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The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Nobody: 2:15pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
There was a guy she fondly called P.A, being her best male friend in the hostel. They've been staying together in the hostel before I met her & the guy gave me a warm welcome when she introduced me to him as her boyfriend. The truth is that the guy never seemed insecure anytime I went to check on her at her hostel. My girl shared a room with her two friends who are females. P.A's room was the next to theirs. Truly, my girl & this guy were the best friends in the hostel; she was closer to him than any other. My girl seemed to be the most decent I've ever seen. During some talk about weed smoking, she mentioned that P.A had fed her & her friends twice with weed (marijuana). The first time, they unknowingly ate the beans he made (which was prepared with weed) in his room & they all slept off. They ate another food in his room a second time & they began to act abnormally. Well, he made them realized that there's always a weed in most foods he prepared in his room. I intensely warned my girl to be careful around P.A & ensure she doesn't eat anything he prepares in their absence again. "We have stopped taking even water in his room", she told me. It's worthy of note that P.A was a chain smoker. On a fateful day, I called my girlfriend in the morning to know when she would be leaving for class & she said she's on campus already waiting in the class for their lecturer...... 2 Likes |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Nobody: 2:16pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
I told her I would be having a class in the evening but I would get to school at 12pm so we can see before she leaves for hostel. About an hour after the phone call, I decided to go to the market & buy some food stuff. My girl's hostel was located along the main market. On getting to their hostel area, I decided to check if any of her friends would be home, with the thought that any of them might see me walking past their hostel without saying 'hi'. On getting there, I noticed the hostel was silent. "Everyone must have gone to school", I guessed. I moved close to my girl's room, it was locked. But I heard some voices from P.A's room. There must have been two or more people inside. I was about leaving when I heard a girl asked, "who is there?". Then someone asked the other to go & check. As I turned, lo & behold, it was my girl standing at P.A's door. "Chioma (not her real name), are you back from school?", I asked surprisingly. She rubbed her face like someone who just woke up from sleep & said she felt some headache in class & returned home to have some rest. I asked why she couldn't come to my hostel since I was home, besides, my hostel was closer to school & she said she just didn't want to disturb me. "Why didn't you sleep in your room?", I asked. She said she met P.A's door opened, so she decided to use his room. I asked if P.A was in & she said he had left for school very early & no one was in with her......... 2 Likes |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Nobody: 2:16pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
I smiled & asked her to go back to her sleep that I was on my way to the market & just branched to check if any of her roommates would be at hostel. In my mind, I knew she lied that she was the only one in her room & also faked the sleepy face. If truly she had been in school on that day & felt some headache, knowing well that I was home, she would come to my place. The scenario or event left me with no other conclusion than my girl & P.A were friends with benefits. And if my assumption on that day was false, I'm really sorry because that was the beginning of the end of our relationship. The trust I had in her reduced drastically to about 50% which eventually led to our ON & OFF days. I noticed she also became insecure thinking I was cheating, which I never did. Some people would like to ask me why I didn't go in (even if I would need to force my way in) to confirm if someone was in or not, the truth is that I decided to let it slide to save our faces. If I did & met him inside, it would have been more worrisome & too heavy for my heart. P.A would likely become my archenemy & I don't think creating enemies or fuss over such a girl is worth it. I left in peace. Of course, my girl knew I am cool but not stupid. Kindly pardon any grammatical errors & point out my wrongs. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by XXXXTENTACION: 2:25pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Dem don use dis one head wash plate finish.... Your simping days are over the redpill might be having a new member today..... 9 Likes |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Nobody: 2:54pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
XXXXTENTACION: No loud am, abeg. Redpillers should keep off. 2 Likes
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Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Gudbadguy: 2:59pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Eya sorry mehn.redpillers come carry ur new convert 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Youngpo413: 3:01pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Ladies sha...your lover no suppose be your best friend too? 4 Likes |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Cerebellum: 3:01pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
