Dear EX , for 3months I cried , some days , I was hurt for hurting u back because u broke my heart and devalued me. I was depressed for the fact u abandoned me in my lowest moments, some nights I punched the walls and bruised my knuckles... and I missed u alot . I was miserable and lonely. You meant everything to me. I never wanted nobody else but u.

I was obsessed and helplessly inlove. I had to move out as soon as money came so I could be happy because we lived on the same street. It hurts alot because rejection hurts and no one wants to be rejected. it's hurts alot because it came from you. if it were just a friend or someone I never loved , I wouldn't feel bad or obsessive. It's because I trusted u and I placed u highly above others and loved u that's why I'm hurt.. now u drained me of my happiness and joy, u are happy and willing to look for another victim? someone with money , status , power, good looks , healthy and happy mind . U didn't want me cuz u already drained me of all these qualities. ofcourse why would u love and have sex with someone like me, without money and status to feed your ego , someone who lived in a poorly furnished student room in odums ... this was the only reason u abandoned me and always treated me poorly. may God forgive you. how do u sleep at night knowing u used me?

I was there for you when no one saw you. I loved you when no one cared. I was ur friend , ur shoulder to lean on and your support. When things became good for you and bad for me, you treated me poorly and even called ur caretaker one night after we just saw a movie together, to throw me out of ur house over food arguement at an ungodly hour with my possessions . I was scared for my life. still u came back to apologise and I embraced u cuz I can't stand seeing u suffer for my forgiveness .

You think life is all about comfort and devaluing people u feel are not up to your standard? You think life is all about money and the people who don't have it are not worth considering to be human enough to be treated with love and respect? You built ur life around FPA, while he's arranging his life, you'll slave for him and suffer your relationship. Then whenever he wants ur body, u go give to him cuz you work for him and he's the "God" u claim to have given ur life to , so you avoided and withheld being intimate with me .
I thought u were human and capable of love, sympathy and empathy, but I hope life treats u well , I wish you find love and happiness as long as the earth and other planets revolves around the sun...I wish you long life and prosperity and blessings. I pray others may never reject u and devalue u as u did to me.

You looked down on me but you're not God ... God lifted me. You rejected me but God accepted me. You hated me (I gave u a tangible reason) tho u hated me from the beginning when I never wronged u but God loved me. You've never loved or cared for anyone truly . if u've ever loved someone it's always because u have a selfish interest to protect. I remember how u insulted me indirectly in SND group because we weren't talking ( I was only observing u) u went about flirting with every guy that came ur way. If i did half of what u did to me, u will never forgive me , not like u are capable of forgiving. You looked down on me because I wasn't ur helper , u never saw me as a lover but u claimed to be my friend and lover but when we weren't talking u showed that u would never support me come rain..

my only bad side was reacting angrily and bitter.. it's because I took enough already and I couldn't any more. I shouldn't have cuz I really cared for u and I'm definitely gonna look for ur number to send u 180k for the damages. I never asked u to repay for my damaged heart and two broken laptops.
You've built ur life around FPA and destroyed ur relationship because u are obsessed with money and independence and the only people u value are "well to do folks".. and u never see far but the present.. once I was down and u got ur place furnished, u moved and and u started devising schemes for how u would dump me. u were never genuine and u've never been. You enjoyed my pain when ever I tried to communicate with you to resolve our differences. You silent me as a form of Manipulation. You threaten to live so I would keep shut about your actions..

may God forgive you for the emotional and psychologically abuse you rendered my mind. Another man will not know who u really are til they come close and just like I was deceived to think u were a good lady who is willing to commit, they will fall for it. I remember how much I tried to settle us, even when I never wronged u but relayed my displeasures to you .. I remembered even how u tried to Have lucky come see you and spend time with you even when we were still dating, he even told you he himself wouldn't allow that as a guy.. but u never cared about ur actions.. but u were looking for what u could gain from him by using him to furnish ur house even if he has to touch u..

You promised me before moving in " EFx , even if we have issues we will settle it and there's always gonna be arguement but we will resolve" .. not knowing u had ur own selfish interest to accomplish. You never pitied me while I struggled and I was in my most trying times in life. I never asked u for money or support, all I needed was for u to be loving. The times I spent with u at ur place I did so cuz I wanted to feel lifted around the person I loved most. I could have been with my friends but I wanted more to be with u . You had ur flaws and u weren't perfect , still I never treated u bad or made u feel worthless. I never joked about ur flaws.. but everyday of my life u mocked me and u devalued me. I wept as a man and I tried to get through to you to make u see what u were doing to me.


