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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by brownemmanuel43(m): 12:59pm On Oct 28, 2021

KimberlyWest:

The genesis of your own problem is in these statements. Women understand women. "Don't take advice from women. Don't take advice from women." This is how most of you end up unhappy, forming alpha male and wasting our data with your bitter tales.

Use iron fist to rule your wife. Hapum aka.

Please, don't quote me again.

I just pity the idiotic simp that will put u in his house.

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Nobody: 1:00pm On Oct 28, 2021

brownemmanuel43:

I just pity any simp that will put u in his house

Good for you. I have no business with sad redpillers. We'll simp for each other. Mumu for love. Life is not that serious for me. maximum of 100 years and you'll become manure.

Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by collinometricx: 1:00pm On Oct 28, 2021

Her mother is her responsibility not yours...

Make she find work

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by ultraviolet27(f): 1:01pm On Oct 28, 2021

All this Weakling of a Men Parents now breed now is very baffling!! even I as a Woman no body can tell me how to spend my money or Spend on my Parents not even my Hubby .
I think it is this Concept of Monogamy foisted on Africans by the Colonial Masters making men weak. in the Olden days when Our Ancestors married many Wives who born Monkey Banana? My Grandpa had 3 Wives yet none of them dared Challenge Him on His State of Finances not as if He didn't provide for His home in His Capacity though.

That's how One Man too Complained on a thread weeks ago that His Wife Burns all His Clothes whenever He Suggested that His Wife siblings leave His House as they were draining His Resources and this was even a Wife who had no source of income o not as if She Contributes to the House Upkeep even I as a Lady no One will burn my Cloth and See if d Person won't be admitted into ICU let alone a Man.
See as a Man you should love ur Wife not to d extent of u making Her See u finish!! d Bible even said D Woman should be Submissive and respectful not d other way round Wisdom is Profitable to direction I rest my Case!!!

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Nobody: 1:01pm On Oct 28, 2021

brownemmanuel43:

I just pity the idiotic simp that will put u in his house.

How old are you? I'm trying to use your sentences and level of comprehension and reasoning to determine your age, but it's not working. The childishness in your comment is baffling.

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Aaaaarghmed(m): 1:02pm On Oct 28, 2021

Must you tell your wife when you send money to your mum or family?you are not matured

Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Oyiboman69: 1:07pm On Oct 28, 2021

officialmario:

She will still know even if I don't tell her

is she a witch?...or you are just trying to be mumu....

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by dapadawee: 1:16pm On Oct 28, 2021

SavageResponse:

He does not need his wife's approval before he send money to his family.

He is the one who is working for the money not his wife!

That's your advice
Mine is different
If he like let tow your path.

Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by brownemmanuel43(m): 1:16pm On Oct 28, 2021

Edusouls:
Igbo women Na their way

Common sense is not always common. Both wife and husband are from ekiti

Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by dotedote: 1:18pm On Oct 28, 2021

So you bragged about being married in the midst of your friends abi ?
Na mumu you be

officialmario:

Something about her is that, if I buy a boxer I have to buy her a pant too, just to make it perfect, if I don't buy her own, it's going to be war.

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Evercurious(f): 1:18pm On Oct 28, 2021

officialmario:

There is no way they will not come with family issues, even when you have paid the bride price, it is still part of responsibility.

Oga you had better know your boundaries before you become a patient of depression..Cant you see that this is now turning to an unnecessary burden?

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by hanymasahun: 1:19pm On Oct 28, 2021

Your brain need restore factory.

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by blueheart(m): 1:21pm On Oct 28, 2021

officialmario:

Something about her is that, if I buy a boxer I have to buy her a pant too, just to make it perfect, if I don't buy her own, it's going to be war.

Dude you are beginning to sound like a dunce. Is this how your mum treats your dad? Wake up bro

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Rhozabeth(m): 1:25pm On Oct 28, 2021

I say this with every sense of responsibility: ur wife is a BAD woman, judge me all u can, she just showed trace of what is yet to come. I wish u will be able to reach me and confirm to me the day she will openly disrespect ur mother especially if i don't nip this rubbish in d bud!

