Debbe:
I dONT KNOW WHY MEN ARE LIke this

did you remind him that he don't need to give you money for hair, buy gift for you and spend a kobo on you till wedding time? But you should also tell him anytime you are doing something in church, he must contribute to God work as a sign he got a good heart and will be willing to spend on you when you finally married . THAT IS THE TERM YOU SHOULD STATE , anytime you open your mouth and say NO SEX TILL MARRIAGE

Debbe:
I dONT KNOW WHY MEN ARE LIke this

If you say Men, you are generalizing. You would have said some men not all men, because your brother is a man, your father is a man, your cousin may also be a man. You cannot condemn the whole men over the action of few. Back to your topic, did you agree with him on no sex in the relationship before going into it with him? If yes and he agreed then he is at fault, but if on the other hand you did not agree with him on that then it is your fault as you did not inform and agree with him on that issue. You that is taking that as a policy in your relationships, how willing are you to maintain it and how far are you willing to go with out compromising?

SILENTandSMART2:


In your profile you " believe that there's no God except Allah nah what Allah said be that abi ! ?


Hahahaha Werey bro in disguise

Muhammad sef na knack master.Who I con be wey I no go knack

Dear Debbie,

You have every right to your choice, you have the right to remain celibate or keep yourself till marriage, never be intimidated, pressurized or manipulated into doing what you don't want to do. It's okay not to have sex, sex is not everything. You just have to stand for what you believe.

However while at this, you must bear in mind that some people don't think the way you do, needs differ and reasons for what we do too. So you should be prepared to let go of people who aren't on the same page with you without being judgemental. No that guy isn't wicked for breaking up with you, he doesn't just buy into your ideology. To be candid, I think he is a good guy for being plain with you. Things could have been worst between you two. It hurts, yes! But you can't judge someone for making a choice, something you did too by sticking withyour decision. Babe cheer up, you are just paying a price for what you want. And it's very fair.

Drella:


Muhammad sef na knack master.Who I con be wey I no go knack

Guy i joke alot but Prophet Muhammad (saw) ain't something you can joke with..... If you are careless of this life remember the life after...... Nobe everything you go drag to common shitty sentence..

Debbe:
I dONT KNOW WHY MEN ARE LIke this

so you bring our matter come nairaland abi? so why you didn't tell them how you have been milking me dry huh? first you requested for a gown of 15k for an apology which I don't know the offence I committed oh, and then every month I must give you 10k for cream and for your hair,.
and I gain nothing from you, who does that?

4ckyou:


so you bring our matter come nairaland abi? so why you didn't tell them how you have been milking me dry huh? first you requested for a gown of 15k for an apology which I don't know the offence I committed oh, and then every month I must give you 10k for cream and for your hair,.
and I gain nothing from you, who does that?

who the hell are you

MajesticKris:
A real Nigga that knows what he wants.... After marriage now na still u go come here to complain how he almost killed you in Bed...

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Kwamecron:
<sup>And na them go dey go fuxck another man on a low key ooh.
Fear woman ooh.

The guys is is a wise man, trying to avoid story that touch at the end oh.
And am so sure the idiot is not a vargin o

Fear woman oh, I repeat fear woman oh</sup>

They have a standard response for that - Money can't buy love

SILENTandSMART2:



Guy i joke alot but Prophet Muhammad (saw) ain't something you can joke with..... If you are careless of this life remember the life after...... Nobe everything you go drag to common shitty sentence..

Wetin concern me.I no believe in am so no shaking.

Drella:


Wetin concern me.I no believe in am so no shaking.

Okay we move boss....

4ckyou:


so you bring our matter come nairaland abi? so why you didn't tell them how you have been milking me dry huh? first you requested for a gown of 15k for an apology which I don't know the offence I committed oh, and then every month I must give you 10k for cream and for your hair,.
and I gain nothing from you, who does that?

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.
Fr or you capping

This is funny hahahaha how you sabi her....

SILENTandSMART2:




Okay we move boss....

You be guyman

Drella:


You be guyman

Lol wetin be guyman like this....

Let him disappear into the thin air as he is not the lucky guy.
Mr Right is on the way sis.

Are you the said boyfriend ?

4ckyou:


so you bring our matter come nairaland abi? so why you didn't tell them how you have been milking me dry huh? first you requested for a gown of 15k for an apology which I don't know the offence I committed oh, and then every month I must give you 10k for cream and for your hair,.
and I gain nothing from you, who does that?