You enjoyed snubbin and ignoring me cuz u never valued me or anyone, u never cared for anyone but urself. It's fake loyalty you have for FPA, cuz I know when FPA crashes( soon) u will depart from him and act like you don't know him. Maybe you should also tell him I told you so. Since u always went behind my back to tell him things about bluedigit or about stuffs people post about him.

The only reason why you are with FPA is because u earn from him, he's ur god, because of his status and having students around him makes u feel he is worthy of you, while you treat people like me as gabbage when all I've ever done was to be good , loving and caring to you. Is it my fault that I was just an undergraduate trying to survive in my own little way. were u expecting me to be super suffecient, popular and rich at once? Now this is why you will never love someone genuinely for who they are but for what they can give to you.

You didn't hurt just me, but my mom, my friends and everyone around me, because when I was miserable , they felt my pain. Because of this hurt I developed a heart condition and you never cared. I was hurt Everytime because I felt love for u and I helplessly cared for you . Now I feel for sorry for myself for ever knowing you and for ever getting involved with you and FPA.

You don't see me now but someday you will... someday you will see me celebrated , someday you will miss and wish you treated me better. But I will never look your way. I also hope someday you achieve all your dreams and live happily. I pray you never have to go through this feeling of rejection. Thank you for teaching me another Hard lesson.

Story,she will find someone better who will love and marry her,God is never involved in anything fornication so don't be deceived by the word Karma in this case.You should be praying and fasting for forgiveness and not this hogwash you put up here over somebody's daughter you're not even married to.Note: In boyfriend and girlfriend relationship no one is been unjust to anyone as you both were commiting fornication before God so pick up yourself and ask God for forgiveness, she no do you anything for leaving you,its her choice. If you so love her,look for money and pay her dowry. Boyfriend and husband are two different things,have this at the back of your mind always. Shalom

?? ?? ??

And what's FPA?
Who's bluedigit? Is this an NL Romance gone sour?

Anyway, Doc Knight is coming to administer some colored pills to you for your temporary relief and then you can begin on the masculinotherapy with other seasoned and licensed alpha specialists in the block. Goodluck.

cc: AfroKnight

You better grow up and Move on guy... Don't be like this white ass guy in this meme.

Iyaebe:
Story,she will find someone better who will love and marry her,God is never involved in anything fornication so don't be deceived by the word Karma in this case.You should be praying and fasting for forgiveness and not this hogwash you put up here over somebody's daughter you're not even married to.Note: In boyfriend and girlfriend relationship no one is been unjust to anyone as you both were commiting fornication before God so pick up yourself and ask God for forgiveness, she no do you anything for leaving you,its her choice. If you so love her,look for money and pay her dowry. Boyfriend and husband are two different things,have this at the back of your mind always. Shalom

You dont know the pain of being emotionally and psychologically abused, exploited and dumped . It's beyond just dating , when you were true to someone but they stringed and toyed with you all through till you were drained.

Magnoliaa:
?? ?? ??

And what's FPA?
Who's bluedigit? Is this an NL Romance gone sour?

Anyway, Doc Knight is coming to administer some colored pills to you for your temporary relief and then you can begin on the masculinotherapy with other seasoned and licensed alpha specialists in the block. Goodluck.

cc: AfroKnight

Company names.. rivals as well

You dey craze ? She dey here ? Even if she dey here ,nah through yansh you dey think ? .....


Which mumu and arindin post be this, y'all keep on wasting your time on unnecessary things.....

BITTEREX:


Company names.. rivals as well

Lol. So you're here to promote them or something?

BITTEREX:


There are bigger platforms I could use to promote my company if I wanted to. I'm just here to pour my heart. I can't bottle everything, I'm human even tho we live in a generation of less empathic people, where people see you as "weak" because you have emotions and can feel and lament when hurt. I'm not built that way

And how about SND and EFx? What are those?

I want to believe the intent of this letter or epistle is in contrast to the subject above. Becos if u could pen this lot, on ur first heartbreak, i wonder what volume ur publisher will be publishing at ur 13th heartbreak.

All in all i wish u well.

OP

Pele , naso e dey be in the beginning .

Thank God you've let it all out.