OP you be mumu It's obvious, those fuls are already phucking behind your back(the guy is a real nigga ) Now I want you to do these Its so good you didn't tell her anything or fight her( to her, you know nothing) Start acting normal, don't act angry or eccentric when you guys are together. Now, use her likeeeeeeeeeee, fvck her likeeeeeeeeee When you're tired and shes at the peak of you, dump herrrrrrrrrrr and tell her what she did. 4 Likes |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Nobody: 3:24pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Youngpo413: Lessons learnt in a hard way. I don't think I can take bestie stuff from any lady again. 1 Like |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Nobody: 3:41pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Cerebellum: What a wicked girl! I got fooled by her decent look & attitude. Its so good you didn't tell her anything or fight her( to her, you know nothing) Fighting a lady or any guy she's cheating with would be the last thing I would do in my life. Start acting normal, don't act angry or eccentric when you guys are together. Truthfully, I activated this mode after the event. I was being nice with her body initially with the hope to keep her in shape till marriage. When you're tired and shes at the peak of you, dump herrrrrrrrrrr and tell her what she did. She moved on herself knowing well that she had lost the first guy he met. You know the mood swings that come to play when one has flashbacks about ugly events. She waited for me to leave for service before asking me to move on. Well, it never came as a surprise. I was not just bold enough to bring up the breakup convo. My being in school environs must have been a kinda thorn in her flesh, or so I thought. 1 Like |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by XXXXTENTACION: 3:41pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
SimplyFacts:Wahala be like zombie wey miss highway... 1 Like |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Nobody: 3:46pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
XXXXTENTACION: This one na Umuaka highway (in Phyno's voice). 3 Likes |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by XXXXTENTACION: 4:01pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
SimplyFacts:Oracle wey no gree do work dem go turn am to firewood.... 2 Likes |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Nobody: 4:09pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Gudbadguy: I don't want any red pills, biko. One would not know even when true love comes around. 1 Like |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by FvckAllMods: 4:39pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Lol love never comes around, you create it SimplyFacts: 2 Likes |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Nobody: 4:46pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
FvckAllMods: 3 Likes
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Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by FvckAllMods: 4:55pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Lol SimplyFacts: 1 Like |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Edyice: 5:06pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
She belongs to all of us. You did the right thing 3 Likes |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by YoungBlackRico(m): 5:51pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Nothing like serious relationship among students. Na jonzing 4 Likes |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Cerebellum: 6:14pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
SimplyFacts:Now you're a real nigga 1 Like |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Nobody: 6:31pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Edyice: Thanks to NL, I was able to understand early that dying over a gf/bf is not worth it at all. 1 Like |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Nobody: 6:34pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
YoungBlackRico: You can say that again. In fact, dating an undergraduate is a NO...NO for me now. 1 Like
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Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Eyinju112(f): 6:36pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
I use to ask myself questions like these Why do people cheat when they can leave? If she feels P.A is better or sweater than you, why didn’t she go meet the damn P.A instead of having you look stupid before the P.A For the PA mind now he’s the real champion and you’re the mumu... Wait you don’t smoke Oh maybe PA bleeps her well after smoking and she likes it It’s a good thing you had the courage to cut her off 6 Likes |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Lilsameey: 6:51pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
XXXXTENTACION:,..Wtf bruh ,..Why? You for collect op number, tell am this thing for dm make nobody know. 2 Likes |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Lilsameey: 6:53pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
SimplyFacts:Op, e better as you don know, PA is banging your babe steady steady, he dey fist am sef, run gee. 4 Likes |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Nobody: 7:04pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
If you're truly good to her during those times you guys were together . she will later regret it wherever your thought cross her mind. I saw a guys comment saying you should have entered to comfirm if P.A was around . That ain't necessary cause the fact that she even lied to you that she's in class made her totally guilty and unclean. No fur you go meet another person. just that she's has turned you into a Beowulf i doubt it if you'll ever take any girl serious again... 4 Likes |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by wunmi590(m): 7:17pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
SimplyFacts: 2 Likes
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Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Nobody: 7:56pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Lilsameey: Corrected 1 Like |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Nobody: 8:03pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Eyinju112: It's indeed a sixty-four-thousand-dollar question. 1 Like |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Nobody: 8:12pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Differentiate: It's like my dating energy is exhausted. It's not easy to fall in love since we parted. Now I look forward to a 6-month courtship (at most) before marriage. It's not how far but how well. Our r/ship lasted for 3 years with some ON&OFF days over insecurity & distrust. 1 Like |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Nobody: 8:23pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
My Bestie, my Bestie, pants dey shift. I hate unfaithful partners. Kuku declare that you are no more interested & go have enough fun with your Bestie, when you're not tied to a relationship. 1 Like |
Re: The Day I nearly caught her red handed. by Nobody: 8:39pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Adegbemiro11: In most cases, each Bestie has his/her love partner, too. They just can't put a stop to the selfish sexual feelings they have for one another. 1 Like |
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