Debbe:
I dONT KNOW WHY MEN ARE LIke this

your a liability to him he dump you because you have nothing else to offer

Well!

I'm also on the same shoes with a lady, although, she's someone I love wholeheartedly but she has a very poor relationship understanding, she also claimed no sex till marriage, but she's not a Virgin anyways.

I believe rendering affordable financial assistance is still reasonable if she's also one way or the other investing in the relationship.

You have formulated your policy in that relationship which does not favour him, so feeling hearth broken now is awkward, what were you expecting ?

Even myself , the decision does not favour me, i'm still in that relationship because of love, and a rational decision may be made at any time if she's still insisting on her decision.

If you're not ready for sex then don't tender your financial problem to him, no correlations btw them, it's advisable you don't enter it if you're not ready for sex, the annoying thing is that you may even get him dumped at anytime since you've not been responsible sexually in that relationship, also an innocent guy may also be having it with you at one corner then still claiming no sex for the samaritan guy who genuinely wanted to marry you but just that she cannot do without sex, same here.


Madam take heart.

Debbe:
I dONT KNOW WHY MEN ARE LIke this

Debbe:
I dONT KNOW WHY MEN ARE LIke this

You are a hypocrite..

You want to enjoy the love, the attention, care and financial benefits in a relationship without giving anything in return.

Beloved3:

Don't worry babe, just move on and find someone who shares same ideology with you.

You can try lilvicky68 for example on nairaland.


Cheers

Lol,,,, you mentioned yourself with one moniker & answer with another. All to sell yourself to OP. We don tey for NL, no mind the day we registered these monikers o.

SimplyFacts:


Lol,,,, you mentioned yourself with one moniker & answer with another. All to sell yourself to OP. We don tey for NL, no mind the day we registered these monikers o.

Lol you are only describing what you do. Sorry me no get that time.

He is a real man, no time for rubbish.

Beloved3:


Lol you are only describing what you do. Sorry me no get that time.

If you say so

Debbe:
I dONT KNOW WHY MEN ARE LIke this

I can take it up from where he stopped if you're a virgin & keep to your decision. If you aren't, I no fit o. Check my recent post to know why I can't dare going into such r/ship.

Op, you think the man is stupid? No he's not. He's a wise man.
You want to say no to sex with while you spread you smelly pvssy to other men when kongi hold you?
Who do you think you're fooling?
I blame him too sha. He should have looked for a virgin girl.
Never marry a woman you did not disvirgin. She's a curse to her children: born and unborn.

SimplyFacts:


I can take it up from where he stopped if you're a virgin & keep to your decision. If you aren't, I no fit o. Check my recent post to know why I can't dare going into such r/ship.

Top notch!

Iyaebe:
Sex is strictly for your husband, don't open leg for some yeye boyfriend, its not worth it.Let him leave,the deserving one will come your way.

Pls... Are you a virgin and why do you try to defend lost courses...

Debbe:
who the hell are you

of course it's me Deb

Bimpe29:
Let him disappear into the thin air as he is not the lucky guy.
Mr Right is on the way sis.

she's 38 already, you ladies should stop talking nonsense is it when she clocks 40 that she will meet her Mr right?
she doesn't want sex but wants me to spend heaven and earth on her.

4ckyou:

she's 38 already, you ladies should stop talking nonsense is it when she clocks 40 that she will meet her Mr right?
she doesn't want sex but wants me to spend heaven and earth on her.

So because she is 38 and 40 is around the corner, she shouldn't have desires and standards of her own?.

Because she is 38, she should open up for anything to throts her way resembling a dick because 40 is around the corner?

Because she is 38 and 40 is around the corner, desperation should cause her to seize as a human and instead walk around with shame?

If your very own sister was also 38 and unmarried, would you also enjoy having your friends speak of her as the wide-borehole desperate for marriage willing to open up at the mention of the phrase " I go marry you"?

Are you a virgin? If not, shut up and stop get him laid. You are just trying to use him!

Because she is 38, she is doing doing Ashawo work and she decided to use no sex to tie the guy down. I am happy the dude broke up with her! She is even old. The pussy should be free. Can you imagine? Some who is 38 with a very high body count is tell son of a man to wait till marriage!

What is there to wait for? An old saggy pussy is what the dude will wait for? Used and dumped. God knows many abortion!