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by dapadawee: 1:30pm On Oct 28, 2021

SavageResponse:

He does not need his wife's approval before he send money to his family.

He is the one who is working for the money not his wife!

My advice to him is that the foolishness of God is wiser than the wisdom of men. Marriage is God creation and you need people with the mind God to advice you. Not this serial fornicators and adulterers whoremongers advice. Let me tell you a secret about marriage many don't know. Marriage is the coming together of a man and a woman to fulfill destiny. 2. Your wife is not different from you both shall become one, so whatever your wife is saying it is you that's saying it. 3. You're doing the right thing but your wife is not seeing it that way doesn't give you the right to damn her. You need to come down to her level. 4. You need to learn that a woman is weaker than you and you need to dwell with them with understanding.

Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by brownemmanuel43(m): 1:33pm On Oct 28, 2021

KimberlyWest:

Good for you. I have no business with sad redpillers. We'll simp for each other. Mumu for love. Life is not that serious for me. maximum of 100 years and you'll become manure.

Stop embarrassing yourself here.
I'm not a sad fellow, I'm always a happy and cheerful soul. My dear I don't hold anything against women but women we have this day are something else, that's just the truth

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Collins4u1(m): 1:37pm On Oct 28, 2021

U people are not alright in that marriage....and you sef you allowed a room for bargaining wether you'd send money to your mom or not.

Except it's not your money, then I'll understand.

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by brownemmanuel43(m): 1:38pm On Oct 28, 2021

whytediamond:

I get really pissed when I come on nairaland and read so stories put out here for people to comment on. I ask myself, na so some men mumu reach? Imagine the whole irritating essay.

My guy, what we have this day are just stupid boys in men skin, that's all
I keep asking myself who to blame, is it that some fathers did not train their male children in African way or fathers did try their best and male children deviated from the training. Bcs things I hv seen in many homes are something else,

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by goodman5(m): 1:42pm On Oct 28, 2021

That ur wife is heartless and evil, try dey avoid her,she fit poison u just like that,

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Bankyshinani(m): 1:42pm On Oct 28, 2021

garriAndsugar:
Don't hide anything important.. but don't disclose everything sha..

So if you buy boxers and singlet you will now go and tell her too??

She's just naturally greedy.. you need to understand your wife and follow her the way she is to avoid getting issues with her..

Which issue? Who issue help? She is just too greedy,wicked and heartless.... She is always happy when the husband send money to her own parents but she is always bitter whenever the husband send money to his money... She has forgotten that she is a parent too and what if her son's wife do same to her son when the time comes, how would she feel?..... I will just advice the man to take the bull by the horn and let her understand that he is not happy with her attitude and he needs to stay on his ground that nothing is this life will make him stop taking care of his mother..... He should stop sending money to her parents mother gan.....which sort of manipulative wife is that?.....Na better red flag be that

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Bowwow11(m): 1:44pm On Oct 28, 2021

yomi007k:

Make I no just talk wetin dey my mind...

Shey na my mama wey spend over 10000USD on me years ago to help me become successful plus fasting, prayers, ideas na him woman go come go dey beef?

If my mother wasnt responsible, I might not have made it.

I concur with u my partner

Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by brownemmanuel43(m): 1:44pm On Oct 28, 2021

tyup:

80% of women are terrible when it comes to the welfare of the Husband's family and it's really so bad

I think 95% of women are damn terrible in the welfare of the husband's family.
I'm beginning to understand that good marriages ended earlier 2000s

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Mrnakeina(m): 1:44pm On Oct 28, 2021

KimberlyWest:

He brought his wife here for you kids to dissect and examine does not warrant this name calling.

Grandma there's a difference between description and name calling

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Bowwow11(m): 1:46pm On Oct 28, 2021

yomi007k:

Make I no just talk wetin dey my mind...

