.

Two months ago, I met a guy through a friend of mine who was looking for a wife. The guy insisted that I must take in before he goes to see my parents.

The guys is doing very well in business (importation). I wasn’t comfortable with that idea so I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal and revert to him, despite the pressure from my family to settle down.

Just found out last week that a lady is two months pregnant for him. You see how I would have messed up my life and career if I had hopped into bed with him two months ago.

1Sharon:


And he may be the cause ya know?

Nwachi22:


Wrong. I appreciate men that gives me peace of mind not rich men.

advanceDNA:


There are plenty cases of people medically certified fertile and not able to get pregnant..

It’s one thing to test/check for bio-markers of fertility it’s another thing for the mechanism of conception to fully happen....
Some ladies that have done multiple abortions are even fertile and get pregnant before some virgins..no one know exactly why

Science cannot explain it all....that’s why there’s always a part of research with the statement

“ the reason for this is not fully understood”

Nwachi22:


My brother it’s easier to find true love when you don’t have money.

Nwachi22:

Don’t know. Not my business.

Nwachi22:


Lol. Make im come chop from my own.

Nwachi22:
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Oksman:


Nothing will befall anybody. You are so pained that you are not married yet, and someone else acted irresponsibly faster than yourself. Look if anyone has a share in your wish/curse, it's you and your evil friend who connected you to a "married" man to hook you up. It shows the low regards and the actual worth as a person she has for you because she alone knows you and your kind of lifestyle. "Birds of the same feathers flock together" so stop bleating like a goat in a pen! Your true self is not hidden to those who have discernment even if this forum is faceless. When you said a "friend" linked you up to this man, I hope you know the true def of the above quoted word when next you make an expose of yourself in a public forum.

adecz:


Any man that tells you to take
in first, you should also ask him to
deposit 2m in your account as security..☺️☺️☺️

yetunsbay:
Not nowadays,I disagree

Youngpo413:
You are regretting,it' obvious..

Evercurious:



And that's where God steps in cos with Him ,All things are possible

Maobichek:


I like your boldness dear, the truth is that she won't send any mail to you. From the thread, she appreciates rich men.

Evercurious:


But why taking this so personal? Haabaaa!!!

Nwachi22:


There are but very rare.

Loverboy3333:


Some girls are even looking for such opportunities, Regina Daniels married Ned with many wives and kids.
I bet if this man was to be a billionaire na speed you for open legs to deposit sperm put.

lilvicky68:
If you had hoped in two months ago you would have been the pregnant one now..

Are you sure you're not regretting your decision?

advanceDNA:


God can step into any case....
.the point is some guys want to be sure the lady they want to marry can get pregnant. it doesn't matter whether she's a virgin or a retired prostitute.

yetunsbay:
Ma'am, I won't mind linking up as you must be one

advanceDNA:

It's two months ago like you said..someone already said yes when u said u will go an think about it .....

A guy asking for a baby first obviously wants a baby more...not love.... Everyone has their aim in a relationship..... He's only taking a calculated risk....with several abortions out there from the shédì bálábálá girls ...the guy doesn't want to risk marrying someone that wont bear children....

But it's good you said no....so why are u still lamenting??

FashionCookie:

They would have been pregnant at the same time.
Meaning while he was asking her out, he was doing so with another lady. The guy way no pure.

lilvicky68:

Na first to carry Belle go win am na..

Evercurious:



Every man his choice. Mee I no do cos for me it might lead to complications and I wldnt want such in my life.make him go check next door . Afterall some other ladies are ready to accept such as long as they can handle and cope with it.That's their own choice...