No let people dey Laff you because one mumu girl set you free from the bondage you taught was a relationship .


Better go and buy chicken and chop

Once you finish , drink water and go and sleep

The next day think of how to get yourself out of poverty

Next time no dey loose guard. See as you dey lament

SILENTandSMART2:
You dey craze ? She dey here ? Even if she dey here ,nah through yansh you dey think ? .....


Which mumu and arindin post be this, y'all keep on wasting your time on unnecessary things.....

You should have just ignored the posts and moved along. I'm not the cause of your depression

Magnoliaa:


Lol. So you're here to promote them or something?

There are bigger platforms I could use to promote my company if I wanted to. I'm just here to pour my heart. I can't bottle everything, I'm human even tho we live in a generation of less empathic people, where people see you as "weak" because you have emotions and can feel and lament when hurt. I'm not built that way

bigcee:
Next time no dey loose guard. See as you dey lament

I'm hurt bro

Magnoliaa:
?? ?? ??

And what's FPA?
Who's bluedigit? Is this an NL Romance gone sour?

Anyway, Doc Knight is coming to administer some colored pills to you for your temporary relief and then you can begin on the masculinotherapy with other seasoned and licensed alpha specialists in the block. Goodluck.

cc: Afro Knight

I read the first few lines and I was getting pissed. Make I finish the epistle. I dey come.

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Magnoli aa, Omo! No be small tin.

BITTEREX, I don’t think I need to tell you that you need to calm down. You should know that. I wanted to blame you, big time, but you are doing a good job of that already.

You are a thinker. You seem to be one of those who would choose to be loyal in a relationship, no matter what. However, that kind of chivalry is reserved for a deserving wife, not one broke dependent girlfriend you met in school. Even a deserving wife can surprise you one day. Anyway, it is a pity you encountered a woman like that.

Since you come across as an observant thinker, I would say you should always audit your relationships. Take time to think about the good and bad times in the relationship and be honest with yourself. Don’t ignore red flags. There is nothing honourable about enduring a toxic relationship where your babe disrespects you by openly entertaining other guys. Don’t be too proud or too timid to walk away.

Don’t make strangers out of your friends. They might have hinted at the red flags you ignored but you only wanted to focus on your love for an undeserving woman. A woman who comes into your life and somehow isolates you from your guys is a dangerous, manipulative woman. Beware of her.

Lastly, please do not bother yourself about how her life will turn out; whether the universe will punish her or not. That is not your business. Your business is your self development. You are young. That’s good. Other relationships will come. This young woman who looks like your entire world right now will someday become a distant memory. Focus on developing yourself. There are cloudy days in the future. How you weather them depends on your preparation now.

I wish you all the best.

BITTEREX:


You should have just ignored the posts and moved along. I'm not the cause of your depression

Hahahaha who dey depressed between you and me ? You wey write all this story just because of a girl when niggas at your age are making their money you're here worshiping pussy....

Aswear nah fool you be no cap ,no offense i come in peace , you can post this in your private status if you don't want public opinion because this is a public platform..... Better come and let me teach you how it goes because if you still failed to make money this yeye stories won't help that's the world we live in today almost everything is based on material things.....

I don't hold a brief for the lady; however, you never wittingly or unwittingly loved her, at least not altruistically but self-absorbingly or opportunistically. You were instead in love with her/you fell in love with her. People fall in love unwittingly because of the pleasure and happiness they consciously gain or intend to gain from the other party materially or immaterially. This explains the reason why even while she was intentionally meting out unpalatable attitudes towards you, you still indulged her. More so, whatever assumed good thing you might have done for her was mostly done from the position of strategic kindness - expediency and servility rather than principle. Worse still is the fact that you fell in love with her because of her material (physical) possession not because of her immaterial possession (the quality of her soul), according to the connotation of your message - a man who doesn't practice genuine love and has no standard will always fall for anything and will always get used or become a beast. You don't have to agree with me, but a fact remains a fact.

When you love, instead of falling in love, she will never be a source of happiness or pleasure for you and her failings will always repulse you and be unacceptable to you, and your good deeds for her will always be from the position of principle/altruistic kindness rather than expediency and/or servility.

As a man, you are supposed to love a woman, but you are not supposed to fall in love with a woman - this is one way to rein and enjoy the glory of your authority genuinely. Falling in love is a woman's thing, and when she does so based on the quality of your soul rather than your material possession, you do everything possible to protect her heart and treat her queenly continually with everything you have, while if you observe that she's in love with your material possession rather than the quality of your soul, you give her the treatment deserving on a frenemy.