Shey na my mama wey spend over 10000USD on me years ago to help me become successful plus fasting, prayers, ideas na him woman go come go dey beef?

If my mother wasnt responsible, I might not have made it.

I concur with u my partner

Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Ajilenu: 1:50pm On Oct 28, 2021

officialmario:
Dear Nairalanders

There is this issue that is bothering my mind, I have promise to be faithful to my wife and always let her know whatever comes in for me.
But the problem is that I always tell her how money is spent, and whenever I present list for whatever we buy and all other expenses, but each time she sees anything like I sent 10k to my mother, she always pick up fight with me, and I have not been biased, I send money to her mother too.

I don't know why she is acting like this, and It doesn't make me a happy man at home.
Please I need your advice on what I can do, I don't want to hide anything from my wife.

have you asked her why she is always made when you send money to your mom despite that you send to her mom too?

Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Gudbadguy: 1:54pm On Oct 28, 2021

Women can be wicked no wonder they don't like themselves

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by godofuck231: 1:54pm On Oct 28, 2021

No vex o , oga I fit say you senior me for marriage but how much is the said wife contributing to the home (1)
(2) what bills does she handle monthly
(3) why is she aware of your monthly income when she dosent break bread with her lord ‘
She’s a poor child from a poor home who has little or no value for elders and problems they solve in time of crises , check properly she’s sending like 100k to her mum monthly whole you send 10k

Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Shegzy8(m): 2:02pm On Oct 28, 2021

MarketDispatch:

Next time. Send money only to her mum and write it in your list and show her. Exclude your own mum. Your wife's reaction if you don't send anything to your mum will tell you who your wife is.

2ndly does your wife also tell you everything how money is spent? Does she tell you about the one she sends to her mum and siblings same way you do?

The issue is......why must he even send money to her mum? The wife no dey work to send money to her own mama.

I send money to my mom and dad cause they had me first, raised me, sacrificed for me and laid the template for me.

Wetin her own mama do for me?

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by brownemmanuel43(m): 2:07pm On Oct 28, 2021

pocohantas:

What approach please? If she is a normal human being, she should be the one reminding him. There are things a woman shouldn’t meddle in.

First time of filling like hugging u pocopoco

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by pocohantas(f): 2:09pm On Oct 28, 2021

brownemmanuel43:

First time of filling like hugging u pocopoco

Hopefully it is your last time.

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Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by like1: 2:10pm On Oct 28, 2021

officialmario:
Dear Nairalanders

There is this issue that is bothering my mind, I have promise to be faithful to my wife and always let her know whatever comes in for me.
But the problem is that I always tell her how money is spent, and whenever I present list for whatever we buy and all other expenses, but each time she sees anything like I sent 10k to my mother, she always pick up fight with me, and I have not been biased, I send money to her mother too.

I don't know why she is acting like this, and It doesn't make me a happy man at home.
Please I need your advice on what I can do, I don't want to hide anything from my wife.

This is not a problem, majority of the ladies are that selfish, greedy and clingy. But then the solution is very simple, stop telling her and let her know what you do for your family, let her know only things she wants and likes to know. You can just once in a while say like you recharged your mum's phone with 1000 naira credit and that is it.

I guess you just got married and still trying to understand your wife.

Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by Nobody: 2:13pm On Oct 28, 2021

officialmario:
Dear Nairalanders

There is this issue that is bothering my mind, I have promise to be faithful to my wife and always let her know whatever comes in for me.
But the problem is that I always tell her how money is spent, and whenever I present list for whatever we buy and all other expenses, but each time she sees anything like I sent 10k to my mother, she always pick up fight with me, and I have not been biased, I send money to her mother too.

I don't know why she is acting like this, and It doesn't make me a happy man at home.
Please I need your advice on what I can do, I don't want to hide anything from my wife.

My own submission is that your wife wants to be the one dictating how money is spent but she has not seen the better way to do it.

It's a very good thing to be transparent but if it's really causing problems, stop letting her know everything. You are the Man (The Head).
God will uphold your marriage.

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