No one can afford to wreck you when you love genuinely/altruistically, provided that you are sane.

The so called Simps.

Someone is still bitter... Why not move on when you are not a tree

SILENTandSMART2:


Hahahaha who dey depressed between you and me ? You wey write all this story just because of a girl when niggas at your age are making their money you're here worshiping pussy....

Aswear nah fool you be no cap ,no offense i come in peace , you can post this in your private status if you don't want public opinion because this is a public platform..... Better come and let me teach you how it goes because if you still failed to make money this yeye stories won't help that's the world we live in today almost everything is based on material things.....

I will just ignore you.

AfroKnight:


I read the first few lines and I was getting pissed. Make I finish the epistle. I dey come.

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Magnoliaa, Omo! No be small tin.

BITTEREX, I don’t think I need to tell you that you need to calm down. You should know that. I wanted to blame you, big time, but you are doing a good job of that already.

You are a thinker. You seem to be one of those who would choose to be loyal in a relationship, no matter what. However, that kind of chivalry is reserved for a deserving wife, not one broke dependent girlfriend you met in school. Even a deserving wife can surprise you one day. Anyway, it is a pity you encountered a woman like that.

Since you come across as an observant thinker, I would say you should always audit your relationships. Take time to think about the good and bad times in the relationship and be honest with yourself. Don’t ignore red flags. There is nothing honourable about enduring a toxic relationship where your babe disrespects you by openly entertaining other guys. Don’t be too proud or too timid to walk away.

Don’t make strangers out of your friends. They might have hinted at the red flags you ignored but you only wanted to focus on your love for an undeserving woman. A woman who comes into your life and somehow isolates you from your guys is a dangerous, manipulative woman. Beware of her.

Lastly, please do not bother yourself about how her life will turn out; whether the universe will punish her or not. That is not your business. Your business is your self development. You are young. That’s good. Other relationships will come. This young woman who looks like your entire world right now will someday become a distant memory. Focus on developing yourself. There are cloudy days in the future. How you weather them depends on your preparation now.

I wish you all the best.

Thanks boss. I'm seriously building on self development.

RightToReject:
I don't hold a brief for the lady; however, you never wittingly or unwittingly loved her, at least not altruistically but self-absorbingly or opportunistically. You were instead in love with her/you fell in love with her. People fall in love unwittingly because of the pleasure and happiness they consciously gain or intend to gain from the other party materially or immaterially. This explains the reason why even while she was intentionally meting out unpalatable attitudes towards you, you still indulged her. More so, whatever assumed good thing you might have done for her was mostly done from the position of strategic kindness - expediency and servility rather than principle. Worse still is the fact that you fell in love with her because of her material (physical) possession not because of her immaterial possession (the quality of her soul), according to the connotation of your message - a man who doesn't practice genuine love and has no standard will always fall for anything and will always get used or become a beast. You don't have to agree with me, but a fact remains a fact.

When you love, instead of falling in love, she will never be a source of happiness or pleasure for you and her failings will always repulse you and be unacceptable to you, and your good deeds for her will always be from the position of principle/altruistic kindness rather than expediency and/or servility.

As a man, you are supposed to love a woman, but you are not supposed to fall in love with a woman - this is one way to rein and enjoy the glory of your authority genuinely. Falling in love is a woman's thing, and when she does so based on the quality of your soul rather than your material possession, you do everything possible to protect her heart and treat her queenly continually with everything you have, while if you observe that she in love with your material possession rather than the quality of your soul, you give her the treatment deserving on a frenemy.

No one can afford to wreck you when you love genuinely/altruistically, provided that you are sane.

I couldn't agree less. She was my first love and centre of my world. I fell wrecklessly in love and I had no boundaries .

Magnoliaa:


Lol. So you're here to promote them or something?



And how about SND and EFx? What are those?

I'm EFX . I own EFX and BLueDigit is a company friend and Ally.

Tales by moonlight....

AfroKnight:


I read the first few lines and I was getting pissed. Make I finish the epistle. I dey come.

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Magn.oliaa, Omo! No be small tin.

O.O

Where is this coming from? This is my role na. When you begin write textbook comments? You want to stress me to read. I'm supposed to be the one to stress others oh. It's not like this.

Modified: Sha, you take style fire bullet come my way, but no problem. I'll take it as a woman. A strong woman never cries or show her vulnerability. You men are emotional and can say things in the heat of the moment with your mouths, and it's one thing we gats over look as the logical gender.

BITTEREX:

I'm EFX. I own EFX and BLueDigit is a company friend and Ally.

Okay.

Anyway, I hope you have found a little bit of relief from the senselofenac gel the guy above has massaged you with?

You'll be fine. I don't really know what to tell you, and in addition to that, it's against the rad-medical ethics for a feminazi to attend to a grieving male patient. Can a bitter person cure a bitter person? No. So I'm not in the place to do that.

I believe you'll really be fine. This will pass. It's good as you're pouring out your emotions as well, too. Don't suppress it and you're not a fool for everything you've experienced. Most people (here) have gone through the same as well. Don't blame yourself too hard.

And don't let the pain fester into hate and bitterness and misogyny, okay? You'll be doing yourself a whole lot of harm in the end if you let it.

Just don't deny yourself the freedom of grieving first. You should. Then you can move on to things like healing and happiness and making something of yourself.

Good luck in your business endeavors as well.

Magnoliaa:

O.O

Where is this coming from? This is my role na. When you begin write textbook comments? You want to stress me to read. I'm supposed to be the one to stress others oh. It's not like this.

This Small epistle wey I post? You must read it.

Anyway, I've given him my 2 cents. I understand how he feels. Some people invest themselves so deeply. It’s just unfortunate that one of the calculative heartless Nigerian babes has “jam” him. He will be fine.

Na so the thing pain you reach sotay you come open thread?

BITTEREX:
I thought u were human and capable of love, sympathy and empathy, but I hope life treats u well , I wish you find love and happiness as long as the earth and other planets revolves around the sun...I wish you long life and prosperity and blessings. I pray others may never reject u and devalue u as u did to me.

Biggest waste of time if your ex is indeed a narcissist! Those typically don't stop to think about these things and may simply delete your letter without even blinking.

Here's hoping you never in fact sent the letter out to your ex. File it to read whenever you find someone else to love, at least to remind you never to repeat mistakes of your past. And spend your time bettering yourself as an individual so you can better love the next person.

AfroKnight:



This Small epistle wey I post? You must read it.

Anyway, I've given him my 2 cents. I understand how he feels. Some people invest themselves so deeply. It’s just unfortunate that one of the calculative heartless Nigerian babes has “jam” him. He will be fine.

LOL. I have finally read it sha. And I like that you didn't blame nor shame and insult him, like his *fellow guys* are doing here.

And you did not even tell him to go and swallow the red pill or demonize all women. WAWU.

The bolded is true, and it is always a disaster when givers meet takers.

Kobicove:
Na so the thing pain you reach sotay you come open thread?

Why not? He's allowed to.

People have been creating such threads before and the world hasn't stopped, so his shouldn't be different.

Magnoliaa:


LOL. I have finally read it sha. And I like that you didn't blame nor shame and insult him, like his *fellow guys* are doing here.

And you did not even tell him to go and swallow the red pill or demonize all women. WAWU.

The bolded is true, and it is always a disaster when givers meet takers.

When givers meet takers!
Damn! I couldn’t have said it better. That is exactly what it is.

And I love women. They love me too . I just don’t like manipulative women who want to have their cake and eat it.

Kobojunkie:
Biggest waste of time if your ex is indeed a narcissist! Those typically don't stop to think about these things and may simply delete your letter without even blinking.

Here's hoping you never in fact sent the letter out to your ex. File it to read whenever you find someone else to love, at least to remind you never to repeat mistakes of your past. And spend your time bettering yourself as an individual so you can better love the next person.

This right here is Gold! It is everything!
Most times I hardly raise a brow on failed Nigerian relationships on Nl because majority are always formed on wrong foundations. A typical Nigerian will catch feelings and delve into relationship. How about you put this feelings on pause and know what you ought to know before committing for once? Who dates a narcissist and not prepare for what may come out? That would be he who isn't patient enough to find out who he's about to go down with.
I mean who writes a narcissist a sob note? That would be one who is yet to know who he is dealing with.

Well, deed is done already. I hope op learns that feelings aren't stable, they sometimes only obstruct us from knowing what we ought to. A blend of logic with feelings makes life easier.